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CHapter 2: Your Brain’s Sexual Cocktail<br />

It also plays a big role in sexual bonding to one’s mate <strong>and</strong> triggers the contractions during<br />

male orgasm. In his seminars, for example, Dr. Todd Bowman of Lifeline Counseling Center<br />

encourages married couples to enjoy face-to-face sex that provides as much skin contact as<br />

possible for the greatest release of the bonding chemical. 5<br />

Because oxytocin is also released in climax, it can have a negative impact for the porn user.<br />

Instead of bonding to a real mate, the porn viewer’s brain bonds to the image, video, or<br />

situation, especially when the activity is reinforced through repetition.<br />

Vasopressin<br />

Working in concert with oxytocin, vasopressin also encourages the feelings of bonding<br />

<strong>and</strong> is slowly released during sexual activity <strong>and</strong> at climax. As with oxytocin, the release of<br />

vasopressin during porn viewing <strong>and</strong> masturbation works to cement a person’s attachment to<br />

this behavior.<br />

Endogenous Opiates<br />

People were designed to have an amazing sexual experience. <strong>The</strong> body produces natural or<br />

endogenous opiates, which during climax provide pain relief <strong>and</strong> a sense of transcendence <strong>and</strong><br />

euphoria. Think opium, naturally produced by the body.<br />

Serotonin<br />

Serotonin is released after climax <strong>and</strong><br />

brings feelings of calm, wellbeing, <strong>and</strong><br />

satisfaction. High serotonin levels also<br />

decrease sexual motivation. <strong>The</strong>se factors<br />

help explain why men are often accused of<br />

being ready for a nap after sex.<br />

A chemical recap<br />

Certainly, more is at play than this basic<br />

neurochemical list, but it provides a<br />

starting point to underst<strong>and</strong> how people<br />

perceive sexual cues, allowing those cues to<br />

gain our attention, which allows us to act.<br />

When a man sees his mate or pornography <strong>and</strong> is sexually stimulated, including imagination,<br />

his arousal is increased <strong>and</strong> his thoughts are focused through dopamine, testosterone, <strong>and</strong><br />

norepinephrine. If sex or self-sex is pursued, these chemicals further focus his brain’s attention<br />

<strong>and</strong> narrow his thoughts on the sexual experience. <strong>The</strong>se <strong>and</strong> other chemicals are also active in<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Porn</strong> <strong>Circuit</strong> | 12<br />

Serotonin<br />

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