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The Porn Circuit | Covenant Eyes Internet Accountability and Filtering

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CHapter 5: ain’t nothing like the real thing, baby<br />

Dr. Victor Cline’s research has shown that sexual arousal <strong>and</strong> excitement diminish<br />

with repeated exposure to sexual scenes, leading people to seek out greater variety<br />

<strong>and</strong> novelty in the pornography they view. 11<br />

French neuroscientist Serge Stoleru reports on how overexposure to erotic stimuli<br />

actually exhausts the sexual responses of healthy young men. 12<br />

Dr. Dolf Zillmann reports when young people are repeatedly exposed to<br />

pornography, it can have a long-lasting impact on their beliefs <strong>and</strong> behaviors.<br />

Frequently, men who habitually view pornography develop cynical attitudes about<br />

love <strong>and</strong> the need for affection between partners. <strong>The</strong>y begin to view the institution<br />

of marriage as sexually confining. Often, men develop a “tolerance” for sexually<br />

explicit material, leading them to seek out more novel or bizarre material to achieve<br />

the same level of arousal. 13<br />

Dr. Judith Reisman summarizes it well: <strong>Porn</strong>ography causes impotence — an inability to<br />

function with your own sexual power. “If he has to imagine a picture, if he has to imagine<br />

a scene, in order to actually reach the heights of completion with this person, then he’s no<br />

longer with his own power, is he? He has been stripped. He has been hijacked. He has been<br />

emasculated. He has, in effect, been castrated visually.” 14<br />

In a survey of 63 wives of self-identified sex addicts: 15<br />

70% met most criteria for a diagnosis<br />

of post-traumatic stress disorder.<br />

<strong>Porn</strong> <strong>and</strong> Erectile Dysfunction<br />

70% 71%<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Porn</strong> <strong>Circuit</strong> | 26<br />

71% demonstrated a severe<br />

level of functional impairment<br />

in major areas of their lives.<br />

If the concerns above were not enough, many men become so habituated to pornography that<br />

they experience erectile dysfunction when they are with their spouse. Rather than performing<br />

better, as pornography promises, many men find that they can only achieve consistent <strong>and</strong><br />

sustained erections with porn.<br />

Drs. Marnia Robinson <strong>and</strong> Gary Wilson explained in Psychology Today that overstimulation<br />

with pornography creates changes in the brain that make a man less responsive to the physical

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