Testimonies for the Church, Volume 2 - Ellen G. White

now be really in earnest, providing himself "bags
which wax not old, a treasure in the heavens that
faileth not."
Brother M has made a mistake in his domestic
life. He has not, in words, expressed that affection
for his wife that it was his duty to express. He has
failed to cultivate true Christian courtesy and
politeness. He has failed to be at all times as kind
and considerate of her wishes and comfort as was
his duty. Her not uniting in faith with him has led
to much unhappiness for both. Brother M has not
respected his wife's judgment and counsel as he
should. In many respects her judgment and
discernment are better than his. If consulted, she
could, by her clearer perception and keener
discernment, help him essentially in his business
matters, in dealing with his neighbors. He should
not stand back upon his dignity, feeling that he
understands it all himself. If he would be advised
by his wife, and by his kindly actions would show
a regard for her, and a desire to please her, he
would be doing nothing less than his duty. If her
advice conflicts with his duty to God and His
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