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A Pandemic Presidency in Paris<br />

CATHY FARNAN<br />

Member: American <strong>Women</strong>’s Group in Paris<br />

From: Shady Side (near Annapolis), MD<br />

Lives: Paris, France<br />

important lessons growing up.<br />

I grew up on the Chesapeake Bay, near Annapolis, MD<br />

where my parents were avid, competitive sailors, racing<br />

a 41’ sailboat around the Bay. While winning was fun, my<br />

dad was also incredibly patient, teaching many friends<br />

and co-workers the joy of sailing. My parents frequently<br />

welcomed young sailors into our home, often offering<br />

them a place to bunk down for the summer. Racing as a<br />

family taught us teamwork, trust and flexibility; with the<br />

quick change of the wind, we could be idly drifting or<br />

pounding through a wicked storm. No matter the<br />

weather, if it was a race, we were out there on the Bay.<br />

Respect for the water, weather and family were<br />

Childhood family vacations were all spent sailing on the Bay. It was a big shock, after<br />

graduating from the College of William & Mary, to be transferred to Kansas City, MO with<br />

Marriott Hotels (as assistant comptroller). I had never been west of the Appalachian Mountains<br />

and wasn’t sure if I could actually survive without a view of the water! But I quickly adjusted<br />

from eating steamed crabs to eating barbeque and soon met the love of my life, Don. My<br />

future husband’s first introduction to my family was an invitation to crew an overnight race in<br />

Annapolis! My brothers gave their blessing when he didn’t get seasick despite some rough<br />

weather! Thank goodness, he had passed my family’s “sailing test” and we soon married,<br />

looking ahead to life with “why knot”? The love of sailing continues through the generations as<br />

our three daughters have also gained a<br />

love for the water and boating.<br />

Our accounting careers were anything<br />

but boring, as we were offered fun,<br />

adventuresome opportunities. We eagerly<br />

accepted with “why knot”! From Missouri,<br />

to Arizona, Virginia, Tokyo, Washington<br />

DC, New York City, and now Paris, our<br />

lives have been full of experiences, travel<br />

and fun that we never imagined. When<br />

we were transferred to Japan, I became<br />

quickly involved with the Tokyo Union<br />

Church <strong>Women</strong>’s Society and ASIJ PTO.<br />

Volunteering was mentally and spiritually<br />

rewarding and introduced us to lots of<br />

new people. I have found there are many<br />

non-profit organizations in need of<br />

financial skills and advice.<br />

The day after we moved to Paris in 2016, I<br />

joined the American <strong>Women</strong>’s Group in<br />

Paris, making life-long friends, participating<br />

in many tours, excursions and tastings.<br />

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Sailing on the Bay

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