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Inspiring Women SUMMER 2020

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she had said from the sidewalk. My internet radio plays<br />

NPR from a corner of my kitchen. A Dallas reporter<br />

recorded his walk with his children.<br />

My children and I peruse the city streets - avoiding the few<br />

bicycles, empty buses and trams. We explore new cobbles<br />

and memorize unfamiliar street names. We gaze into<br />

gorgeous windows lined with enchanting Art Nouveau<br />

details and count 109 Teddy Bears – my middle child<br />

recording each sighting with a tickmark on his pad of<br />

paper.<br />

Care Bears stand proudly in windows, their bellies forward in a Care Bear stare. “Mama, which<br />

one is that one?” and I scroll through decades of memories to resurface “Tenderheart Bear!<br />

Cheer Bear! Friend Bear!”<br />

There are hand-drawn bears, well-loved bears, tiny bears, huge bears, and a chicken. A woman<br />

gazes from her window and points to her hidden bear in the corner – tucked behind a frosted<br />

glass windowpane. She smiles and we smile back. A human connection between windows. And<br />

Teddy Bears.<br />

We return home by snack time. As they munch on crackers, cheese and apples, I head upstairs to<br />

my sons’ bookshelf and run my fingers across the titles I unpacked a week ago.<br />

“Come on, I want to read y’all a story,” I tell them.<br />

With them all nestled on the couch, I begin. “The First Teddy Bear, by Helen Kay.” I read them the<br />

book my mother had read to me as a child. I flip the<br />

pages and my children learn about the American<br />

President, Theodore (Teddy) Roosevelt, and a humble<br />

candy store owner in Brooklyn who made toys at night.<br />

At a time when the USA was mocking the President for<br />

not shooting a small, cinnamon-colored bear during<br />

the Great Bear Hunt of 1902, Morris Michtom, the candy<br />

store man, celebrated the President’s compassion. He<br />

and his wife stitched a toy bear and asked the<br />

President if he’d mind it being named after him. “I<br />

cannot imagine what good my name will do,”<br />

President Roosevelt wrote, but he didn’t mind. I tell my<br />

children that when I was twelve, I went to the National<br />

Museum of American History (part of the Smithsonian Institute) to see the very first Teddy Bear.<br />

<strong>2020</strong>, the year of Coronavirus. We are isolated, scared and vulnerable. People are sick and dying.<br />

The future is unknown. On the subplot, children (and adults alike) are also missing their friends,<br />

wanting the comfort of their routine and craving human connection. Unfortunately, there’s no<br />

way around this. “We can’t go over it. We can’t go under it. Oh no! We’ve got to go through it!”<br />

Like the President’s Great Bear Hunt of 1902, we venture into the unknown expecting one thing,<br />

but we are finding compassion and comfort instead. Inside that narrow, gloomy cave is a bear. A<br />

Teddy Bear. And amid it all, I’ve found a new place in my heart for Bear Hunts.<br />

Celeste Bennekers grew up in Plano, Texas and currently lives in Belgium where she is the<br />

President of the American <strong>Women</strong>'s Club of Antwerp. In a former life, she worked in public<br />

accounting and was an auditor for American Airlines, where she traveled constantly visiting major<br />

(and minor) airports all over the world. She now shares the love of travel with her husband and<br />

three children, ages ten, eight, and five, who attend local Belgian schools. Although she's far from<br />

home, she can be seen around Antwerp wearing cowboy boots on rainy days, celebrating Cinco<br />

de Mayo, and loves frying chicken and baking biscuits for her family and friends in her greataunt's<br />

cast-iron skillet.<br />

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