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HARIJAI SINGH PART 4

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CHAPTER 38<br />

Back to New York, our married life picked up the work<br />

momentum, slowly but smoothly.<br />

Work and fantasy don’t go together, not in New York where the<br />

pace of life hardly gives you a chance to pause and look back.<br />

Life’s signal is sharp and clear: look ahead and look forward.<br />

This is a matter of survival.<br />

Survive all must, but in a harmonious way. This is how Zaheer<br />

and I have adjusted our life beautifully without any trace of<br />

friction. This was possible simply because there was no thirdparty<br />

intervention in our life.<br />

Zaheer’s parents and relations were back in Saharanpur. Right<br />

now, I won’t recall my mother-in-law’s partying advice to me. I<br />

shall share with you later, at an opportune time. Right now, my<br />

priority is to pick up the threads from my research work.<br />

As for Zaheer, he was awfully busy with his work. He was<br />

working hard since his promotion was on the cards. So, he had<br />

no time to think and talk about small, small things of life. I like<br />

this.<br />

I too do not wish to get lost in small matters of life. I always<br />

believe in Think Big and Act Big. This is what makes life<br />

challenging and stimulating.<br />

Weeks passed by. Months rolled into years. Life, by and large,<br />

has a smooth sailing. More than half of my research on intercommunity<br />

relations was through. I was happy with the<br />

progress. But I cannot build castles of harmony on certain set<br />

theories.<br />

Inter-community relationship is a live issue. It could vary from<br />

one set of persons to another. It could change in assessment<br />

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