Chapter 3: Values and Morals:Guidelines for living - Psychological ...
Chapter 3: Values and Morals:Guidelines for living - Psychological ...
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Examples of philosophies of life<br />
Start selecting your basic principles. Pull together your basic ideas<br />
from the above exercises <strong>and</strong> comments. I will give two examples of<br />
a philosophy of life. Both may appeal to you <strong>and</strong> should be useful. The<br />
first is a philosophy written by a student which emphasizes selfacceptance,<br />
being your true self, self-responsibility, <strong>and</strong> self-direction.<br />
It is com<strong>for</strong>t <strong>and</strong> happiness oriented (although the Golden Rule is<br />
mentioned).<br />
A happiness philosophy<br />
· I am ________ <strong>and</strong> no one else. I am unique. I am myself <strong>and</strong><br />
do the things I do because of me, not because of anyone else.<br />
If I ever find myself being displeased because of something I<br />
have done, I will realize that the behavior has to be changed by<br />
me <strong>and</strong> no one else. The only person that I can expect to do<br />
anything is myself.<br />
· I am one person <strong>and</strong> will take on the responsibilities of one<br />
person, not the rest of the world. I am capable of doing only<br />
what I am able to do <strong>and</strong> will not expect more.<br />
· I will respect others <strong>for</strong> being what they are, not <strong>for</strong> what they<br />
have. I will accept others <strong>for</strong> being themselves. I am superior<br />
to no one <strong>and</strong> no one is superior to me.<br />
· I will not let people run my life. My life is my own <strong>and</strong> I will<br />
treasure it <strong>for</strong> all it is worth. And it is worth everything.<br />
· I will be honest with myself <strong>and</strong> with others at all times. I will<br />
do the best I can in all aspects. I will try my hardest to accept<br />
all of my traits--good or bad.<br />
· I will respect my parents <strong>and</strong> give them all the love they<br />
deserve, which is a whole lot. I will try to accept their ideas <strong>and</strong><br />
listen to them open- mindedly, even if I don't agree. I will<br />
explain to them why I believe in the things I do <strong>and</strong> ask them<br />
to accept me with those beliefs. I will cherish them always.<br />
· I will treat others as I want to be treated. I will listen to others'<br />
ideas <strong>and</strong> respect their opinions, even if I'm in disagreement.<br />
· My goal in life is to be happy to the best of my abilities. I am<br />
me <strong>and</strong> I am real. I will live my life as the real me.<br />
A helping philosophy<br />
· I believe it is satisfying <strong>and</strong> a moral duty to help others. I want<br />
to give. It does not seem fair that I should want <strong>and</strong>/or have so<br />
much--a big home, a car, a good education, nice clothes--while<br />
many others have so little. I feel compelled to do what is right,<br />
even though it is hard <strong>for</strong> me to give up some things. I want to<br />
follow the Golden Rule; if I don't, I won't be happy with myself<br />
when I die.<br />
· I would also like to be accepting of myself <strong>and</strong> others, even<br />
when I or they fall short of my ideals. I want to <strong>for</strong>give. I<br />
believe one way of doing this is by believing in the "lawfulness"<br />
of all things, to assume there are necessary <strong>and</strong> sufficient<br />
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