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SOUTH AFRICAN CULINARY HERITAGE

The book South African Culinary Heritage by Eunice Rakhale, is about local food history and traditions interlaced with family conversations. It illustrates the culinary diversity of Southern African cuisine and some neighbouring countries, comparing the similarities and unique palatable heritages thereof. Written in a conversational style, the book is a handy culinary compilation which will bestow the reader with explorations regarding local African lifestyles history, art, clothing, music and perhaps even some song and dance. For tourists visiting these African countries – possessing a diversity of ethnic cultures, it is a worthy read regarding heritage and of-course African cuisine. A guide which should be included in any tourist’s travel pack and families. It is about a genuine story told with an extraordinary ability that draws parallel between the author’s struggle in the restaurant industry and in her personal life. Ultimately, her passion for food is where she finds solace to learn, heal and grow. Mother Daughter relationships can be extremely complex and Eunice is no exception. In the book, besides a plethora of authentic recipes and history, she shares candidly about her strained relationship with her daughter Mothei Makhetha. Being estranged for seven years, Mothei writes her mother a letter, in a desperate cry for help, which she hopes will begin the healing process. After receiving the letter, circumstances of her life took Eunice back home to her mother in Moletsane, Soweto. This happens while she is researching her culinary book authenticating the recipes through the help of her mother. This handing down of recipes from her mother gets them connected on a very deep level, thus, creating compassion and trust they never had. In desperation Eunice seeks counselling from her own mother to try and mend the relationship with her daughter. Their journey is one of true and sincere conversations handed down from one generation to another, around family meals and prayerful family meetings.

The book South African Culinary Heritage by Eunice Rakhale, is about local food history and traditions interlaced with family conversations. It illustrates the culinary diversity of Southern African cuisine and some neighbouring countries, comparing the similarities and unique palatable heritages thereof. Written in a conversational style, the book is a handy culinary compilation which will bestow the reader with explorations regarding local African lifestyles history, art, clothing, music and perhaps even some song and dance. For tourists visiting these African countries – possessing a diversity of ethnic cultures, it is a worthy read regarding heritage and of-course African cuisine. A guide which should be included in any tourist’s travel pack and families.
It is about a genuine story told with an extraordinary ability that draws parallel between the author’s struggle in the restaurant industry and in her personal life. Ultimately, her passion for food is where she finds solace to learn, heal and grow.
Mother Daughter relationships can be extremely complex and Eunice is no exception. In the book, besides a plethora of authentic recipes and history, she shares candidly about her strained relationship with her daughter Mothei Makhetha. Being estranged for seven years, Mothei writes her mother a letter, in a desperate cry for help, which she hopes will begin the healing process. After receiving the letter, circumstances of her life took Eunice back home to her mother in Moletsane, Soweto. This happens while she is researching her culinary book authenticating the recipes through the help of her mother. This handing down of recipes from her mother gets them connected on a very deep level, thus, creating compassion and trust they never had. In desperation Eunice seeks counselling from her own mother to try and mend the relationship with her daughter.
Their journey is one of true and sincere conversations handed down from one generation to another, around family meals and prayerful family meetings.

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South African Culinary Heritage

always on time, and her organisational skills were

impeccable. And, being the Sous Chef, who was responsible

for executing the orders, these attributes were her greatest

strength.

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The private banqueting room was never without a

reservation; it was our bread and butter, as it were. Serving

an À la Carte menu required that each course had to be

served without anything going awry. The sous chef nailed it

consistently, from start to finish, and she was truly reliant.

For the daily walk-ins, she really excelled.

Her orders came out at the prescribed time, and her

consistency regarding the texture, taste and flavour of each

meal was adequately sustained. She could step up to the

plate at any given time, and was a true asset to the business.

She got the orders flowing and, therefore, got the business

running smoothly. But, regrettably, she was lacking in

interpersonal skills. All her good service came at a price, and

this was at a cost of the staff’s morale.

Abuse and insults were frequently hurled at the other

employees; and, worst of all, this used to occur in front of

guests (suppliers and maintenance workers) and front-ofdesk

colleagues. The male staff walked around like they were

emasculated, whilst the women walked around with

burdened hearts.

All this time, it was business as usual and money was coming

in. Yet my spirit was aching for the staff. Hurting souls hurt

others, aggrieved hearts grieve others, and tormented spirits

torment others. Unbeknown to herself, the chef – just like

me – was functioning from a deep-rooted pain; and this was

playing out through how she related to her team. With the

drama of my own personal life – sadly – I could not help

the chef; and the more I had tried, the more injury I had

caused her; and I had bruised her, quite badly.

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