Island Parent February/March 2021
Victoria and Vancouver Island's Parenting Resource for 33 Years • Special Needs Issue • 20 Things Parent of Kids with Special Needs Should Hear • From Stylist to Fashion Police: What to do when kids decide what to wear • Kid-friendly Favourites in Tofino
Victoria and Vancouver Island's Parenting Resource for 33 Years • Special Needs Issue • 20 Things Parent of Kids with Special Needs Should Hear • From Stylist to Fashion Police: What to do when kids decide what to wear • Kid-friendly Favourites in Tofino
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The one who sends adorable treat bags<br />
for every holiday. The one who finds the<br />
coolest gifts for the teachers every year.<br />
And whose child is always dressed in the<br />
cutest outfits that somehow never get<br />
dirty. If that’s the mom you are led to<br />
be, more power to you! However, I have<br />
found that there are always enough of<br />
those moms in my kid’s classes to keep<br />
them in cute snacks and treat bags. Since<br />
I have bigger fish to fry, I let them have<br />
all the glory!<br />
19. Make time for your relationship.<br />
Relationships are hard work, period.<br />
<strong>Parent</strong>ing is hard work, period. <strong>Parent</strong>ing<br />
a child with special needs, is especially<br />
hard work, period. For those of you who<br />
are married or in a relationship, make<br />
time for that relationship away from<br />
your children.<br />
20. Trust your instincts.<br />
You know your children best. Doctors,<br />
teachers, therapists are all fantastic<br />
resources but if you don’t feel like you’re<br />
being heard, or your child’s needs are<br />
being met, it’s reasonable to get a second<br />
opinion. Don’t be afraid to fight for your<br />
child and their needs. While the professionals<br />
are experts in their areas, you are<br />
the expert on your child.<br />
Dr. Darla Clayton, PsyD, The Mobility<br />
Resource, writes from the perspective of a mom<br />
in the midst of raising a child with special needs<br />
and one without. For more information, visit<br />
abilities.com/community.<br />
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