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THE VALLEY BUSINESS JOURNAL<br />

10 www.TheValleyBusinessJournal.com<br />

<strong>November</strong> 20<strong>22</strong><br />

5 Tips for Estate Planning Conversations<br />

If you have aging loved ones, you<br />

know how pressing it feels to make<br />

sure their affairs are in order if they<br />

were to pass away. Unfortunately,<br />

your parents or grandparents may not<br />

feel the same urgency that you feel.<br />

Maybe they are not educated<br />

on how important it is to create an<br />

estate plan. Or perhaps they think<br />

you’ll take care of everything after<br />

they pass.<br />

Either way, it’s vital to have critical<br />

conversations with your aging<br />

loved ones about estate planning.<br />

5 Tips to Starting a Conversation<br />

About Estate Planning<br />

Broaching the topic of estate planning<br />

will show your loved ones how<br />

much you care for them and their wellbeing.<br />

You want to be sure that everything<br />

they worked hard for goes exactly where<br />

they want it to go after they die.<br />

Gather for a family meeting to discuss<br />

the essentials of estate planning:<br />

1. Start with Simple Questions: Warm<br />

up to the conversation by asking<br />

standard questions. For example, do<br />

you have a will? When did you last<br />

update your will? Who is qualified<br />

to make medical decisions on your<br />

behalf? Does anyone have access<br />

to your bank account to act in your<br />

name if necessary?<br />

2. Make It a Recurring Conversation:<br />

Estate planning is not just a oneand-done<br />

conversation. Even if your<br />

family member has an estate plan,<br />

it should be revisited and updated<br />

periodically. Choose Memorial Day<br />

or the 4th of July to make a note of<br />

discussing their estate plan.<br />

3. Lead with Empathy: Let your loved<br />

one know you care by following up<br />

on other equally important topics<br />

like their health and social life.<br />

Then teach them about potential<br />

financial scams. When they see<br />

how much you care about their<br />

overall wellness, they will be<br />

open to questions and reminders<br />

you have about estate planning.<br />

4. Offer Research and Information:<br />

Discuss with your parents what<br />

could happen if they die without<br />

a will and their estate enters<br />

probate. Show them how estate<br />

planning is just as essential as<br />

making funeral plans or naming<br />

beneficiaries for a life insurance<br />

policy.<br />

5. Meet with an Estate Planning<br />

Lawyer: If you hit a wall when<br />

discussing the topic, contact a<br />

professional to discuss the importance<br />

of having an estate plan.<br />

Sometimes an expert outside of<br />

the family is better received.<br />

If you find it challenging to<br />

broach the subject with your aging<br />

loved ones, Shoup Legal is here to<br />

help you through every step of the<br />

estate planning process. Give us a call<br />

(951) 455-4114 or email us at info@<br />

shouplegal.com.<br />

“<br />

Broaching the topic<br />

of estate planning will<br />

show your loved ones<br />

how much you care for<br />

them and their wellbeing.<br />

You want to be<br />

sure that everything<br />

they worked hard for<br />

goes exactly where<br />

they want it to go<br />

after they die<br />

SHOUPLEGAL.COM<br />

LEGAL<br />

by by<br />

Andrea Steve Fillingim Shoup

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