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Chapter Eight<br />

Emotional Thoughts Sound Logical<br />

The problem with core emotional thoughts is that they sound<br />

logical. When someone in the E quadrant becomes fearful, their logical<br />

thought is: “Play it safe. Don’t take risks.” To someone in the I quadrant,<br />

however, that is not logical at all.<br />

For people in the S quadrant, when the issue of trusting others to<br />

do a good job comes up, their logical thought may go like this: “I’ll just<br />

do it myself.”<br />

That is why so many S-type businesses are often family businesses.<br />

There is a greater sense of trust. For them, blood is definitely thicker<br />

than water.<br />

Different quadrants, different logic, different thoughts, different<br />

actions, different haves, same emotions.<br />

What determines what we do is how we individually respond<br />

to emotions.<br />

I Don’t Feel Like It<br />

One way to know if you’re thinking emotionally instead of rationally<br />

is when you use the word “feel” in conversation. For example, many<br />

people who are run by their emotions say things like: “I don’t feel like<br />

exercising today.” Logically, they know they should exercise.<br />

Many people who struggle financially are not able to control how<br />

they feel, or they let their feelings dictate their thoughts. I hear them say:<br />

• “I don’t feel like learning about investing. It’s too much trouble.”<br />

• “Investing doesn’t feel right for me.”<br />

• “I don’t feel like telling my friends about my business.”<br />

• “I hate the feeling of being rejected.”<br />

Parent or Child<br />

Those are thoughts generated from emotions, not logic. In pop<br />

psychology, it’s the battle between the parent and child. The parent<br />

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