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6 lmtimes.ca • Last Mountain Times • Monday, <strong>Apr</strong>il <strong>17</strong>, 2023<br />

Are You Doing Too Much for Your Teen?<br />

There was a time when eighteen-year-olds left home to pursue post-secondary education or to work. They were<br />

not considered adults because they were eighteen, but rather because they were living as adults.<br />

-BY, Gwen Randall-Young<br />

<strong>Apr</strong>il 10, 2023<br />

Things have changed and many young<br />

people live at home well into their<br />

twenties. There can be many reasons<br />

for this, but one is that it is simply too<br />

comfortable to leave.<br />

It seems easy for parents to still feel a<br />

need to do so much for their children as<br />

they may not have noticed they are not<br />

“children” anymore. That or the parents<br />

are clinging too tightly to their young<br />

adult children as they are not ready to<br />

give up the parenting role.<br />

I have worked with parents who still do<br />

their teens laundry, do all the grocery<br />

shopping and preparing meals, even<br />

making the kid’s lunches. Often the<br />

parents may pay for the child’s gas and<br />

give spending money. Who would want<br />

to leave?<br />

This is not so much about getting<br />

young adults out of the house, as it<br />

is about helping them learn to do the<br />

things adults do to care for themselves.<br />

Learning to clean the house, empty<br />

the garbage, deal with the recycling,<br />

grocery shopping, preparing meals and,<br />

of course, doing their own laundry. It<br />

is also an important life experience to<br />

have a part time job if still in school.<br />

My son started doing his own laundry<br />

when he was nine as his non “Suzy<br />

homemaker” mom turned all of his underwear<br />

pink! In our house the expectations<br />

were according to age and ability.<br />

From an early age they had chores, even<br />

if it was simply putting toys away when<br />

very young.<br />

By age eleven they were each making<br />

one meal a week, and it was understood<br />

that once they had a driver’s license,<br />

grocery shopping was on their list. This<br />

included checking to see what was needed,<br />

making a list, getting the groceries<br />

and putting them away.<br />

By the time they went off to university,<br />

they were fully functional adults, and<br />

when home, we all got groceries together<br />

and they kept pointing out when I<br />

was not making the most economical<br />

choice. As students they became very<br />

good at spending wisely.<br />

Not allowing young adults to take these<br />

responsibilities is enabling, even though<br />

it often comes from a place of love and<br />

wanting to make life easier for them. It<br />

can even be handicapping, especially<br />

when they are still at home in their late<br />

twenties. At that age it can be very hard<br />

to start being an adult, when they could<br />

have had ten years of practice by then.<br />

Twenties quickly turn into thirties!<br />

If we wait too long to give them adult responsibilities,<br />

there is a good chance we<br />

will get pushback. Remember, a family<br />

is a team, and everyone should contribute<br />

to the wellbeing of the whole.<br />

Gwen Randall-Young is an author<br />

and award-winning psychologist. For<br />

permission to reprint this article, or to<br />

obtain books, CDs or MP3s, visit www.<br />

gwen.ca. Follow Gwen on Facebook for<br />

inspiration.<br />

The Rural Municipality of Last Mountain Valley No. 250<br />

PUBLIC NOTICE<br />

Public Notice is hereby given that the Rural Municipality of Last Mountain Valley No. 250<br />

pursuant to Section 207 of The Planning and Development Act 2007, intends to adopt a<br />

bylaw to amend the Zoning Bylaw No. 219/2001.<br />

It is proposed to amend the Zoning Bylaw 219/2001 as follows:<br />

1. By amending Zoning District Map #1 to rezone the NE of Section 11 Township 25 Range<br />

22 West of the 2nd Meridian from “Agricultural” (A) to “Commercial District” (C); and<br />

identify it as “Insert 7”.<br />

2. Insert 7 will include all the land shown within the bold line on the map forming a part of<br />

this notice.<br />

The reason for the proposed amendment is to permit the construction and operation of a<br />

Fertilizer plant.<br />

The Bylaw may be inspected by any interested person at the Municipal Office in Govan<br />

during regular office hours, Monday to Friday, 8:30 a.m. to 12:00 pm. and 1:00 p.m. to 4:30<br />

p.m. excluding statutory holidays. Copies are available at cost.<br />

Council will hold a public hearing on Thursday, May 4, 2023 at the Municipal Office Council<br />

Chambers at 10:00 a.m. to hear any person or group that wants to comment on the<br />

proposed bylaw. Council will also consider any written submissions received at the hearing,<br />

or delivered to the undersigned before the hearing.<br />

Issued at Govan this <strong>17</strong>th day of <strong>Apr</strong>il, 2023.<br />

Kelly Walker, Administrator<br />

RM OF DUFFERIN 190<br />

EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITY<br />

FULL TIME GRADER OPERATOR<br />

RM of Dufferin 190 is accepting applications for a full time Grader Operator.<br />

QUALIFICATIONS:<br />

• Must poses a valid driver’s licence and have<br />

their own transportation.<br />

• Have knowledge of grader operation and<br />

service.<br />

• Have a working knowledge of road building<br />

and maintenance.<br />

• Have a full working knowledge of grading<br />

techniques.<br />

• Must be capable of working with a minimum<br />

or without supervision.<br />

DUTIES:<br />

• Operate equipment and work in compliance<br />

with the Saskatchewan Employment Act<br />

and the Occupational Health and Safety<br />

Regulations.<br />

• Maintain and repair all roads on a priority basis<br />

as required by road conditions.<br />

• Blade all roads in a professional and safe<br />

manner.<br />

• Service machinery and assist in repairs as the<br />

case may be.<br />

• Do work as per the road maintenance<br />

schedule or as directed by the Foreman.<br />

• Work hours as per schedule and additional<br />

hours as per Policy 400-2.1.1.<br />

• Road maintenance personnel are required to<br />

work 10 hour per day during certain seasons.<br />

The RM of Dufferin 190 offers a<br />

competitive salary to be paid in accordance<br />

with qualifications and experience.<br />

Applications are currently being accepted<br />

at the Municipal office in person, or by<br />

e-mail to: rm190@bethunesk.ca, or<br />

mailed to:<br />

RM of Dufferin 190<br />

101 Railway Avenue,<br />

Bethune, SK, S0G 0H0<br />

Only applicants selected for an interview will be contacted.<br />

Applications will be accepted until a suitable candidate is hired.

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