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Action TOOL:<br />
INTERESTING POINT OF VIEW<br />
Whenever a judgmental thought rises up, keep repeating:<br />
“Interesting point of view, I have this point of view.”<br />
Isn’t it interesting that I have the POV that….<br />
[this person/situation should show up<br />
any differently than the way they are!]<br />
Isn’t it interesting that I have the point of view that my tire should not be flat or that my<br />
husband should take out the garbage or that my child should only get As?<br />
If you have the POV that anything going on in your life should be different than the way<br />
it’s showing up, you’re judging it as wrong---which takes away the ease in your life. And<br />
which definitely creates the trauma and drama. Remember, our fear of being wrong is<br />
driving us without us knowing it. So powerfully!<br />
This tool is your BRIDGE.<br />
So, if you are having a judgment that something is wrong—e.g., your boss told you to<br />
work late or you just ran out of gas. You think it’s wrong and you have to judge it as bad,<br />
wrong, pathetic, etc. However, when you’re in that place of wrongness, is your life going<br />
to work well? Are you going to have ease or will you be in the trauma and drama?<br />
Are you a little kid stomping your feet in a temper tantrum at whatever just happened?<br />
What will that create? The energy you experience now will create, oh, yeah! the rest of<br />
your life. Why not make it amazing? Why not make it fun?<br />
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