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November 25, 2005<br />
Hadlokas Neiros<br />
A<br />
nd the years of Sarah<br />
were one hundred years,<br />
twenty years, and seven<br />
years; the years of Sarah’s life”.<br />
This קוספ which begins the<br />
description of Sarah’s death and<br />
subsequent burial is dissected at<br />
length by the commentators with<br />
every word and nuance plumbed<br />
for its hidden meaning. One of the<br />
most glaring problems is the apparently<br />
redundant “years of<br />
Sarah” – why does the Torah repeat<br />
the phrase? Every word and<br />
letter in the Torah is measured,<br />
even the way the letters are written<br />
are fertile ground for exegetical<br />
purposes. What idea is hidden<br />
in this apparently redundant<br />
phrase?<br />
It isn’t coincidental that<br />
Sarah’s death follows the Akeida.<br />
Rash”i cites a medrash that Sarah<br />
didn’t know about the Akeida. An<br />
angel came to tell her about the<br />
fact that her son had been offered<br />
ד “ סב<br />
Jerusalem 3:56 Lakewood 4:16 Los Angeles 4:27<br />
Monsey 4:13 St. Louis 4:24 Baltimore 4:28<br />
up as a sacrifice and before the<br />
angel could inform her that all<br />
was okay, the sheer shock caused<br />
her soul to depart. Thus, it would<br />
appear that as a result of the<br />
events that took place, Sarah<br />
passed away.<br />
R’ Yaakov Kamenetsky<br />
explains that this is not so. In reality,<br />
Sarah’s preordained time had<br />
come and even had there been no<br />
Akeida, she still would have died.<br />
This is what the Torah is emphasizing<br />
by repeating “the years of<br />
her life” – to show that these were<br />
her full years. So what happened<br />
when she was informed by the<br />
angel?<br />
The Akeida was a monumental<br />
occasion, with long-lasting<br />
results that are still protecting us.<br />
Avrohom (and to a large extant,<br />
Yitzchok as well) reached the pinnacle<br />
of his greatness. He had<br />
shown that he was willing to risk<br />
everything in order to fulfill the<br />
will of Hashem. It was a defining<br />
moment in the formulation of the<br />
genetic make-up of the souls of<br />
our nation (as we mention in KK<br />
Vol. <strong>II</strong>, #2 – Parshas Lech Lecha).<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> Volume <strong>II</strong> <strong>Issue</strong> 4<br />
Welcome to the fourth issue of KOL KRAMERS volume <strong>II</strong>, the newsletter that helps all current, former, &<br />
honorary <strong>Kramers</strong>, stay even more in touch with each other than we do already.<br />
Parshas<br />
Chayei Sara<br />
This page of KOL KRAMERS contains Divrei<br />
Torah and should be not be discarded as trash .<br />
It is something that serves as an<br />
example of what every Jew can<br />
accomplish.<br />
Yet, in one stroke, the רצי<br />
ערה tries to take it all away from<br />
us. By relating the death of Sarah<br />
to the Akeida, he attempts to create<br />
in the minds of all onlookers a<br />
sense of regret, or at the very least<br />
cause a ' ה לו ליח by making us<br />
think that Avrohom’s greatest<br />
sacrifice is repaid by ' ה with the<br />
death of his wife. This is the<br />
mindset that the Torah is dispelling<br />
by telling us that Sarah lived<br />
her full years.<br />
Very frequently, we will<br />
triumph in our own trials and vanquish<br />
our ערה רצי. Seeing that he<br />
lost the battle, the ערה רצי will try<br />
to cause us to regret the victory<br />
by making it seem that we have<br />
lost something as a result. It is a<br />
powerful weapon in his arsenal,<br />
but we have to realize that ' ה is a<br />
righteous judge, and that while we<br />
may have to suffer to perform<br />
mitzvos, we will never suffer as a<br />
result of our mitzvos.<br />
Ah Gutten Shabbos
M<br />
azal Tov to good friends<br />
Sylvia and Ben-Zion<br />
Heyman upon the engagement<br />
of Daniel Meir to<br />
Chani Fuchs of Brooklyn!<br />
(The Heymans are, of course— as<br />
charter members of the Martel<br />
Cartel— close personal friends of<br />
Klony Kellner’s Shver and<br />
Shvigger, R’ Alter and Shira<br />
Shapiro.)<br />
Kayla and JJ: Daniel Meir feels<br />
awful that he was unable to reach<br />
you by phone to tell you the news<br />
himself .<br />
Dr. Ben-Zion Heyman would<br />
also like the KOL KRAMERS<br />
readership to know that he is a big<br />
fan of:<br />
“Best of Health with Bootsy”<br />
This Shabbos we are all celebrating the 24th<br />
Hebrew birthday of<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong>’ Number #1 Fan:<br />
Klony Kellner<br />
of Klony and Gitty fame!<br />
and that he some- Mazal Tov and many happy returns of the day!<br />
times prints out her<br />
columns for his chiropractic patients!<br />
News Flash! This just in from<br />
our correspondent in Monsey—<br />
the first snow of the season! And<br />
just in time for Beej to dust off his<br />
car and drive his boychiks over<br />
the river and thru the woods to<br />
MLJ’s house...<br />
Kramer Chronicles<br />
A Special Announcement<br />
from <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong>’<br />
official archivist, BJ, appears in this week’s<br />
“Computer Tips from BJ”<br />
Check out page 15 of this week’s issue<br />
to find out how you can now download higher<br />
quality photos from KOL KRAMERS,<br />
suitable for printing!<br />
Yippee!<br />
http://www.ouradio.org/index.php/shabbat_shalom/article/2349/<br />
Cousin Jeffrey Berg sent in the link above to a story about Malkiel<br />
Lerner, the son of Cousins Sue and Joel, and Aunt Thecla’s (a”h)<br />
grandson. Click on the link to read about the wonderful work he is<br />
doing visiting victims of terror in Eretz Yisrael!<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> Volume <strong>II</strong> <strong>Issue</strong> 4 Page 2
Travels With Tatty:<br />
W<br />
e all enjoy reading <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong>,<br />
but it is time to do something<br />
about the tag line:<br />
“Welcome to the nth issue of KOL<br />
KRAMERS, Volume # x, the newsletter<br />
that helps all current, former, and honorary<br />
<strong>Kramers</strong>, stay even more in touch with<br />
each other than we do already.”<br />
There are clearly a number of grammatical,<br />
syntactical, and structural problems with<br />
this sentence. So, being a professional consultant<br />
(no, I won’t insult you), I’ve taken<br />
it upon myself to fix this problem. Now,<br />
under normal circumstances this would<br />
cost a lot of money. Even with the family<br />
discount. But, given this is <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong><br />
we’re talking about, I’m waiving all fees!<br />
My team (you didn’t think I was going to<br />
do this alone, did you?) met and evaluated<br />
the sentence and articulated the following<br />
problems:<br />
First and foremost, the clause “stay even<br />
more in touch with each other than we do<br />
already” is clearly flawed. We don’t “do”<br />
in touch, we “are” in touch and therefore,<br />
the clause should read “stay even more in<br />
touch with each other than we are already”<br />
or perhaps, ” stay even more in touch with<br />
each other than we already are”. Because<br />
of the inherent ambiguity of being in touch<br />
(what does it really mean to be in touch?)<br />
and because the “do” could, possibly, be<br />
interpreted to be acting upon the “stay” –<br />
as in “we do stay in touch” – which we<br />
could “do”, the team felt strongly that<br />
modifications here were in order. Further,<br />
the team questioned the very essence of the<br />
secondary clause “than we do already”.<br />
What if we don’t? What about those readers<br />
who opt out? Who don’t stay in touch?<br />
How can we simply assume that “we do<br />
already”? The team, therefore, recommends<br />
the following modification to the<br />
clause:<br />
“…stay even more in direct formal and<br />
informal communications through various<br />
media forms including, but not limited to,<br />
written, oral and electronic means, with<br />
each other than we have in the past, done,<br />
do presently and plan to do in the foreseeable<br />
future, those of us not in touch, notwithstanding.”<br />
Obviously an improvement. But other<br />
problems were pointed out by the auxiliary<br />
task force (you didn’t think that one team<br />
alone could do this, did you?).<br />
The clause “the newsletter that helps” is<br />
deeply flawed. <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> is not really a<br />
newsletter. A newsletter implies certain<br />
rigid structures, media and circulation constraints<br />
– along with certain legal and technical<br />
requirements as to copyrights, circulation<br />
registration and postal regulations –<br />
with which <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> may not be in<br />
strict compliance. The team, therefore,<br />
urges the following change:<br />
Instead of “the newsletter that helps…”<br />
make it “the unlicensed, non-regulated<br />
informational periodical, produced in electronic<br />
form and, without prejudice to the<br />
rights of the copyright holder, available in<br />
other media forms as well as on the internet,<br />
notwithstanding the fact that we do not<br />
have internet, that helps…”<br />
Much better.<br />
The review board (naturally, there’s a review<br />
board…) also suggests modifying the<br />
rest of the clause “that helps all current,<br />
former, and honorary <strong>Kramers</strong>”. After all,<br />
“helps all” is rather presumptuous, no?<br />
What if it doesn’t help? Haven’t we already<br />
established that there are, indeed,<br />
those that may not be staying in touch?<br />
And, this is Volume <strong>II</strong> already – so has it<br />
“helped all”. I don’t think so. Clearly a<br />
problem. So here’s the obvious suggested<br />
correction:<br />
“…that may, under certain circumstances,<br />
without expressed or implied warranties as<br />
to efficacy or fitness for use, provide some<br />
assistance, support, diversion or entertainment,<br />
to some, if not all…”<br />
Now we’re making real progress.<br />
Finally, we’ll address the problematic<br />
opening clause, “Welcome to the nth issue<br />
of KOL KRAMERS…” Welcome? This<br />
isn’t a Tupperware party. We’ve already<br />
established the nature of this periodical –<br />
and “welcome” simply doesn’t fit. Are we<br />
trying to suggest that one does not have to<br />
pay for <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong>, as in “you are welcome<br />
to it”? Or are we suggesting<br />
“welcome” as a way to invite readers to<br />
begin reading? Or “welcome” as an invitation<br />
to participate, as in “you are welcome<br />
to submit material…” As you can see, this<br />
is highly ambiguous, problematic phrasing.<br />
And what does <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> mean? If it is<br />
intended to be the <strong>Kol</strong> of the <strong>Kramers</strong>, then<br />
it should read “<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong>’…”. If the<br />
intention is to <strong>Kol</strong> of a specific Kramer,<br />
then “<strong>Kol</strong> Kramer’s” would be required.<br />
What’s worse is that the clause then proceeds<br />
to contradict either interpretation by<br />
implying that it is the <strong>Kol</strong> of some who are<br />
not (really) <strong>Kramers</strong> at all with the phrase<br />
“current, former, and honorary <strong>Kramers</strong>”!<br />
The team’s ingenious solution to this linguistic<br />
quagmire, instead of “Welcome to<br />
the nth issue of KOL KRAMERS” is:<br />
“Following herewith, embedded, attached<br />
or otherwise reproduced, the nth issue of<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> …”<br />
Putting it all together then, we have a profoundly<br />
improved version of the tag line;<br />
elegantly enhanced for clarity, precision<br />
and technical correctitude.<br />
“Following herewith, embedded, attached<br />
or otherwise reproduced, the nth issue of<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> , volume #x, the unlicensed, nonregulated<br />
informational periodical, produced<br />
in electronic form and, without<br />
prejudice to the rights of the copyright<br />
holder, available in other media forms as<br />
well as on the internet, notwithstanding the<br />
fact that we do not have internet, that may,<br />
under certain circumstances, without expressed<br />
or implied warranties as to efficacy<br />
or fitness for use, provide some assistance,<br />
support, diversion or entertainment, to<br />
some, if not all, current, former and honorary<br />
<strong>Kramers</strong>, stay even more in direct formal<br />
and informal communications through<br />
various media forms including, but not<br />
limited to, written, oral and electronic<br />
means, with each other than we have in<br />
the past, done, do presently and plan to do<br />
in the foreseeable future, those of us not in<br />
touch, notwithstanding.”<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> Volume <strong>II</strong> <strong>Issue</strong> 4 Page 3
T<br />
he weather in Los Angeles<br />
has been delightful.<br />
As usual.<br />
Every single day.<br />
And it is even nicer, now that<br />
Tatty is finally home!<br />
But, we are getting ahead of ourselves…<br />
Last Thursday night, after Rabbi<br />
Smith’s shiur, Debbie and Judy<br />
Hantman stayed on a bit to look<br />
at (what else?) digital pictures of<br />
the event.<br />
Coast To Coast <strong>Kramers</strong>:<br />
Mommy’s Report:<br />
One of their guests, Rebecca,<br />
stayed late also, and was delighted<br />
to recognize the picture of Kayla<br />
on our front hall table.<br />
It seems that she was on the Zaret<br />
“Ashreinu/JAM” Kiruv trip to<br />
Israel this past summer, and had a<br />
very memorable (and apparently<br />
impactful) Shabbos meal with JJ<br />
and Kayla!<br />
Sleeping off last week’s KOL<br />
KRAMERS all-nighter was a<br />
breeze on Friday, since Mommy<br />
was spending Shabbos eating AND<br />
sleeping at Judy and David Leonard’s!<br />
On Shabbos day, we were joined<br />
by Nochum and Harriet Wisnicki,<br />
empty nesting, but bearing<br />
up well. Nochum gets top KK<br />
bekius points, by praising JJ’s<br />
Dvar Torah, and pointing out that<br />
JJ had succeeded in distilling the<br />
essence of a 6 page Ohr Gedalyahu<br />
essay on the parsha. Nochum<br />
then proceeded to Jerusalem Diaries<br />
where his eagle eye instantly<br />
found the name of the Wisnicki’s<br />
son, Yosef!<br />
After Shabbos the Kramer Screen-<br />
ing Room hosted a companion to<br />
the concurrent Shalom<br />
“INSPIRED” Melave Malka.<br />
(For details, see ‘News From<br />
NJ’...)<br />
Among the “Ushpizin” were the<br />
Leonards, Sachs’, Wisnickis,<br />
Altschulers, and Chumie and<br />
YM’s Savta Beck!<br />
Link from: Sharon (Lessans) Green’s mom, Phyllis Lessans, http://www.jacquielawson.com/viewcard.asp?code=0183913358<br />
Click on it to watch a real “Turkey in the Straw”… the kids are gonna love this!<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> Volume <strong>II</strong> <strong>Issue</strong> 4 Page 4
Welcome the newest addition to the<br />
"Kurcfeld Klan", now known as "Baby<br />
Boy" Kamenetzky. Mother and son are<br />
doing well. MAZEL TOV!!!<br />
On Monday, Mommy and Savta<br />
Beck enjoyed Rabbi Gradon’s<br />
shiur, then had some yummy deli<br />
at Pico Kosher Deli, and then<br />
checked out the new Judaica Store<br />
across the street. (Any aineklach<br />
interested in a puzzle of the Bais<br />
HaMikdash, and a new board<br />
game of Jewish Trivial Pursuit?)<br />
Tuesday saw Mommy heading out<br />
the Valley to check out the computer<br />
projection equipment and to<br />
meet with Rabbi Levi Solomon of<br />
Emek Academy in preparation for<br />
Monday’s Yom Iyun sessions on<br />
e-Chinuch.org.<br />
On Wednesday morning,<br />
Margy brought<br />
Julia to play with<br />
Denis, and headed<br />
out with Mommy for<br />
a morning of fun at<br />
the Grove. (By the<br />
way, neither Margy<br />
Coast To Coast <strong>Kramers</strong>:<br />
Mommy’s Report:<br />
nor Mommy have succeeded in<br />
getting the music of The Mikado<br />
out of their heads for more than a<br />
few minutes, ever since rehearsals<br />
started!)<br />
On Wednesday afternoon the<br />
Kramer living room was turned<br />
into a yoga studio, as Mommy’s<br />
new teacher, Erin, came, unfurled<br />
her mats, and de-stressed her stu-<br />
dents, who now include a much<br />
more relaxed Cecile Cohen!<br />
Shirley Lebovics, who got us all<br />
into this, was AWOL at the Agudah<br />
Convention!<br />
The class ended just in time for<br />
Tatty’s homecoming.<br />
On Thursday, R’ Avi and Erica<br />
Shulman arrived, fresh from the<br />
glories of the desert around Se-<br />
dona, Arizona, and joined Tatty<br />
and Mommy for a traditional<br />
Thanksgiving feast of Meatballs,<br />
Spareribs, and Salmon Salad at the<br />
ever elegant Elite Cuisine.<br />
(Tatty, in deference to his adopted<br />
country, ordered the sliced turkey!)<br />
(Ilana Keilson’s hysterical email will<br />
have to wait for next week, out of room!)<br />
Link from: Sharon (Lessans) Green’s mom, Phyllis Lessans, http://www.jacquielawson.com/viewcard.asp?code=0183913358<br />
Click on it to watch a real “Turkey in the Straw”… the kids are gonna love this!<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> Volume <strong>II</strong> <strong>Issue</strong> 4 Page 5
Crème de la<br />
Krames this<br />
week has to<br />
go to Malka<br />
Leah, and<br />
her dedicated<br />
team, who<br />
put together a<br />
fabulously<br />
“inspiring”<br />
evening for<br />
the Shalom<br />
Staff this<br />
past Motzei<br />
Shabbos.<br />
Kudos to<br />
Mrs. Tova<br />
Raitzik of<br />
Shalom,<br />
who really<br />
knows how<br />
to show Hakoras<br />
Ha-<br />
Tov!<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> Volume <strong>II</strong> <strong>Issue</strong> 4 Page 6
H<br />
ello Folks!<br />
Lots to report this week,<br />
(and I’m embarrassed to admit that<br />
I forgot all about the <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong><br />
WEDNESDAY deadline that I had<br />
helped institute last week) so here<br />
I am on the high holy Turkey Day<br />
typing quickly as the faint sound<br />
of Mommy’s fingers tapping at<br />
her keyboard 3,000 miles away<br />
calls to me in a persistent clickety<br />
click of a whisper: “where’s your<br />
news from NJ, where’s your news<br />
from NJ…?”<br />
Last Thursday (as you may have<br />
read in <strong>Kol</strong> K’s late breaking<br />
news) I had the Zechus to spend<br />
the day with Shoshi and JB – Mazal<br />
Tov again – which, thanks to<br />
my trusty assistants at the home<br />
front (Devorah and Racheli) did<br />
not derail me from getting everything<br />
done for a very busy Shabbos.<br />
(I came home to kids ready for bed<br />
and potato kugels gemacht!)<br />
Thank you Yehudis for spending<br />
Friday morning with me- we’re all<br />
so glad your Mother is feeling<br />
much better.<br />
After Yehudis and I did the last<br />
minute shopping, dropping off Siyum<br />
nosh for Asher at YTT<br />
(Mazal Tov Swusher!) and other<br />
errands, we spend a wonderful Fri-<br />
News From New Jersey<br />
Malka Leah Writes:<br />
day night with Cindy and co.<br />
KA”H it was a nice sized group<br />
with the Klugmanns, ourselves,<br />
and Yehudis and her little brother<br />
Michoel (Yehuda’s buddy) who<br />
also joined us for Shabbos.<br />
Thanks to the special Shabbos<br />
spice (and Yanky Adler’s nice<br />
bottle of wine) the table was alive<br />
with “spirit” and animated conversation<br />
and divrei Torah. We<br />
missed you Pesach and Chedva,<br />
Pesach- we understand you’re<br />
busy shteiging, but Chedva –<br />
we’ll have to reschedule that Agudah<br />
Midwest reunion with your<br />
Lakewood pals…<br />
Shabbos Day we all (save the big<br />
girl babysitters and babies) trekked<br />
out to Davening at Willow Court<br />
where the Rav eloquently pinpointed<br />
what is so special about<br />
Binyomin Klugmann’s mishpacha:<br />
their close connection to<br />
our Gedolim, Rabbonim and their<br />
commitment to maintaining that<br />
Shaychus and transmitting the importance<br />
of our<br />
Mesorah to their children.<br />
Then off to Ner<br />
Dovid for a beautiful<br />
bar Mitzvah Kiddush<br />
for Binyomim’s<br />
nephew, Avi, where an<br />
elegant white-suited<br />
Cindy once again<br />
wowed our Lakewood<br />
chevra with her winsome<br />
Washington<br />
Heights wit. We en-<br />
joyed Ayala and Moshe’s company<br />
for lunch and reluctantly allowed<br />
Blanca to steal the Klugmanns<br />
away for the rest of the<br />
day.<br />
Motzei Shabbos was a flurry of<br />
activity as Devorah and Racheli’s<br />
pals (Thank you SO much again<br />
Yehudis, Dassi, Mindy, Atara,<br />
and Chayala!) ran over to <strong>Kol</strong><br />
Aryeh with me to set up for the<br />
Shalom inter-staff Melave<br />
Malka.<br />
The place really was transformed<br />
thanks to Mrs. Lapa’s beautiful<br />
tablecloths and topiaries and my<br />
candlesticks/gold candles (thank<br />
you KLONY AND GITTY since<br />
they were bought for your sheva<br />
brachos last year!)<br />
Also, thank you KLONY – the<br />
real one – for running out right<br />
after Shabbos with the KOC van<br />
to pick up and deliver all the many<br />
trays of hot food from La Petit<br />
France – without oven mitts!<br />
Thank you again KLONY for<br />
coming over very late at night af-<br />
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(Continued from page 7)<br />
ter the whole clean-up and helping<br />
me put everything in the car, and<br />
even following me home!).<br />
Asher and Kayla – great job<br />
wrapping all the gifts, speaking of<br />
News From New Jersey<br />
Malka Leah Writes:<br />
which thank you Chananya and<br />
Eeta for your help with the<br />
“Shalom Shin” so that Rabbi and<br />
Mrs. Brodsky could put together<br />
such a beautiful Shalom style<br />
framed Tefillah L’Morah for each<br />
teacher.<br />
Rabbis Freedman<br />
and Gruman<br />
spoke, and<br />
the crowd (over<br />
80 ppl KA”H)<br />
was then glued<br />
to their seats as<br />
they watched<br />
both versions<br />
(men and<br />
women) of IN-<br />
SPIRED, Aish<br />
HaTorah’s fabulous<br />
documentary<br />
films on Baalei<br />
Teshuva and their<br />
stories.<br />
My new friend<br />
and neighbor,<br />
Genese Lieberman,<br />
who is interviewed<br />
on the<br />
films, spoke beautifully and from<br />
the heart at the end of the evening,<br />
thanking the Shalom teachers (“the<br />
elite of Lakewood”) for their efforts<br />
on behalf of the children and<br />
families who, like herself, would<br />
otherwise not have known a life of<br />
Torah.<br />
At our “humble editor’s”<br />
STRONG request, I have included<br />
a copy of a thank you letter I received<br />
from a teacher after the<br />
event for your collective Nachas. It<br />
really was a beautiful event all<br />
around.<br />
Much later that night, I was surprised<br />
and entertained by<br />
Chansky’s video of the Feder/<br />
Kramer/Tatty party in Baltimore<br />
that very same night! Ahh, the<br />
wonders of modern technology<br />
(and wonderfully weird brothers<br />
who make totally random videos<br />
out of everything…)<br />
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News From New Jersey<br />
Malka Leah Writes:<br />
News From New Jersey<br />
Malka Leah Writes:<br />
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Malka Leah Writes:<br />
Sunday evening Racheli organized<br />
an awesome pajama party for the<br />
kiddies plus Michoel Adler, and<br />
Ahron, Leah and Devorah (LR)<br />
Josephs who were here for the<br />
night while Zev and Shera went to<br />
Shani Rubenstien’s wedding.<br />
Devorah, Yehudis and I came<br />
home from Dr. Shanik (we’re trying<br />
to figure out why D’vo’s arm<br />
keeps hurting) to find all the kids<br />
in pajamas, sitting on a major<br />
“gushtown” in front of a roaring<br />
fire (in a fireplace, Cindy) roasting<br />
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Malka Leah Writes:<br />
marshmallows, sipping hot cocoa<br />
(until Tatty made them take it in<br />
the kitchen) and listening to stories!<br />
Hide and Seek and pillow fights<br />
were soon to follow, and, even after<br />
the exhausted and happy bunch<br />
were settling down with their<br />
many fans (that’s the blowing kind<br />
not the clapping kind) and sleeping<br />
bags to really go to sleep, mean<br />
mommy broke it up to put everyone<br />
to bed in their own real rooms.<br />
(sorry again Racheli!) It was<br />
really adorable.<br />
Tuesday evening, after a couple of<br />
exhilarating orthodontist appointments,<br />
most of the kids and I went<br />
to Western Monmouth County to<br />
see the Shalom kids’ displays at<br />
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their “Judaic Fair”. Great stuff!<br />
Asher and the gang especially enjoyed<br />
the interactive Shatnez exhibit<br />
which allowed you to take<br />
News From New Jersey<br />
Malka Leah Writes:<br />
sample fibers of wool and flax and<br />
view them under a microscope<br />
enlarged on a video screen! Way<br />
cool!<br />
Later that night I found myself at<br />
Bais Faiga trying to chase down<br />
the 10 teachers of Devorah,<br />
Racheli and Kayla for some major<br />
Nachas reports! Mission accomplished,<br />
I left the building tired but<br />
happy. Way to go girls!<br />
Wednesday I took Devorah out<br />
early to Little Silver (Don’tcha just<br />
love these New Jersey towns?) to<br />
see the orthopedist, Dr. Stankowitz<br />
(no laughing.) (ok, a little<br />
laughing.) (“My father was from<br />
Shtinkenbroin…”) who took x-<br />
rays and said that B”H Dvo’s arm<br />
is not broken, nor is it re-broken<br />
from three years ago, but it seems<br />
to be some sort of muscular thing<br />
like tendonitis… so, she’s skipping<br />
piano lessons for two weeks, taking<br />
Aleve and sleeping with a<br />
wrist brace… we’ll see!<br />
I gotta finish this up cuz any minute<br />
BJ, Mikey and the wonderful<br />
wizard of Oz are arriving for dinner<br />
and a sleep<br />
over – yay!<br />
(WHERE<br />
ARE YOU<br />
ESTI T??)<br />
Good job by<br />
you BJ (aka<br />
Mr. Mom) and<br />
thank you for being such a fun uncle<br />
to the kiddies…( “220, 221,<br />
whatever it takes…”). We miss<br />
you Adina but are glad you’re<br />
livin’ it up at Nina’s with the<br />
girls!!<br />
Thanks in advance Beej and Faige<br />
and Chananya for driving/ having<br />
Kayla for Shabbos – she’s very<br />
excited!<br />
I feel like there are a whole lot of<br />
exclamation points in this article!!<br />
Yeah!<br />
Yasher Koach to Gracie on the<br />
AMAZING transformation of Bais<br />
Yaakov Baltimore (especially the<br />
animal room) which we hope at<br />
least some of us will get to see at<br />
some point this weekend…<br />
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I’d like to admit publicly that I<br />
seem to have a serious picture taking<br />
disorder when it comes to<br />
Baby Miriam. Sorry. (I guess I’m<br />
just trying to make Yehuda L. R.<br />
feel better…)<br />
That about wraps it up,<br />
Good Shabbos!<br />
ML<br />
News From New Jersey<br />
Malka Leah Writes:<br />
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From Chananya:<br />
www.thekramers.org/Balt<strong>Kramers</strong>/AccentsWithTatty.wmv<br />
Watch the movie of Saturday night out with Tatty at “Accents”!<br />
Mostly Monsey<br />
(and Manhattan Too):<br />
M<br />
onsey happenings<br />
On Sunday night, Adina<br />
flew to Israel to spend the week<br />
with her sister Chaya, and her sisters-in-law<br />
Kayla and Chumie. I<br />
truly hope you’ll be reading all<br />
about her trip later on in this issue<br />
(c’mon honey, don’t disappoint us!<br />
We want an article!) I’ve stayed<br />
home with the boys and tried my<br />
best to keep them clean and fed,<br />
and keep the house in order.<br />
Of course, I don’t think<br />
even trying my best is doing<br />
justice to the standards my<br />
incomparable wife has set.<br />
That being said, I think the boys<br />
have been kept reasonably clean,<br />
have had every meal they were<br />
supposed to, and the house is in<br />
reasonable order.<br />
I did discover a few things,<br />
though. It turns out that Mikey<br />
CJ is off the hook this week, since he<br />
made that hysterical video of Tatty<br />
and the Baltimore couples on Motzei<br />
Shabbos, his kids are dancing up a<br />
storm for an upcoming video, and<br />
because Esti is so darn cute!<br />
really doesn’t eat. There is nothing<br />
I can do to get that kid to even<br />
look at something new to eat, and<br />
those things he does eat, he eats in<br />
very small quantities.<br />
Of course, Mikey’s low calorie<br />
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Mostly Monsey<br />
(and Manhattan Too):<br />
intake in no way negatively impacts<br />
his energy level. Not one bit.<br />
Now Ozzie, bless him, takes after<br />
his father when it comes to food.<br />
He will eat tons (of pretty much<br />
anything). And after he finishes<br />
eating, I only have to wait a few<br />
minutes and he’ll be ready to eat<br />
again. (Have I mentioned how<br />
much I love Ozzie?) And amazingly<br />
enough, Mikey really enjoys<br />
school, and really looks forward to<br />
doing his homework, such as it is<br />
in Pre-1A. (Did I mention how<br />
much I love Mikey, despite the<br />
fact that he doesn’t seem to take<br />
after his father in pretty much any<br />
regard? Well, in this case it’s because<br />
he doesn’t take after his fa-<br />
ther, but you know what I mean.)<br />
I’ve also discovered that if you<br />
take these two boys to a restaurant<br />
for dinner, you’d better eat before<br />
you go there, because you won’t<br />
be able to get any eating done<br />
while you’re trying to keep them<br />
from harassing other restaurantgoers<br />
and tearing the place apart.<br />
Tomorrow (Thursday, or yesterday<br />
to you, most likely), we will be<br />
heading to the Josephs in the afternoon<br />
for Thanksgiving dinner, or<br />
some approximation thereof, dependant<br />
upon what’s allowed in<br />
Lakewood. From there we plan on<br />
heading to Baltimore on Friday to<br />
spend Shabbos with the Baltimore<br />
<strong>Kramers</strong>, and maybe cross paths<br />
with Honorary Kramer David<br />
Whitehead, and maybe even<br />
Kramer-with-the-wrong-last-name<br />
Cousin Daive, who I hear will be<br />
in Baltimore as well.<br />
Oh, by they way – remember when<br />
I said that stuff about doing a good<br />
job taking care of the kids while<br />
their mother is away? Well, let’s<br />
just say What Happens in Monsey-<br />
When-Adina’s-Not-There, STAYS<br />
in Monsey-When-Adina’s-Not-<br />
There!<br />
PS:<br />
It’s a shame this staying at home<br />
for a week without the wife around<br />
thing happened to me, and not<br />
Chananya. He would have written<br />
a much funnier article about it.<br />
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Mostly Monsey<br />
(and Manhattan<br />
Too):<br />
Latest weather report:<br />
We had a dusting of snow last night, our<br />
first of the season. Looks like we're in<br />
for a long winter. Also, Ozzie is still<br />
adorable, so here's another picture of<br />
him.<br />
Hey, this is BJ; here's the pictures<br />
from today, since I arrived at the<br />
Josephs. What do you think of the<br />
very mommy-like action photo of<br />
Ozzie falling out of the toy car?<br />
(He was fine, of course).<br />
Anyway, what KK would be complete<br />
without a pic of the semi-real<br />
Klony, —><br />
who stopped by about an hour<br />
ago?!?!<br />
-B.J.<br />
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F<br />
or the first time, this week the KOL KRAMERS will be released in two<br />
versions.<br />
Our Humble Editor will be creating (well, has created if you’re reading<br />
this) the normal version which gets emailed, and I will be creating an ever-soslightly<br />
different version for the archive at www.thekramers.org/kolkramers.<br />
In the past, I have simply uploaded the version I (and the rest of the world) got in<br />
my email, but some users (OK, maybe it was just me) have complained that the<br />
images are fuzzy when printed. This is because we set Acrobat to compress the<br />
images to make the file size smaller; a necessity when emailing (for more information<br />
about image compression, see KK Vol 1, <strong>Issue</strong> 13) .<br />
The files on the web archive, however, can be as big as we want them to be.<br />
So I will be creating (will have created) a version of each new issue with much<br />
less compression applied to the pictures. This means that from now on the files<br />
in the web archive will be larger than the issue you get via email, and will take<br />
longer to download than they have in the past. However, they will produce much<br />
sharper pictures when printed.<br />
I will generally be posting the high-quality versions by 9 AM (Eastern) on Fridays.<br />
If any of you out there have comments, complaints, suggestions, fan mail, or hate<br />
mail about this, please drop me a line.<br />
BJ<br />
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D<br />
ear Family,<br />
The Bais Yaakov convention<br />
was beautiful! And<br />
the museum exhibit that BY created<br />
is absolutely magnificent! The<br />
pictures are of the one room that I<br />
was involved in. There were 10<br />
rooms each focusing on a different<br />
theme. As you can tell, mine was<br />
the animal room. I can’t really call<br />
it mine – I was just an appointed<br />
advisor for this room but all the<br />
creativity, planning, shopping, designing,<br />
and putting together was<br />
up to the two High School girls in<br />
charge of this room. I was basically<br />
there to nudge them.<br />
They did a fantastic job.<br />
So Thursday night I was there till<br />
3 a.m. and Motzei Shabbos till 1<br />
am. Thankfully, Eeta Berger and<br />
crew came Thursday night to help<br />
me cook for Shabbos so I was<br />
done by 9:30 pm when I left the<br />
house. Shabbos was really nice!<br />
We had Mrs. Kurcfeld, honorary<br />
Kramer Tova, and Ita. Not to be<br />
confused with Eeta who also came<br />
with friend Chani Bloch from St.<br />
Louis.<br />
Mrs. Kurcfeld, Hatzlacha in your<br />
new home. May you fill it with<br />
Simcha! I’ll be there soon to get<br />
Sara Chana<br />
Reports:<br />
your boxes…Thanks!<br />
Motzei Shabbos we had a really<br />
nice outing with Tatty and <strong>Kramers</strong><br />
which looks like the absolutely<br />
most exciting event ever if you<br />
watch Chananya’s video (no<br />
doubt he included the link already<br />
for that – enjoy!)<br />
Thank you Tatty – it was so nice<br />
to spend time together – Mommy<br />
we missed you.<br />
Happy belated birthday Faige and<br />
Chumie – I remembered LAST<br />
week, oh well! Then Tzippy arrived<br />
with a bit of LA!<br />
It was so great to have her and all<br />
the amenities that she squished<br />
into her luggage. My kids have a<br />
thing for shower caps (thanks<br />
Ma!). And let’s not forget the<br />
globe!<br />
Tzippy, who lives in fear of<br />
Mommy, had the globe in a shopping<br />
bag, plus her purse and a<br />
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sheitel box, faced with a decision<br />
as to which of the 3 she should<br />
check, she checked the sheitel!<br />
Can you believe it? That’s loyalty!<br />
Well, Ma, the kids loved it! And I<br />
had a blast reliving sem for a few<br />
days. Well, not exactly, but it was<br />
so nice having her here.<br />
On my way home from seeing<br />
Rabbi Krohn at the BY convention<br />
on Monday night, I stopped<br />
off at the Kramer’s for some good<br />
entertainment care of Chananya,<br />
Lipa Schmeltzer, and Shmuel<br />
Kramer - what a total riot! You<br />
guys have to see the video of him<br />
dancing! And let’s not forget<br />
Faige’s amazing Chocolate Chip<br />
Cookies – thanx guys!<br />
Tzip, thanks for coming! Adina, I<br />
hope you have an amazing time!<br />
Daven for all of us. Hope to see<br />
you in Baltimore Beej, --Tatty, I<br />
miss your ADP turkey! Much<br />
love to all,<br />
-Gracie<br />
****************************<br />
The following was written by<br />
Gracie, and was posted at the entrance<br />
of the "Animal Room" of<br />
the Bais Yaakov Convention in<br />
Baltimore-.<br />
The theme of the Convention was<br />
Ashira LaHaShem B'Chayai, and<br />
this room was part of the section<br />
showing how the whole Briah<br />
praises HaShem.<br />
****************************<br />
The use of animal imagery has<br />
long been a part of our people’s<br />
tradition, stretching back to the<br />
time of the formation of Klal<br />
Yisrael as a nation.<br />
Birkas Yaakov, Yaakov Avinu’s<br />
Sara Chana<br />
Reports:<br />
blessing of the Sh'vatim, gave<br />
each Shevet its definition and<br />
mission as summed up in its<br />
Bracha—and six of those brachos<br />
used animal imagery: The<br />
lion, the donkey, the snake, the<br />
deer, the ox, and the wolf.<br />
Throughout the history of Klal<br />
Yisroel, we have suffered<br />
through four bestial exiles,<br />
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which have been compared to<br />
the lion, the bear, the leopard,<br />
and the pig.<br />
Ultimately the bitterness will<br />
end. When that day comes, our<br />
nation will rise up through the<br />
fulfillment of Hashem’s promises,<br />
as symbolized by the roaming<br />
foxes on Har HaBayis, which<br />
Rabbi Akiva saw as a sign of<br />
hope.<br />
Hashem will gather us in upon<br />
“the wings of eagles,” and at that<br />
time we will live to see a day<br />
when the “bear and cow will<br />
graze together, the wolf and the<br />
lamb will live side by side.”<br />
Then, at the time of the Geulah,<br />
we will return to our home,<br />
Our Land, which is compared<br />
to the swift and beautiful deer<br />
—<br />
Sara Chana<br />
Reports:<br />
Eretz Tzvi —<br />
Artzeinu HaKedoshah —<br />
Bimheira B’Yameinu,<br />
Amein<br />
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D<br />
ear KOL KRAMERS,<br />
In my mind and heart I’ve<br />
drafted and redrafted<br />
many letters to KOL KRAMERS,<br />
but have never committed them to<br />
paper. I have long wanted to compliment<br />
the Kramer family<br />
(especially “Your Humble Editor”)<br />
on their commitment to KK. A<br />
wonderful visit to Sarah Chana<br />
and her family warrants putting<br />
pen to paper. And so, instead of<br />
cooking for Shabbos, I take a few<br />
moments to share my experience<br />
with you.<br />
Firstly, allow me to describe myself<br />
boarding the plane with 2<br />
carry-ons: my purse and a globe<br />
for the Feder children. I also had<br />
my Sheitel box, but when they told<br />
me that something had to go, I<br />
faced an inner struggle. Should I<br />
check the sheitel of the globe? Well, if something happened to the<br />
sheitel I would be disappointed<br />
and actually quite mortified to<br />
wear a snood to the Bais Yaakov<br />
Convention in front of close to<br />
1000 people. On the other hand if<br />
something happened to the globe, I<br />
would disappoint the Feder children<br />
and never be able to face<br />
Mrs. Kramer again.<br />
I checked the sheitel and carried<br />
the globe.<br />
The Feders were very excited over<br />
Guest Reporter<br />
from L. A.,<br />
Tzippy Kohen<br />
Reports:<br />
the globe and the soaps, shampoos,<br />
mouthwash and shower caps that I<br />
brought from Babika.<br />
Sarah Chana pampered me and I<br />
enjoyed a most delightful few days<br />
in her home. She and he wonderful<br />
husband have some of the curtest,<br />
smartest, well-mannered and<br />
talented children. (Mrs. Kramer,<br />
does that earn me a few points?)<br />
Her cakes and vegetable soup were<br />
out of this world, and she shlepped<br />
me back and forth to the Bais Yaa-<br />
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kov High School numerous times.<br />
The Convention was a great success.<br />
The exhibit was overwhelming<br />
in beauty and meaning, and<br />
inspired all who came to see it.<br />
All personal feelings aside, the<br />
room that Sarah Chana took<br />
charge of was the greatest hit.<br />
With its<br />
full sized<br />
barn, magnificent<br />
sound effects,striking<br />
scenery<br />
and creative patchwork<br />
wall, it stole<br />
the show.<br />
The Baltimore girls<br />
impressed everyone<br />
(even the L. A. girls) with their<br />
unbelievable performances and<br />
I am told that much credit for<br />
that is owed to Mrs. Faige<br />
Kramer. The<br />
speeches were all<br />
fascinating and hearing<br />
Rabbi Krohn was<br />
a highlight of the Convention.<br />
Sarah Chana, I hope<br />
I’m invited back soon.<br />
All my love,<br />
Tzippy<br />
Guest Reporter<br />
from L. A.,<br />
Tzippy Kohen<br />
Reports:<br />
PS: Your mother seemed to honestly<br />
like the scarf.<br />
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Special Thanks to Chaya (Kurcfeld) Goldman’s friend, Sara Fayge Twerski—whose computer<br />
and email Adina was able to use to finally file this report—Adina was experiencing serious technical<br />
difficulties with her laptop, and her favorite IT guy (actually everyone’s favorite IT guy)<br />
was an ocean away!! Way to go Adina—you may have stayed up till midnight, but you got this<br />
report in on time for KOL KRAMERS’ deadline!!<br />
Jerusalem Diaries<br />
Adina (from Monsey!) Writes:<br />
I<br />
can’t believe that I actually<br />
mustered the courage to get<br />
on the plane…but having<br />
spent mucho dinero on my ticket<br />
and already typing up strict instructions<br />
and schedules for BJ, I<br />
was left with no choice. I believe<br />
this might truly be the beginning<br />
of a new era--the creation of<br />
“ultra Aunt Adina” (see “Ultra<br />
Dad” for further explanation).<br />
Perhaps this trip signifies the<br />
dawning of a new spontaneous and<br />
(slightly) less anal version of the<br />
old “household hinting” me. Perhaps<br />
there are more crazy, spur of<br />
the moment, adventures awaiting<br />
me in the future.<br />
On second thought, let’s not jump<br />
to conclusions, I only said slightly<br />
less anal.<br />
I am truly having a wonderful time<br />
here in Israel and definitely feel<br />
like the seminary girl I once was,<br />
just about (ahem) 10 years ago.<br />
Except, this time around I have a<br />
tichel on my head, a comfortable<br />
place to sleep, and a hot shower<br />
any time I want one. My sister<br />
Chaya’s apartment in Har Nof is<br />
very spacious and has a beautiful<br />
view. Her daughters Mali and<br />
Henni have grown a lot since I<br />
have seen them last. They are<br />
typical happy toddlers…who love<br />
going through my stuff. (“No,<br />
Henni my passport does not belong<br />
in the bathtub.”) My sister<br />
and I have quickly reverted back to<br />
our older/younger sister banter as<br />
she keeps trying to prove to me<br />
that she’s really grown up and can<br />
actually cook and clean on her<br />
own. We hosted our cousin Yitzy<br />
for dinner on Tuesday night and<br />
Chaya actually prepared a delicious<br />
stir-fry dinner for us. Way<br />
to go, Chaya!<br />
On Wednesday, I went to see my<br />
high-school best friend Miriam<br />
who now lives in Geulah. We<br />
schmoozed for the afternoon as<br />
plumbers worked on some dripping<br />
pipes in her ceiling. They<br />
then closed the hole they cut out<br />
with a random piece of plywood<br />
they found in her hallway. Only,<br />
in Israel! Following my visit with<br />
Miriam, I walked from Geulah to<br />
the Kotel via Rechov Yaffo. After<br />
buying a six shekel “shoko cham”<br />
to warm myself up, I stumbled<br />
upon a sight I have only recently<br />
seen in my dreams. Eliyahu<br />
Hanavi? No. Moshiach ben<br />
David? No. A handsome chayal<br />
ready to sweep me off my feet?<br />
No once again. Do my eyes deceive<br />
me or is that…Coffee Bean<br />
in the distance!? (Coffee Bean in<br />
Israel and not NewYork?) Of<br />
course, I could not in good conscience<br />
dispose of the somewhat<br />
inadequate hot chocolate I had just<br />
bought, so I silently made a pact<br />
with myself to return to Coffee<br />
Bean in the very very very near<br />
future.<br />
After my trip to<br />
the Kotel, I enjoyed<br />
dinner at<br />
Kayla’s apartment<br />
with Osnat R.,<br />
Michal R., and the<br />
Jacobsons. Aunt<br />
Tyra and Uncle<br />
Moishe dropped in for a quick<br />
visit. As usual, the food was<br />
scrumptious (roast chicken, fried<br />
potatoes, mango salad and left<br />
over spicy French fries (huh?)…<br />
although I won’t mention who actually<br />
did most of the cooking.*<br />
Thursday and Friday will most<br />
likely include cooking for Shabbos<br />
and shopping. After all, one must<br />
always make time for shopping.<br />
Have a good Shabbos.<br />
I miss you Beej, Mikey, and<br />
Ozzie!<br />
I LOVE YOU GUYS!<br />
Adina<br />
*(me)<br />
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Jerusalem Diaries<br />
Kayla Writes:<br />
H<br />
i peoples!<br />
I don’t have that much<br />
time, but I must point out<br />
before anything that ALANA<br />
SPITZ AND CHEVY RUBEN-<br />
STEIN are both here helping me<br />
cook.<br />
Okay guys? You’re in <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong>.<br />
I even took pictures with them to<br />
prove it.<br />
And here they are.<br />
I just got back from Arbel Cohen,<br />
now Butchook's, wedding which<br />
was very, very nice.<br />
Got to see Crummy's whole class!<br />
Alana babysat for me.<br />
I had the privilege of interacting<br />
with THREE of my Kellner cousins<br />
this week! I<br />
went to Kayla Pitter<br />
one afternoon so<br />
our kiddies could<br />
play together- it<br />
was actually really<br />
cute the way they<br />
interacted, Yehuda<br />
played really nicely<br />
with Sara Sheindel.<br />
While I was there I got to speak<br />
to Miri! It was such a nice<br />
added bonus. And then yesterday,<br />
I got a call from Asher's<br />
teacher- Breindy!<br />
Oh, Breindy- I spoke to your sister<br />
in law- she sounds so cute! I<br />
will I'YH have her over soon.<br />
I'd love to be in touch with the rest<br />
of the Kellnerim- Klony and<br />
Giddy, we miss you guys!!!!!<br />
Aunt Tyra and Uncle Moish also<br />
came by- we were honored by the<br />
short, but special visit. And to<br />
whom must we be thankful for<br />
their appearance? ADINA<br />
KRAMER!!! yayay- we’re having<br />
such a blast with her here!<br />
Last night was a rockin’ game of<br />
balderdash, preceded by a gourmet<br />
feast organized and executed by<br />
the maiden of Monsey herself- it<br />
was tres yummes.<br />
Crum and YM came too- Chumie<br />
says hi to everyone. We also went<br />
to the mall and to Nina’s- thanks<br />
BJ and ADINA for the fun and<br />
delicious treat!<br />
JJ has been coming home with<br />
some really exceptional and interesting<br />
vorts from Rav Druk- as<br />
well as the usual collection of<br />
great stuff from all his other<br />
classes- it's so nice that I get to<br />
hear all the Torah he learns- almost<br />
like still being in seminary...<br />
This week also brought its current<br />
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Jerusalem Diaries<br />
Kayla Writes:<br />
(Continued from page 22)<br />
of sadness with the news of Rabbi<br />
Kibel's passing. Alana was a close<br />
student at RITSS in Cincinnati and<br />
so was Deena Rosenberg who’s<br />
here too- and of course, Eeta-<br />
Ever since seminary, I've heard<br />
from every RITSS girl I ever met<br />
that "she was especially close to<br />
R' Kibel..." he was obviously a<br />
tremendous person to affect so<br />
many students so deeply- and he<br />
must have been proud during his<br />
lifetime of the girls that his school<br />
produced- the RITSS girls I've<br />
met (and I've met quite a few) are<br />
generally so mature and good and<br />
straight and normal- I’m sure he<br />
must have been proud.<br />
Thanks to my fabulous in-laws<br />
for sending the geshmakeh stuff-<br />
and our CAMERA!!!!<br />
In the Yehuda department:<br />
Chananya— Yehuda is OB-<br />
SESSED with your videos. He<br />
watches as we show them off to all<br />
our neighbors, friends, relatives,<br />
plumbers, meshulachs, IRS representatives-<br />
(enough Kayla)- and<br />
begs me to play it for him all the<br />
time!<br />
He says "I wan dat ___ fill in the<br />
blank..." he's ALMOST walking...<br />
very exciting.<br />
Good shabbos,<br />
Kayla<br />
Latest YLR movies from JJ!!<br />
http://www.rabinowich.com/Movies/Crawl.AVI<br />
http://www.rabinowich.com/Movies/Walk.AVI<br />
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Chumie dictated her totally<br />
random thoughts to Your<br />
Humble Editor:<br />
H<br />
i everyone, I am MUCH<br />
too tired to write or even<br />
dictate and have to go to<br />
sleep right now.<br />
No, You do not understand<br />
Mommy, I MUST go to sleep right<br />
now!<br />
Well, I’ll just tell you that Reuven<br />
is adorable, even though he<br />
scratches me a lot. (Ed. Note: the<br />
suggestion was offered that Chumie<br />
cut her son’s nails…)<br />
You don’t understand, Mommy, I<br />
DO cut his nails, all the time, his<br />
nails just grow incredibly fast!<br />
It was so ravishing to hang out<br />
with Adina! She is the coolest!<br />
We are so excited that she is<br />
here…<br />
We are having bochurim for a<br />
meal on Shabbos…<br />
I went to Arbel Cohen’s wedding<br />
and had a great time.<br />
Many thanks to Cousin Kayla Pitter<br />
for lending us Sara Shaindel’s<br />
Chidushim<br />
from Chumie<br />
Exer-Saucer!! As you can see<br />
from the pictures HE LOVES IT!<br />
Last Shabbos we were in Ramat<br />
Beit Shemesh and got to spend<br />
Shabbos with Uncle Stanley and<br />
Aunt Ruth!<br />
Love to all,<br />
Chumie<br />
F<br />
rom Ithaca,<br />
Cousin Bootsy writes:<br />
Dear Shana,<br />
I found this today while I was<br />
looking for help with something<br />
to say today while my family<br />
gathers to eat together.—<br />
I am very grateful to all of you<br />
Kramer/Kellners for sharing<br />
your love so effortlessly and so<br />
infinitely. Every week I anxiously<br />
await the arrival of KK<br />
and as I read I feel the dedication<br />
and love that everyone holds and<br />
it always warms me, never fails to<br />
brighten my day.<br />
Thank you for your continued caring<br />
and love.<br />
Love,<br />
Bootsy<br />
Scatter love as you scatter<br />
seeds<br />
Your store stays undiminished<br />
For love makes love<br />
As seeds make seeds<br />
In a harvest never finished;<br />
Nor look to see how your gift<br />
fares-<br />
It is enough to plant it;<br />
Just sow love with a lavish<br />
hand<br />
And take harvest for granted.<br />
(unknown author)<br />
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T<br />
his week I have a lot of information<br />
for you to digest, but I think<br />
it’s very important. I was talking<br />
with a friend of mine who is a scientist<br />
(actually, they’ve named an asteroid<br />
after her, she works for NASA)<br />
… that’s neither here nor there but this<br />
woman is so unassuming and caring<br />
about people, a true gem – and I get<br />
enlightened every time I speak with<br />
her. She has studied a lot of chemistry,<br />
so I value and trust what she has to say.<br />
I want to talk about personal care products…I<br />
know I’ve touched on them<br />
previously, but this time I’m really<br />
fired up! I’m so fired up because companies<br />
are preying on people’s ignorance<br />
(and on our trust in them). Our<br />
skin is our LARGEST organ, our first<br />
line of defense. It protects us… it both<br />
absorbs and secretes, and for those reasons<br />
we need to take especially good<br />
care of our skin. I am incensed because<br />
we apply our favorite regime of products<br />
to our skin every single day, year<br />
after year… and then when we do a<br />
little research, we discover that we<br />
have been naively poisoning ourselves.<br />
One could argue that all products have<br />
low-levels of these toxins, but toxins<br />
have a cumulative effect (and how low<br />
the levels really are is debatable, I’m<br />
not willing to take the risk!)<br />
I was looking through my own cabinets<br />
at the items I have chosen for my own<br />
and my family’s personal care, like:<br />
shampoo, conditioner, deodorant, soap,<br />
skin creams, etc. I always thought I<br />
was educated and could read and understand<br />
labels and now I know that I<br />
Best of Health<br />
with Bootsy<br />
was absolutely WRONG. Even though<br />
I might have bought the items in the<br />
“health food store” or the health food<br />
section of my market or drugstore, that<br />
doesn’t mean a thing if you don’t have<br />
some essential facts. I want to share<br />
those facts, and the things that I’ve<br />
been researching and learning, with<br />
you.<br />
The descriptive “all natural” has become<br />
a buzzword used by big and<br />
small companies alike, all trying to tap<br />
into the financial gains of the booming<br />
alternative health market. Even mainstream<br />
companies like Suave, who test<br />
on animals and use almost entirely synthetic<br />
ingredients, are trying to pass off<br />
their products as “natural,” and frankly,<br />
this is a sham. There is no regulation<br />
of these terms, so all of these companies<br />
get away with their attempts to<br />
delude the average public.<br />
Bodycare and cosmetic products are<br />
not considered medicines and are<br />
therefore not subject to FDA approval,<br />
nor does the FDA try to regulate<br />
the body care industry. There are<br />
many commonly used ingredients in<br />
cosmetics today with potential carcinogenic<br />
effects which have been so-far<br />
overlooked by the FDA and continue to<br />
be used in alarming proportions in<br />
daily cosmetic applications, even in<br />
“natural” products.<br />
The fact is that there is no legal definition<br />
for ‘natural’, and a chemist’s definition<br />
of ‘organic’ simply requires that<br />
the molecules contain carbon. Socalled<br />
“natural cosmetics” can still contain<br />
potentially harmful or irritant<br />
chemical preservatives, cheap, chemically<br />
derived aesthetic and texture enhancing<br />
additives, chemically derived<br />
sudsing agents, artificial colorants and<br />
fragrances….and they do!<br />
Here is a beginning list of some very<br />
common (and mostly toxic) ingredients<br />
to watch out for:<br />
sodium lauryl / laureth sulfate<br />
(aka SLS) -- Used in car<br />
washes, garage floor cleaners<br />
and engine degreasers - and in<br />
90% of products that foam.<br />
Animals exposed to SLS and<br />
ALS experience eye damage,<br />
central nervous system depression,<br />
laboured breathing, diarrhoea,<br />
severe skin irritation,<br />
and even death. Young eyes<br />
may not develop properly if<br />
exposed to SLS and ALS because<br />
proteins are dissolved.<br />
SLS and ALS may also damage<br />
the skin's immune system<br />
by causing layers to separate<br />
and inflame. It is frequently<br />
disguised in semi-natural cosmetics<br />
with the explanation<br />
"comes from coconut".<br />
propylene glycol – Propylene glycol<br />
(PG) is a petroleum derivative.<br />
It penetrates the skin and<br />
can weaken protein and cellular<br />
structure. Commonly used<br />
to make extracts from herbs.<br />
PG is strong enough to remove<br />
barnacles from boats! The<br />
EPA considers PG so toxic<br />
that it requires workers to wear<br />
protective gloves, clothing and<br />
goggles and to dispose of any<br />
PG solutions by burying them<br />
in the ground. Because PG<br />
penetrates the skin so quickly,<br />
the EPA warns against skin<br />
contact to prevent consequences<br />
such as brain, liver,<br />
and kidney abnormalities. But<br />
there isn't even a warning label<br />
on products such as stick de-<br />
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(Continued from page 25)<br />
odorants, where the concentration<br />
is greater than in most<br />
industrial applications.<br />
parabens (methyl, ethyl, propyl,<br />
iso, & butyl) – Parabens are<br />
just one of a large bunch of<br />
toxic chemicals that no-one<br />
has any idea of what the long<br />
term effects are if you use<br />
them every day on your skin.<br />
Leave-on products such as facial<br />
makeup and skin lotions<br />
are of greatest concern because<br />
of the long exposure time and<br />
opportunity for migration via<br />
the skin into the bloodstream.<br />
The recently discovered estrogenic<br />
effects of certain synthetic<br />
chemicals, such as the<br />
parabens, and their subsequent<br />
effects on the endocrine system<br />
of humans and wildlife, is<br />
of growing concern—<br />
especially in relation to<br />
women's risk of breast cancer<br />
(a recent study found that 18<br />
out of 20 breast tumors biopsied<br />
contained parabens!)<br />
Reproductive abnormalities in<br />
young boys exposed to such<br />
chemicals either prior to puberty<br />
or as fetuses also may<br />
increase risk for undescended<br />
testicles, testicular cancer,<br />
sperm abnormalities and prostate<br />
disorders.<br />
DEA (aka diet hanolamine),<br />
MEA (monoethanolamine),<br />
and TEA (triethanolamine)--<br />
Best of Health<br />
with Bootsy<br />
Often used in cosmetics to adjust<br />
the pH, and used with<br />
many fatty acids to convert<br />
acid to salt (stearate), which<br />
then becomes the base for a<br />
cleanser. TEA causes allergic<br />
reactions including eye problems,<br />
dryness of hair and skin,<br />
and could be toxic if absorbed<br />
into the body over a long period<br />
of time. These chemicals<br />
are already restricted in Europe<br />
due to known carcinogenic<br />
effects. (why are we so behind<br />
the 8-ball?) Dr. Samuel Epstein<br />
(Professor of Environmental<br />
Health at the University<br />
of Illinois) says that repeated<br />
skin applications . . . of DEAbased<br />
detergents resulted in a<br />
major increase in the incidence<br />
of liver and kidney cancer.<br />
Diazolidinyl Urea - Established as<br />
a primary cause of contact dermatitis<br />
(American Academy of<br />
Dermatology). Contains formaldehyde,<br />
a carcinogenic<br />
chemical, is toxic by inhalation,<br />
a strong irritant, and<br />
causes contact dermatitis.<br />
FD&C Color Pigments – Synthetic<br />
colours made from coal<br />
tar. Contain heavy metal salts<br />
that deposit toxins onto the<br />
skin, causing skin sensitivity<br />
and irritation. Animal studies<br />
have shown almost all of them<br />
to be carcinogenic.<br />
Isopropyl Alcohol (SD-40) - A<br />
very drying and irritating solvent<br />
and dehydrator that strips<br />
your skin's natural acid mantle,<br />
making us more vulnerable to<br />
bacteria, moulds and viruses. It<br />
is made from propylene, a petroleum<br />
derivative. It may promote<br />
brown spots and prema-<br />
ture aging of skin.<br />
Mineral Oil – a petroleum byproduct<br />
that coats the skin like<br />
plastic, clogging the pores.<br />
Interferes with skin's ability to<br />
eliminate toxins, promoting<br />
acne and other disorders.<br />
Slows down skin function and<br />
cell development, resulting in<br />
premature aging. Used in<br />
many products (baby oil is<br />
100% mineral oil!) Any mineral<br />
oil derivative can be contaminated<br />
with cancer causing<br />
PAH's (Polycyclic Aromatic<br />
Hydrocarbons). Manufacturers<br />
use petroleum because it is<br />
unbelievably cheap.<br />
Kind of makes you wonder why we’re<br />
putting these major skin irritants (that<br />
being the least of their effects) onto our<br />
precious skin!!!<br />
Go look at any of your bottles. I guarantee<br />
at least one, if not more, of these<br />
ingredients will be in just about everything<br />
you use. I was amazed and I think<br />
you will be too.<br />
I don’t want to overwhelm you with<br />
too much information this week, nor do<br />
I want you all to panic and throw out<br />
all of your personal care products (like<br />
I did!) – You can save money and more<br />
importantly, your health, by making or<br />
buying products with healthy ingredients.<br />
Once you know the ingredients<br />
that are toxic / harmful, it’s easy to<br />
make decisions for yourself.<br />
To Your Good Health,<br />
Bootsy<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> Volume <strong>II</strong> <strong>Issue</strong> 4 Page 26
Cute Kid Quotes<br />
Gracie writes:<br />
W<br />
hen Avi was starting<br />
to put Rochel’s tights<br />
on her, he grumbled:<br />
‘these tights are a pain in the<br />
neck’.<br />
She responded:<br />
“They don’t go up to the neck!”<br />
*******<br />
‘Big Kids’ Quote:<br />
When Avi started giving out<br />
marshmallows for parsha questions<br />
last Shabbos, Kayla (our<br />
resident noshaholic – obsessed<br />
with candy, who stands by the<br />
cabinet looking up at where nosh<br />
is kept and screams with her<br />
hands up…) saw the bag of treats<br />
and started running towards<br />
him screaming.<br />
Avi said ‘OK, OK, Kayla<br />
– you’ll get a parsha question<br />
too.’<br />
Kayla continued to scream and<br />
Avi asked:<br />
‘What did Yitzchok Avinu Say<br />
when he was born?...Good!<br />
You got it, Kayla!’<br />
And he gave her a marshmallow.<br />
We all laughed.<br />
(Ed. Note: It is going to be hard<br />
remaining Your “Humble” Editor…>)<br />
Racheli had a writing assignment in<br />
school. She was told to write a paragraph<br />
about her grandmother – here it is:<br />
“My Grandmother”<br />
By: Racheli Josephs<br />
Ainekle<br />
Creative Writing!<br />
Have you ever experienced coming home after a long tiring<br />
day of school to a quiet gloomy house? Well, not when my<br />
grandmother is there. When she walks in the door, you hear<br />
a nice cheery “HELLO”.<br />
My grandmother, Shana Kramer, is a very humorous and<br />
cheerful person to be with. My grandmother is about 55<br />
years old and seems like she is 35. Every week she sends<br />
out a thirty page newsletter to a huge email list she has<br />
(friends and family). Now this newsletter is not just “news”.<br />
It’s every little breath that someone takes. She spends all<br />
night on it, and each issue is a gorgeous masterpiece.<br />
Aside from all these qualities, she is also a good, talented<br />
Balabusta, and I love her French Toast and Tzimmes. She<br />
has a lot of patience for everyone. She is so, so special in so<br />
many ways. There is no one in the world like my grandmother.<br />
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Skipping the birthday list in the last two issues of <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> has<br />
left Your Humble Editor with some serious egg on her face.<br />
Not only did she miss noting Klony and Gitty’s first anniversary, but<br />
Klony’s English birthday as well!<br />
(Not to mention ignoring the birthday of TWO mothers of<br />
Kramer aineklach (!), and missing the first chance KOL KRAMERS<br />
would have had to wish Happy Birthday to Aunt Tyra,<br />
since inaugurating our new policy of only announcing the ages of the<br />
under-drinking-age set.)<br />
So...some serious back-pedaling is in order:<br />
Happy Birthday to Cousins M’Chaim and Ruth’s Adiel Leora Lieberman who turned 2 on November 5th!<br />
Happy Birthday to Aunt Tyra on November 5th as well!<br />
Happy Retroactive<br />
Birthdays To:<br />
Happy Birthday to Cousins Miri (Kellner) Frankel on November 13th!<br />
Happy Birthday to Cousins Chumie and Shloime’s Basya Greenberger who turned 2 on November 14th!<br />
Happy Birthday to Cousins Sori and Menachem’s Ruchama King who turned 7, also on November 14th!<br />
Happy Birthday to Cousin Gitty’s Klony Kellner on November 20th!<br />
Happy Birthday to Chumie (Kramer) Jacobson on November 21st, who has now reached the age at which<br />
we no longer report ages! (But we might suggest that her much older husband, Yisrael Meir, take her out for<br />
a glass of wine to celebrate!)<br />
Happy Birthday to Faige (Krohn) Kramer on November 21st as well. And Chananya never needs an excuse<br />
to take his wife out and buy her a glass of wine.)<br />
Happy Birthday to honorary Kramer, practically IS a Kramer, Esti Tomaszewski on November 24th!<br />
Happy Birthday to Merry Berkowitz, in the Windy City, on November 24th!<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> Volume <strong>II</strong> <strong>Issue</strong> 4 Page 28
Salmon Loaf a la Bluma Leonard Trapp<br />
—a great change from Gefilte Fish!<br />
This recipe was modified from “The Kosher Palate”<br />
2 - 15 oz. cans of salmon, drained and flaked<br />
1 pint of pareve sour cream<br />
4 eggs, beaten<br />
2 Tablespoons lemon juice<br />
1 large can of crispy fried onion rings, crumbled—reserve 1/3<br />
2-3 tablespoons unflavored bread crumbs (for topping)<br />
Add all ingredients, except the bread crumbs, to drained, flaked salmon, reserving 1/3<br />
of the onion rings.<br />
Pour mixture into Pam-sprayed loaf pan.<br />
Sprinkle top with remaining crumbled onion rings, and the bread crumbs.<br />
Bake at 350 degrees, uncovered, for 30 minutes.<br />
Chill, slice and serve with a creamy horseradish sauce,<br />
—or better yet, with Bluma’s terrific Cucumber Dill Sauce<br />
Cucumber-Dill Sauce<br />
1 large cucumber, seeded, skinned and diced<br />
3/4 cup mayonnaise<br />
3 tablespoons finely chopped onions<br />
1/2 cup water<br />
1 tablespoon chopped fresh dill or 1 teaspoon dried dill (optional)<br />
Combine cucumber, mayo, onion and dill.<br />
gradually add the water until reaching desired consistency.<br />
Cover and chill. Enjoy!<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> Volume <strong>II</strong> <strong>Issue</strong> 4 Page 29
Kramer Korrection:<br />
Two weeks ago we wrote that O. R. Klony<br />
from Katamon shared Asian Spring Rolls<br />
with Mommy at Nessims-<br />
-we MEANT of course, La Gondola.<br />
Apologies to Chumie and YM for any<br />
mental anguish this inaccurate report<br />
may have caused...<br />
Fan Mail for Krispy <strong>Kramers</strong>!<br />
Gittie Ury writes in, just back from<br />
Israel:<br />
Shana,<br />
We got back at noon today.<br />
We are zonked, but I just wanted<br />
to let you know that I had to have<br />
Leeba check my <strong>Kol</strong> Kramer archives<br />
while we were Israel.<br />
Ayala wanted to make a Yabzek<br />
and I couldn’t remember the recipe,<br />
so Leeba read it to us over the<br />
phone early Friday morning our<br />
time in Yerushalayim. They really<br />
liked the results.<br />
Hope all is well on the home front.<br />
Gittie<br />
Dr. Irving Lebovics sent this<br />
photo in with the caption:<br />
“ONLY IN NEW YORK!”—><br />
Letters to <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong><br />
Chananya’s pal and dedicated<br />
KOL KRAMERS fan<br />
Jeff Cohn sent this in:<br />
It’d be Chaval not to have KOL-<br />
KRAMERS recognize the Borei<br />
Olam showing off his Crayonics.<br />
Jackie Spivack in Efrat took these<br />
from his porch.<br />
Cousin Rivka in Haifa sent in this<br />
lovely “painted photo” she made of<br />
Cousin Kayla (Kellner) Pitter and her<br />
Sara Shaindel! Rivka offers to do likewise<br />
for you:<br />
“You can send the pictures (of the subject<br />
with a simple or natural backround).<br />
To my e-mail:<br />
RivkaKellner@hotmail.com”<br />
Chananya passed along this amazing link to film shot in Hungary in 1933 by CBS news. The Kallah in the wedding scene is the<br />
mother of Kayla and JJ’s Mesader Kedushin, and Joe Rabinowich’s first cousin, the Dinover Rebbe!<br />
“Here is a link to a nine minute video of Jewish life in Munkatch in March 1933, including footage of the wedding of the daughter<br />
of the Minchas Elazar. The Rebbe makes a short speech in Yiddish exhorting Jews in America to keep Shabbos.<br />
There is also the chuppah scene, and a juxtaposition of very secular Jewish life in Munkatch at the time.”<br />
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=1622609518319953327&q=%22Jewish+Life+in+Munkatch+-+March+1933+-+complete+version%22+playable%3Atrue<br />
(if the link does not work initially by just clicking on it, hold down “control” while you click on the link.)<br />
<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Kramers</strong> Volume <strong>II</strong> <strong>Issue</strong> 4 Page 30