The Courage of Children: Boston and Beyond XXXI
Award-winning essays on courage written by sixth-eight grade students participating in The Max Warburg Courage Curriculum.
Award-winning essays on courage written by sixth-eight grade students participating in The Max Warburg Courage Curriculum.
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Aya Bihi<br />
Melissa Ma, Teacher<br />
Salemwood School, Malden, MA<br />
What is courage? <strong>Courage</strong> can be different for other people. Some say<br />
courage is bravery. Others say it’s endurance. My definition <strong>of</strong> courage is<br />
having confidence. When somebody is confident in themselves, they feel like<br />
they could rule the world! In the beginning <strong>of</strong> fifth grade I chose to start<br />
wearing a hijab, a religious scarf worn by Muslim women. My excitement was<br />
skyrocketing! I now felt I could be more like people I admire, like my mother.<br />
My smile spread from ear to ear, but that soon would all change.<br />
When I arrived on the first day <strong>of</strong> school I felt people’s eyes stuck onto me.<br />
I felt so self-conscious <strong>and</strong> thought there was something wrong with how I<br />
looked. People constantly whispered behind my back, <strong>and</strong> it really troubled<br />
me. My embarrassment rose while my confidence dropped.<br />
“Somebody who does<br />
not have confidence<br />
is just like a ghost.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y don’t recognize<br />
who they are until<br />
they just fade away.<br />
Having confidence<br />
allows you to be<br />
visible <strong>and</strong> advocate<br />
for others.”<br />
During a special month called Ramadan, we fast for 30 days. During the<br />
school day I wouldn’t eat or drink <strong>and</strong> people took advantage <strong>of</strong> that. Before<br />
lunch they’d talk loudly about food right in front <strong>of</strong> me, saying things like,<br />
“Mmm can’t wait to dig into all this sushi!” <strong>and</strong>, “Imagine eating at 12 AM.”<br />
It irritated me a lot since it had nothing to do with them if I fasted or not.<br />
Eventually some students started mocking words in Arabic, my native<br />
language. When the teacher heard them say these things, they told her it<br />
meant something different. Some <strong>of</strong> the things they did were saying, “I<br />
support Allah!” (<strong>The</strong> God Muslims believe in) while making the sign <strong>of</strong> the<br />
cross. Also, they were mocking the word Astaghfirullah which means, “Oh<br />
Allah, please forgive me.” I never told the teachers anything because I never<br />
wanted to be involved with all the drama.<br />
Some time during the year I met a girl who just moved <strong>and</strong> shared interests<br />
with me. Before I knew it, I was laughing with her. <strong>The</strong>re were two other girls<br />
too. <strong>The</strong>y said they really liked my style, <strong>and</strong> I inspired them to wear a hijab<br />
as well! I did not know what to make <strong>of</strong> it because nobody really says things<br />
like that about my hijab. Soon enough I started loving myself for who I was<br />
because my hijab is also part <strong>of</strong> me.<br />
Even to this day people still say rude things, but they never get through to me.<br />
I now know there will be people there for me during difficult times. Somebody<br />
who does not have confidence is just like a ghost. <strong>The</strong>y don’t recognize who<br />
they are until they just fade away. Having confidence allows you to be visible<br />
<strong>and</strong> advocate for others.<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Courage</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Children</strong>: <strong>Boston</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>Beyond</strong><br />
Volume <strong>XXXI</strong><br />
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