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JAN COVER<br />

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CRED<strong>IT</strong>S<br />

Board of Directors:<br />

Jeremy Clark<br />

Shawna Lee<br />

Products:<br />

Kathy Ickes<br />

Janie Clark<br />

Photography:<br />

Shawna Lee<br />

Jeremy Clark<br />

Tiffanie Mora<br />

Editors:<br />

Adeena Harbst<br />

Taralyn Guenot<br />

Stacy Clark<br />

Layout/Design:<br />

Taralyn Guenot<br />

Jason Colón<br />

Gazettes Printers<br />

Shoot Coordinator:<br />

Shawna Lee<br />

Hair & Makeup:<br />

Tori Long<br />

Kriste Kephart<br />

Advertising & Sales:<br />

Kristin Taranto<br />

Jeremy Clark<br />

Shawna Lee<br />

Distribution:<br />

Vince Poeta<br />

Jessica Martin<br />

Yvonne Smith<br />

Julie Ricketts<br />

Jeremy Clark<br />

Shawna Lee<br />

Quinton<br />

Writers:<br />

Adeena Harbst<br />

Charlotte K<br />

Jessica Martin<br />

Vivian Achieng<br />

Tiffanie Mora<br />

Faith Greathouse<br />

Christy Beck<br />

Kathy Ickes<br />

Advertisers:<br />

One 2 One Travel<br />

Boyer Insurance: Nationwide<br />

Thrivent Financial<br />

Clothes Mentor<br />

Esthetics by Faith<br />

Becks Psychotherapy<br />

Diva’s Bling Boutique<br />

Auto Oasis<br />

CONTENTS<br />

5 How to Make Online<br />

Shopping Effective<br />

For You<br />

8 Brite: A Romance<br />

Story | Part II<br />

12 Pansexual: What it<br />

Really Means<br />

14 Building a Better You<br />

18 Giving Up Wasted<br />

Wednesday<br />

20 Faithful Beauty<br />

21 Naturally It<br />

24 Get to Know <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong><br />

Model Taylor<br />

26 The Unwanted Good<br />

28 The Bad Boy Attraction<br />

32 Jami Kinton, Living Her<br />

Dreams: You Can Too<br />

35 Goddesses of the<br />

Woods II<br />

39 Makeup Trends for <strong>2016</strong><br />

41 <strong>UR</strong> World, R Thoughts<br />

44 Cleanse Your Body<br />

47 This Month’s Taroscope<br />

What’s coming<br />

in March<br />

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Doors open at 11am for shopping and demonstrations.<br />

Show begins at 1pm. Meet Ur It Model and International<br />

Cover Model Shawna Lee. Ur It Model, Lowes Corporation<br />

national spokes person, and Cleveland Indians announcer<br />

Jami Kinton will be hosting the event. Also attending<br />

will be Diva’s Bling Boutique of Philipsburg and Clothes<br />

Mentor of State College.<br />

The convenience of online shopping cannot be<br />

overemphasized. The ability to buy anything ranging<br />

from clothes, electronics and food via a click of a<br />

button offers the most needed help for the modernday<br />

individual who is too busy to find time to physically<br />

visit a shop. Arguably, online shopping offers numerous<br />

advantages but the real question is, is it really effective<br />

for you? How do you make it work for you and prevent it<br />

from being a nightmare as witnessed by other people?<br />

There is a certain code of conduct for shopping online,<br />

basically rules that guide on do’s and dont’s. We will<br />

therefore look at critical areas you should scrutinize<br />

in order to make your online shopping experience<br />

worthwhile and effective.<br />

4 HOW TO MAKE ONLINE SHOPPING EFFECTIVE FOR YOU<br />

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~ PASSWORDS AND CRED<strong>IT</strong> CARD<br />

INFORMATION ~<br />

It is a general rule to never share your passwords<br />

with anyone. Additionally, you must ensure<br />

that you use different passwords for different<br />

sites and store this information in a secret<br />

spot for reference. The logic behind this is the<br />

fact that credit cards and online payments<br />

services details are in some cases attached<br />

to the vendor websites. Should you share your<br />

password with anyone, they can use your<br />

credit card information retrieved from your<br />

account to make unauthorized purchases.<br />

~ KEEP CHECKING ON BEST DISCOUNTS ~<br />

Online shopping gives you the liberty to make<br />

extensive price comparisons and ensure that<br />

you only get the best deals. A wise shopper<br />

always researches on different merchants selling<br />

the target product at the best price. It should<br />

be noted however, that the best deal is not only<br />

reflected by price. There are other factors to<br />

consider such as quality.<br />

This rule also applies to your credit card<br />

information, which must be kept as private<br />

as possible and only reveal when necessary.<br />

It is extremely prudent to always monitor your<br />

credit card transaction details with your bank<br />

in order to spot unauthorized use as soon as it<br />

happens.<br />

~ POLICIES ~<br />

Online shoppers get disappointed especially<br />

when a dispute is settled in an unexpected<br />

manner. Most of the time, shoppers are at fault<br />

for not reading merchant policies especially on<br />

refunds and product returns. Some merchants<br />

set a specific timeline for buyers to claim a<br />

refund while others have a no-return policy on<br />

already sold items.<br />

~ SEC<strong>UR</strong>E WEBS<strong>IT</strong>ES ~<br />

Money launders enjoy an open field of crime<br />

via online shopping platforms. Shoppers are<br />

advised to only use secured websites, whose<br />

<strong>UR</strong>Ls start with https instead of http. Scammers<br />

also post malicious adverts and circulate<br />

them via emails which hackers use for their<br />

phishing activities. You should ensure that<br />

you only directly visit a merchant’s website,<br />

update or fill in personal information within the<br />

secure site and avoid clicking on emails from<br />

unknown senders.<br />

~ PLAY <strong>IT</strong> SAFE ~<br />

Online transactions rely heavily on trusting an<br />

unseen person as opposed to physically visiting<br />

a shop. This means that chances of getting a<br />

bad deal are higher than normal. There have<br />

been cases of people who complained that<br />

what they bought was not what they received.<br />

Cash on Delivery (COD) option is therefore the<br />

safest mode of payment because it allows you<br />

to only pay for a product once you have seen it<br />

and evaluated it.<br />

Online shopping was established for your<br />

convenience therefore you should make it<br />

work for you. This however is not automatic and<br />

requires you to put in effort in terms of research,<br />

reading customer reviews and utilizing safe<br />

practices that will make it effective for you.<br />

Article By: Vivian Achieng<br />

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HOW TO MAKE ONLINE FASHION SHOPPING PROMOEFFECTIVE FOR YOU<br />

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Konstantin did a once over<br />

around the room to make sure he<br />

wasn’t forgetting anything. The<br />

library was on the other side of<br />

campus. If he had to make multiple<br />

trips, it would be incredibly<br />

inconvenient. It was 8:30 p.m.<br />

and the campus was quiet, serene.<br />

It was cold but he preferred to<br />

walk. He moseyed across campus<br />

enjoying the views. Breathing in<br />

the crisp night air, he thought of<br />

how fond he’d grown of this place.<br />

It was surprising that he dreaded<br />

the idea of going back to California.<br />

The traffic, the daily hustle and the<br />

same type of people everywhere.<br />

He’d grown to appreciate the<br />

simpler approach to life here.<br />

It had been a shock when he<br />

first arrived but it became home<br />

quickly. He loved having the option<br />

of engaging in outdoor activities<br />

without a two-hour commute.<br />

Everything he needed was within<br />

30 minutes of campus or less. Yes,<br />

he was definitely going to miss it<br />

here.<br />

Most of the other students had<br />

already gone into town to the<br />

nearby bars and restaurants,<br />

prepping themselves for the party<br />

later. He was glad he decided to<br />

stay in this evening. Konstantin<br />

hardly regretted decisions he<br />

made. Right or wrong, the outcome<br />

of his choices often satisfied him.<br />

He didn’t want to slack off as he<br />

neared the end of his last semester.<br />

He held himself to a very high<br />

standard and wanted to begin the<br />

law program with a running start.<br />

As he neared the entrance of the<br />

library, he noticed a sign that<br />

read, “Due to renovations taking<br />

place over the weekend, library<br />

seating will be restricted to a<br />

smaller area. We apologize for any<br />

inconvenience.”<br />

“They couldn’t have waited until<br />

the semester ended?” he mumbled<br />

to himself as he entered. Looking<br />

around, he noticed they had<br />

blocked off the majority of the<br />

seating areas limiting him towards<br />

the very back of the library. There<br />

were only two tables available—<br />

one near the window and one<br />

closer to the restrooms. He opted<br />

for the one near the window. It was<br />

widely known that the table closest<br />

to the restrooms quickly became<br />

subjected to any foul odors that<br />

wafted through the opening and<br />

closing of the doors.<br />

He opened his book bag and<br />

proceeded to make himself<br />

comfortable taking up the majority<br />

of it with his books, notepads,<br />

utensils, water and snacks. He<br />

took out his headphones and<br />

began listening to music while he<br />

started in on his first textbook. He<br />

was quickly engulfed and became<br />

oblivious to anything happening<br />

around him.<br />

As Naomi made her way to the back<br />

of the library, she wasn’t worried<br />

about the seating restrictions.<br />

She knew it would most likely be<br />

empty. After all, how many losers<br />

would be here studying while there<br />

was a party going on—one she had<br />

been excited to attend to let off<br />

steam had it not been for her alarm<br />

debacle. Missing half her class,<br />

she knew she couldn’t afford to<br />

fall behind nearing the end of the<br />

semester.<br />

She winced as she walked down<br />

the steps into study lounge area.<br />

Her knees were still bruised from<br />

her tumble off the bike. Being that<br />

there wouldn’t be many people<br />

on campus, she was casually<br />

clad in her grey sweat pants and<br />

a black tank with her favorite<br />

flannel hoodie. Her hair was in<br />

loose, golden braids. She decided<br />

to let her eyes rest and wear her<br />

reading glasses. She didn’t have<br />

any makeup on but her long dark<br />

lashes made it impossible to tell.<br />

The only beauty product she kept<br />

close was her repair lip balm. Cold<br />

weather made it nearly impossible<br />

to keep her lips moist.<br />

Glancing at the table options, she<br />

noticed that some greedy bastard<br />

had decided to take up the entire<br />

table by the window. Irritated, she<br />

fixed her posture and decided to<br />

head straight for the part of the<br />

table that hadn’t been occupied.<br />

When she got closer, she began<br />

to speak before realizing it was<br />

Konstantin and nearly choked on<br />

her words: “Hope you don’t mind<br />

but I’m sitting here.” She bit her<br />

lip, cursing herself for deciding to<br />

grow a pair now of all times. After<br />

all, she had made a complete fool<br />

of herself in front of this man<br />

just the day before. “Real smooth<br />

Naomi,” she thought.<br />

Konstantin hadn’t heard Naomi<br />

with his headphones in, but he<br />

saw a figure standing to his right.<br />

Annoyed at this person hovering,<br />

he whipped his head around,<br />

“Yes?!”<br />

Once his eyes fell on Naomi’s face,<br />

he felt himself falter. He clumsily<br />

removed a headphone, “Sorry, did<br />

you need something from me?”<br />

Naomi found herself trying to<br />

remain stubborn and yet caught<br />

off guard by Konstantin’s looks<br />

and confidence that seemed to just<br />

flow out from every fiber of his<br />

being.<br />

“I said, I hope you don’t mind my<br />

sharing the table,” she softened<br />

her words, relieved he hadn’t heard<br />

her the first time.<br />

“Not at all. Let me know if you need<br />

more room,” Konstantin smiled at<br />

her, surprised at the relief he felt<br />

for having company.<br />

While Naomi situated herself at the<br />

table, Konstantin glanced at her<br />

finding it difficult to concentrate.<br />

She was dressed like she had just<br />

rolled out of bed and threw on the<br />

closest garments she could reach.<br />

Her hair was falling out of two<br />

messy braids and her glasses made<br />

her look almost child-like. But he<br />

couldn’t help but feel drawn to her.<br />

When they’d made eye contact, he<br />

swore she could see right through<br />

him. The thought was unsettling<br />

yet captivating.<br />

8<br />

A ROMANCE STORY<br />

PART II<br />

BR<strong>IT</strong>E: A ROMANCE STORY | PART II<br />

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He shook his head and turned<br />

up the music, trying to wall off<br />

the unanticipated distraction of<br />

Naomi. “Stay focused, K. This is the<br />

wrong time to get hung up. You’re<br />

leaving soon anyways.” He tried<br />

pulling himself back to reality but<br />

found himself wanting to know her.<br />

Really know her.<br />

Naomi couldn’t help but feel proud<br />

of herself for keeping it together.<br />

She dug into her chapters taking<br />

notes and creating flash cards.<br />

Engulfed in her reading, she was<br />

oblivious to Konstantin who had<br />

been glancing at her on and off<br />

ever since she arrived. Every once<br />

in a while, she would look out<br />

the window and wonder what her<br />

friends were up to. Not once did she<br />

notice how flustered he was.<br />

Konstantin finally removed his<br />

headphones and went to the<br />

restroom for a quick break. Maybe<br />

he just needed to stretch his legs. He<br />

couldn’t seem to get comfortable or<br />

refocused on the task at hand ever<br />

since she arrived.<br />

Washing his hands, he looked at<br />

himself in the mirror in frustration.<br />

“What in the actual hell is your<br />

problem?! She’s not even asking<br />

to be looked at. Look at what she’s<br />

wearing for crying out loud!” He<br />

couldn’t help but laugh at how<br />

ridiculous he was acting. “I guess<br />

it has been a while,” he thought in<br />

regards to the last girl he’d been<br />

with.<br />

He was a little perturbed that his<br />

presence didn’t seem to have the<br />

same effect on her. At least HE<br />

looked nice. He was wearing a<br />

pair of dark blue jeans with a long<br />

sleeved grey shirt that showed off<br />

his physique. He ran his fingers<br />

through his hair and decided, what<br />

the hell, he wanted to know what<br />

this girl was about. She would<br />

probably even welcome a break.<br />

Konstantin walked around the<br />

other side of the table and sat in the<br />

seat directly across from Naomi.<br />

He pulled the chair in and crossed<br />

his arms across his chest (in his<br />

comfortable defense position) and<br />

asked, “So why aren’t you at the<br />

party tonight?”<br />

Naomi, startled, knocked her<br />

glasses off and looked up at him<br />

in surprise. Konstantin quickly<br />

reached across to hand them to<br />

her. She was looking him right<br />

in the eyes again. He felt like she<br />

had access to every secret, every<br />

success, failure and unspoken word.<br />

It scared him but it also made him<br />

feel like he was home. He didn’t<br />

want to lose her focus so he began<br />

cleaning her glasses with the inside<br />

of his shirt. He grinned at the look<br />

on her face.<br />

“Excuse me? Sorry, you don’t have<br />

to do that. I just cleaned them before<br />

I came here tonight.” She reached<br />

over waiting for him to hand her<br />

glasses over. When he looked at<br />

her, she noticed a hint of hurt in<br />

his eyes. “Thank you, I appreciate<br />

the gesture,” she said quickly, not<br />

wanting to seem unappreciative.<br />

“Sure thing. So what are you doing<br />

here tonight?” Konstantin was<br />

enthralled with this woman. She<br />

seemed independent and strong<br />

but fragile at the same time. He was<br />

curious as to what was going on<br />

behind those eyes. He could usually<br />

read people well, but couldn’t seem<br />

to get a hold of what this girl was<br />

about. He looked over her face.<br />

Light, soft and the pinkest lips he’d<br />

ever seen. Her eyes were a contrast<br />

to her skin. Dark, thick lashes<br />

framed her mysterious brown eyes.<br />

She literally took his breath away.<br />

“Oh….well, I missed half my class<br />

yesterday and can’t afford to fall<br />

behind. Not that I can’t afford it<br />

in the sense that I’m doing poorly,<br />

I just…. Well, I don’t want to slack<br />

off. Not that I’m a slacker….” she<br />

was flailing. Any ounce of control<br />

she had over the conversation had<br />

gone out the window along with<br />

her dignity. “Sorry, I’m obviously<br />

tired,” she smiled timidly, trying to<br />

regain composure.<br />

She didn’t even know why she was<br />

flustered; it’s not like she liked him.<br />

At all. She didn’t even know him<br />

and what she did know so far, she<br />

wasn’t exactly impressed. He was<br />

the exact kind of guy she typically<br />

stayed away from.<br />

“I’m Konstantin Price.” He extended<br />

his hand to shake hers.<br />

“Naomi Brite,” she replied. When<br />

he took Naomi’s hand, she instantly<br />

felt safe, at home. She looked up at<br />

him and quickly pulled her hand<br />

away.<br />

Her hand was soft and warm in his.<br />

He found himself wondering if the<br />

rest of her would feel the same. He<br />

flashed her his most charming smile<br />

and was relieved when she smiled<br />

back before quickly withdrawing<br />

her hand.<br />

“I’m nearly finished here for the<br />

night, would you want to get a<br />

coffee?” he asked. Not ready to<br />

leave her alone. He saw a pink flush<br />

wash over her cheeks and enjoyed<br />

having that effect on her.<br />

“I still have quite a bit of reading<br />

to catch up on, but thank you,” she<br />

replied only being half honest.<br />

She had about two chapters more<br />

to read and realistically could catch<br />

up on them in the morning. She<br />

wasn’t thrilled with the thoughts<br />

and feelings she had when they’d<br />

shaken hands. She’d heard of his<br />

reputation and knew that if she<br />

wanted to keep her self-respect, he<br />

would be the last guy she should<br />

get involved with.<br />

“Oh. Sure. Right. No worries,”<br />

Konstantin felt rejected. Not<br />

something he was used to feeling.<br />

“Well, have a good night.”<br />

He retreated and began packing his<br />

bag to leave. He was more pissed<br />

at how disappointed he felt that<br />

she didn’t want to be around him.<br />

Feeling embarrassed, he decided<br />

she was a lost cause and decided to<br />

head back to the dorm.<br />

“Thank you, you too,” Naomi<br />

hesitated feeling like she had<br />

done something wrong. He almost<br />

seemed angry with her.<br />

She watched as he cleared his area<br />

and left without even another<br />

glance at her. Was he really so<br />

arrogant that he threw fits when<br />

he didn’t get his way? Naomi,<br />

annoyed, texted Cyndi: “You won’t<br />

believe what just happened!”<br />

Knowing she probably wouldn’t<br />

hear back for a while, she decided<br />

to call it a night.<br />

While walking back to the dorm,<br />

she replayed what happened over<br />

and over. She felt guilty for writing<br />

him off so quickly. Maybe she had<br />

him all wrong. It wasn’t like she<br />

could fix it now, there was no way of<br />

finding him or getting his number.<br />

Besides, she wasn’t about to be<br />

the one to cave or apologize. She<br />

hadn’t even done anything wrong!<br />

While showering, Konstantin<br />

couldn’t help but replay Naomi’s<br />

image in his head. Her eyes, her<br />

soft skin, her pink pouty lips and<br />

warm touch. Even though she<br />

seemed to try and hide her figure,<br />

he could tell she had curves he’d<br />

like to explore. He splayed his<br />

hands on the shower wall and let<br />

the cool water wash over him. He<br />

didn’t have time for this. Not now.<br />

As much as he hated to admit this,<br />

he knew deep down he wouldn’t be<br />

able to shake this girl. What got to<br />

him the most was how she made<br />

him feel. Like who he was wasn’t<br />

good enough. Like he wanted to be<br />

better, do better. No one had ever<br />

made him feel that way. Especially<br />

not someone he’d just met.<br />

The rest of the weekend seemed<br />

to drag by. Colin talked Konstantin<br />

into going out Sunday night,<br />

telling him it would help him get<br />

over Naomi’s unexpected arrival.<br />

“Dude, this isn’t like you. Maybe<br />

you just need a night out, a hot girl<br />

and a good night’s sleep.” It was<br />

always entertaining listening to<br />

Colin’s thought process even when<br />

it was completely ridiculous.<br />

“Yeah, you’re probably right. I think<br />

I’ve had too much on my plate<br />

lately. I definitely need to unwind.”<br />

Konstantin knew he needed to do<br />

something to get himself back on<br />

track. “Just a couple months and<br />

you’ll be back in California. Keep it<br />

together,” he coached himself.<br />

The guys grabbed a cab and<br />

headed into town. As they<br />

approached the entrance of the<br />

dance club, Konstantin allowed<br />

his eyes to roam. He was in a<br />

“I’d like to take this time to say thank you to all of the <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> followers<br />

who are reading my story. Your support is important and greatly<br />

appreciated. My inspiration comes directly from the readers. I am<br />

happy to share this journey of writing my first short story together.<br />

I hope you continue to enjoy the story that unfolds between Naomi<br />

and Konstantin.<br />

There will be plenty of ups, downs and surprises coming up. It’s always<br />

interesting when you think you really know someone only to find out<br />

that maybe you never really did. The love story between Naomi and<br />

Konstantin is an unlikely one from beginning to end. Think you have<br />

them figured out? There’s onlyone way to find out, keep reading.”<br />

- Jessica M.<br />

different mode now. His ability to<br />

compartmentalize work and play<br />

was admirable even to him. Naomi<br />

had filled his mind for long enough.<br />

He was ready to put all of his efforts<br />

into erasing her from his memory<br />

and reward himself for all the hard<br />

work he’d put in to getting into law<br />

school.<br />

Walking into the club, Konstantin’s<br />

eyes were pulled straight into the<br />

direction of a girl standing at the<br />

bar with a fitted halter dress that<br />

accentuated all the right areas. A<br />

cascade of golden blonde hair fell<br />

to her waist and her skin looked<br />

soft even from this distance. He<br />

hadn’t even seen the front of her<br />

yet and knew she was going to be<br />

his this evening.<br />

As he got closer, the girl turned and<br />

he stopped short. She was sipping<br />

her drink from a straw and even<br />

though she didn’t have her glasses<br />

on, he’d remember those eyes and<br />

lips from anywhere. His heart nearly<br />

skipped a beat as a choked whisper<br />

escaped his mouth, “Naomi.” What<br />

the hell was he going to do now?<br />

... to be continued...<br />

Story by: Jessica M.<br />

10 BR<strong>IT</strong>E: A ROMANCE STORY | PART II<br />

BR<strong>IT</strong>E: A ROMANCE STORY | PART II<br />

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Pansexual<br />

What It Really Means<br />

As we all heard fall of last year,<br />

Miley Cyrus officially came<br />

out as “pansexual.” With her crazy<br />

style and antics, nothing surprises<br />

us anymore. She changes her<br />

appearance like we change our<br />

underwear. But what exactly is a<br />

pansexual? According to Huffington<br />

Post, Miley is open to literally anything<br />

that is consenting (male, female,<br />

transgender, intersex) that does<br />

not involve an animal and that is of<br />

legal age. Basically, she is open to<br />

any form of love, and is not biased<br />

of the person willing to give it to her.<br />

Does this make her less judgmental<br />

of the human race or is she just one<br />

without standards?<br />

Miley isn’t alone with her sexuality,<br />

as there are many other celebrities<br />

who identify themselves as<br />

pansexuals, too, including TV star<br />

Jazz Jennings and rapper/singer<br />

Angel Haze. Angel believes “love<br />

is boundary-less” and that you can<br />

find a connection with many types of<br />

things and people. Every person is<br />

capable of love and there are many<br />

different kinds in the world. So, this<br />

Valentine’s Day, consider this… are<br />

we all a little pansexual?<br />

Article by: Kathy Ickes<br />

Sources:<br />

http://www.glaad.org/blog/what-pansexuality-4-pancelebs-explain-their-own-words<br />

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/miley-cyruscomes-out-pansexual_55e05c7be4b0aec9f352d9f4<br />

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How do you feel about your<br />

body when you look at yourself<br />

in a mirror? Do you like what you<br />

see? Is it how you want to see<br />

yourself in the mirror every day?<br />

If they are not what you looking<br />

for continue reading this article.<br />

To build a better you, says a lot<br />

just in just a few words. So much<br />

that it seems like it’s impossible<br />

to achieve. Thousands of men<br />

and women struggle everyday<br />

with issue like their body or their<br />

hair falling out etc. Its life and<br />

we have to take it by the horns<br />

and push our way through it.<br />

Getting older/health problems<br />

isn’t any fun it more or less sucks.<br />

Your body changes your hair<br />

thins out and your feet somehow<br />

get bigger. So many downs when<br />

getting older that we forget to<br />

find the positive sides to it. Even<br />

though the body changes it is<br />

something you can keep up on.<br />

You health and improving your<br />

life can be worked on. Want to<br />

know how well?<br />

Keep reading.<br />

Focus on what you like about yourself<br />

Identifying your favorite features may help<br />

you to develop a more positive outlook. Take<br />

a few moments each day to look at yourself in<br />

the mirror and identify your favorite features of<br />

your body as well as overall person.<br />

Eat differently<br />

Yes it has been said over and<br />

over a million times but its true<br />

changing what you eat will help<br />

in building a better you. Eat<br />

less salt and fat its bad for the<br />

body instead change it up and<br />

eat more fruit and vegetables.<br />

Try to eat five portions of fruit<br />

and vegetables a day. Explore<br />

new recipes with these types of<br />

foods. You may find everything<br />

you make is quite tasty.<br />

Exercise regularly<br />

The benefits of exercise aren’t<br />

limited to losing weight. Even if<br />

you’re slim, you’ll still get health<br />

benefits from exercising. By<br />

working out only 30 minutes a<br />

day (yes everyday) helps the<br />

heart body and mind. Makes<br />

you feel better and over time<br />

you will feel more motivated to<br />

do more activities. Like biking or<br />

hiking, walking, running, playing<br />

more sports etc. So many things<br />

change while doing this and it<br />

does help build a better you.<br />

Drink More Water<br />

With all that activity another thing<br />

you could try is to “Drink more<br />

water”. Yes we all know that beer<br />

and sugary drinks are wonderful<br />

but they aren’t that good for<br />

the body. Not saying that you<br />

shouldn’t have a beer or two or a<br />

soda with lunch I’m saying make<br />

water the most important fluid<br />

you put into your body.<br />

All of these things work and<br />

everyone should try them. The<br />

struggle is real and most of us hide<br />

from it. We don’t want to accept<br />

the fact that we are growing<br />

up and want to stay up all night<br />

and sleep all day. We have to<br />

take better care of ourselves and<br />

make changes. It’s a process and<br />

can’t be done overnight. Baby<br />

steps one day at a time.<br />

Improve your sleep<br />

Nearly everyone has problems<br />

sleeping at some point in their life.<br />

Most healthy adults sleep for an<br />

average of seven to nine hours a<br />

night. If you’re not getting enough<br />

sleep, it can affect relationships,<br />

your performance at work, and<br />

affect with helping you get better<br />

when you’re sick.<br />

The bedroom needs to be dark,<br />

quiet, tidy, and smell fresh. Also<br />

good-quality mattress and bed<br />

frame will give you an extra hour<br />

sleep... Your bedroom should be<br />

for sleeping only and well sexual<br />

activities. In order to build a better<br />

body you must get sleep. Most<br />

of us can’t sleep and we stay<br />

up all night wondering why we<br />

can’t fall asleep. Then we turn<br />

to our electric devices due to<br />

having something to do instead<br />

of focusing on sleeping. Instead<br />

grab a glass of water and return<br />

back to bed.<br />

Quit smoking<br />

The health benefits of quitting<br />

smoking are immediate. I have<br />

read while researching bad<br />

habits that after 20 minutes, your<br />

blood pressure and pulse return<br />

to normal. After 24 hours, your<br />

lungs start to clear. After three<br />

days you can breathe more<br />

easily, and your energy increases.<br />

Keep it up and you’re adding<br />

years to your life. Doesn’t that<br />

sound amazingly awesome and<br />

well worth quitting smoking? With<br />

myself never smoked I hear that<br />

it’s a very bad habit to break. Yet<br />

to building a better you I feel this<br />

is a must do necessity.<br />

Recap<br />

So after taking the time to read<br />

this you should have learned in<br />

order to building a better you<br />

that you must look at yourself<br />

and find the positive in yourself<br />

everyday instead of focusing<br />

on the negative. Eat better<br />

and drink more water. Exercise<br />

everyday or do an activity<br />

that counts as exercising for 30<br />

minutes. Getting a good night’s<br />

rest and eliminating electric<br />

devices when you wake up<br />

(trust me Facebook can wait<br />

till morning) Lastly smoking,<br />

you have to quit smoking. It<br />

is bad for your health and all<br />

the reasons in the world there<br />

is nothing positive health wise<br />

where its said that smoking is<br />

good for you. Ditch that horrible<br />

smelly habit and push forward<br />

to building a better you.<br />

I hope this article reaches out to<br />

everyone that reads it cause we<br />

are all meant to do great things<br />

and starting with living longer<br />

and being health is a great<br />

starting point to becoming<br />

something great.<br />

Article By: Tiffanie Mora<br />

14 BUILDING A BETTER YOU BUILDING A BETTER YOU<br />

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16<br />

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Giving Up Wasted Wednesday<br />

It’ s<br />

the night<br />

of your 21st birthday<br />

and its finally here, your first<br />

drink (legally that is). Everyone<br />

looks forward to birthdays but for<br />

some reason this one is at the top of<br />

the list. Who doesn’t want to drop<br />

loads of money into calorie filled<br />

drinks to forget what happened by<br />

the time the sun comes up. I’m<br />

not here to judge by any means, I<br />

understand how relaxing it feels<br />

to go out for a night on the town<br />

and to just let go. Those college<br />

years of going out every day that<br />

ends in a ‘y’ can be the best time of<br />

your life, or so you think. Have you<br />

ever stopped to look at that fine<br />

line that separates social drinking<br />

with friends from loosing complete<br />

control? Saying ‘been there, done<br />

that’ is an understatement. I spent<br />

1 year of my life charging up my<br />

credit card and binge drinking with<br />

friends to create memories, just to<br />

later realize that the only memory<br />

I wanted to keep was the person<br />

before I turned ‘legal.’ When you<br />

are young the ‘bar scene’ looks<br />

so enticing, everyone laughing,<br />

drinking, dancing…it’s like an<br />

infomercial for the best days of<br />

your life. No one tells you the<br />

feeling you get the day after, the<br />

amount of time you spend at the<br />

gym working those calories off, the<br />

money that vanishes after three<br />

drinks (where you probably should<br />

have cut yourself off). Those little<br />

things end up adding up to be the<br />

big things, and sooner or later you<br />

realize it’s not all it has cracked up<br />

to be.<br />

I’m sure you all have got that<br />

priceless one liner from your<br />

parents ‘you’re going out again,<br />

didn’t you just go out last night.’ At<br />

the time you probably rolled your<br />

eyes, grabbed<br />

your keys and were<br />

on your way. Looking back,<br />

I wish I had thought twice about<br />

it. Did you ever stop to think that<br />

maybe the reason people go out<br />

to get so drunk to the point where<br />

they spill their deepest secrets and<br />

piled up emotions, is because they<br />

are so unhappy with themselves<br />

anything to numb that pain is<br />

worth the money? I’m not saying<br />

that every college kid who goes out<br />

on the biggest drinking night of<br />

the week is an alcoholic, nor am I<br />

saying I was, but to think that the<br />

only thing you look forward to is<br />

getting so wasted that the next<br />

morning your piecing together the<br />

night before is alarming to say the<br />

least. All it took was one morning<br />

of looking into the mirror to realize<br />

SOMETHING HAD TO CHANGE.<br />

I started working on myself and<br />

getting back to the person I once<br />

was. I changed the way I looked<br />

at things and began trying new<br />

experiences. I traveled, met new<br />

people, worked out more, and most<br />

of all opened my eyes. During<br />

that year of drinking and partying<br />

I lost sight of the most important<br />

thing and that was myself. I started<br />

spending more time with family,<br />

something that as a child I was<br />

all too familiar with but as I grew<br />

older seemed to drift away from. At<br />

first I noticed all the things I had<br />

been missing during that year, but<br />

then became thankful that I now<br />

got to enjoy them again. I know<br />

what you are thinking, ‘what a<br />

homebody.’ But that’s not it at all,<br />

I reconnected with my old friends<br />

and learned that those who are<br />

closest to you will just be happy<br />

being around good company. We<br />

started doing game nights, where<br />

we occasionally would drink a glass<br />

of wine, but it was different now.<br />

It wasn’t drinking to get wasted; it<br />

was just having a glass with friends<br />

and limiting yourself. I’m not<br />

trying to preach to you that<br />

drinking is bad. I still go out<br />

with friends and I still like<br />

to have a good time. I’m in<br />

my twenty’s, it’s not a crime<br />

to want that. But somewhere<br />

along the way I learned<br />

what it means to have too<br />

much and that it’s all right<br />

to say ‘no’ every once in<br />

awhile. Those memories<br />

that I yearned to make<br />

during those college years<br />

of drinking, I made sitting in<br />

a friends basement playing<br />

board games till 2am. It’s not<br />

always about where you are<br />

spending your time, sometimes<br />

it’s whom you are with. The best<br />

part about that year of finding<br />

myself is that I can remember<br />

every single moment, mistake<br />

and memory and I knew that it<br />

was I making them. Not some<br />

blurred image of myself who I<br />

wasn’t even familiar with. Some<br />

say that it’s just a process of<br />

growing up, but as for myself I<br />

think it giving yourself what you<br />

deserve.<br />

Article by: Charlotte K<br />

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GIVING UP WASTED WEDNESDAY<br />

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Faithful<br />

Beauty<br />

TIPS FROM FA<strong>IT</strong>H GREATHOUSE<br />

What is the difference between<br />

crystal and diamond micro?<br />

Dermab? Rasion?<br />

The crystal microdermabrasion<br />

technology involves the use of<br />

a special, hand-held device that<br />

propels a high-speed flow of<br />

aluminum oxide crystals onto<br />

the skin. At the same time, the<br />

machine’s vacuum system sucks<br />

away dirt, dead cells, uses crystals<br />

and feels like sandblasting. The<br />

diamond dermabrasion system, on<br />

the other hand, replaces the microcrystal<br />

flow with a disposable or<br />

reusable diamond tip wand, and<br />

feels more like sand papering.<br />

Other than that, crystal-free<br />

microdermabrasion works<br />

in the same way traditional<br />

microabrasion does.<br />

Diamond microderm machines<br />

usually come with tipped<br />

wands of varied size and<br />

coarseness for different<br />

skin types and depths of<br />

resurfacing. The wand tip<br />

is made of natural diamond<br />

chips which polish the skin<br />

and remove dead cells, which<br />

are then vacuumed back into a<br />

waste filter.<br />

Microdermabrasion Crystals<br />

Aluminum oxide crystals have<br />

been the most commonly used<br />

abrasive agent for the last 20<br />

years (no wonder they were so<br />

popular in microdermabrasion).<br />

Aluminum oxide is the second hardest<br />

mineral (diamonds are first).<br />

Sodium bicarbonate crystals are an<br />

organic alternative to aluminum oxide<br />

crystals but they are a lot softer and<br />

less effective in microdermabrasion.<br />

They are used on patients with<br />

hyper-pigmentation and can be<br />

easily washed off after treatment<br />

(sodium bicarbonate is watersoluble).<br />

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FA<strong>IT</strong>HFUL BEAUTY<br />

In Asia, the favorite microderm<br />

abrasion is a hydro microderm,<br />

which infuses hyaluronic acid<br />

or acne serums with water while<br />

getting the same results. Those in<br />

dry climates can surely benefit from<br />

this as well!<br />

Esthetics by Faith<br />

www.estheticsbyfaith.com<br />

NAT<strong>UR</strong>ALLY <strong>IT</strong><br />

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Full Page Modeling -<br />

Nicole<br />

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Get to Know <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> Model<br />

Taylor<br />

This month’s cover model,<br />

Taylor, is from Greenville,<br />

Ohio and has been sharing<br />

her fierceness with <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> since….. Not<br />

only has she done photo<br />

shoots for the magazine,<br />

but she was part of the Fall<br />

2015 <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> Fashion Show<br />

in central Pennsylvania,<br />

too!<br />

She is taking her time,<br />

but can’t wait to see what<br />

is to come in her modeling<br />

future. She shared with us<br />

some tidbits about herself,<br />

her experience with <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong>,<br />

and other opportunities she<br />

is taking in modeling.<br />

<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> – Tell us a little bit about<br />

yourself — your family, education,<br />

work, hobbies...anything!<br />

Taylor - I am a home health care<br />

provider for mentally disabled. I<br />

model as work and as a hobby. I<br />

am in school at Edison Community<br />

College for Nursing. I love getting<br />

opportunities to style hair and<br />

makeup for other models. I listen<br />

to music. I have a boyfriend I<br />

absolutely love and have been with<br />

for six years. I have many friends<br />

I get to enjoy outings and dinner<br />

parties with.<br />

<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> - What made you start<br />

with <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong>, and what do you like<br />

about it?<br />

Taylor - I began working with <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> when I entered a contest<br />

for the July 2015 back cover. I did<br />

not win but got a photo shoot and<br />

walked in the fashion show in the<br />

fall. I liked the show very much and<br />

got to show off six outfits! I like<br />

that <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> has been open-minded,<br />

flexible and passionate about what<br />

they do.<br />

<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> - What are your overall<br />

goals with modeling?<br />

Taylor - The ultimate goal would be<br />

to find paid work because I feel I’m<br />

worth it as a model. I don’t know if<br />

I’ll decide to join an agency because<br />

I like the freedom of working with<br />

whomever I want and getting to<br />

bring my ideas to life!<br />

<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> - Besides modeling for<br />

<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, what are<br />

some other opportunities<br />

you’re taking?<br />

Taylor - I’m working with a<br />

wonderful group called Mora<br />

Modeling in Greenville, Ohio.<br />

My photographer, Tiffanie<br />

Mora, has been by my side as<br />

I’ve accomplished so much<br />

this past year. Outside of<br />

that, I am always doing personal<br />

research and contacting designers<br />

and photographers to further grow<br />

my experience and portfolio.<br />

<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> - How would you say <strong>UR</strong><br />

<strong>IT</strong> has affected your path in life<br />

and view of yourself?<br />

Taylor - Absolutely changed the<br />

view of myself. Once you get to see<br />

your face in a magazine, it gives<br />

you a confidence boost that you can<br />

always do more.<br />

<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> – Do you have one overall<br />

word of advice for women?<br />

Taylor - My overall advice for<br />

women out there is to harness your<br />

ambition and go do something you<br />

keep holding yourself back from.<br />

Nothing great ever happens when<br />

you hold back!<br />

Article by: Adeena Harbst<br />

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GET TO KNOW <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> MODEL TAYLOR<br />

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The<br />

Unwanted<br />

Good:<br />

Ideally, when a woman is asked<br />

to list top qualities that she<br />

looks for in a man, intelligence,<br />

kindness, loyalty, and sensitivity<br />

will surface. On the contrary<br />

though, these women will still<br />

date and possibly marry men<br />

possessing only 1% of their<br />

desired traits.<br />

Why Women<br />

Are Not Interested<br />

in Nice Guys<br />

“ One is therefore left<br />

wondering, why are<br />

these good men bad? ”<br />

We explore a few of<br />

the reasons...<br />

They Are Peacocks<br />

The biggest problem about nice<br />

guys is their annoying habit of<br />

struggling to announce to every<br />

girl that they are the best catch.<br />

Women who have high self-esteem<br />

and are looking to settle down<br />

have left nice men, citing<br />

bragging as their turn-off.<br />

Confusingly though, when a<br />

bad boy does this, it is seen<br />

as attractive arrogance but<br />

utterly unacceptable coming<br />

from a nice guy. It seems part<br />

of being nice is not blowing<br />

one’s trumpet.<br />

Women Need A<br />

Mystery To Solve<br />

Nice guys basically bare it<br />

all for the woman, leaving<br />

nothing mysterious for her<br />

to dig. Simply listening<br />

and showing interest in<br />

what a woman says, is an<br />

admirable quality. But<br />

truth is, it only earns the<br />

good guys a few brownie<br />

points. This is a system that<br />

a woman uses to calculate<br />

how attractive a man is. The<br />

more you earn, the more<br />

she is driven towards falling<br />

for you. Unfortunately<br />

for these men, the juicy<br />

part of this ‘interview’<br />

is nonexistent because they<br />

tend to do everything that the<br />

woman wants. No drama, no love.<br />

They Completely Forget The<br />

Sexual Side<br />

By virtue of being male and<br />

female, the role of sex in such<br />

relationships can never be<br />

overemphasized. As a matter of<br />

fact, for a relationship to happen<br />

and be successful, there has to be<br />

emotional and sexual attraction.<br />

Nice guys are of the school of<br />

thought that believes sex is<br />

dehumanizing to humans, and tend<br />

to be very shallow and shy on these<br />

matters. To them, sex is a matter of<br />

procreation and sexual chemistry<br />

or vulgarity does not exist in their<br />

world. This aspect sends even the<br />

most innocent women running<br />

into the open sexual arms of the<br />

bad boy.<br />

They Seem Hypocritical<br />

No matter how deeply in love you<br />

are, bad days are inevitable. Nice<br />

guys will pretend to have a blast<br />

even when the days are grim.<br />

They do not show or share their<br />

emotions leaving the woman<br />

confused and bored. Have you<br />

heard of women whom after a<br />

problem with their partners, wish<br />

that they saw a more aggressive<br />

reaction? Sounds odd, but that’s<br />

just women.<br />

Doormats Are Not Sexy<br />

As much as feminist campaigns<br />

fight for people to cease calling<br />

women the weaker sex, men<br />

will still be viewed as the heads<br />

of their homes. No woman<br />

would really want a man who<br />

agrees with everything she says.<br />

The first and most important<br />

reason she is in a relationship<br />

is to have someone to discuss<br />

pertinent matters with. Not<br />

a clueless doormat! Women<br />

seek their men’s opinions<br />

for insight, not necessarily a<br />

guaranteed ‘okay’. Otherwise,<br />

women would just be single.<br />

As seen nice guys are facing<br />

fierce competition from bad<br />

guys. Encouragingly though,<br />

as much as these men finish<br />

last, they finish best. This type<br />

of men is trainable and can be<br />

molded into what the woman<br />

needs from a real man, as<br />

opposed to the all-knowing,<br />

self-sufficient macho man.<br />

Article by: Vivian Achieng<br />

26 THE UNWANTED GOOD<br />

GOOD GUY<br />

THE UNWANTED GOOD<br />

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In her song ‘Mr.<br />

Wrong’, Mary J.<br />

Blige highlights a<br />

woman’s dilemma.<br />

At the beginning<br />

of the song, Mary<br />

says that bad boys<br />

are not good, and<br />

good boys are no<br />

fun. She adds that<br />

God knows that she<br />

should run off with<br />

the right one, and even<br />

her family does not<br />

understand why she is<br />

so glued to that man.<br />

The award-winning<br />

singer goes ahead to say<br />

that she and Mr. Wrong<br />

get along so good, even<br />

though he breaks her<br />

heart so bad.<br />

The<br />

Bad Boy<br />

Attraction:<br />

Why Women<br />

Are Still<br />

Deeply Enticed<br />

“ The big question<br />

therefore is, why<br />

can’t women just stop<br />

loving the bad guys? ”<br />

We explore a few of<br />

the reasons...<br />

Mending A Troubled Father-<br />

Daughter Relationship<br />

Fathers have been thought to only<br />

affect the lives of their sons because<br />

they directly mentor them into<br />

adulthood and career development.<br />

A study revealed that surprisingly,<br />

fathers also play an intriguing and<br />

extremely significant role<br />

in their daughters’ lives.<br />

The survey further revealed<br />

that girls who had a close<br />

emotional connection with<br />

their fathers made wiser<br />

decisions on marriage and<br />

dating than those who did<br />

not, consequently having<br />

longer-lasting and fulfilling<br />

marriages than their<br />

counterparts.<br />

Women who had distant<br />

emotional relationships<br />

with their fathers get into<br />

relationships with bad<br />

boys as a way to remedy<br />

their inexistent fatherdaughter<br />

relationship in<br />

their childhood days. To<br />

them, the extra testosterone<br />

and macho characteristic<br />

of bad boys is a significant<br />

representation of masculinity.<br />

The Urge To Change A<br />

Wayward Man<br />

Women are known to be<br />

more patient and understanding<br />

than men. For this reason, a<br />

woman would knowingly get into<br />

a romantic relationship with a<br />

man, with a strong hope that she<br />

will change him. Additionally,<br />

a woman’s ego is significantly<br />

boosted when she thinks and<br />

knows that she had a strong<br />

emotional grip on a man, which<br />

could potentially change him.<br />

The Need For Adventure<br />

Women who have been good girls<br />

and innocent all their lives and have<br />

had extremely protective fathers<br />

tend to love bad boys. They are<br />

adventurous, exciting, daring and<br />

mischievous, just the right recipe to<br />

attract a smart and great woman. All<br />

these women want is someone that<br />

would scoff at the rules she spent<br />

all her life adhering to.<br />

Bad Boys Exude The<br />

Masculinity Needed To<br />

Trigger Reproduction<br />

Gregory Louis Carter of the<br />

University of Durham led a study<br />

designed to understand this<br />

confusing phenomenon by women.<br />

After surveying 128 undergraduate<br />

females, Carter and his team found<br />

out that women loved men with<br />

the Dark Triad personality traits<br />

of machiavellism, narcissism and<br />

psychopathy. It was revealed that<br />

women are drawn to bad boys<br />

due to their extreme masculinity,<br />

which triggers short-term mating.<br />

Their manipulation, flattery,<br />

exploitation and prestige<br />

seemed to greatly support<br />

their sexual success.<br />

Females Respond To<br />

Emotions, Not Logic<br />

Biologically, women are wired<br />

to respond to less logic and<br />

more emotions at a particular<br />

moment. Therefore, women are<br />

naturally drawn to situations<br />

that stimulate their emotions.<br />

Bad boys become a favorite<br />

among women due to their<br />

ability to create drama. A sweet<br />

gentleman on the other hand<br />

offers what the woman already<br />

has in excess-emotions, paving<br />

way for the cock sure cassanova.<br />

Loving a bad boy is not really<br />

bad depending on the kind<br />

of bad boy you have. Women<br />

should however be careful<br />

because there is a very thin<br />

line between a datable bad<br />

boy and a bad boy to avoid at<br />

all costs. For example, jailbirds<br />

and trivial traffic offenders have<br />

different levels of bad boy traits.<br />

Article by: Vivian Achieng<br />

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Jami<br />

Kinton<br />

Jami Kinton is a professional model,<br />

actress and host residing in Cleveland,<br />

Ohio. A former news reporter, Jami<br />

is about to begin her sixth season<br />

hosting for the Cleveland Indians. She<br />

also hosts for Fusion LIVE and works<br />

in promotions at CBS Radio. Jami<br />

owns her own social media company,<br />

KINTON MEDIA GROUP, and has<br />

worked in TV and film production for<br />

the last 14 years.<br />

Living<br />

her<br />

Dreams<br />

U can too!<br />

I embarked on<br />

the seven-and-ahalf-hour<br />

trip to “When<br />

Washington D.C. last month, I<br />

was set to work on the production<br />

side of the National Christmas<br />

Tree Lighting for PBS. It would be<br />

my second year in a row and I<br />

was excited – but nothing could<br />

have prepared me for one of the<br />

greatest, most thrilling moments<br />

of my life.”<br />

Let’s go back…<br />

To give you a little background,<br />

I’ve worked on both sides of the<br />

camera for the last 14 years. I<br />

started modeling and acting right<br />

out of high school, everything from<br />

commercials for Wendy’s and Target<br />

to print work for banks, clothing<br />

lines and hospitals. I was even on<br />

the box of a Fisher Price toy piano.<br />

But production work also intrigued<br />

me. I started in college as a<br />

production assistant for a TV show<br />

called “Cell Dogs” on Animal Planet<br />

and since then have worked on<br />

numerous commercials, films and<br />

reality shows including “America’s<br />

Got Talent,” “The Voice” and my<br />

favorite “The National Christmas<br />

Tree Lighting.”<br />

My goal has always been to work<br />

professionally in entertainment and<br />

I’ve been so lucky to do this on a<br />

variety of platforms.<br />

Other guest artists would include<br />

Aloe Blacc, Fall Out Boy, Tori Kelly,<br />

Crosby Stills and Nash and more.<br />

The night before the lighting was<br />

our big rehearsal. I was sitting in<br />

the TV truck when I heard that, for<br />

some reason, Reese would not be<br />

coming in until the next day.<br />

That was when opportunity struck.<br />

I told the director I had experience<br />

reading a teleprompter and would<br />

love to stand in for Reese. The<br />

suggestion was a long shot, but<br />

somehow…it worked!<br />

The next thing I know, I’m standing<br />

backstage with the celebs and<br />

everyone is introducing themselves.<br />

I looked around and said, “I’m Jami!”<br />

(As if anyone knew who “Jami” was.)<br />

I never even had a chance to look<br />

at a script before I was standing on<br />

the back stage stairs with the stage<br />

manager’s hand on my back: “OK,<br />

go ahead,” she said.<br />

I walked on stage to the little T<br />

marked toward the front, looked<br />

out into the bright lights and saw<br />

the gigantic teleprompter begin to<br />

scroll.<br />

“Good evening and welcome to<br />

President’s Park here in Washington,<br />

for the 93rd annual National<br />

Christmas Tree Lighting!”<br />

Last year, Tom Hanks hosted the<br />

lighting and it was incredible to meet<br />

and work with him. When I learned<br />

Reese Witherspoon would be hosting<br />

this year, I was thrilled again.<br />

The production set up is massive<br />

and about a three-week endeavor.<br />

Upon arrival, one of my first jobs<br />

was to assist in the set up of Miss<br />

Piggy’s dressing room. So fun!<br />

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Suddenly I was in my element. I<br />

began to smile, the hands started<br />

moving and I never wanted the<br />

evening to end. I recall wearing<br />

my winter hat and jacket, but was<br />

completely oblivious to the cold.<br />

I got to introduce all of the<br />

performers, including THE Miss<br />

Piggy! The little bit I got to do with<br />

her evoked my genuine laughter. I<br />

was having the greatest time.<br />

The show and my time on stage<br />

ended that night with all of the<br />

performers, along with Santa, on<br />

stage dancing and singing the final<br />

number. I stood right between Aloe<br />

Blacc and Miss Piggy and danced<br />

and sang right along with them.<br />

Surreal.<br />

The next day, I was headed into<br />

President’s Park in the late morning<br />

when I saw Reese pull up in a black<br />

SUV out front and walk in right in<br />

front of me, ready for the morning<br />

rehearsal.<br />

Oh, if only I could have done it<br />

again! But what an unforgettable<br />

experience! It’s incredible how fast<br />

a door can open and opportunity<br />

can strike, as long as you’re willing<br />

to pursue it.<br />

Always look for these moments.<br />

I would have never had that<br />

experience had I not have asked for<br />

it that night. No one would have<br />

offered it to me. Don’t be afraid to<br />

speak up as the worst someone can<br />

tell you is no.<br />

The chance that someone says “Yes”<br />

is worth the risk.<br />

It certainly was for me<br />

that night!<br />

Article by: Jami Kinton<br />

“It’s incredible<br />

how fast a door<br />

can open and<br />

opportunity<br />

can strike, as long<br />

as you’re willing to<br />

pursue it.”<br />

The<br />

Goddesses<br />

of the<br />

Woods ll<br />

<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> welcomes you back<br />

to the woods for a second<br />

look, but this time...<br />

things have gone<br />

Mad!<br />

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GODDESSES OF THE WOODS | PART II<br />

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We are all Mad Here...<br />

”<br />

“<br />

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GODDESSES OF THE WOODS | PART II<br />

“<br />

If I had a world of<br />

my own, everything<br />

would be<br />

Nonsense.”<br />

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a<br />

I ts only Dream<br />

“I knew<br />

who I was<br />

this morning,<br />

but I’ve<br />

changed a<br />

few times<br />

since then...”<br />

...<br />

Makeup<br />

Trends<br />

Tips for a fresh face:<br />

for <strong>2016</strong><br />

When showering, use a facial scrub to exfoliate<br />

your skin once or twice a week (If you exfoliate<br />

every day, it can be too harsh and your skin could dry<br />

out). Exfoliating will help get the dirt and pull any<br />

unwanted oils from pores. For every day cleansing, use<br />

a more gentle face wash. There are face washes with<br />

bursting beads that help your skin feel fresh and soft.<br />

When wearing makeup, it is important to wash your<br />

face before bed. Use makeup remover wipes or liquid<br />

with a warm cloth to take off the makeup, then use an<br />

evening face wash or just the daily face wash to wash<br />

your face. This will allow your skin to breathe at night<br />

and leave your face feeling fresh in the morning.<br />

<strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> artists want you to know what is hot in<br />

makeup! We looked at the New York Fashion<br />

Week to find the <strong>2016</strong> makeup trends just<br />

for you. Fresh, naked faces and bold lips are<br />

the newest makeup trends.<br />

Many of the models for the New York Fashion<br />

Week had very little makeup with an accent<br />

on their lips. <strong>UR</strong> <strong>IT</strong> found it is all about the<br />

lips this year. Bright red, dark purples, soft<br />

orange, and colors that accentuate your skin<br />

color are the way to go. These models had a<br />

natural shine on their faces as they walked<br />

the runway. The all-natural look has been in<br />

for awhile, but the faces of these models are<br />

almost naked. Embrace your natural face, be<br />

yourself completely; if you are happy, let the<br />

world know it!<br />

If you do not wear makeup every day, washing once in<br />

the morning is sufficient because washing too much<br />

could dry out your skin. You can use a warm washcloth<br />

to wipe off your face before bed to help open your<br />

pores and wipe off any oils from the day.<br />

Use moisturizer after washing your face, especially<br />

before using makeup. Moisturizer will help your skin<br />

from becoming dry with or without makeup. Makeup<br />

will go on smother if you use moisturizer first. There<br />

are moisturizers for any type of skin, so be sure to get<br />

the proper kind. Using the wrong kind of moisturizer<br />

can cause your face to become too greasy or too dry. If<br />

you’re not sure what type of moisturizer would be best<br />

for your skin, ask the professionals at the salon or take<br />

surveys online that can help you discover what type of<br />

skin you have.<br />

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Tips for lips:<br />

When choosing a lip color, it is<br />

best to match it against your skin<br />

tone; test the color on the back of your<br />

hand to match. Some colors will wash<br />

you out. Knowing how the color wheel<br />

works will help because it shows the<br />

contrasting and complimentary colors.<br />

<strong>UR</strong> World,<br />

R Thoughts<br />

Wearing light pink or peach, nude,<br />

or browns is best for fair skin. When<br />

choosing a bold color, be sure to choose<br />

a darker shade of red with more of a<br />

pink tint because any orange, red will<br />

wash you out. Fair skin has more of a<br />

pink undertone, so staying with the<br />

pink colors will look beautiful.<br />

Medium skin will need medium pink,<br />

red, and more orange colors. This skin<br />

tone will work with the orange tints<br />

because the undertone is more yellow.<br />

Yellow and orange go great together, so<br />

using a bold orange/red lip will bring<br />

out the beauty of your skin.<br />

Olive skin tone will want to go with<br />

dark lips: Rose, purple, red, apricot.<br />

Because there is a yellow undertone<br />

to your skin, you will be able to wear<br />

orange or purple colors. Since your skin<br />

is darker, you want to stay with a darker<br />

tint to accentuate your skin.<br />

Dark skin tone will look beautiful with<br />

dark chocolates, dark pink/purple, and<br />

golden browns. If you want to try an<br />

even more bold lip, go with an almost<br />

white/purple to really make your lips<br />

pop. Dark skin undertone can be yellow<br />

or pink, so once you discover your<br />

undertone, you will be able to match<br />

your lip tints.<br />

Article by: Tori Long<br />

Q<br />

With all the things happening in the<br />

world, why do people think that their<br />

views and beliefs are unequivocally<br />

correct, there in making the entire world<br />

wrong. What is it that leads we as people<br />

to think that we need to push our views on<br />

everyone else as well as the idea that radicals<br />

are a reflection of all involved?<br />

A<br />

Dear Politically Correct,<br />

That is a great question, one which<br />

I wish I had the answer to! I agree, people<br />

can be very polarized, think their way is the<br />

“right” way, try to push their ideals on others,<br />

and believe that extremists represent all all<br />

members of a cause. I’m sure others more<br />

well-versed in the psychology of politics than<br />

I have written books on the subject, and<br />

have plenty of insights to share. My two cents<br />

is that our degree of open-mindedness can<br />

often depend on how we’re raised, and we<br />

frequently hold the beliefs our families do,<br />

which are consistently reinforced throughout<br />

our lives. Of course, I can also think of plenty<br />

of people I know whose politics couldn’t be<br />

further away from their family’s, but I think<br />

even this divergence is influenced by families.<br />

For some, going against their family’s views<br />

can feel like a betrayal, so they hold on even<br />

it doesn’t make sense to them. For others, the<br />

dissonance between what they were raised<br />

to believe and how they feel are so far apart<br />

that they feel they must be true to their own<br />

convictions, and voice their opinions, despite<br />

potential negative pushback. Something to<br />

keep in mind, is that despite the problems in<br />

this country (and world), we are very lucky to<br />

live in a country where we are free to express<br />

ourselves and have differing opinions!<br />

Christy Beck,<br />

40 MAKEUP TRENDS FOR <strong>2016</strong><br />

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FOR THE MONTH OF FEBRUARY <strong>2016</strong><br />

Material Harvest: What you sow is what you reap. This<br />

card says it is time for all to harvest the rewards they<br />

have been working toward. This card also represents<br />

self mastery, self sufficiency, and independence. If you<br />

are not receiving the things you desire it is important to<br />

make sure you are putting the proper energy out into<br />

the universe. You create your own reality.<br />

AQUARIUS<br />

See Aquarius Below<br />

Virgo - Moving On - You’re about to take a much needed<br />

journey. Whether it’s metaphorical or an actual adventure. Prepare<br />

yourself to leave the past behind. It is important to set new<br />

goals, desires, and objectives to secure a more positive and<br />

successful future.<br />

Pisces - New Beginnings - Each journey has to start somewhere.<br />

This card shows as a confirmation that it is time for you to take<br />

a brave leap of faith it the new chapter of your life. Now is a<br />

time to be true to you and not conform to what others think.<br />

Libra - Trapped in Fear - This card reveals that it’s actually<br />

your own fear that is preventing you from making the decisions<br />

that would best serve you. To get past this fear you must believe<br />

that new things can and will manifest once you make a statement<br />

of empowerment.<br />

Aries - Obstacles and Challenges - You may be having a<br />

rough time. It is okay to have to work through challenges as<br />

what doesn’t kill us does indeed make us stronger. Though this<br />

may be a difficult time to get through open your mind and see<br />

the bigger picture.<br />

Scorpio - Spiritual Strength - This card comes as a reminder<br />

to stand strong and follow through with whatever it is you are<br />

working on. Know that spirit is here to guide you. You’ve been<br />

through too much to give in at this point. Shine through!<br />

Taurus - Rest and Rejuvenate - It’s time for you to rest up.<br />

Take a naps and enjoy your down time . It seems you may be<br />

coming out of an exhausting experience. This is an important time<br />

of your souls journey.<br />

Sagittarius - Passion Ignited - It is time to allow your soul to<br />

soar! The powerful force of spirit is flowing through you. Allow<br />

your creativity to guide you. You may be feeling a new sense<br />

of purpose.<br />

Gemini - Transformation - A time of great change and<br />

transformation is here. Don’t resist the abrupt changes that are<br />

suddenly happening in your life.<br />

Capricorn - Victory and Success - Good news is on the<br />

way. Many people around you are pleased with your actions. It<br />

is also a reminder to remember where you came from. While<br />

keeping your ego in check it is a good time to take pride in<br />

your accomplishments<br />

Cancer - Partnerships and Alliances - Things are happening!<br />

You are making plans and taking action. Someone is interested<br />

in partnering up at this time. This could be an important time to<br />

gather resources for future projects.<br />

Aquarius - Spiritual Union - Now is a time of union. A spiritual<br />

partner of sorts is making an appearance. It may happen in a way<br />

you don’t expect. Remember the all relationships are a reflection<br />

of you.<br />

Leo - Foundations and Achievements - You deserve this. It’s<br />

time for you to harvest the rewards of the seeds you’ve been<br />

growing so tentatively. Allow the universe to give a little back to<br />

you this time.<br />

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