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30 Days to a better man<br />

want anyone to give you a closer inspection. But when you practice<br />

good grooming and dress nicely, you’ll feel great about yourself. You’ll<br />

have more self-confidence, and you won’t be afraid to look people in<br />

the eye.<br />

Also, dressing nicely makes people more comfortable with talking<br />

to you. People get nervous when sketchy looking men try to start conversations<br />

with them. Dressing nicely makes you more approachable.<br />

3. Smile and say “Hi!” You’d be surprised how a smile and a “hello” can<br />

break the ice with people. Instead of keeping your eyes glued to the<br />

ground as you’re walking, make it a habit to smile and say hi to people<br />

as you pass them. You might not start a conversation with that person,<br />

but it’s a good baby step towards having full-flung conversations with<br />

strangers. If you need another reason to get into this habit, smiling<br />

and saying hi is probably the only pick-up line that consistently works<br />

with women.<br />

4. Break the ice by finding something you have in common at<br />

the moment. At a wedding? Ask the person how they know the<br />

bride and groom. At a school function? Ask about the person’s<br />

kid and share something about yours. Standing in line at the coffee<br />

shop? Ask a person what they suggest ordering. The conversation<br />

may only last for a minute, but there’s always a chance<br />

you’re striking up a conversation with a new mentor or girlfriend.<br />

Click here for a comprehensive guide on the art of small talk.<br />

5. Talk to people at businesses you frequent. Talking to a business’s<br />

employees is one of the easiest ways to begin a conversation with<br />

someone, because you already sort of have a relationship with them.<br />

They make your coffee, bring you your food, or cash your checks.<br />

Instead of keeping your communications strictly business, show some<br />

genuine interest in these folks and ask them questions like, “How’s<br />

business today?” or, “How’s your day today?” or, “How long have you<br />

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