Inspiring Women Summer 2018

questions: “Where are you from? What brought you here?” My husband and I answer with
longish-brevity - explaining he was born in the Netherlands, but his parents moved to the US
when he was two. We had a three-year rotation in the Netherlands, returned to Texas for 18
months, now we’re back in Belgium. We lob the ball back to her side of the court.
She takes us on a journey across time zones, continents, and decades. The litany of places she’s
lived - breathed, experienced, loved - was extensive. As she illustrates each chapter in her life,
our heads lean closer and our eyes peer deeper. At the end of her story, we stand tall and
breathe deep. An appreciative smile tugs at the corner of my lips. Not only is she a woman of
expat life - the true definition of courageous, strong and defiant - but also what I am quickly
learning to be a FAWCO woman - one who takes all that knowledge and energy to transform it
into something more meaningful and worthwhile than her own agenda.
“So - where now, shall we find the
champagne?” She squints a devious smile.
This woman deserves a toast.
The American Women’s Club of Antwerp
hostess - Marja Reunis-de Rechter - opens
the evening. She captivates the audience
with her words - the energy of the room
bounces across the mirrors surrounding us.
She introduces Alain Honorez, the head of
the Royal Ballet School of Antwerp, and he
begins his speech.
Each word spoken from his lips has been
transformed by his heart. With a hand on his
chest, he articulates his appreciation of the
American Women’s Club of Antwerp - their
support and generosity. Breath is held.
Smiles widen. Heads tilt. After thunderous
applause, a beautiful girl - pencil-thin and
dressed in black - approaches the open
space at the front of the beautiful room. The
music begins.
She is a moving work of art - she stretches,
leaps and expresses herself and the music.
Tiptoeing across the historic parquet floors,
she paints a portrait with her body and expressions in her face. Two boys enter the floor. The
movements are the opposite of their female counterpart - intense, calculated and defined.
The performances conclude and applause echoes through the room. Bouquets are presented.
Bows to the audience given.
Before dessert, Carol Brazle, head of the Caring Hearts Project, takes the stage. She introduces
a doctor from a local hospital. “I remember, many years ago. . . the patient had a young son,
around six years old. . . and I had to tell him his mother was sick. He screamed and hid from the
‘man in the white coat’; from then on I never wore my white coat when I delivered news.”
Tears brim at our eyes. Carol describes the original starkness of the hospital lounges where
diagnoses were delivered. The AWCA recognizes the importance of creating comfortable
lounges for patients with color, fabrics and children’s corners.
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