The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck

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CHAPTER 6: You’re Wrong About Everything (But So Am I)Architects of Our Own BeliefsBe Careful What You BelieveThe Dangers of Pure CertaintyManson’s Law of AvoidanceKill YourselfHow to Be a Little Less Certain of YourselfCHAPTER 7: Failure Is the Way ForwardThe Failure/Success ParadoxPain Is Part of the ProcessThe “Do Something” PrincipleCHAPTER 8: The Importance of Saying NoRejection Makes Your Life BetterBoundariesHow to Build TrustFreedom Through CommitmentCHAPTER 9: . . . And Then You DieSomething Beyond Our SelvesThe Sunny Side of DeathAcknowledgmentsAbout the AuthorCreditsCopyrightAbout the Publisher
CHAPTER 1Don’t TryCharles Bukowski was an alcoholic, a womanizer, a chronic gambler, a lout,a cheapskate, a deadbeat, and on his worst days, a poet. He’s probably thelast person on earth you would ever look to for life advice or expect to see inany sort of self-help book.Which is why he’s the perfect place to start.Bukowski wanted to be a writer. But for decades his work was rejectedby almost every magazine, newspaper, journal, agent, and publisher hesubmitted to. His work was horrible, they said. Crude. Disgusting. Depraved.And as the stacks of rejection slips piled up, the weight of his failures pushedhim deep into an alcohol-fueled depression that would follow him for most ofhis life.Bukowski had a day job as a letter-filer at a post office. He got paid shitmoney and spent most of it on booze. He gambled away the rest at theracetrack. At night, he would drink alone and sometimes hammer out poetryon his beat-up old typewriter. Often, he’d wake up on the floor, havingpassed out the night before.Thirty years went by like this, most of it a meaningless blur of alcohol,drugs, gambling, and prostitutes. Then, when Bukowski was fifty, after alifetime of failure and self-loathing, an editor at a small independentpublishing house took a strange interest in him. The editor couldn’t offerBukowski much money or much promise of sales. But he had a weirdaffection for the drunk loser, so he decided to take a chance on him. It wasthe first real shot Bukowski had ever gotten, and, he realized, probably theonly one he would ever get. Bukowski wrote back to the editor: “I have oneof two choices—stay in the post office and go crazy . . . or stay out here andplay at writer and starve. I have decided to starve.”
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TV, hearing him on the radio, seein
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thought he should be the face of th
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thousand dollars a year would affec
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moments of one’s life are not ple
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happiness, pleasure, and success as
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suffered life-threatening health is
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We don’t always control what happ
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superficial and vain and will never
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chapters.)Then, about a year later,
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and the man shot her in the head in
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infecting him.The goal is to get th
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Sure, some people get saddled with
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no ‘how.’ ”You are already ch
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life, I’ve been flat-out wrong ab
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what a positive or negative experie
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Second, once we create meaning for
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what we feel to be true in that mom
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courtrooms operate. Thousands of th
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respectfully or replied angrily, no
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don’t know.Uncertainty removes ou
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being An Artist Nobody’s Heard Of
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emotional highs that you’ve been
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Question #3: Would being wrong crea
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CHAPTER 7Failure Is the Way Forward
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“Sure,” Picasso replied. “Twe
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Pain Is Part of the ProcessIn the 1
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out more than anything. Yet she fee
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I was entirely responsible for all
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“Two hundred crappy words per day
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Armed with this grandiose sense of
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what seems obvious in your own life
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valueless, pleasure-driven, and sel
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Unhealthy love is based on two peop
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your partner or be helped and suppo
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of their relational emotional rolle
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response at face value, and don’t
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craft for half your lifetime. Now t
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CHAPTER 9. . . And Then You DieSeek
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that’s when it all came out: the
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Because it wasn’t just his anti-e
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But, when our immortality projects
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At three feet, your body goes into
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whittle their days chasing another
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and flattened by life’s trivialit
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTSThis book began as a
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ABOUT THE AUTHORMARK MANSON is a st
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COPYRIGHTTHE SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVI
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