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Day 28<br />
Write a Love Letter<br />
We previously discussed the idea that every man should strive to be a<br />
romantic lover, and how the date is one of a man’s best tools for wooing a<br />
lady. A man’s other major tool in the romance department is the love letter.<br />
As long as love (and writing utensils) has existed, so has the love letter. It<br />
has been the go-to way for millions of men throughout history to confess<br />
or reiterate their feelings of love for another.<br />
Plenty of women, of course, have and will continue to write love letters.<br />
But as the sex that has historically been the “pursuer” in the relationship<br />
and often has trouble vocally expressing their feelings, writing love letters<br />
has traditionally been the purview of men.<br />
It’s not always easy to express our feelings to our significant others. We’d<br />
rather show our love through actions. We feel that our love for someone is<br />
manifestly obvious, because after all, don’t we vacuum the house, and mow<br />
the lawn, and make them their favorite pancakes every Sunday morning?<br />
Our actions show that we’re faithful and true, and to us it feels like this<br />
should be enough.<br />
But it’s not quite that way for a woman. Women definitely appreciate our<br />
acts of love, but their brains are also quite a bit more language oriented than<br />
ours. They want to hear the words behind the actions. They want to know<br />
exactly what’s in our hearts.<br />
But it’s hard to not only find the right words to express how we feel<br />
about someone, but to also make it flow and sound real purty. It’s especially<br />
difficult when you’re sitting down with someone and trying to remember<br />
exactly what you wanted to say. Enter the love letter.<br />
Writing a fantastically romantic love letter can be a challenge, but that’s<br />
what you signed up for with this 30 Days project. So let’s get started.