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editor’s<br />

By Brenda Hill<br />

Protect the<br />

people…<br />

Serve the<br />

people…<br />

As I drove eastward in the left<br />

lane on McNeese St., from<br />

Kroger’s a few days ago, I saw<br />

in my rearview mirror a funeral<br />

procession coming towards<br />

me in the right lane. I stopped<br />

in honor <strong>of</strong> the deceased &<br />

bereaved. Two sheriff cars<br />

pulled up on my left to direct<br />

traffic and to proceed towards<br />

the right on Common St, but<br />

one <strong>of</strong>ficer makes two jestures<br />

with his hand for me to<br />

move over. My grandchildren<br />

were buckled in the back in<br />

their car seats and the three<br />

year old shouts, “<strong>The</strong>y are going<br />

to kill us Honey! <strong>The</strong>y are<br />

going to kill us!” I turned to<br />

look at him and became very<br />

disturbed when I saw his face<br />

filled with fear.<br />

My personality developed<br />

in the sixties during a serious<br />

time <strong>of</strong> unrest & racial<br />

tension. John F. Kennedy,<br />

Martin Luther King, Jr., &<br />

Bobby Kennedy were all<br />

assassinated and ‘Blacks’ were<br />

sprayed with water hoses<br />

while being attacked by dogs.<br />

As a young child <strong>of</strong> 4 years<br />

old and upward, I witnessed<br />

each <strong>of</strong> these events at home<br />

on our black & white television.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se visions <strong>of</strong> men in<br />

leadership with authority and<br />

different colored individuals<br />

being handled in a disrespectful<br />

way impacted me<br />

deeply as a young child.<br />

In the little town <strong>of</strong> Cameron,<br />

LA., my teacher, Miss<br />

Allen, had a large cardboard<br />

poster <strong>of</strong> an animated white<br />

Police Officer in blue uniform<br />

displayed on our wall in the<br />

classroom. On a daily basis we<br />

repeated after her, “<strong>The</strong> man<br />

in blue is a friend to you.” At<br />

home my mom demonstrated<br />

how ‘the man in blue is<br />

a friend to you’ when police<br />

<strong>of</strong>ficers came to purchase<br />

seafood from my dad’s business<br />

and we would go shop in<br />

their neighborhoods for our<br />

household goods.<br />

Seeing that fear on my grand<br />

man’s face prompted me to<br />

speak with his mom about<br />

taking a field trip down to the<br />

police station. In our home,<br />

we still teach that ‘the man<br />

in blue is a friend to you,’ and<br />

he is placed in authority by<br />

God to protect and serve our<br />

communities. (Romans Chp.<br />

13) So I went to visit Chief <strong>of</strong><br />

Police, Don Dixon <strong>of</strong> the Lake<br />

Charles Police Department.<br />

He was very welcoming and<br />

listened to my concerns. He<br />

immediately invited me to<br />

bring Caleb to visit the station<br />

the next day. I spoke to Caleb<br />

about his visit and he seemed<br />

happy to go. He asked me<br />

many questions. We arrived<br />

the next day, Caleb began<br />

to walk slowly and observed<br />

everything with wide eyes,<br />

caution and apprehension.<br />

We entered Chief Dixon’s<br />

<strong>of</strong>fice where he and Deputy<br />

Chief Shawn Caldwell were<br />

present. I reached to shake<br />

their hands so that Caleb<br />

would feel invited and safe.<br />

Chief Dixon shook Caleb’s<br />

hand and so did Chief Deputy<br />

Caldwell. Caleb was hesitant<br />

and cautious. Chief Dixon<br />

spoke very friendly to Caleb,<br />

just as a grandfather would<br />

speak to a grandson. He <strong>of</strong>fered<br />

Caleb treats, made him<br />

a Junior Deputy, and gave<br />

him a coin to remind him to<br />

obey rules and show respect<br />

for authority. He even gave<br />

him a business card just in<br />

case he needed to call and<br />

speak to him directly about<br />

his concerns. Caleb remained<br />

cautious and guarded. Other<br />

<strong>of</strong>ficers greeted Caleb at<br />

the station with hugs, high<br />

fives and the fist to fist bump.<br />

He even met Cajun L’Bear, a<br />

stuffed bear that hangs out<br />

in Chief Dixon’s <strong>of</strong>fice. <strong>The</strong><br />

men in blue were friends to<br />

Caleb. Caleb remained very<br />

close to my side throughout<br />

the entire visit and continued<br />

to respond with caution and<br />

apprehension. When we got<br />

back to the car, I asked Caleb<br />

what did he feel about his<br />

trip. He said, “I didn’t know<br />

how to talk to them and tell<br />

them my little sister hit me. I<br />

didn’t want her to go to jail.”<br />

Please have open dialoque<br />

with our little ones. <strong>The</strong>y see.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y feel. I am committed in<br />

my belief that what is put in<br />

the heart <strong>of</strong> a child is far more<br />

powerful than what society<br />

puts on the back <strong>of</strong> a child.<br />

August 2016 WWW.THEVOICEOFSOUTHWESTLA.COM Volume 4 • Number 1

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