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Spa Executive | Issue 11 | October 2019

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Don’t let a toxic employee poison your spa<br />

workplace. To spot them, look for:<br />

A person who is very self regarding.<br />

Minor’s study found that people who are<br />

highly “self regarding,” as opposed to “other<br />

regarding,” are more likely to be toxic<br />

employees. A self regarding person does not<br />

“internalize the cost that their behavior<br />

imposes on others,” wrote Minor. “A way to<br />

capture one’s degree of other-regardingness<br />

is to identify how concerned one is about<br />

taking care of another’s needs.” This concern<br />

should impact the choices one makes, and<br />

someone who is more self regarding is,<br />

therefore, more likely to cause toxicity<br />

because they don’t care how their actions<br />

affects co-workers.<br />

Someone who is overconfident.<br />

According to Minor’s paper, overconfidence<br />

is an inflated belief in one’s own abilities that<br />

can be linked to engaging in misconduct.<br />

Someone who is overconfident believes that<br />

the probability of the better outcome is higher<br />

than it actually is. It makes sense to also<br />

associate overconfidence with higher self<br />

regard and a propensity towards always<br />

being right. Confidence is good.<br />

Overconfidence can be toxic.<br />

Someone who always insists on<br />

following the rules.<br />

This one is odd, but according to Minor,<br />

people who claim the rules should never be<br />

broken — as opposed to saying sometimes<br />

it’s necessary to break the rules to<br />

accomplish something — are significantly<br />

more likely to be terminated for breaking the<br />

rules. Minor suggests that this is a form of<br />

Machiavellianism of which we should be<br />

wary.<br />

Heightened tensions and drama when<br />

one person is around compared with<br />

when they are not.<br />

Moving away from Minor’s findings and into<br />

more general territory, if it feels like tensions<br />

tend to mount and fall on a regular basis, look<br />

around and see if there isn’t a common<br />

denominator. It could be just one person<br />

causing all that tension — if you can spot that<br />

person, you’re going to have to address it.<br />

“A way to capture<br />

one’s degree of<br />

other-regardingn<br />

ess is to identify<br />

how concerned<br />

one is about<br />

taking care of<br />

another’s needs.”<br />

The last one standing.<br />

I once worked at a company with a manager<br />

whose entire team kept getting fired one after<br />

the other. Project after project tanked under<br />

this person’s leadership, and yet she<br />

remained at the company while her<br />

employees kept getting let go – she even got<br />

promoted. At no point did her superiors ever<br />

seem to think maybe the problem was her,<br />

though everyone else around could see it<br />

plain as day.<br />

Someone who always has a problem.<br />

You know that one person who is never<br />

happy? Some of us might look for an<br />

explanation for this person’s constant<br />

complaints, assume that it’s our fault or<br />

someone else’s, or worry that they’re justified<br />

in some other way. But sometimes a person<br />

is just difficult and enjoys being unhappy –<br />

and that unhappiness will spread to the rest<br />

of your team.<br />

A person who is always right.<br />

We all know that person who can never back<br />

down and admit to being wrong. In an<br />

employee and colleague, this behavior can<br />

be very hard to handle and can certainly<br />

poison an atmosphere. One who is never<br />

wrong lacks humility, as well as the openness<br />

to learning that makes a great team member.<br />

Keep an eye out for the person who is never<br />

wrong. They are bad for any environment.<br />

Someone who seems to be at the top of<br />

the pecking order.<br />

You can’t always spot bullying but you might<br />

notice that a hierarchy has formed with a<br />

monarch at the top and subjects underneath<br />

who genuflect and vie for that person’s<br />

favour. This can seem benign on the surface<br />

but is an unhealthy peer structure that should<br />

be monitored. Nobody should be in charge<br />

but management, and even then nobody<br />

should be behaving like a queen bee.<br />

Back to Minor’s research, the study found,<br />

interestingly, that toxic workers are actually<br />

very productive, which may explain why<br />

managers tend to keep them around. But<br />

they’re still not worth it, because they ruin the<br />

work environment and can turn non-toxic<br />

workers into toxic ones. You’ve heard of the<br />

bad apple spoiling the whole bunch.<br />

Spotting the person presenting an issue is<br />

the first step towards fixing the situation.<br />

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