Inspiring Women SUMMER 2020
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she had said from the sidewalk. My internet radio plays<br />
NPR from a corner of my kitchen. A Dallas reporter<br />
recorded his walk with his children.<br />
My children and I peruse the city streets - avoiding the few<br />
bicycles, empty buses and trams. We explore new cobbles<br />
and memorize unfamiliar street names. We gaze into<br />
gorgeous windows lined with enchanting Art Nouveau<br />
details and count 109 Teddy Bears – my middle child<br />
recording each sighting with a tickmark on his pad of<br />
paper.<br />
Care Bears stand proudly in windows, their bellies forward in a Care Bear stare. “Mama, which<br />
one is that one?” and I scroll through decades of memories to resurface “Tenderheart Bear!<br />
Cheer Bear! Friend Bear!”<br />
There are hand-drawn bears, well-loved bears, tiny bears, huge bears, and a chicken. A woman<br />
gazes from her window and points to her hidden bear in the corner – tucked behind a frosted<br />
glass windowpane. She smiles and we smile back. A human connection between windows. And<br />
Teddy Bears.<br />
We return home by snack time. As they munch on crackers, cheese and apples, I head upstairs to<br />
my sons’ bookshelf and run my fingers across the titles I unpacked a week ago.<br />
“Come on, I want to read y’all a story,” I tell them.<br />
With them all nestled on the couch, I begin. “The First Teddy Bear, by Helen Kay.” I read them the<br />
book my mother had read to me as a child. I flip the<br />
pages and my children learn about the American<br />
President, Theodore (Teddy) Roosevelt, and a humble<br />
candy store owner in Brooklyn who made toys at night.<br />
At a time when the USA was mocking the President for<br />
not shooting a small, cinnamon-colored bear during<br />
the Great Bear Hunt of 1902, Morris Michtom, the candy<br />
store man, celebrated the President’s compassion. He<br />
and his wife stitched a toy bear and asked the<br />
President if he’d mind it being named after him. “I<br />
cannot imagine what good my name will do,”<br />
President Roosevelt wrote, but he didn’t mind. I tell my<br />
children that when I was twelve, I went to the National<br />
Museum of American History (part of the Smithsonian Institute) to see the very first Teddy Bear.<br />
<strong>2020</strong>, the year of Coronavirus. We are isolated, scared and vulnerable. People are sick and dying.<br />
The future is unknown. On the subplot, children (and adults alike) are also missing their friends,<br />
wanting the comfort of their routine and craving human connection. Unfortunately, there’s no<br />
way around this. “We can’t go over it. We can’t go under it. Oh no! We’ve got to go through it!”<br />
Like the President’s Great Bear Hunt of 1902, we venture into the unknown expecting one thing,<br />
but we are finding compassion and comfort instead. Inside that narrow, gloomy cave is a bear. A<br />
Teddy Bear. And amid it all, I’ve found a new place in my heart for Bear Hunts.<br />
Celeste Bennekers grew up in Plano, Texas and currently lives in Belgium where she is the<br />
President of the American <strong>Women</strong>'s Club of Antwerp. In a former life, she worked in public<br />
accounting and was an auditor for American Airlines, where she traveled constantly visiting major<br />
(and minor) airports all over the world. She now shares the love of travel with her husband and<br />
three children, ages ten, eight, and five, who attend local Belgian schools. Although she's far from<br />
home, she can be seen around Antwerp wearing cowboy boots on rainy days, celebrating Cinco<br />
de Mayo, and loves frying chicken and baking biscuits for her family and friends in her greataunt's<br />
cast-iron skillet.<br />
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