UR IT Magazine February 2016
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JAN COVER<br />
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CRED<strong>IT</strong>S<br />
Board of Directors:<br />
Jeremy Clark<br />
Shawna Lee<br />
Products:<br />
Kathy Ickes<br />
Janie Clark<br />
Photography:<br />
Shawna Lee<br />
Jeremy Clark<br />
Tiffanie Mora<br />
Editors:<br />
Adeena Harbst<br />
Taralyn Guenot<br />
Stacy Clark<br />
Layout/Design:<br />
Taralyn Guenot<br />
Jason Colón<br />
Gazettes Printers<br />
Shoot Coordinator:<br />
Shawna Lee<br />
Hair & Makeup:<br />
Tori Long<br />
Kriste Kephart<br />
Advertising & Sales:<br />
Kristin Taranto<br />
Jeremy Clark<br />
Shawna Lee<br />
Distribution:<br />
Vince Poeta<br />
Jessica Martin<br />
Yvonne Smith<br />
Julie Ricketts<br />
Jeremy Clark<br />
Shawna Lee<br />
Quinton<br />
Writers:<br />
Adeena Harbst<br />
Charlotte K<br />
Jessica Martin<br />
Vivian Achieng<br />
Tiffanie Mora<br />
Faith Greathouse<br />
Christy Beck<br />
Kathy Ickes<br />
Advertisers:<br />
One 2 One Travel<br />
Boyer Insurance: Nationwide<br />
Thrivent Financial<br />
Clothes Mentor<br />
Esthetics by Faith<br />
Becks Psychotherapy<br />
Diva’s Bling Boutique<br />
Auto Oasis<br />
CONTENTS<br />
5 How to Make Online<br />
Shopping Effective<br />
For You<br />
8 Brite: A Romance<br />
Story | Part II<br />
12 Pansexual: What it<br />
Really Means<br />
14 Building a Better You<br />
18 Giving Up Wasted<br />
Wednesday<br />
20 Faithful Beauty<br />
21 Naturally It<br />
24 Get to Know <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong><br />
Model Taylor<br />
26 The Unwanted Good<br />
28 The Bad Boy Attraction<br />
32 Jami Kinton, Living Her<br />
Dreams: You Can Too<br />
35 Goddesses of the<br />
Woods II<br />
39 Makeup Trends for <strong>2016</strong><br />
41 <strong>UR</strong> World, R Thoughts<br />
44 Cleanse Your Body<br />
47 This Month’s Taroscope<br />
What’s coming<br />
in March<br />
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Doors open at 11am for shopping and demonstrations.<br />
Show begins at 1pm. Meet Ur It Model and International<br />
Cover Model Shawna Lee. Ur It Model, Lowes Corporation<br />
national spokes person, and Cleveland Indians announcer<br />
Jami Kinton will be hosting the event. Also attending<br />
will be Diva’s Bling Boutique of Philipsburg and Clothes<br />
Mentor of State College.<br />
The convenience of online shopping cannot be<br />
overemphasized. The ability to buy anything ranging<br />
from clothes, electronics and food via a click of a<br />
button offers the most needed help for the modernday<br />
individual who is too busy to find time to physically<br />
visit a shop. Arguably, online shopping offers numerous<br />
advantages but the real question is, is it really effective<br />
for you? How do you make it work for you and prevent it<br />
from being a nightmare as witnessed by other people?<br />
There is a certain code of conduct for shopping online,<br />
basically rules that guide on do’s and dont’s. We will<br />
therefore look at critical areas you should scrutinize<br />
in order to make your online shopping experience<br />
worthwhile and effective.<br />
4 HOW TO MAKE ONLINE SHOPPING EFFECTIVE FOR YOU<br />
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~ PASSWORDS AND CRED<strong>IT</strong> CARD<br />
INFORMATION ~<br />
It is a general rule to never share your passwords<br />
with anyone. Additionally, you must ensure<br />
that you use different passwords for different<br />
sites and store this information in a secret<br />
spot for reference. The logic behind this is the<br />
fact that credit cards and online payments<br />
services details are in some cases attached<br />
to the vendor websites. Should you share your<br />
password with anyone, they can use your<br />
credit card information retrieved from your<br />
account to make unauthorized purchases.<br />
~ KEEP CHECKING ON BEST DISCOUNTS ~<br />
Online shopping gives you the liberty to make<br />
extensive price comparisons and ensure that<br />
you only get the best deals. A wise shopper<br />
always researches on different merchants selling<br />
the target product at the best price. It should<br />
be noted however, that the best deal is not only<br />
reflected by price. There are other factors to<br />
consider such as quality.<br />
This rule also applies to your credit card<br />
information, which must be kept as private<br />
as possible and only reveal when necessary.<br />
It is extremely prudent to always monitor your<br />
credit card transaction details with your bank<br />
in order to spot unauthorized use as soon as it<br />
happens.<br />
~ POLICIES ~<br />
Online shoppers get disappointed especially<br />
when a dispute is settled in an unexpected<br />
manner. Most of the time, shoppers are at fault<br />
for not reading merchant policies especially on<br />
refunds and product returns. Some merchants<br />
set a specific timeline for buyers to claim a<br />
refund while others have a no-return policy on<br />
already sold items.<br />
~ SEC<strong>UR</strong>E WEBS<strong>IT</strong>ES ~<br />
Money launders enjoy an open field of crime<br />
via online shopping platforms. Shoppers are<br />
advised to only use secured websites, whose<br />
<strong>UR</strong>Ls start with https instead of http. Scammers<br />
also post malicious adverts and circulate<br />
them via emails which hackers use for their<br />
phishing activities. You should ensure that<br />
you only directly visit a merchant’s website,<br />
update or fill in personal information within the<br />
secure site and avoid clicking on emails from<br />
unknown senders.<br />
~ PLAY <strong>IT</strong> SAFE ~<br />
Online transactions rely heavily on trusting an<br />
unseen person as opposed to physically visiting<br />
a shop. This means that chances of getting a<br />
bad deal are higher than normal. There have<br />
been cases of people who complained that<br />
what they bought was not what they received.<br />
Cash on Delivery (COD) option is therefore the<br />
safest mode of payment because it allows you<br />
to only pay for a product once you have seen it<br />
and evaluated it.<br />
Online shopping was established for your<br />
convenience therefore you should make it<br />
work for you. This however is not automatic and<br />
requires you to put in effort in terms of research,<br />
reading customer reviews and utilizing safe<br />
practices that will make it effective for you.<br />
Article By: Vivian Achieng<br />
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HOW TO MAKE ONLINE FASHION SHOPPING PROMOEFFECTIVE FOR YOU<br />
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Konstantin did a once over<br />
around the room to make sure he<br />
wasn’t forgetting anything. The<br />
library was on the other side of<br />
campus. If he had to make multiple<br />
trips, it would be incredibly<br />
inconvenient. It was 8:30 p.m.<br />
and the campus was quiet, serene.<br />
It was cold but he preferred to<br />
walk. He moseyed across campus<br />
enjoying the views. Breathing in<br />
the crisp night air, he thought of<br />
how fond he’d grown of this place.<br />
It was surprising that he dreaded<br />
the idea of going back to California.<br />
The traffic, the daily hustle and the<br />
same type of people everywhere.<br />
He’d grown to appreciate the<br />
simpler approach to life here.<br />
It had been a shock when he<br />
first arrived but it became home<br />
quickly. He loved having the option<br />
of engaging in outdoor activities<br />
without a two-hour commute.<br />
Everything he needed was within<br />
30 minutes of campus or less. Yes,<br />
he was definitely going to miss it<br />
here.<br />
Most of the other students had<br />
already gone into town to the<br />
nearby bars and restaurants,<br />
prepping themselves for the party<br />
later. He was glad he decided to<br />
stay in this evening. Konstantin<br />
hardly regretted decisions he<br />
made. Right or wrong, the outcome<br />
of his choices often satisfied him.<br />
He didn’t want to slack off as he<br />
neared the end of his last semester.<br />
He held himself to a very high<br />
standard and wanted to begin the<br />
law program with a running start.<br />
As he neared the entrance of the<br />
library, he noticed a sign that<br />
read, “Due to renovations taking<br />
place over the weekend, library<br />
seating will be restricted to a<br />
smaller area. We apologize for any<br />
inconvenience.”<br />
“They couldn’t have waited until<br />
the semester ended?” he mumbled<br />
to himself as he entered. Looking<br />
around, he noticed they had<br />
blocked off the majority of the<br />
seating areas limiting him towards<br />
the very back of the library. There<br />
were only two tables available—<br />
one near the window and one<br />
closer to the restrooms. He opted<br />
for the one near the window. It was<br />
widely known that the table closest<br />
to the restrooms quickly became<br />
subjected to any foul odors that<br />
wafted through the opening and<br />
closing of the doors.<br />
He opened his book bag and<br />
proceeded to make himself<br />
comfortable taking up the majority<br />
of it with his books, notepads,<br />
utensils, water and snacks. He<br />
took out his headphones and<br />
began listening to music while he<br />
started in on his first textbook. He<br />
was quickly engulfed and became<br />
oblivious to anything happening<br />
around him.<br />
As Naomi made her way to the back<br />
of the library, she wasn’t worried<br />
about the seating restrictions.<br />
She knew it would most likely be<br />
empty. After all, how many losers<br />
would be here studying while there<br />
was a party going on—one she had<br />
been excited to attend to let off<br />
steam had it not been for her alarm<br />
debacle. Missing half her class,<br />
she knew she couldn’t afford to<br />
fall behind nearing the end of the<br />
semester.<br />
She winced as she walked down<br />
the steps into study lounge area.<br />
Her knees were still bruised from<br />
her tumble off the bike. Being that<br />
there wouldn’t be many people<br />
on campus, she was casually<br />
clad in her grey sweat pants and<br />
a black tank with her favorite<br />
flannel hoodie. Her hair was in<br />
loose, golden braids. She decided<br />
to let her eyes rest and wear her<br />
reading glasses. She didn’t have<br />
any makeup on but her long dark<br />
lashes made it impossible to tell.<br />
The only beauty product she kept<br />
close was her repair lip balm. Cold<br />
weather made it nearly impossible<br />
to keep her lips moist.<br />
Glancing at the table options, she<br />
noticed that some greedy bastard<br />
had decided to take up the entire<br />
table by the window. Irritated, she<br />
fixed her posture and decided to<br />
head straight for the part of the<br />
table that hadn’t been occupied.<br />
When she got closer, she began<br />
to speak before realizing it was<br />
Konstantin and nearly choked on<br />
her words: “Hope you don’t mind<br />
but I’m sitting here.” She bit her<br />
lip, cursing herself for deciding to<br />
grow a pair now of all times. After<br />
all, she had made a complete fool<br />
of herself in front of this man<br />
just the day before. “Real smooth<br />
Naomi,” she thought.<br />
Konstantin hadn’t heard Naomi<br />
with his headphones in, but he<br />
saw a figure standing to his right.<br />
Annoyed at this person hovering,<br />
he whipped his head around,<br />
“Yes?!”<br />
Once his eyes fell on Naomi’s face,<br />
he felt himself falter. He clumsily<br />
removed a headphone, “Sorry, did<br />
you need something from me?”<br />
Naomi found herself trying to<br />
remain stubborn and yet caught<br />
off guard by Konstantin’s looks<br />
and confidence that seemed to just<br />
flow out from every fiber of his<br />
being.<br />
“I said, I hope you don’t mind my<br />
sharing the table,” she softened<br />
her words, relieved he hadn’t heard<br />
her the first time.<br />
“Not at all. Let me know if you need<br />
more room,” Konstantin smiled at<br />
her, surprised at the relief he felt<br />
for having company.<br />
While Naomi situated herself at the<br />
table, Konstantin glanced at her<br />
finding it difficult to concentrate.<br />
She was dressed like she had just<br />
rolled out of bed and threw on the<br />
closest garments she could reach.<br />
Her hair was falling out of two<br />
messy braids and her glasses made<br />
her look almost child-like. But he<br />
couldn’t help but feel drawn to her.<br />
When they’d made eye contact, he<br />
swore she could see right through<br />
him. The thought was unsettling<br />
yet captivating.<br />
8<br />
A ROMANCE STORY<br />
PART II<br />
BR<strong>IT</strong>E: A ROMANCE STORY | PART II<br />
9
He shook his head and turned<br />
up the music, trying to wall off<br />
the unanticipated distraction of<br />
Naomi. “Stay focused, K. This is the<br />
wrong time to get hung up. You’re<br />
leaving soon anyways.” He tried<br />
pulling himself back to reality but<br />
found himself wanting to know her.<br />
Really know her.<br />
Naomi couldn’t help but feel proud<br />
of herself for keeping it together.<br />
She dug into her chapters taking<br />
notes and creating flash cards.<br />
Engulfed in her reading, she was<br />
oblivious to Konstantin who had<br />
been glancing at her on and off<br />
ever since she arrived. Every once<br />
in a while, she would look out<br />
the window and wonder what her<br />
friends were up to. Not once did she<br />
notice how flustered he was.<br />
Konstantin finally removed his<br />
headphones and went to the<br />
restroom for a quick break. Maybe<br />
he just needed to stretch his legs. He<br />
couldn’t seem to get comfortable or<br />
refocused on the task at hand ever<br />
since she arrived.<br />
Washing his hands, he looked at<br />
himself in the mirror in frustration.<br />
“What in the actual hell is your<br />
problem?! She’s not even asking<br />
to be looked at. Look at what she’s<br />
wearing for crying out loud!” He<br />
couldn’t help but laugh at how<br />
ridiculous he was acting. “I guess<br />
it has been a while,” he thought in<br />
regards to the last girl he’d been<br />
with.<br />
He was a little perturbed that his<br />
presence didn’t seem to have the<br />
same effect on her. At least HE<br />
looked nice. He was wearing a<br />
pair of dark blue jeans with a long<br />
sleeved grey shirt that showed off<br />
his physique. He ran his fingers<br />
through his hair and decided, what<br />
the hell, he wanted to know what<br />
this girl was about. She would<br />
probably even welcome a break.<br />
Konstantin walked around the<br />
other side of the table and sat in the<br />
seat directly across from Naomi.<br />
He pulled the chair in and crossed<br />
his arms across his chest (in his<br />
comfortable defense position) and<br />
asked, “So why aren’t you at the<br />
party tonight?”<br />
Naomi, startled, knocked her<br />
glasses off and looked up at him<br />
in surprise. Konstantin quickly<br />
reached across to hand them to<br />
her. She was looking him right<br />
in the eyes again. He felt like she<br />
had access to every secret, every<br />
success, failure and unspoken word.<br />
It scared him but it also made him<br />
feel like he was home. He didn’t<br />
want to lose her focus so he began<br />
cleaning her glasses with the inside<br />
of his shirt. He grinned at the look<br />
on her face.<br />
“Excuse me? Sorry, you don’t have<br />
to do that. I just cleaned them before<br />
I came here tonight.” She reached<br />
over waiting for him to hand her<br />
glasses over. When he looked at<br />
her, she noticed a hint of hurt in<br />
his eyes. “Thank you, I appreciate<br />
the gesture,” she said quickly, not<br />
wanting to seem unappreciative.<br />
“Sure thing. So what are you doing<br />
here tonight?” Konstantin was<br />
enthralled with this woman. She<br />
seemed independent and strong<br />
but fragile at the same time. He was<br />
curious as to what was going on<br />
behind those eyes. He could usually<br />
read people well, but couldn’t seem<br />
to get a hold of what this girl was<br />
about. He looked over her face.<br />
Light, soft and the pinkest lips he’d<br />
ever seen. Her eyes were a contrast<br />
to her skin. Dark, thick lashes<br />
framed her mysterious brown eyes.<br />
She literally took his breath away.<br />
“Oh….well, I missed half my class<br />
yesterday and can’t afford to fall<br />
behind. Not that I can’t afford it<br />
in the sense that I’m doing poorly,<br />
I just…. Well, I don’t want to slack<br />
off. Not that I’m a slacker….” she<br />
was flailing. Any ounce of control<br />
she had over the conversation had<br />
gone out the window along with<br />
her dignity. “Sorry, I’m obviously<br />
tired,” she smiled timidly, trying to<br />
regain composure.<br />
She didn’t even know why she was<br />
flustered; it’s not like she liked him.<br />
At all. She didn’t even know him<br />
and what she did know so far, she<br />
wasn’t exactly impressed. He was<br />
the exact kind of guy she typically<br />
stayed away from.<br />
“I’m Konstantin Price.” He extended<br />
his hand to shake hers.<br />
“Naomi Brite,” she replied. When<br />
he took Naomi’s hand, she instantly<br />
felt safe, at home. She looked up at<br />
him and quickly pulled her hand<br />
away.<br />
Her hand was soft and warm in his.<br />
He found himself wondering if the<br />
rest of her would feel the same. He<br />
flashed her his most charming smile<br />
and was relieved when she smiled<br />
back before quickly withdrawing<br />
her hand.<br />
“I’m nearly finished here for the<br />
night, would you want to get a<br />
coffee?” he asked. Not ready to<br />
leave her alone. He saw a pink flush<br />
wash over her cheeks and enjoyed<br />
having that effect on her.<br />
“I still have quite a bit of reading<br />
to catch up on, but thank you,” she<br />
replied only being half honest.<br />
She had about two chapters more<br />
to read and realistically could catch<br />
up on them in the morning. She<br />
wasn’t thrilled with the thoughts<br />
and feelings she had when they’d<br />
shaken hands. She’d heard of his<br />
reputation and knew that if she<br />
wanted to keep her self-respect, he<br />
would be the last guy she should<br />
get involved with.<br />
“Oh. Sure. Right. No worries,”<br />
Konstantin felt rejected. Not<br />
something he was used to feeling.<br />
“Well, have a good night.”<br />
He retreated and began packing his<br />
bag to leave. He was more pissed<br />
at how disappointed he felt that<br />
she didn’t want to be around him.<br />
Feeling embarrassed, he decided<br />
she was a lost cause and decided to<br />
head back to the dorm.<br />
“Thank you, you too,” Naomi<br />
hesitated feeling like she had<br />
done something wrong. He almost<br />
seemed angry with her.<br />
She watched as he cleared his area<br />
and left without even another<br />
glance at her. Was he really so<br />
arrogant that he threw fits when<br />
he didn’t get his way? Naomi,<br />
annoyed, texted Cyndi: “You won’t<br />
believe what just happened!”<br />
Knowing she probably wouldn’t<br />
hear back for a while, she decided<br />
to call it a night.<br />
While walking back to the dorm,<br />
she replayed what happened over<br />
and over. She felt guilty for writing<br />
him off so quickly. Maybe she had<br />
him all wrong. It wasn’t like she<br />
could fix it now, there was no way of<br />
finding him or getting his number.<br />
Besides, she wasn’t about to be<br />
the one to cave or apologize. She<br />
hadn’t even done anything wrong!<br />
While showering, Konstantin<br />
couldn’t help but replay Naomi’s<br />
image in his head. Her eyes, her<br />
soft skin, her pink pouty lips and<br />
warm touch. Even though she<br />
seemed to try and hide her figure,<br />
he could tell she had curves he’d<br />
like to explore. He splayed his<br />
hands on the shower wall and let<br />
the cool water wash over him. He<br />
didn’t have time for this. Not now.<br />
As much as he hated to admit this,<br />
he knew deep down he wouldn’t be<br />
able to shake this girl. What got to<br />
him the most was how she made<br />
him feel. Like who he was wasn’t<br />
good enough. Like he wanted to be<br />
better, do better. No one had ever<br />
made him feel that way. Especially<br />
not someone he’d just met.<br />
The rest of the weekend seemed<br />
to drag by. Colin talked Konstantin<br />
into going out Sunday night,<br />
telling him it would help him get<br />
over Naomi’s unexpected arrival.<br />
“Dude, this isn’t like you. Maybe<br />
you just need a night out, a hot girl<br />
and a good night’s sleep.” It was<br />
always entertaining listening to<br />
Colin’s thought process even when<br />
it was completely ridiculous.<br />
“Yeah, you’re probably right. I think<br />
I’ve had too much on my plate<br />
lately. I definitely need to unwind.”<br />
Konstantin knew he needed to do<br />
something to get himself back on<br />
track. “Just a couple months and<br />
you’ll be back in California. Keep it<br />
together,” he coached himself.<br />
The guys grabbed a cab and<br />
headed into town. As they<br />
approached the entrance of the<br />
dance club, Konstantin allowed<br />
his eyes to roam. He was in a<br />
“I’d like to take this time to say thank you to all of the <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> followers<br />
who are reading my story. Your support is important and greatly<br />
appreciated. My inspiration comes directly from the readers. I am<br />
happy to share this journey of writing my first short story together.<br />
I hope you continue to enjoy the story that unfolds between Naomi<br />
and Konstantin.<br />
There will be plenty of ups, downs and surprises coming up. It’s always<br />
interesting when you think you really know someone only to find out<br />
that maybe you never really did. The love story between Naomi and<br />
Konstantin is an unlikely one from beginning to end. Think you have<br />
them figured out? There’s onlyone way to find out, keep reading.”<br />
- Jessica M.<br />
different mode now. His ability to<br />
compartmentalize work and play<br />
was admirable even to him. Naomi<br />
had filled his mind for long enough.<br />
He was ready to put all of his efforts<br />
into erasing her from his memory<br />
and reward himself for all the hard<br />
work he’d put in to getting into law<br />
school.<br />
Walking into the club, Konstantin’s<br />
eyes were pulled straight into the<br />
direction of a girl standing at the<br />
bar with a fitted halter dress that<br />
accentuated all the right areas. A<br />
cascade of golden blonde hair fell<br />
to her waist and her skin looked<br />
soft even from this distance. He<br />
hadn’t even seen the front of her<br />
yet and knew she was going to be<br />
his this evening.<br />
As he got closer, the girl turned and<br />
he stopped short. She was sipping<br />
her drink from a straw and even<br />
though she didn’t have her glasses<br />
on, he’d remember those eyes and<br />
lips from anywhere. His heart nearly<br />
skipped a beat as a choked whisper<br />
escaped his mouth, “Naomi.” What<br />
the hell was he going to do now?<br />
... to be continued...<br />
Story by: Jessica M.<br />
10 BR<strong>IT</strong>E: A ROMANCE STORY | PART II<br />
BR<strong>IT</strong>E: A ROMANCE STORY | PART II<br />
11
Pansexual<br />
What It Really Means<br />
As we all heard fall of last year,<br />
Miley Cyrus officially came<br />
out as “pansexual.” With her crazy<br />
style and antics, nothing surprises<br />
us anymore. She changes her<br />
appearance like we change our<br />
underwear. But what exactly is a<br />
pansexual? According to Huffington<br />
Post, Miley is open to literally anything<br />
that is consenting (male, female,<br />
transgender, intersex) that does<br />
not involve an animal and that is of<br />
legal age. Basically, she is open to<br />
any form of love, and is not biased<br />
of the person willing to give it to her.<br />
Does this make her less judgmental<br />
of the human race or is she just one<br />
without standards?<br />
Miley isn’t alone with her sexuality,<br />
as there are many other celebrities<br />
who identify themselves as<br />
pansexuals, too, including TV star<br />
Jazz Jennings and rapper/singer<br />
Angel Haze. Angel believes “love<br />
is boundary-less” and that you can<br />
find a connection with many types of<br />
things and people. Every person is<br />
capable of love and there are many<br />
different kinds in the world. So, this<br />
Valentine’s Day, consider this… are<br />
we all a little pansexual?<br />
Article by: Kathy Ickes<br />
Sources:<br />
http://www.glaad.org/blog/what-pansexuality-4-pancelebs-explain-their-own-words<br />
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/miley-cyruscomes-out-pansexual_55e05c7be4b0aec9f352d9f4<br />
12 PANSEXUAL: WHAT <strong>IT</strong> REALLY MEANS<br />
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How do you feel about your<br />
body when you look at yourself<br />
in a mirror? Do you like what you<br />
see? Is it how you want to see<br />
yourself in the mirror every day?<br />
If they are not what you looking<br />
for continue reading this article.<br />
To build a better you, says a lot<br />
just in just a few words. So much<br />
that it seems like it’s impossible<br />
to achieve. Thousands of men<br />
and women struggle everyday<br />
with issue like their body or their<br />
hair falling out etc. Its life and<br />
we have to take it by the horns<br />
and push our way through it.<br />
Getting older/health problems<br />
isn’t any fun it more or less sucks.<br />
Your body changes your hair<br />
thins out and your feet somehow<br />
get bigger. So many downs when<br />
getting older that we forget to<br />
find the positive sides to it. Even<br />
though the body changes it is<br />
something you can keep up on.<br />
You health and improving your<br />
life can be worked on. Want to<br />
know how well?<br />
Keep reading.<br />
Focus on what you like about yourself<br />
Identifying your favorite features may help<br />
you to develop a more positive outlook. Take<br />
a few moments each day to look at yourself in<br />
the mirror and identify your favorite features of<br />
your body as well as overall person.<br />
Eat differently<br />
Yes it has been said over and<br />
over a million times but its true<br />
changing what you eat will help<br />
in building a better you. Eat<br />
less salt and fat its bad for the<br />
body instead change it up and<br />
eat more fruit and vegetables.<br />
Try to eat five portions of fruit<br />
and vegetables a day. Explore<br />
new recipes with these types of<br />
foods. You may find everything<br />
you make is quite tasty.<br />
Exercise regularly<br />
The benefits of exercise aren’t<br />
limited to losing weight. Even if<br />
you’re slim, you’ll still get health<br />
benefits from exercising. By<br />
working out only 30 minutes a<br />
day (yes everyday) helps the<br />
heart body and mind. Makes<br />
you feel better and over time<br />
you will feel more motivated to<br />
do more activities. Like biking or<br />
hiking, walking, running, playing<br />
more sports etc. So many things<br />
change while doing this and it<br />
does help build a better you.<br />
Drink More Water<br />
With all that activity another thing<br />
you could try is to “Drink more<br />
water”. Yes we all know that beer<br />
and sugary drinks are wonderful<br />
but they aren’t that good for<br />
the body. Not saying that you<br />
shouldn’t have a beer or two or a<br />
soda with lunch I’m saying make<br />
water the most important fluid<br />
you put into your body.<br />
All of these things work and<br />
everyone should try them. The<br />
struggle is real and most of us hide<br />
from it. We don’t want to accept<br />
the fact that we are growing<br />
up and want to stay up all night<br />
and sleep all day. We have to<br />
take better care of ourselves and<br />
make changes. It’s a process and<br />
can’t be done overnight. Baby<br />
steps one day at a time.<br />
Improve your sleep<br />
Nearly everyone has problems<br />
sleeping at some point in their life.<br />
Most healthy adults sleep for an<br />
average of seven to nine hours a<br />
night. If you’re not getting enough<br />
sleep, it can affect relationships,<br />
your performance at work, and<br />
affect with helping you get better<br />
when you’re sick.<br />
The bedroom needs to be dark,<br />
quiet, tidy, and smell fresh. Also<br />
good-quality mattress and bed<br />
frame will give you an extra hour<br />
sleep... Your bedroom should be<br />
for sleeping only and well sexual<br />
activities. In order to build a better<br />
body you must get sleep. Most<br />
of us can’t sleep and we stay<br />
up all night wondering why we<br />
can’t fall asleep. Then we turn<br />
to our electric devices due to<br />
having something to do instead<br />
of focusing on sleeping. Instead<br />
grab a glass of water and return<br />
back to bed.<br />
Quit smoking<br />
The health benefits of quitting<br />
smoking are immediate. I have<br />
read while researching bad<br />
habits that after 20 minutes, your<br />
blood pressure and pulse return<br />
to normal. After 24 hours, your<br />
lungs start to clear. After three<br />
days you can breathe more<br />
easily, and your energy increases.<br />
Keep it up and you’re adding<br />
years to your life. Doesn’t that<br />
sound amazingly awesome and<br />
well worth quitting smoking? With<br />
myself never smoked I hear that<br />
it’s a very bad habit to break. Yet<br />
to building a better you I feel this<br />
is a must do necessity.<br />
Recap<br />
So after taking the time to read<br />
this you should have learned in<br />
order to building a better you<br />
that you must look at yourself<br />
and find the positive in yourself<br />
everyday instead of focusing<br />
on the negative. Eat better<br />
and drink more water. Exercise<br />
everyday or do an activity<br />
that counts as exercising for 30<br />
minutes. Getting a good night’s<br />
rest and eliminating electric<br />
devices when you wake up<br />
(trust me Facebook can wait<br />
till morning) Lastly smoking,<br />
you have to quit smoking. It<br />
is bad for your health and all<br />
the reasons in the world there<br />
is nothing positive health wise<br />
where its said that smoking is<br />
good for you. Ditch that horrible<br />
smelly habit and push forward<br />
to building a better you.<br />
I hope this article reaches out to<br />
everyone that reads it cause we<br />
are all meant to do great things<br />
and starting with living longer<br />
and being health is a great<br />
starting point to becoming<br />
something great.<br />
Article By: Tiffanie Mora<br />
14 BUILDING A BETTER YOU BUILDING A BETTER YOU<br />
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Giving Up Wasted Wednesday<br />
It’ s<br />
the night<br />
of your 21st birthday<br />
and its finally here, your first<br />
drink (legally that is). Everyone<br />
looks forward to birthdays but for<br />
some reason this one is at the top of<br />
the list. Who doesn’t want to drop<br />
loads of money into calorie filled<br />
drinks to forget what happened by<br />
the time the sun comes up. I’m<br />
not here to judge by any means, I<br />
understand how relaxing it feels<br />
to go out for a night on the town<br />
and to just let go. Those college<br />
years of going out every day that<br />
ends in a ‘y’ can be the best time of<br />
your life, or so you think. Have you<br />
ever stopped to look at that fine<br />
line that separates social drinking<br />
with friends from loosing complete<br />
control? Saying ‘been there, done<br />
that’ is an understatement. I spent<br />
1 year of my life charging up my<br />
credit card and binge drinking with<br />
friends to create memories, just to<br />
later realize that the only memory<br />
I wanted to keep was the person<br />
before I turned ‘legal.’ When you<br />
are young the ‘bar scene’ looks<br />
so enticing, everyone laughing,<br />
drinking, dancing…it’s like an<br />
infomercial for the best days of<br />
your life. No one tells you the<br />
feeling you get the day after, the<br />
amount of time you spend at the<br />
gym working those calories off, the<br />
money that vanishes after three<br />
drinks (where you probably should<br />
have cut yourself off). Those little<br />
things end up adding up to be the<br />
big things, and sooner or later you<br />
realize it’s not all it has cracked up<br />
to be.<br />
I’m sure you all have got that<br />
priceless one liner from your<br />
parents ‘you’re going out again,<br />
didn’t you just go out last night.’ At<br />
the time you probably rolled your<br />
eyes, grabbed<br />
your keys and were<br />
on your way. Looking back,<br />
I wish I had thought twice about<br />
it. Did you ever stop to think that<br />
maybe the reason people go out<br />
to get so drunk to the point where<br />
they spill their deepest secrets and<br />
piled up emotions, is because they<br />
are so unhappy with themselves<br />
anything to numb that pain is<br />
worth the money? I’m not saying<br />
that every college kid who goes out<br />
on the biggest drinking night of<br />
the week is an alcoholic, nor am I<br />
saying I was, but to think that the<br />
only thing you look forward to is<br />
getting so wasted that the next<br />
morning your piecing together the<br />
night before is alarming to say the<br />
least. All it took was one morning<br />
of looking into the mirror to realize<br />
SOMETHING HAD TO CHANGE.<br />
I started working on myself and<br />
getting back to the person I once<br />
was. I changed the way I looked<br />
at things and began trying new<br />
experiences. I traveled, met new<br />
people, worked out more, and most<br />
of all opened my eyes. During<br />
that year of drinking and partying<br />
I lost sight of the most important<br />
thing and that was myself. I started<br />
spending more time with family,<br />
something that as a child I was<br />
all too familiar with but as I grew<br />
older seemed to drift away from. At<br />
first I noticed all the things I had<br />
been missing during that year, but<br />
then became thankful that I now<br />
got to enjoy them again. I know<br />
what you are thinking, ‘what a<br />
homebody.’ But that’s not it at all,<br />
I reconnected with my old friends<br />
and learned that those who are<br />
closest to you will just be happy<br />
being around good company. We<br />
started doing game nights, where<br />
we occasionally would drink a glass<br />
of wine, but it was different now.<br />
It wasn’t drinking to get wasted; it<br />
was just having a glass with friends<br />
and limiting yourself. I’m not<br />
trying to preach to you that<br />
drinking is bad. I still go out<br />
with friends and I still like<br />
to have a good time. I’m in<br />
my twenty’s, it’s not a crime<br />
to want that. But somewhere<br />
along the way I learned<br />
what it means to have too<br />
much and that it’s all right<br />
to say ‘no’ every once in<br />
awhile. Those memories<br />
that I yearned to make<br />
during those college years<br />
of drinking, I made sitting in<br />
a friends basement playing<br />
board games till 2am. It’s not<br />
always about where you are<br />
spending your time, sometimes<br />
it’s whom you are with. The best<br />
part about that year of finding<br />
myself is that I can remember<br />
every single moment, mistake<br />
and memory and I knew that it<br />
was I making them. Not some<br />
blurred image of myself who I<br />
wasn’t even familiar with. Some<br />
say that it’s just a process of<br />
growing up, but as for myself I<br />
think it giving yourself what you<br />
deserve.<br />
Article by: Charlotte K<br />
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GIVING UP WASTED WEDNESDAY<br />
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Faithful<br />
Beauty<br />
TIPS FROM FA<strong>IT</strong>H GREATHOUSE<br />
What is the difference between<br />
crystal and diamond micro?<br />
Dermab? Rasion?<br />
The crystal microdermabrasion<br />
technology involves the use of<br />
a special, hand-held device that<br />
propels a high-speed flow of<br />
aluminum oxide crystals onto<br />
the skin. At the same time, the<br />
machine’s vacuum system sucks<br />
away dirt, dead cells, uses crystals<br />
and feels like sandblasting. The<br />
diamond dermabrasion system, on<br />
the other hand, replaces the microcrystal<br />
flow with a disposable or<br />
reusable diamond tip wand, and<br />
feels more like sand papering.<br />
Other than that, crystal-free<br />
microdermabrasion works<br />
in the same way traditional<br />
microabrasion does.<br />
Diamond microderm machines<br />
usually come with tipped<br />
wands of varied size and<br />
coarseness for different<br />
skin types and depths of<br />
resurfacing. The wand tip<br />
is made of natural diamond<br />
chips which polish the skin<br />
and remove dead cells, which<br />
are then vacuumed back into a<br />
waste filter.<br />
Microdermabrasion Crystals<br />
Aluminum oxide crystals have<br />
been the most commonly used<br />
abrasive agent for the last 20<br />
years (no wonder they were so<br />
popular in microdermabrasion).<br />
Aluminum oxide is the second hardest<br />
mineral (diamonds are first).<br />
Sodium bicarbonate crystals are an<br />
organic alternative to aluminum oxide<br />
crystals but they are a lot softer and<br />
less effective in microdermabrasion.<br />
They are used on patients with<br />
hyper-pigmentation and can be<br />
easily washed off after treatment<br />
(sodium bicarbonate is watersoluble).<br />
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FA<strong>IT</strong>HFUL BEAUTY<br />
In Asia, the favorite microderm<br />
abrasion is a hydro microderm,<br />
which infuses hyaluronic acid<br />
or acne serums with water while<br />
getting the same results. Those in<br />
dry climates can surely benefit from<br />
this as well!<br />
Esthetics by Faith<br />
www.estheticsbyfaith.com<br />
NAT<strong>UR</strong>ALLY <strong>IT</strong><br />
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Full Page Modeling -<br />
Nicole<br />
22 NAT<strong>UR</strong>ALLY <strong>IT</strong><br />
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Get to Know <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> Model<br />
Taylor<br />
This month’s cover model,<br />
Taylor, is from Greenville,<br />
Ohio and has been sharing<br />
her fierceness with <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong><br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> since….. Not<br />
only has she done photo<br />
shoots for the magazine,<br />
but she was part of the Fall<br />
2015 <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> Fashion Show<br />
in central Pennsylvania,<br />
too!<br />
She is taking her time,<br />
but can’t wait to see what<br />
is to come in her modeling<br />
future. She shared with us<br />
some tidbits about herself,<br />
her experience with <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong>,<br />
and other opportunities she<br />
is taking in modeling.<br />
<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> – Tell us a little bit about<br />
yourself — your family, education,<br />
work, hobbies...anything!<br />
Taylor - I am a home health care<br />
provider for mentally disabled. I<br />
model as work and as a hobby. I<br />
am in school at Edison Community<br />
College for Nursing. I love getting<br />
opportunities to style hair and<br />
makeup for other models. I listen<br />
to music. I have a boyfriend I<br />
absolutely love and have been with<br />
for six years. I have many friends<br />
I get to enjoy outings and dinner<br />
parties with.<br />
<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> - What made you start<br />
with <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong>, and what do you like<br />
about it?<br />
Taylor - I began working with <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong><br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> when I entered a contest<br />
for the July 2015 back cover. I did<br />
not win but got a photo shoot and<br />
walked in the fashion show in the<br />
fall. I liked the show very much and<br />
got to show off six outfits! I like<br />
that <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> has been open-minded,<br />
flexible and passionate about what<br />
they do.<br />
<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> - What are your overall<br />
goals with modeling?<br />
Taylor - The ultimate goal would be<br />
to find paid work because I feel I’m<br />
worth it as a model. I don’t know if<br />
I’ll decide to join an agency because<br />
I like the freedom of working with<br />
whomever I want and getting to<br />
bring my ideas to life!<br />
<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> - Besides modeling for<br />
<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, what are<br />
some other opportunities<br />
you’re taking?<br />
Taylor - I’m working with a<br />
wonderful group called Mora<br />
Modeling in Greenville, Ohio.<br />
My photographer, Tiffanie<br />
Mora, has been by my side as<br />
I’ve accomplished so much<br />
this past year. Outside of<br />
that, I am always doing personal<br />
research and contacting designers<br />
and photographers to further grow<br />
my experience and portfolio.<br />
<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> - How would you say <strong>UR</strong><br />
<strong>IT</strong> has affected your path in life<br />
and view of yourself?<br />
Taylor - Absolutely changed the<br />
view of myself. Once you get to see<br />
your face in a magazine, it gives<br />
you a confidence boost that you can<br />
always do more.<br />
<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> – Do you have one overall<br />
word of advice for women?<br />
Taylor - My overall advice for<br />
women out there is to harness your<br />
ambition and go do something you<br />
keep holding yourself back from.<br />
Nothing great ever happens when<br />
you hold back!<br />
Article by: Adeena Harbst<br />
24 GET TO KNOW <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> MODEL TAYLOR<br />
GET TO KNOW <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> MODEL TAYLOR<br />
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The<br />
Unwanted<br />
Good:<br />
Ideally, when a woman is asked<br />
to list top qualities that she<br />
looks for in a man, intelligence,<br />
kindness, loyalty, and sensitivity<br />
will surface. On the contrary<br />
though, these women will still<br />
date and possibly marry men<br />
possessing only 1% of their<br />
desired traits.<br />
Why Women<br />
Are Not Interested<br />
in Nice Guys<br />
“ One is therefore left<br />
wondering, why are<br />
these good men bad? ”<br />
We explore a few of<br />
the reasons...<br />
They Are Peacocks<br />
The biggest problem about nice<br />
guys is their annoying habit of<br />
struggling to announce to every<br />
girl that they are the best catch.<br />
Women who have high self-esteem<br />
and are looking to settle down<br />
have left nice men, citing<br />
bragging as their turn-off.<br />
Confusingly though, when a<br />
bad boy does this, it is seen<br />
as attractive arrogance but<br />
utterly unacceptable coming<br />
from a nice guy. It seems part<br />
of being nice is not blowing<br />
one’s trumpet.<br />
Women Need A<br />
Mystery To Solve<br />
Nice guys basically bare it<br />
all for the woman, leaving<br />
nothing mysterious for her<br />
to dig. Simply listening<br />
and showing interest in<br />
what a woman says, is an<br />
admirable quality. But<br />
truth is, it only earns the<br />
good guys a few brownie<br />
points. This is a system that<br />
a woman uses to calculate<br />
how attractive a man is. The<br />
more you earn, the more<br />
she is driven towards falling<br />
for you. Unfortunately<br />
for these men, the juicy<br />
part of this ‘interview’<br />
is nonexistent because they<br />
tend to do everything that the<br />
woman wants. No drama, no love.<br />
They Completely Forget The<br />
Sexual Side<br />
By virtue of being male and<br />
female, the role of sex in such<br />
relationships can never be<br />
overemphasized. As a matter of<br />
fact, for a relationship to happen<br />
and be successful, there has to be<br />
emotional and sexual attraction.<br />
Nice guys are of the school of<br />
thought that believes sex is<br />
dehumanizing to humans, and tend<br />
to be very shallow and shy on these<br />
matters. To them, sex is a matter of<br />
procreation and sexual chemistry<br />
or vulgarity does not exist in their<br />
world. This aspect sends even the<br />
most innocent women running<br />
into the open sexual arms of the<br />
bad boy.<br />
They Seem Hypocritical<br />
No matter how deeply in love you<br />
are, bad days are inevitable. Nice<br />
guys will pretend to have a blast<br />
even when the days are grim.<br />
They do not show or share their<br />
emotions leaving the woman<br />
confused and bored. Have you<br />
heard of women whom after a<br />
problem with their partners, wish<br />
that they saw a more aggressive<br />
reaction? Sounds odd, but that’s<br />
just women.<br />
Doormats Are Not Sexy<br />
As much as feminist campaigns<br />
fight for people to cease calling<br />
women the weaker sex, men<br />
will still be viewed as the heads<br />
of their homes. No woman<br />
would really want a man who<br />
agrees with everything she says.<br />
The first and most important<br />
reason she is in a relationship<br />
is to have someone to discuss<br />
pertinent matters with. Not<br />
a clueless doormat! Women<br />
seek their men’s opinions<br />
for insight, not necessarily a<br />
guaranteed ‘okay’. Otherwise,<br />
women would just be single.<br />
As seen nice guys are facing<br />
fierce competition from bad<br />
guys. Encouragingly though,<br />
as much as these men finish<br />
last, they finish best. This type<br />
of men is trainable and can be<br />
molded into what the woman<br />
needs from a real man, as<br />
opposed to the all-knowing,<br />
self-sufficient macho man.<br />
Article by: Vivian Achieng<br />
26 THE UNWANTED GOOD<br />
GOOD GUY<br />
THE UNWANTED GOOD<br />
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In her song ‘Mr.<br />
Wrong’, Mary J.<br />
Blige highlights a<br />
woman’s dilemma.<br />
At the beginning<br />
of the song, Mary<br />
says that bad boys<br />
are not good, and<br />
good boys are no<br />
fun. She adds that<br />
God knows that she<br />
should run off with<br />
the right one, and even<br />
her family does not<br />
understand why she is<br />
so glued to that man.<br />
The award-winning<br />
singer goes ahead to say<br />
that she and Mr. Wrong<br />
get along so good, even<br />
though he breaks her<br />
heart so bad.<br />
The<br />
Bad Boy<br />
Attraction:<br />
Why Women<br />
Are Still<br />
Deeply Enticed<br />
“ The big question<br />
therefore is, why<br />
can’t women just stop<br />
loving the bad guys? ”<br />
We explore a few of<br />
the reasons...<br />
Mending A Troubled Father-<br />
Daughter Relationship<br />
Fathers have been thought to only<br />
affect the lives of their sons because<br />
they directly mentor them into<br />
adulthood and career development.<br />
A study revealed that surprisingly,<br />
fathers also play an intriguing and<br />
extremely significant role<br />
in their daughters’ lives.<br />
The survey further revealed<br />
that girls who had a close<br />
emotional connection with<br />
their fathers made wiser<br />
decisions on marriage and<br />
dating than those who did<br />
not, consequently having<br />
longer-lasting and fulfilling<br />
marriages than their<br />
counterparts.<br />
Women who had distant<br />
emotional relationships<br />
with their fathers get into<br />
relationships with bad<br />
boys as a way to remedy<br />
their inexistent fatherdaughter<br />
relationship in<br />
their childhood days. To<br />
them, the extra testosterone<br />
and macho characteristic<br />
of bad boys is a significant<br />
representation of masculinity.<br />
The Urge To Change A<br />
Wayward Man<br />
Women are known to be<br />
more patient and understanding<br />
than men. For this reason, a<br />
woman would knowingly get into<br />
a romantic relationship with a<br />
man, with a strong hope that she<br />
will change him. Additionally,<br />
a woman’s ego is significantly<br />
boosted when she thinks and<br />
knows that she had a strong<br />
emotional grip on a man, which<br />
could potentially change him.<br />
The Need For Adventure<br />
Women who have been good girls<br />
and innocent all their lives and have<br />
had extremely protective fathers<br />
tend to love bad boys. They are<br />
adventurous, exciting, daring and<br />
mischievous, just the right recipe to<br />
attract a smart and great woman. All<br />
these women want is someone that<br />
would scoff at the rules she spent<br />
all her life adhering to.<br />
Bad Boys Exude The<br />
Masculinity Needed To<br />
Trigger Reproduction<br />
Gregory Louis Carter of the<br />
University of Durham led a study<br />
designed to understand this<br />
confusing phenomenon by women.<br />
After surveying 128 undergraduate<br />
females, Carter and his team found<br />
out that women loved men with<br />
the Dark Triad personality traits<br />
of machiavellism, narcissism and<br />
psychopathy. It was revealed that<br />
women are drawn to bad boys<br />
due to their extreme masculinity,<br />
which triggers short-term mating.<br />
Their manipulation, flattery,<br />
exploitation and prestige<br />
seemed to greatly support<br />
their sexual success.<br />
Females Respond To<br />
Emotions, Not Logic<br />
Biologically, women are wired<br />
to respond to less logic and<br />
more emotions at a particular<br />
moment. Therefore, women are<br />
naturally drawn to situations<br />
that stimulate their emotions.<br />
Bad boys become a favorite<br />
among women due to their<br />
ability to create drama. A sweet<br />
gentleman on the other hand<br />
offers what the woman already<br />
has in excess-emotions, paving<br />
way for the cock sure cassanova.<br />
Loving a bad boy is not really<br />
bad depending on the kind<br />
of bad boy you have. Women<br />
should however be careful<br />
because there is a very thin<br />
line between a datable bad<br />
boy and a bad boy to avoid at<br />
all costs. For example, jailbirds<br />
and trivial traffic offenders have<br />
different levels of bad boy traits.<br />
Article by: Vivian Achieng<br />
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Jami<br />
Kinton<br />
Jami Kinton is a professional model,<br />
actress and host residing in Cleveland,<br />
Ohio. A former news reporter, Jami<br />
is about to begin her sixth season<br />
hosting for the Cleveland Indians. She<br />
also hosts for Fusion LIVE and works<br />
in promotions at CBS Radio. Jami<br />
owns her own social media company,<br />
KINTON MEDIA GROUP, and has<br />
worked in TV and film production for<br />
the last 14 years.<br />
Living<br />
her<br />
Dreams<br />
U can too!<br />
I embarked on<br />
the seven-and-ahalf-hour<br />
trip to “When<br />
Washington D.C. last month, I<br />
was set to work on the production<br />
side of the National Christmas<br />
Tree Lighting for PBS. It would be<br />
my second year in a row and I<br />
was excited – but nothing could<br />
have prepared me for one of the<br />
greatest, most thrilling moments<br />
of my life.”<br />
Let’s go back…<br />
To give you a little background,<br />
I’ve worked on both sides of the<br />
camera for the last 14 years. I<br />
started modeling and acting right<br />
out of high school, everything from<br />
commercials for Wendy’s and Target<br />
to print work for banks, clothing<br />
lines and hospitals. I was even on<br />
the box of a Fisher Price toy piano.<br />
But production work also intrigued<br />
me. I started in college as a<br />
production assistant for a TV show<br />
called “Cell Dogs” on Animal Planet<br />
and since then have worked on<br />
numerous commercials, films and<br />
reality shows including “America’s<br />
Got Talent,” “The Voice” and my<br />
favorite “The National Christmas<br />
Tree Lighting.”<br />
My goal has always been to work<br />
professionally in entertainment and<br />
I’ve been so lucky to do this on a<br />
variety of platforms.<br />
Other guest artists would include<br />
Aloe Blacc, Fall Out Boy, Tori Kelly,<br />
Crosby Stills and Nash and more.<br />
The night before the lighting was<br />
our big rehearsal. I was sitting in<br />
the TV truck when I heard that, for<br />
some reason, Reese would not be<br />
coming in until the next day.<br />
That was when opportunity struck.<br />
I told the director I had experience<br />
reading a teleprompter and would<br />
love to stand in for Reese. The<br />
suggestion was a long shot, but<br />
somehow…it worked!<br />
The next thing I know, I’m standing<br />
backstage with the celebs and<br />
everyone is introducing themselves.<br />
I looked around and said, “I’m Jami!”<br />
(As if anyone knew who “Jami” was.)<br />
I never even had a chance to look<br />
at a script before I was standing on<br />
the back stage stairs with the stage<br />
manager’s hand on my back: “OK,<br />
go ahead,” she said.<br />
I walked on stage to the little T<br />
marked toward the front, looked<br />
out into the bright lights and saw<br />
the gigantic teleprompter begin to<br />
scroll.<br />
“Good evening and welcome to<br />
President’s Park here in Washington,<br />
for the 93rd annual National<br />
Christmas Tree Lighting!”<br />
Last year, Tom Hanks hosted the<br />
lighting and it was incredible to meet<br />
and work with him. When I learned<br />
Reese Witherspoon would be hosting<br />
this year, I was thrilled again.<br />
The production set up is massive<br />
and about a three-week endeavor.<br />
Upon arrival, one of my first jobs<br />
was to assist in the set up of Miss<br />
Piggy’s dressing room. So fun!<br />
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Suddenly I was in my element. I<br />
began to smile, the hands started<br />
moving and I never wanted the<br />
evening to end. I recall wearing<br />
my winter hat and jacket, but was<br />
completely oblivious to the cold.<br />
I got to introduce all of the<br />
performers, including THE Miss<br />
Piggy! The little bit I got to do with<br />
her evoked my genuine laughter. I<br />
was having the greatest time.<br />
The show and my time on stage<br />
ended that night with all of the<br />
performers, along with Santa, on<br />
stage dancing and singing the final<br />
number. I stood right between Aloe<br />
Blacc and Miss Piggy and danced<br />
and sang right along with them.<br />
Surreal.<br />
The next day, I was headed into<br />
President’s Park in the late morning<br />
when I saw Reese pull up in a black<br />
SUV out front and walk in right in<br />
front of me, ready for the morning<br />
rehearsal.<br />
Oh, if only I could have done it<br />
again! But what an unforgettable<br />
experience! It’s incredible how fast<br />
a door can open and opportunity<br />
can strike, as long as you’re willing<br />
to pursue it.<br />
Always look for these moments.<br />
I would have never had that<br />
experience had I not have asked for<br />
it that night. No one would have<br />
offered it to me. Don’t be afraid to<br />
speak up as the worst someone can<br />
tell you is no.<br />
The chance that someone says “Yes”<br />
is worth the risk.<br />
It certainly was for me<br />
that night!<br />
Article by: Jami Kinton<br />
“It’s incredible<br />
how fast a door<br />
can open and<br />
opportunity<br />
can strike, as long<br />
as you’re willing to<br />
pursue it.”<br />
The<br />
Goddesses<br />
of the<br />
Woods ll<br />
<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> welcomes you back<br />
to the woods for a second<br />
look, but this time...<br />
things have gone<br />
Mad!<br />
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We are all Mad Here...<br />
”<br />
“<br />
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“<br />
If I had a world of<br />
my own, everything<br />
would be<br />
Nonsense.”<br />
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a<br />
I ts only Dream<br />
“I knew<br />
who I was<br />
this morning,<br />
but I’ve<br />
changed a<br />
few times<br />
since then...”<br />
...<br />
Makeup<br />
Trends<br />
Tips for a fresh face:<br />
for <strong>2016</strong><br />
When showering, use a facial scrub to exfoliate<br />
your skin once or twice a week (If you exfoliate<br />
every day, it can be too harsh and your skin could dry<br />
out). Exfoliating will help get the dirt and pull any<br />
unwanted oils from pores. For every day cleansing, use<br />
a more gentle face wash. There are face washes with<br />
bursting beads that help your skin feel fresh and soft.<br />
When wearing makeup, it is important to wash your<br />
face before bed. Use makeup remover wipes or liquid<br />
with a warm cloth to take off the makeup, then use an<br />
evening face wash or just the daily face wash to wash<br />
your face. This will allow your skin to breathe at night<br />
and leave your face feeling fresh in the morning.<br />
<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> artists want you to know what is hot in<br />
makeup! We looked at the New York Fashion<br />
Week to find the <strong>2016</strong> makeup trends just<br />
for you. Fresh, naked faces and bold lips are<br />
the newest makeup trends.<br />
Many of the models for the New York Fashion<br />
Week had very little makeup with an accent<br />
on their lips. <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> found it is all about the<br />
lips this year. Bright red, dark purples, soft<br />
orange, and colors that accentuate your skin<br />
color are the way to go. These models had a<br />
natural shine on their faces as they walked<br />
the runway. The all-natural look has been in<br />
for awhile, but the faces of these models are<br />
almost naked. Embrace your natural face, be<br />
yourself completely; if you are happy, let the<br />
world know it!<br />
If you do not wear makeup every day, washing once in<br />
the morning is sufficient because washing too much<br />
could dry out your skin. You can use a warm washcloth<br />
to wipe off your face before bed to help open your<br />
pores and wipe off any oils from the day.<br />
Use moisturizer after washing your face, especially<br />
before using makeup. Moisturizer will help your skin<br />
from becoming dry with or without makeup. Makeup<br />
will go on smother if you use moisturizer first. There<br />
are moisturizers for any type of skin, so be sure to get<br />
the proper kind. Using the wrong kind of moisturizer<br />
can cause your face to become too greasy or too dry. If<br />
you’re not sure what type of moisturizer would be best<br />
for your skin, ask the professionals at the salon or take<br />
surveys online that can help you discover what type of<br />
skin you have.<br />
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Tips for lips:<br />
When choosing a lip color, it is<br />
best to match it against your skin<br />
tone; test the color on the back of your<br />
hand to match. Some colors will wash<br />
you out. Knowing how the color wheel<br />
works will help because it shows the<br />
contrasting and complimentary colors.<br />
<strong>UR</strong> World,<br />
R Thoughts<br />
Wearing light pink or peach, nude,<br />
or browns is best for fair skin. When<br />
choosing a bold color, be sure to choose<br />
a darker shade of red with more of a<br />
pink tint because any orange, red will<br />
wash you out. Fair skin has more of a<br />
pink undertone, so staying with the<br />
pink colors will look beautiful.<br />
Medium skin will need medium pink,<br />
red, and more orange colors. This skin<br />
tone will work with the orange tints<br />
because the undertone is more yellow.<br />
Yellow and orange go great together, so<br />
using a bold orange/red lip will bring<br />
out the beauty of your skin.<br />
Olive skin tone will want to go with<br />
dark lips: Rose, purple, red, apricot.<br />
Because there is a yellow undertone<br />
to your skin, you will be able to wear<br />
orange or purple colors. Since your skin<br />
is darker, you want to stay with a darker<br />
tint to accentuate your skin.<br />
Dark skin tone will look beautiful with<br />
dark chocolates, dark pink/purple, and<br />
golden browns. If you want to try an<br />
even more bold lip, go with an almost<br />
white/purple to really make your lips<br />
pop. Dark skin undertone can be yellow<br />
or pink, so once you discover your<br />
undertone, you will be able to match<br />
your lip tints.<br />
Article by: Tori Long<br />
Q<br />
With all the things happening in the<br />
world, why do people think that their<br />
views and beliefs are unequivocally<br />
correct, there in making the entire world<br />
wrong. What is it that leads we as people<br />
to think that we need to push our views on<br />
everyone else as well as the idea that radicals<br />
are a reflection of all involved?<br />
A<br />
Dear Politically Correct,<br />
That is a great question, one which<br />
I wish I had the answer to! I agree, people<br />
can be very polarized, think their way is the<br />
“right” way, try to push their ideals on others,<br />
and believe that extremists represent all all<br />
members of a cause. I’m sure others more<br />
well-versed in the psychology of politics than<br />
I have written books on the subject, and<br />
have plenty of insights to share. My two cents<br />
is that our degree of open-mindedness can<br />
often depend on how we’re raised, and we<br />
frequently hold the beliefs our families do,<br />
which are consistently reinforced throughout<br />
our lives. Of course, I can also think of plenty<br />
of people I know whose politics couldn’t be<br />
further away from their family’s, but I think<br />
even this divergence is influenced by families.<br />
For some, going against their family’s views<br />
can feel like a betrayal, so they hold on even<br />
it doesn’t make sense to them. For others, the<br />
dissonance between what they were raised<br />
to believe and how they feel are so far apart<br />
that they feel they must be true to their own<br />
convictions, and voice their opinions, despite<br />
potential negative pushback. Something to<br />
keep in mind, is that despite the problems in<br />
this country (and world), we are very lucky to<br />
live in a country where we are free to express<br />
ourselves and have differing opinions!<br />
Christy Beck,<br />
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FOR THE MONTH OF FEBRUARY <strong>2016</strong><br />
Material Harvest: What you sow is what you reap. This<br />
card says it is time for all to harvest the rewards they<br />
have been working toward. This card also represents<br />
self mastery, self sufficiency, and independence. If you<br />
are not receiving the things you desire it is important to<br />
make sure you are putting the proper energy out into<br />
the universe. You create your own reality.<br />
AQUARIUS<br />
See Aquarius Below<br />
Virgo - Moving On - You’re about to take a much needed<br />
journey. Whether it’s metaphorical or an actual adventure. Prepare<br />
yourself to leave the past behind. It is important to set new<br />
goals, desires, and objectives to secure a more positive and<br />
successful future.<br />
Pisces - New Beginnings - Each journey has to start somewhere.<br />
This card shows as a confirmation that it is time for you to take<br />
a brave leap of faith it the new chapter of your life. Now is a<br />
time to be true to you and not conform to what others think.<br />
Libra - Trapped in Fear - This card reveals that it’s actually<br />
your own fear that is preventing you from making the decisions<br />
that would best serve you. To get past this fear you must believe<br />
that new things can and will manifest once you make a statement<br />
of empowerment.<br />
Aries - Obstacles and Challenges - You may be having a<br />
rough time. It is okay to have to work through challenges as<br />
what doesn’t kill us does indeed make us stronger. Though this<br />
may be a difficult time to get through open your mind and see<br />
the bigger picture.<br />
Scorpio - Spiritual Strength - This card comes as a reminder<br />
to stand strong and follow through with whatever it is you are<br />
working on. Know that spirit is here to guide you. You’ve been<br />
through too much to give in at this point. Shine through!<br />
Taurus - Rest and Rejuvenate - It’s time for you to rest up.<br />
Take a naps and enjoy your down time . It seems you may be<br />
coming out of an exhausting experience. This is an important time<br />
of your souls journey.<br />
Sagittarius - Passion Ignited - It is time to allow your soul to<br />
soar! The powerful force of spirit is flowing through you. Allow<br />
your creativity to guide you. You may be feeling a new sense<br />
of purpose.<br />
Gemini - Transformation - A time of great change and<br />
transformation is here. Don’t resist the abrupt changes that are<br />
suddenly happening in your life.<br />
Capricorn - Victory and Success - Good news is on the<br />
way. Many people around you are pleased with your actions. It<br />
is also a reminder to remember where you came from. While<br />
keeping your ego in check it is a good time to take pride in<br />
your accomplishments<br />
Cancer - Partnerships and Alliances - Things are happening!<br />
You are making plans and taking action. Someone is interested<br />
in partnering up at this time. This could be an important time to<br />
gather resources for future projects.<br />
Aquarius - Spiritual Union - Now is a time of union. A spiritual<br />
partner of sorts is making an appearance. It may happen in a way<br />
you don’t expect. Remember the all relationships are a reflection<br />
of you.<br />
Leo - Foundations and Achievements - You deserve this. It’s<br />
time for you to harvest the rewards of the seeds you’ve been<br />
growing so tentatively. Allow the universe to give a little back to<br />
you this time.<br />
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