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Cultural Anthropology for Missions

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COMPARITIVE STUDY OF KUKU AND HEBREW CULTURES<br />

M. M. NINAN<br />

stay with him and the girl likewise invite all her friends to stay<br />

with her. The number of women invited by the girl from among<br />

relatives and friends depends on the status of the boy's family.<br />

However the boy will have to take the girl by <strong>for</strong>ce from her<br />

house. If the girl's family is aware of the time at which the<br />

bridegroom .is coming, the brothers of the girl and the family<br />

friends will put up a fight. Hence the boy will have to plan his<br />

time cleverly and will appear at the house of the girl and<br />

<strong>for</strong>cefully take her away. Very often it can be a real war. But the<br />

next day everyone is happy and a 'Wani jagit" the sacrifice of<br />

ram, is per<strong>for</strong>med and a feast ensues. This is a peace sacrifice<br />

and if this is not per<strong>for</strong>med the members of the girls' family will<br />

refuse to eat as this may bring feuds between the two families,<br />

barrenness of the girl and sickness and weakness <strong>for</strong> the<br />

children of the girl. At the end of the feast the girl's family will<br />

leave with all the ladies in waiting except <strong>for</strong> a few who will help<br />

the girl to settle in her new home. They may .stay <strong>for</strong> a week or<br />

even a month. The girl will stay with her husband until she give<br />

birth to her first child. After that she may go back and visit her<br />

family. The Hebrews have very similar betrothal customs and<br />

ceremonies. The custom of the bridegroom coming at an hour<br />

unknown to the bride and her family was used by Jesus in one of<br />

his parables, the parable of the ten maidens to illustrate his<br />

second coming. 'Then the Kingdom of heaven shall be compared<br />

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