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THE VALLEY BUSINESS JOURNAL<br />
10 www.TheValleyBusinessJournal.com<br />
<strong>November</strong> 20<strong>22</strong><br />
5 Tips for Estate Planning Conversations<br />
If you have aging loved ones, you<br />
know how pressing it feels to make<br />
sure their affairs are in order if they<br />
were to pass away. Unfortunately,<br />
your parents or grandparents may not<br />
feel the same urgency that you feel.<br />
Maybe they are not educated<br />
on how important it is to create an<br />
estate plan. Or perhaps they think<br />
you’ll take care of everything after<br />
they pass.<br />
Either way, it’s vital to have critical<br />
conversations with your aging<br />
loved ones about estate planning.<br />
5 Tips to Starting a Conversation<br />
About Estate Planning<br />
Broaching the topic of estate planning<br />
will show your loved ones how<br />
much you care for them and their wellbeing.<br />
You want to be sure that everything<br />
they worked hard for goes exactly where<br />
they want it to go after they die.<br />
Gather for a family meeting to discuss<br />
the essentials of estate planning:<br />
1. Start with Simple Questions: Warm<br />
up to the conversation by asking<br />
standard questions. For example, do<br />
you have a will? When did you last<br />
update your will? Who is qualified<br />
to make medical decisions on your<br />
behalf? Does anyone have access<br />
to your bank account to act in your<br />
name if necessary?<br />
2. Make It a Recurring Conversation:<br />
Estate planning is not just a oneand-done<br />
conversation. Even if your<br />
family member has an estate plan,<br />
it should be revisited and updated<br />
periodically. Choose Memorial Day<br />
or the 4th of July to make a note of<br />
discussing their estate plan.<br />
3. Lead with Empathy: Let your loved<br />
one know you care by following up<br />
on other equally important topics<br />
like their health and social life.<br />
Then teach them about potential<br />
financial scams. When they see<br />
how much you care about their<br />
overall wellness, they will be<br />
open to questions and reminders<br />
you have about estate planning.<br />
4. Offer Research and Information:<br />
Discuss with your parents what<br />
could happen if they die without<br />
a will and their estate enters<br />
probate. Show them how estate<br />
planning is just as essential as<br />
making funeral plans or naming<br />
beneficiaries for a life insurance<br />
policy.<br />
5. Meet with an Estate Planning<br />
Lawyer: If you hit a wall when<br />
discussing the topic, contact a<br />
professional to discuss the importance<br />
of having an estate plan.<br />
Sometimes an expert outside of<br />
the family is better received.<br />
If you find it challenging to<br />
broach the subject with your aging<br />
loved ones, Shoup Legal is here to<br />
help you through every step of the<br />
estate planning process. Give us a call<br />
(951) 455-4114 or email us at info@<br />
shouplegal.com.<br />
“<br />
Broaching the topic<br />
of estate planning will<br />
show your loved ones<br />
how much you care for<br />
them and their wellbeing.<br />
You want to be<br />
sure that everything<br />
they worked hard for<br />
goes exactly where<br />
they want it to go<br />
after they die<br />
SHOUPLEGAL.COM<br />
LEGAL<br />
by by<br />
Andrea Steve Fillingim Shoup