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SOUTH AFRICAN CULINARY HERITAGE

The book South African Culinary Heritage by Eunice Rakhale, is about local food history and traditions interlaced with family conversations. It illustrates the culinary diversity of Southern African cuisine and some neighbouring countries, comparing the similarities and unique palatable heritages thereof. Written in a conversational style, the book is a handy culinary compilation which will bestow the reader with explorations regarding local African lifestyles history, art, clothing, music and perhaps even some song and dance. For tourists visiting these African countries – possessing a diversity of ethnic cultures, it is a worthy read regarding heritage and of-course African cuisine. A guide which should be included in any tourist’s travel pack and families. It is about a genuine story told with an extraordinary ability that draws parallel between the author’s struggle in the restaurant industry and in her personal life. Ultimately, her passion for food is where she finds solace to learn, heal and grow. Mother Daughter relationships can be extremely complex and Eunice is no exception. In the book, besides a plethora of authentic recipes and history, she shares candidly about her strained relationship with her daughter Mothei Makhetha. Being estranged for seven years, Mothei writes her mother a letter, in a desperate cry for help, which she hopes will begin the healing process. After receiving the letter, circumstances of her life took Eunice back home to her mother in Moletsane, Soweto. This happens while she is researching her culinary book authenticating the recipes through the help of her mother. This handing down of recipes from her mother gets them connected on a very deep level, thus, creating compassion and trust they never had. In desperation Eunice seeks counselling from her own mother to try and mend the relationship with her daughter. Their journey is one of true and sincere conversations handed down from one generation to another, around family meals and prayerful family meetings.

The book South African Culinary Heritage by Eunice Rakhale, is about local food history and traditions interlaced with family conversations. It illustrates the culinary diversity of Southern African cuisine and some neighbouring countries, comparing the similarities and unique palatable heritages thereof. Written in a conversational style, the book is a handy culinary compilation which will bestow the reader with explorations regarding local African lifestyles history, art, clothing, music and perhaps even some song and dance. For tourists visiting these African countries – possessing a diversity of ethnic cultures, it is a worthy read regarding heritage and of-course African cuisine. A guide which should be included in any tourist’s travel pack and families.
It is about a genuine story told with an extraordinary ability that draws parallel between the author’s struggle in the restaurant industry and in her personal life. Ultimately, her passion for food is where she finds solace to learn, heal and grow.
Mother Daughter relationships can be extremely complex and Eunice is no exception. In the book, besides a plethora of authentic recipes and history, she shares candidly about her strained relationship with her daughter Mothei Makhetha. Being estranged for seven years, Mothei writes her mother a letter, in a desperate cry for help, which she hopes will begin the healing process. After receiving the letter, circumstances of her life took Eunice back home to her mother in Moletsane, Soweto. This happens while she is researching her culinary book authenticating the recipes through the help of her mother. This handing down of recipes from her mother gets them connected on a very deep level, thus, creating compassion and trust they never had. In desperation Eunice seeks counselling from her own mother to try and mend the relationship with her daughter.
Their journey is one of true and sincere conversations handed down from one generation to another, around family meals and prayerful family meetings.

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South African Culinary Heritage

drastically transformed home that she was desiring, and

most longingly so.

Then, in response, I had said, “I get the picture, Mme. The

only thing is that, for me to be able to create this space for

you, we will need to clean up. Will you be willing for me to

do that? Remember how, previously, you and Ntate (Dad)

had stopped Aus’ Monki from cleaning up the house?”

Coolly, my mother had said, reassuringly, “Do not worry,

Eunice; I am past that, now. Just do as I say.”

Touched by my mother’s request, I had then embarked on

the unprecedented home make-over. The “spring-cleaning”

goes without a hitch, and soon my mother’s home is clean,

with lots of light shining through wide open curtains. Oh!

Curtains, we must mention curtains. There is something

about some people and curtains with dark homes. Open the

curtains, and it is woe unto you! Yet, my mother had

rejoiced in the opened curtains and the light that permeated

her home. The dining room and bedroom became my

mother’s favourite spaces. Like a queen, she rested during

the day with the door open, so she could invite her guests

in. In case she did not want to get out of bed, she says to

me, with a smile – like how it was at my sister’s home – my

mother’s dining table was always set, and thus ready to serve

a meal. This was her pride and joy. The kitchen table was

permanently set for my mother’s early morning tea and sour

porridge breakfast, which she cooked for herself, daily, until

her passing – a year later.

To sustain the new changes, with the help of my elder sister,

Monki, we drew up a cleaning programme and a weekly

menu. And the helper went through a two-week orientation

on the new schedule. Clearing clutter had transformed my

mother’s existence in her final years. The courage to let go,

(looking back) I came to realise that, was more of a spiritual

cleansing than a physical one. With the clutter having been

removed, a new space had emerged in my mother’s home

and sincere conversations set off. She was in tune with

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