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SOUTH AFRICAN CULINARY HERITAGE

The book South African Culinary Heritage by Eunice Rakhale, is about local food history and traditions interlaced with family conversations. It illustrates the culinary diversity of Southern African cuisine and some neighbouring countries, comparing the similarities and unique palatable heritages thereof. Written in a conversational style, the book is a handy culinary compilation which will bestow the reader with explorations regarding local African lifestyles history, art, clothing, music and perhaps even some song and dance. For tourists visiting these African countries – possessing a diversity of ethnic cultures, it is a worthy read regarding heritage and of-course African cuisine. A guide which should be included in any tourist’s travel pack and families. It is about a genuine story told with an extraordinary ability that draws parallel between the author’s struggle in the restaurant industry and in her personal life. Ultimately, her passion for food is where she finds solace to learn, heal and grow. Mother Daughter relationships can be extremely complex and Eunice is no exception. In the book, besides a plethora of authentic recipes and history, she shares candidly about her strained relationship with her daughter Mothei Makhetha. Being estranged for seven years, Mothei writes her mother a letter, in a desperate cry for help, which she hopes will begin the healing process. After receiving the letter, circumstances of her life took Eunice back home to her mother in Moletsane, Soweto. This happens while she is researching her culinary book authenticating the recipes through the help of her mother. This handing down of recipes from her mother gets them connected on a very deep level, thus, creating compassion and trust they never had. In desperation Eunice seeks counselling from her own mother to try and mend the relationship with her daughter. Their journey is one of true and sincere conversations handed down from one generation to another, around family meals and prayerful family meetings.

The book South African Culinary Heritage by Eunice Rakhale, is about local food history and traditions interlaced with family conversations. It illustrates the culinary diversity of Southern African cuisine and some neighbouring countries, comparing the similarities and unique palatable heritages thereof. Written in a conversational style, the book is a handy culinary compilation which will bestow the reader with explorations regarding local African lifestyles history, art, clothing, music and perhaps even some song and dance. For tourists visiting these African countries – possessing a diversity of ethnic cultures, it is a worthy read regarding heritage and of-course African cuisine. A guide which should be included in any tourist’s travel pack and families.
It is about a genuine story told with an extraordinary ability that draws parallel between the author’s struggle in the restaurant industry and in her personal life. Ultimately, her passion for food is where she finds solace to learn, heal and grow.
Mother Daughter relationships can be extremely complex and Eunice is no exception. In the book, besides a plethora of authentic recipes and history, she shares candidly about her strained relationship with her daughter Mothei Makhetha. Being estranged for seven years, Mothei writes her mother a letter, in a desperate cry for help, which she hopes will begin the healing process. After receiving the letter, circumstances of her life took Eunice back home to her mother in Moletsane, Soweto. This happens while she is researching her culinary book authenticating the recipes through the help of her mother. This handing down of recipes from her mother gets them connected on a very deep level, thus, creating compassion and trust they never had. In desperation Eunice seeks counselling from her own mother to try and mend the relationship with her daughter.
Their journey is one of true and sincere conversations handed down from one generation to another, around family meals and prayerful family meetings.

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South African Culinary Heritage

Monki is a passionate, healthy cook, with a huge collection

of herbs. On this day, the menu was chicken stew with

mushrooms; served with dumpling, beetroot and

Morogo salad. A nice bottle of Rosé was left to cool in

the fridge for dessert, with a glass of Merlot flowing

beautifully as she cooked. I do not recall what had brought

up the subject, but my sister was reflecting on the aftermath

of her tumultuous marital life.

Trying to fill the void, she had joined a Stokvel, a women’s

club. Once a month, she looked forward to meeting with

this group of women, where she found solace as she poured

out the drama of her life. However, with time, my sister had

noticed a pattern in the way the meetings were conducted.

These never followed the agenda. No other topic was ever

discussed, except her personal issues. Without noticing, her

life had become the agenda. The drama of her life had

captured their attention like a soapie. No one else spoke

about their own, specific “businesses”.

“This is odd”, she had said to herself. After giving this some

thought, the following month she decided that she would

engage with them on different terms. At the next meeting,

when she was asked, predictably, how the drama of her life

was unfolding, she had responded: “Things are the same,

nothing has changed, thank you.”

With the characters in the soapie now having been written

off, the meeting ended. It was now evident that the group

was not being helpful to her situation, and that the

conversations were insincere. As it had become an

unfortunate norm for so many women who are dealing with

marital challenges, the ladies’ group was just a platform to

indulge and drown sorrows in alcohol and insincere

discussions. Safe to say, my sister, Monki, had subsequently,

and wisely, left the Stokvel. It is only my sister who can relate

the story in a way that left us rolling with laughter; even

though this discussion took her family back to their difficult

childhood in Rockville, Soweto, and her daughters managed

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