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Between Us<br />
By Abraham Puthumana, SJ<br />
W<strong>here</strong> do I find joy as a priest? As a newly<br />
ordained priest I used <strong>to</strong> help out on weekends<br />
in an urban parish in the U.S. The main task was hearing<br />
confessions the whole of Saturday and helping out with<br />
the Sunday Mass. One evening a woman, while leaving the<br />
confessional, thanked me for hearing her confession. T<strong>here</strong><br />
was such radiance on her face as she spoke. It was as if life was<br />
beginning afresh for her. Since then in many parish retreats and<br />
charismatic conventions I have had the privilege of helping<br />
with the sacrament of reconciliation and have had similar<br />
experiences. To be a minister of reconciliation has<br />
a source of great joy for me.<br />
Another such experience was a<br />
psycho-spiritual workshop and retreat<br />
in a mission parish. The participants<br />
were villagers, some educated, some<br />
illiterate. During one of the healing<br />
sessions a young married woman,<br />
27 years old, with three small<br />
children, deserted by husband<br />
was looking very depressed and<br />
dejected. At the end of the session<br />
she said that she has decided <strong>to</strong><br />
take hold of her life and bring up<br />
the children well. T<strong>here</strong> was a glow<br />
on her face that no one could miss the<br />
positive shift that had happened. Events<br />
been<br />
like these make priestly ministry a life-enhancing experience.<br />
What gives immense joy is seeing others come alive, through<br />
what God enables me <strong>to</strong> do in spiritual direction, counselling,<br />
psychotherapy, sacramental ministry or ministry of leadership.<br />
T<strong>here</strong> is something I really miss in priesthood. When<br />
I visit my married brothers and sisters or others happily<br />
married t<strong>here</strong> is a <strong>to</strong>uch of pain - of missing the intimacy that<br />
they seem <strong>to</strong> enjoy. I also miss what could be called mutual<br />
sharing and supervision in ministry. I have seen <strong>Jesuits</strong> in<br />
other ministries come <strong>to</strong>gether periodically <strong>to</strong> share their<br />
successes, challenges and insights and thus grow in the<br />
process. As for me this has happened occasionally but not as<br />
regularly and as frequently as I would like <strong>to</strong>. Such mutual<br />
exchange would help us <strong>to</strong> grow in depth, knowledge and<br />
commitment. Underneath this sense of loss is the desire <strong>to</strong><br />
be part of a sharing, vibrant, transparent and apos<strong>to</strong>lically<br />
alive and committed brotherhood. The absence of such an<br />
atmosp<strong>here</strong> makes me feel less alive and less enthusiastic.<br />
Personally I feel I am a long way off from being like the<br />
compassionate Jesus. I feel I lack inner freedom <strong>to</strong> a large<br />
degree. This results in nursing grudges, harboring<br />
resentment and anger. The challenge for me is<br />
<strong>to</strong> be reconciled within and be an agent of<br />
reconciliation <strong>to</strong> others.<br />
Another area I feel challenged<br />
is consumerism. T<strong>here</strong> is so much<br />
pressure <strong>to</strong> buy things advertised<br />
in TV or newspapers. The result is<br />
a craving for possession. To stand<br />
up <strong>to</strong> this pull is a great challenge<br />
<strong>to</strong> me.<br />
When I look around, I see a<br />
lot of challenges facing us at various<br />
levels. I feel challenged <strong>to</strong> be a voice against the trend<br />
within the Church, and even among the religious, <strong>to</strong><br />
seek power, prestige and possessions. I am still searching<br />
for ways <strong>to</strong> be authentic, sympathetic and understanding<br />
<strong>to</strong>wards those whom I minister <strong>to</strong>. I am aware that my own<br />
unintegrated shadows at work within me may make me a<br />
prophet of doom. I should rather become a healer of broken<br />
humanity who witnesses <strong>to</strong> Jesus’ self-giving love.<br />
To see<br />
people<br />
come alive<br />
Abraham Puthumana, SJ is the Rec<strong>to</strong>r of Xavier Institute of Social<br />
Research (XISR), Patna.<br />
•<br />
CARTOON CORNER<br />
“Most dinosaurs were vegetarian<br />
and they never smoked <strong>to</strong>bacco<br />
or drank alcohol - and w<strong>here</strong> are<br />
they now?”<br />
Courtesy: www.glasbergen.com<br />
JIVAN: News and Views of <strong>Jesuits</strong> in India OCTOBER 2012 11