Making Memories Mary Ann Kirby Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory. - Dr. Suess 94 • <strong>December</strong> <strong>2015</strong>/<strong>January</strong> <strong>2016</strong>
This time five years ago, my family was gearing up to move into a new house. If you’ve never moved anywhere the week of Christmas, don’t. It’s insane. And it’s the second time we’ve done it. The first time was sixteen years ago as newlyweds into a home that my husband and I had just built. It was Christmas week and all we had was some random furniture, each other, and big dreams. Our biggest priority, at that point, was to have people over for New Year’s Eve to ring in Y2K before the cyber-world collapsed. The second time we moved was different. We were a family that included a child, two dogs, a cat, and more stuff than anyone should haul from one place to another— all, of course, in boxes. Countless boxes. We stuck a tree up in the corner and put a handful of ornaments on it including one, brand new and still wrapped in tissue that said “Our New Home”. I was starting a new tradition of collecting ornaments that told our story, and this was our first. There were no elaborate decorations or wreaths or swags. There was no gourmet meal, no Christmas cookies and no eggnog. But despite the stress of moving, and all the back-breaking work that comes with it, it was undoubtedly one of the best Christmases I can remember. It allowed us to reflect on the true meaning of the season. Actually, it forced us to, I guess. We had each other, a roof over our heads and a warm place to sleep. My husband and I didn’t even exchange gifts that year and my then-seven-year old son only had a few. I would love to tell you that we limited our gift giving as the result of some new-found stance on materialism–after all, Baby Jesus only got three gifts. But the truth is, that with the all the packing and moving and working, I hadn’t had time to shop. And as it turns out, no one seemed to mind at all–particularly my son. It made me proud. There we were– all genuinely grateful for what we had and for being together. It’s one of my fondest Christmas memories. It is incredibly easy for us to take our worlds for granted and many of our children may likely never remember a time when things weren’t constantly available–and in great abundance. But sadly, we are surrounded by people in our own zip codes that struggle with keeping a roof over their heads or feeding their own families. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of seeing, firsthand, what the efforts of a determined few can do to offer hope to the weary. I’ve volunteered for several organizations that are committed to changing people’s lives and I’ve learned more from the broken than I ever learned anywhere else. It makes me appreciate, even more, all we have, and even more so, all we can do. It’s important to help others–particularly during the holidays. Remember, “To whom much is given, much is required,” Luke 12:48. So this year, as we continue to whittle down our holiday to-do lists and prepare for our annual family gatherings, let’s remember those who are truly in need of our time and generosity. Consider sponsoring a needy family. Help to put food on the table for those that might not have the means to do so themselves. Or commit to helping the homeless. At a time when warm homes and family get-togethers are common, the homeless are left feeling particularly isolated. Deliver a meal, visit a senior, or adopt an angel. (The Salvation Army Angel Tree program is one of my favorites.) Help a co-worker or over-tip your waiter. There are lots of ways to make an impact. I know that as a child, I couldn’t wait to open gifts on Christmas morning and probably asked a hundred times when it would be time. But, looking back, I don’t remember many of the gifts I received. I do remember baking holiday cakes in my grandmother’s kitchen, though. Those memories are more valuable than any board game or Barbie doll I ever got, I can assure you. Making memories is what it’s all about. And so, time marches on. My son will turn thirteen just two days into <strong>January</strong>. And since that first Christmas in our new home, we’ve collected five more years’ worth of memories–many commemorated by special ornaments on our tree. There are no cardboard boxes in our living room and our halls are all suitably decked. But nothing will ever take away from the lesson we learned from our very first Christmas here. We know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that the most important things in life are being grateful for what you have and being together with people you love. And that the best thing about memories, is making them. Merry Christmas. n <strong>Hometown</strong> <strong>Rankin</strong> • 95
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