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Milestones Magazine Fall Issue

Milestones Magazine was developed to help individuals with disabilities and their families achieve and celebrate events and milestones in their lives.

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Having our Baby!<br />

The road to parenthood, symbolically speaking, defies basic<br />

arithmetic as the only time one plus one equals three. It is considered<br />

one of the major milestones of any given person’s adult life. While not<br />

all people choose to have children; and some have medical issues that<br />

make having a biological child risky or impossible; most everyone<br />

intent on having and/or raising a child finds a way to do so. And,<br />

generally speaking, that process moves forward for individuals and<br />

couples without interference from outsiders, other than those involved<br />

in the process of adoption.<br />

That is not always the case for adults with disabilities. <strong>Issue</strong>s for them<br />

range from having to adapt how they provide care for their child due to<br />

the disability to dealing with child welfare authorities concerned that the<br />

disability affects their fitness as parents. The first issue is easier to find<br />

solutions for; parents can get very creative about this. My mother-in-law<br />

told my husband a story about a woman she knew with no arms who<br />

gave her baby baths using her feet.<br />

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