The Porn Circuit | Covenant Eyes Internet Accountability and Filtering
The Porn Circuit | Covenant Eyes Internet Accountability and Filtering
The Porn Circuit | Covenant Eyes Internet Accountability and Filtering
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CHapter 6: Habits of Freedom<br />
What does intimacy look like? <strong>The</strong>re is no formula for intimacy; it’s unique to each couple but<br />
it has a lot to do with giving <strong>and</strong> sharing. Consider reading, praying, cooking, <strong>and</strong> taking walks<br />
together. Many couples have forgotten how to play <strong>and</strong> have fun together. Couples need to<br />
explore non-sexual means to express intimacy, <strong>and</strong> after the 90-day break, they will find this<br />
discovered intimacy will make their sex life even stronger <strong>and</strong> more fulfilling, Laaser says.<br />
Clean House<br />
Ninety days will seem like a long haul for a person starting this journey, <strong>and</strong> it will be<br />
impossible to avoid temptation if there are secret stashes. When Cortez decided to invade the<br />
world of the Aztecs in 1519, he burned his ships so there was no easy way to back out.<br />
People committed to battling porn must set their “porn escape routes” ablaze.<br />
Whether the porn stash is in plain view or hidden in the garage, it all has to go up in flames. I<br />
recall a friend who invited his 12-step program sponsor to his home where they built a bonfire<br />
<strong>and</strong> roasted his porn videos. <strong>The</strong>re were no marshmallows, he said, but watching the videos<br />
burn brought warmth to his soul <strong>and</strong> strengthened his resolve for genuine recovery. Today, he<br />
is porn free <strong>and</strong> leads a Celebrate Recovery 10 group in Michigan.<br />
Clean Computers <strong>and</strong> Mobile Devices<br />
<strong>Internet</strong> pornography is likely the greatest source of porn temptation for people today. WiFi<br />
access is everywhere <strong>and</strong> laptops <strong>and</strong> mobile devices make porn access a click away.<br />
You may recall from chapter 3 that Dr. Cooper described a Triple-A Engine that draws people<br />
into online sexual activity: accessibility, affordability, <strong>and</strong> anonymity.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Triple-A Engine<br />
anonymity availability<br />
Affordability