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“We slumped crestfallen into the changing<br />
room, with the odd sob from a Founders<br />
boy breaking the slience...”<br />
already seen off the muscleencrusted<br />
specimens of the Paarl<br />
and Stellenbosch schools and we<br />
only had, I think, Strand High<br />
School and, of course,<br />
Rondebosch to go.<br />
This was a splendid time of<br />
the season, especially when you<br />
are unbeaten and you have<br />
Rondebosch at home to finish as<br />
your coronation and then go on<br />
to that most sacred of<br />
institutions, housematches. I<br />
could go on about those Black<br />
Southeaster September<br />
afternoons in which the results<br />
of furious internecine rivalry<br />
filled the sanatorium, but safety<br />
is important these days, sigh, and<br />
soon we will have to drive to<br />
school in crash helmets with the<br />
mitre on them…<br />
Now Strand, whose parents all<br />
apparently worked at the<br />
dynamite factory nearby – this<br />
was long before the area boasted<br />
a Mugg & Bean – I don’t think had<br />
won one game the entire season.<br />
Well, they would’ve beaten SACS,<br />
because everybody did.<br />
With brilliantly shined<br />
brogues, our hair polished and<br />
teeth combed, we went out there<br />
in the normal glittering convoy<br />
of parents’ cars (mine excluded,<br />
our ageing, yet sensible, Peugeot<br />
404 didn’t glitter) – and lost.<br />
We slumped crestfallen into<br />
the changing room, with the<br />
odd sob from a Founders boy<br />
breaking the silence, until<br />
Rubber Duck walked in,<br />
clutching his shooting stick<br />
and wearing a broad smile.<br />
“Thank God,” he said, “I<br />
was worried that we were<br />
going to go unbeaten.”<br />
Golly, we thought, what’s the<br />
Duck on about? His logic was, of<br />
course, that the point of being at<br />
the school was our broader<br />
education (for most of us) and<br />
that we would learn far more<br />
from this defeat than we would<br />
have had we gone unbeaten. He<br />
was, of course, completely right.<br />
I know in recent years we<br />
have probably made overuse of<br />
this lesson and probably become<br />
quite proficient in processing<br />
defeat, but it is very important in<br />
the school of life to know how to<br />
handle these setbacks. Trot out<br />
the clichés, blame the ref if that’s<br />
all you can do, but most<br />
importantly, pick yourself up<br />
and look forward.<br />
I suppose the key is not to<br />
become too adept at it.<br />
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