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NOVEMBER <strong>2013</strong><br />
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Editorial<br />
Living a life with motive is intentional and living<br />
in a society without ego is called an Art of Living.<br />
A long tradition in many cultures has evolved of<br />
dividing life into two parts : in the first phase,<br />
from childhood to middle adulthood, we are<br />
becoming individuals, learning the way of the<br />
world and asserting ourselves in the demand of<br />
family, work and society. In the second phase,<br />
which begins according to JUNG with the middle<br />
crisis, we begin turning inward, re connecting<br />
with the center of our being. In the first phase we<br />
build and develop our ego and in the second<br />
phase we transcend and surrender it.<br />
Imagine an onion. If you were to peel one layer<br />
after another, all you get is more peel because<br />
there is no core. There is no such thing as ‘I’<br />
either. What we refer to as the ego is the pride you<br />
feel about yourself. Every person has ego about<br />
something – work, success, family and fame. Ego<br />
creates a distinction between one self and other.<br />
Everyone is born without a name, but after birth,<br />
a person identifies with a name. He forgets he is<br />
in the world to serve humanity.<br />
The two main causes of ego remains knowledge<br />
and wealth. A person who has these two<br />
components, but is also involved in spiritual<br />
practice such a ritualistic worship, reading<br />
scriptures, embarking on pilgrimages, chanting a<br />
mantra or meditation, has much less ego.<br />
Depending on thoughts and emotions, our ego<br />
could lead to anger, hatred, belief in one’s own<br />
prowess and the desire to constantly strive to<br />
acquire personal happiness. The more the ego you<br />
have, the more loss and unhappiness you<br />
encounter. If a proud, beautiful woman grows old<br />
or is ill and her beauty fades away, she will be<br />
unhappy. If a rich man conscious of his wealth<br />
and power, suddenly loses that wealth, he will be<br />
miserable. Sometimes psychological unhappiness<br />
due to ego is more painful than physical distress.<br />
I did or It was me who did or I am the maker…..<br />
is ego but without eliminating it, one cannot<br />
obtain true knowledge. Theoretical knowledge is<br />
useful if utilized<br />
to improve one.<br />
If this is not done,<br />
that know-ledge<br />
turns into ego<br />
and leads the<br />
intellect astray.<br />
Please try to<br />
eliminate ego,<br />
Start with<br />
becoming aware<br />
and owing up to<br />
your defects; stop pointing out other’s defects.<br />
Inculcate humility towards people and value<br />
everything as God’s creation. Develop an attitude<br />
of learning and listening. In learning, one becomes<br />
aware that, I know nothing; by listening to others,<br />
we enhance our patience, love respect and<br />
tolerance; these reduce our ego.<br />
When a person expects or demands respect or<br />
praise, it only fosters his ego. Talking incessantly<br />
about oneself, one’s family or one’s happiness or<br />
sorrows shows an attachment to the body. But not<br />
talking about oneself, attachment to the body<br />
automatically reduces. These steps reduce ego.<br />
Watch how you react to situations. Do you say<br />
things you regret later? Learn to control reactions<br />
and introspect, instead.<br />
Selfishness is another common source of ego,<br />
whether physical, oral or psychological. In speech,<br />
avoid words like ‘I’ me, mine to reduce the ego.<br />
Do actions for others and not just for yourself.<br />
Playing with Children helps, as you forget your<br />
status and your ego! Think of others, not of<br />
yourself. Ask yourself the eternal question, who<br />
am I? The answer lies within you. Look within<br />
and you will wholeheartedly say, “I am no one.”<br />
Sridhar S. Suvarna<br />
Editor-in-Chief<br />
THIYA BELAKU<br />
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LAUGHTER<br />
Touching story...A husband and wife<br />
went for a walk. While walking husband<br />
got hurt by a stone and started<br />
bleeding. He looked at his wife, hoping<br />
she would tear her dupatta and tie it<br />
on the wound.Wife looked in his eyes<br />
and said: Sochna bhi mat...Designer<br />
piece hai!!<br />
***<br />
Wife said during duserra : chota mota<br />
hi sahi, par gold ka kuch la do.......<br />
Husband<br />
"Ye le chota gold flake<br />
***<br />
In a bus a man asked a beautiful lady<br />
sitting next to him: "You have applied<br />
a nice perfume .. which is that ? "I want<br />
to give it to my wife".<br />
Lady replied : Don't give it to her.<br />
Some idiot will find an excuse to talk<br />
to her.<br />
***<br />
Laxmi ji ka vahan (ullu) unse ruth gya<br />
aur bola...<br />
Aapki sab pooja karte hai. mujhe koi<br />
nahi pujta.<br />
Laxmi ji boli.....aab se har saal meri<br />
pooja se 11 din pehle tumhari pooja<br />
hogi.<br />
Uss din ullu pooje jayenge<br />
Tab se diwali ke 11 din pehle KARVA<br />
CHOUTH manaya jane laga.<br />
***<br />
There are two types of suicide ( Fast<br />
& Slow ).<br />
Fast: Gale me rassi dalo and latak jao.<br />
Slow: Gale me Varmala dalo aur<br />
zindagi bhar latke raho<br />
***<br />
WIFE: You are extremely impolite. All<br />
the time I was talking, you were<br />
continuously yawning.<br />
HUSBAND: I was not yawning, I was<br />
trying to say something.<br />
***<br />
Husband and wife had an heated<br />
argument on Karva Chauth day.<br />
Husband came up with killer reply -<br />
"Dimag khane se bhi Vrat tut jaata<br />
hain"<br />
***<br />
A Man and his Wife are out shopping<br />
and come across a fight.?<br />
6 men are beating up a lady.<br />
Something looked familiar .. the man<br />
(and his wife) realized that the men<br />
were beating up his mother-in-law, the<br />
wife turns to the husband and says,<br />
"Well. aren't you going to help?"<br />
The man replies, “No! 6 men should<br />
be enough”<br />
***<br />
What’s the english movie name after<br />
‘Karva Chauth’<br />
Its called ....... Fast and Furious<br />
One day fast n then 364 days Furious<br />
***<br />
Husband -Dubai ja raha hu...<br />
Wife-mere liye jewellery lana ...<br />
Husband - Singapore ja raha hu...<br />
Wife -mere liye cosmetics lana...<br />
Husband - London ja raha hu...<br />
Wife- perfumes leke aana...<br />
Husband -narak mein ja raha hu ...<br />
Wife - Bhagwan ka diya sub kuch hai<br />
... bas tum apna khayal rakhna...!<br />
***<br />
Wives are never wrong...<br />
It's just that sometimes they are rude,<br />
confused, senseless, emotionless,<br />
unchangeable, crazy, stupid, idiot and<br />
even mad.<br />
But never ever they're wrong !<br />
***<br />
A Wife was driving when she saw the<br />
flash of a traffic camera. She figured<br />
that her picture had been taken for<br />
exceeding the limit even though she<br />
knew that she was not speeding.<br />
Just to be sure, she went around the<br />
block and passed the same spot,<br />
driving even more slowly, but again<br />
the camera flashed.<br />
Now she began to think that this was<br />
quite funny, so she drove even slower<br />
as she passed the area once more,<br />
but the traffic camera again flashed.<br />
She tried a fourth and fifth time with<br />
the same results and was now laughing<br />
as the camera flashed while she rolled<br />
past at a snail's pace.<br />
Two weeks later, she got five challans<br />
for driving without a seat belt ... !!!<br />
Wife !!! Wife !!! Wife !!!<br />
***<br />
Mulk ki taqdeer sirf Naujawan (Ghair<br />
Shaadi Shuda) hi badal sakte hain.<br />
Shadi Shuda to apni marzi se TV ka<br />
Channel bhi nahi badal saktey<br />
***<br />
Once A Man asked God: "Why all<br />
Girls are so Cute & Sweet and all<br />
Wives are always Angry?<br />
God Answered: Girls are made by me<br />
... And you make them Wife...!!!<br />
Your Problem ... !!!<br />
***<br />
Husband: Agar mujhe lottery lagi toh<br />
tum kya karogi...?<br />
Wife: Aadhe paise le kar hamesha<br />
keliye maike chali jaungi... Main bhi<br />
khush aur aap bhi khush..<br />
Husband: 20 Rs. ki lagi hai... ye le 10<br />
aur nikal.<br />
***<br />
Dr: Tum Pagal Kaise Huye?<br />
Pagal: Maine 1 Vidhva Se Shadi Ki,<br />
Uski Jawan Beti Se Mere Baap<br />
Ne Shadi Kar Li. Is Tarah Mera Baap<br />
Mera Damaad Ban Gaya aur Meri<br />
Beti Meri Maa Ban Gayi, Unke Ghar<br />
Beti Huyi Toh Woh Meri Behan Huyi,<br />
Par Main Uski Nani Ka Shohar Tha<br />
Isliye<br />
Wo Meri Nawasi Bhi Huyi, Isi Tarah<br />
Mera Beta Apni Dadi Ka Bhai Ban<br />
Gaya or Main Apne Bete Ka Bhanja<br />
Aur Mera Beta Apne Dada Ka Sala<br />
Ban Gaya aur......<br />
Dr: Chup Kar Sale Mujhe Bhi Pagal<br />
Karega Kya?<br />
***<br />
What's the similarity between<br />
"MARRIAGE" & 11:59 PM?<br />
Confused ?<br />
Funniest answer: Dono ke baad 12 hi<br />
bajte hain, aur din badal jate hain....<br />
***<br />
Narak mein bohat saree auraten<br />
masti kar rahi thee...<br />
Shaitan ne pucha:- yeh koun log<br />
hain, jo yahan bhi khush hain?<br />
Farishta:- Hindustani Bahuein hain<br />
.... Kambakhat her jagah adjust ho<br />
jati hain...Kehti hain ke bilkul sasuraal<br />
wala maahol hai.....?<br />
***<br />
Santa to banta - Yaar teri ab tak<br />
shadi kyon nahi hui ..?<br />
Banta - Jaako Rakhe Saiyaan Maar<br />
Sake Na koi<br />
LEARN KANNADA<br />
Shetty<br />
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