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Siouxland Magazine - Volume 3 Issue 3

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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | EXPLORE /48<br />

The collection by Mina, designed for Omaha Fashion Week, Fall 2020.<br />

Vulnerability Is.<br />

By Erika Hansen<br />

I’m not sure there is anything we can do to rid<br />

ourselves of vulnerability. It just…is.<br />

The great thing about vulnerability, though, is EVERYONE<br />

feels it. In that sense, we should think of it as an emotion<br />

that unifies us, not separates.<br />

But realizing that every person in the room also has<br />

insecurities is a game-changer.<br />

When you find yourself in a vulnerable position, my<br />

advice is to talk to those around you. When I do that, I<br />

find companionship, solidarity, and understanding. It’s<br />

But that doesn’t make us feel any better, does it?<br />

When we feel vulnerable, we feel completely alone and<br />

isolated.<br />

Lately, I’ve found myself in this position frequently.<br />

I’ve been pushing myself to try new things, meet new<br />

people, and take advantage of opportunities that come<br />

my way. But all of it comes with an oversized helping of<br />

vulnerability.<br />

The fashion industry is one of the most vulnerable<br />

industries imaginable. For designers, putting their very<br />

personal creations out to the public for criticism and<br />

critique is a vulnerable process. And for models, just<br />

showing up is a vulnerable process.<br />

If you want to feel completely and totally self-conscious,<br />

walk in a runway show at age 46. When the rest of the<br />

girls and guys are in their late-teens or early-20s, trust<br />

me, you become VERY AWARE of every flaw you have,<br />

real or imagined.<br />

Selfies with a few of the beautiful girls backstage.

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