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CHAPTER 38<br />
Back to New York, our married life picked up the work<br />
momentum, slowly but smoothly.<br />
Work and fantasy don’t go together, not in New York where the<br />
pace of life hardly gives you a chance to pause and look back.<br />
Life’s signal is sharp and clear: look ahead and look forward.<br />
This is a matter of survival.<br />
Survive all must, but in a harmonious way. This is how Zaheer<br />
and I have adjusted our life beautifully without any trace of<br />
friction. This was possible simply because there was no thirdparty<br />
intervention in our life.<br />
Zaheer’s parents and relations were back in Saharanpur. Right<br />
now, I won’t recall my mother-in-law’s partying advice to me. I<br />
shall share with you later, at an opportune time. Right now, my<br />
priority is to pick up the threads from my research work.<br />
As for Zaheer, he was awfully busy with his work. He was<br />
working hard since his promotion was on the cards. So, he had<br />
no time to think and talk about small, small things of life. I like<br />
this.<br />
I too do not wish to get lost in small matters of life. I always<br />
believe in Think Big and Act Big. This is what makes life<br />
challenging and stimulating.<br />
Weeks passed by. Months rolled into years. Life, by and large,<br />
has a smooth sailing. More than half of my research on intercommunity<br />
relations was through. I was happy with the<br />
progress. But I cannot build castles of harmony on certain set<br />
theories.<br />
Inter-community relationship is a live issue. It could vary from<br />
one set of persons to another. It could change in assessment<br />
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