Through Their Eyes: Domestic Violence and It's Impact on Children
Through Their Eyes: Domestic Violence and It's Impact on Children
Through Their Eyes: Domestic Violence and It's Impact on Children
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Chapter 1<br />
victims as women <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> we will also be<br />
looking primarily at relati<strong>on</strong>ships that<br />
involve children.<br />
<str<strong>on</strong>g>Domestic</str<strong>on</strong>g> violence creates a culture of<br />
fear <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> intimidati<strong>on</strong> that can affect<br />
every member of a family. In his<br />
quest for c<strong>on</strong>trol, the abuser forces<br />
every<strong>on</strong>e within the range of his<br />
authority to resp<strong>on</strong>d to his behavior.<br />
This often includes any children who<br />
are in the home.<br />
<strong>Children</strong> were present in all of the<br />
stories from the beginning of this<br />
chapter. Anita’s three daughters,<br />
ages 6, 8, <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> 10, were in the room<br />
watching when Mike broke her arm.<br />
Mari<strong>on</strong>’s two children, ages 5 <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> 7,<br />
rode in the backseat of the car when<br />
Larry stalked her; he told them he<br />
was going to kill her. Ziba’s daughter<br />
Marjan was in the living room with her<br />
friends, celebrating her 12th birthday<br />
when Sean exploded. All of these<br />
children were exposed to domestic<br />
violence in real <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> disturbing ways.<br />
Studies have shown that there is<br />
significant overlap between domestic<br />
violence <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> child abuse—homes<br />
where <strong>on</strong>e is present are likely to<br />
have the other. The majority of<br />
• Physical violence<br />
against women by<br />
intimates is often<br />
accompanied by<br />
emoti<strong>on</strong>ally abusive<br />
<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> c<strong>on</strong>trolling<br />
behavior. Surveys<br />
have found that<br />
women whose<br />
partners were<br />
jealous, c<strong>on</strong>trolling,<br />
or verbally abusive<br />
were significantly<br />
more likely to<br />
report being raped,<br />
physically assaulted<br />
<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g>/or stalked<br />
by their partners.<br />
This supports the<br />
theory that violence<br />
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