Inspiring Women SUMMER 2020
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A Pandemic Presidency in Paris<br />
CATHY FARNAN<br />
Member: American <strong>Women</strong>’s Group in Paris<br />
From: Shady Side (near Annapolis), MD<br />
Lives: Paris, France<br />
important lessons growing up.<br />
I grew up on the Chesapeake Bay, near Annapolis, MD<br />
where my parents were avid, competitive sailors, racing<br />
a 41’ sailboat around the Bay. While winning was fun, my<br />
dad was also incredibly patient, teaching many friends<br />
and co-workers the joy of sailing. My parents frequently<br />
welcomed young sailors into our home, often offering<br />
them a place to bunk down for the summer. Racing as a<br />
family taught us teamwork, trust and flexibility; with the<br />
quick change of the wind, we could be idly drifting or<br />
pounding through a wicked storm. No matter the<br />
weather, if it was a race, we were out there on the Bay.<br />
Respect for the water, weather and family were<br />
Childhood family vacations were all spent sailing on the Bay. It was a big shock, after<br />
graduating from the College of William & Mary, to be transferred to Kansas City, MO with<br />
Marriott Hotels (as assistant comptroller). I had never been west of the Appalachian Mountains<br />
and wasn’t sure if I could actually survive without a view of the water! But I quickly adjusted<br />
from eating steamed crabs to eating barbeque and soon met the love of my life, Don. My<br />
future husband’s first introduction to my family was an invitation to crew an overnight race in<br />
Annapolis! My brothers gave their blessing when he didn’t get seasick despite some rough<br />
weather! Thank goodness, he had passed my family’s “sailing test” and we soon married,<br />
looking ahead to life with “why knot”? The love of sailing continues through the generations as<br />
our three daughters have also gained a<br />
love for the water and boating.<br />
Our accounting careers were anything<br />
but boring, as we were offered fun,<br />
adventuresome opportunities. We eagerly<br />
accepted with “why knot”! From Missouri,<br />
to Arizona, Virginia, Tokyo, Washington<br />
DC, New York City, and now Paris, our<br />
lives have been full of experiences, travel<br />
and fun that we never imagined. When<br />
we were transferred to Japan, I became<br />
quickly involved with the Tokyo Union<br />
Church <strong>Women</strong>’s Society and ASIJ PTO.<br />
Volunteering was mentally and spiritually<br />
rewarding and introduced us to lots of<br />
new people. I have found there are many<br />
non-profit organizations in need of<br />
financial skills and advice.<br />
The day after we moved to Paris in 2016, I<br />
joined the American <strong>Women</strong>’s Group in<br />
Paris, making life-long friends, participating<br />
in many tours, excursions and tastings.<br />
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Sailing on the Bay