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and therefore, there is some kind of implicit leeway or permission for them to be “weak” on<br />
occasion. This has been seen in news about jihadists drinking alcohol and visiting bars for adult<br />
entertainment, as well as in the sexual scandals of the Catholic Church or the photos that we have<br />
seen of Buddhist monks traveling by private jet to oversee their fortunes. Of course, I do not mean to<br />
condemn all men and women of religious devotion. On the contrary.<br />
What I am saying to you is that you need to make sure that you understand that those with plausible<br />
authority are also human beings like you and me. They are human beings, who can and will be<br />
distracted by the traditional human temptations of power, money, and sex. When I was a child, I was<br />
always willing to inflate the authority of such people, based simply on the fact that they carried<br />
themselves with authority. They had special uniforms. They had specialized knowledge. They spoke<br />
with a weariness that must have come from deep thought and great suffering. They spoke to us in a<br />
mystical manner. We would not understand everything they said, because we were simply not wise<br />
enough or good enough to understand.<br />
The aura of authority can serve as a cloak for earthier matters. I want you to be aware of this<br />
possibility. This is a very human weakness of those who are looking for certainties in an ever<br />
changing world. We have a desire to know and believe that there are truly good people somewhere<br />
nearby. When we think we have found such a person, we are tempted to grant them our respect and<br />
even love. We slip into adding qualities to them that other observers can see they do not possess.<br />
Beware about endowing others with a goodness they do not have. Recognize that the goodness you<br />
see in them may actually be your own goodness. Turn your eyes inward to your own goodness and<br />
recognize that for what it is worth.<br />
The question of authority is common to all religions. It spreads wider to encompass the workplace,<br />
school, and university, and anyplace where humans interact.<br />
There is always someone who claims to know better than the others. Over the course of my life, I<br />
have gone from gullibly believing those who claim this authority in front of the group to having a<br />
more realistic view. I want you to make this move quicker than I did. We are often advised to give<br />
someone the benefit of the doubt. Or we are told that someone has a good heart deep down and thus<br />
we should not judge this person on the basis of their outward behavior. Or that the person in question<br />
is so learned that only those who have come close to learning as much will ever truly understand the<br />
wisdom attained.<br />
The other side of this relationship is that you are told that you do not have the authority to speak on<br />
certain matters. Again, you will find this in all spheres of life, including the sphere of religion. The<br />
acquisition of authority by one person usually correlates with a removal of authority from the other<br />
person. Here you will be told that you should simply fall in line, follow orders, be a team player, do<br />
your job, focus on what you can do, and leave more serious matters to others.