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Conn. He was 65.
He came to Princeton from Great Neck
(N.Y.) North Senior High, where he was president
of student government and captain of
the tennis team. At Princeton he majored in
history and ate at Campus. After Princeton,
Harold earned a Ph.D. in clinical psychology
at the University of Rochester. He was a
highly regarded private practitioner in both
Manhattan and Westport.
Harold was a Distinguished Life Fellow
and president of the American Group
Psychotherapy Association (AGPA). He led
AGPA’s efforts to help thousands of people
traumatized by the events of 9/11. He was a
respected teacher, mentor, supervisor, and
leader in the community of group psychotherapists,
and he edited several books on
group psychotherapy and clinical psychology,
the most recent of which, On Becoming a
Psychotherapist, was published in 2010 by
Oxford University Press.
He is survived by his wife, Bonnie; children
Nicole and Bradley; sister Cathy; and
brother Mitchell ’73. To them all, the class
extends deepest sympathy.
THE CLASS OF 1970
GORDON STOLLERY ’70 Gordon died Dec. 12,
2011, while on vacation in the British Virgin
Islands.
He came to us from Toronto, Ontario,
where he excelled at hockey and golf, having
finished second in the 1965 Canadian Junior
Open. He pursued both of these sports at
Princeton.
A civil engineer with a lifelong interest in
geology, he led the formation of several energy
companies in the Alberta oil fields before
turning his attention to his family’s Glen
Angus Farm, breeding stakes-winning thoroughbreds.
His Angus Glen Golf Club was
selected as the best new course in Canada
and has twice hosted the Canadian Open.
A civic leader, Gordon endowed a chair in
basin analysis and petroleum geology at the
University of Toronto. At the time of his
death he was working on the Stollery Atrium
in the Golding Centre for High Performance
Sport.
Gordon was an enthusiastic supporter of
Princeton, serving on the board of the PAA
of Canada, the Schools Committee, and
Special Gifts Committee.
We have lost a classmate of protean energy,
wide interests, and great good humor. To
Gordon’s wife, Judy; and his daughters, Cailey,
Tori, Gillian, Lindsay, Claire, Sarah, and
Hannah, the class extends deepest sympathy.
THE CLASS OF 1971
SAMUEL P. BOEHM ’71 Sam Boehm died July 17,
2011, from complications of prostate cancer.
Sam was born in Detroit and came to
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Princeton from Seacrest High School in
Delray Beach, Fla. He majored in geology at
Princeton, roomed senior year with James
“Fanch” Fancher in Campbell, and ate at
Tower. He participated in Triangle Club,
Yacht Club, and Orange Key.
He started medical school at UMDNJ and
finished at Emory in Atlanta. After initial
training in internal medicine, he did an
emergency-medicine residency at Albert
Einstein in the Bronx. His professional career
was in emergency medicine, including 25
years in the Army, from which he retired as
a colonel. His stateside postings ranged from
Florida to Alaska, and he served with US
forces in Iraq in the early 1990s.
After retirement, he lived south of Atlanta
in a rural setting. He will be remembered for
living life with flair and purpose. The class
extends sympathy to his family and friends.
CLARK FELDMAN ’71 Clark died May 2, 2009,
after a three-year battle with cancer.
Clark grew up in Michigan and came to
Princeton from Detroit’s renowned Cass Tech
High School. He majored in sociology before
going on to the University of Michigan
Medical School and psychiatry residency at
University of Southern California. He practiced
psychiatry and addiction medicine at
Kaiser Permanente in West Los Angeles
before going into private practice. Clark also
worked in the California penal system, treating
prison inmates and parolees with
remarkable patience and efficacy.
Clark was a co-founder of Crossing the
Digital Divide (CDD), a nonprofit dedicated
to helping addicts and law offenders learn
computer skills to improve their lives. His
CDD co-founder praised Clark for his dedication
to an often-neglected population.
Clark was a renowned violinist who also
excelled at the viola and cello. He was a concertmaster
in high school and at Princeton,
and he fondly played chamber music
throughout adulthood.
Gourmet cooking and gardening gave balance
to his life. Above all, he took great pride
and pleasure in his three children, Tzipi,
Jennifer, and Michael; and his two young
grandchildren, Nava and Eloise. The class
expresses its deep condolences to his family
and friends.
WILLIAM P. MULLIN ’71 Bill Mullin died May 16,
2011, in Kokomo, Ind.
Bill grew up in Syracuse, N.Y., and came to
Princeton from Christian Brothers Academy.
He majored in sociology, lived in Edwards
senior year, and was most remembered for
his dedication to WPRB. Bill was willing and
able to take on all tasks at the radio station,
including news reporting, music shows,
sports, and technical support. He infused his
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efforts in broadcast radio with flair, creativity,
and a wry sense of humor, including leadership
of the largely fictitious “Announcers’
Collective.”
After graduation, he managed several
Syracuse restaurants and hotels. Then, using
self-taught technical skills, he worked as systems
administrator at Hanford Manufacturing
Co. in Syracuse. He was a founding
board member of the Syracuse Invitational
Hockey Tournament. He joined Agentware
Systems in Kokomo as director of engineering
and quality assurance, working with
Chrysler on the integration of Agentware
products. His hobbies included golf, poker,
and trivia.
His classmates missed his presence at
Reunions and formal class activities, but he
never was far from their thoughts. He is survived
by four brothers and two sisters. To his
family and friends, the class sends sympathy.
THE CLASS OF 1975
DANIEL J. CALACCI ’75 When Dan slipped away
May 11, 2011, surrounded by his family, the
class lost one of its most colorful, gregarious,
and beloved members. Dan was profoundly
unlike anyone else. He brought a unique perspective
that enlightened, confounded, and
tickled everyone he encountered.
Dan commenced his gloriously improbable
life in Missouri. At St. Louis University
High School, he excelled in both academics
and sports, quarterbacking the Jr. Billikens
football team to a spectacular 11–1 season
and state championship.
He majored in East Asian studies at
Princeton and was fluent in Mandarin. He
spent a year abroad teaching English in
Taiwan. After college, Dan drifted with attitude
across the globe. He lived in Japan, was
a photographer in Seattle, a railroad worker
in Kansas City, and a bank clerk in
Manhattan. He then implausibly initiated a
financial career, structuring international
transactions, abstruse derivatives that still
defy explanation, and starting a hedge fund.
We miss Dan with all our hearts and will
remember him with fondness, love, and
bewilderment. He was a true and kind
friend, generous, quick to laugh, brilliant,
and childlike in his fascination for the world.
To his wife, Debra; children Daniel and
Helen; sister Jane; and brothers Tom and
David, the class extends deepest sympathy.
THE CLASS OF 1986
MARY KATHERINE BAIRD DARMER ’86 Mary Kathy
Baird Darmer of Newport Beach, Calif., died
Feb. 17, 2012.
Kathy grew up in Waco, Texas, and attended
Vanguard College Preparatory School. At
Princeton, she roomed with Susie Bargon
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