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Whitchurch and Llandaff Living Issue 56

Winter 2019/20 issue of the award-winning Whitchurch and Llandaff Living.

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Make<br />

The<br />

Change<br />

As a new decade dawns, we present a psychological model that<br />

can help you make positive changes in your life - <strong>and</strong> keep them<br />

Precontemplation<br />

This is the first stage of the model. In this stage, people do<br />

not intend to take action in the foreseeable future (defined<br />

as within the next six months). People are often unaware<br />

that their behaviour is problematic or produces negative<br />

consequences. They also often underestimate the benefits<br />

of changing behaviour <strong>and</strong> place too much emphasis on<br />

the cons of changing behaviour. They are often not aware<br />

of these processes.<br />

If you are in this stage, begin by asking yourself some<br />

questions. Have you ever tried to change this behaviour in<br />

the past? How do you recognise that you want to change?<br />

What would have to happen for you to consider changing<br />

your behaviour?<br />

Contemplation<br />

During this stage, you will start to become aware<br />

of the benefits of making a positive change. Bear in<br />

mind that many people never make it past this stage.<br />

Generally, if you are considering making the change<br />

within the next six months, you are at this stage. Ask<br />

yourself some important questions:<br />

Why do you want to change? Is there anything<br />

preventing you from changing? What are some of<br />

the things that could help you make this change?<br />

You may still feel ambivalent towards making the<br />

change but the fact that you are contemplating is a<br />

step in the right direction.<br />

Others can help you at this stage by encouraging<br />

you to work at reducing the cons of changing your<br />

behaviour <strong>and</strong> emphasising the pros. Learn from<br />

those who have already made changes.<br />

46 This feature is based on The Stages of Change Model, developed by Prochaska <strong>and</strong> DiClemente in the 1980s

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