WTF.BOOK.FINAL4

show up.
Let’s look at the same story from another angle:
You get the flat tire. You get into the trauma-drama for a minute and remember your
tools. You say, “Interesting Point of View, I Have This Point of View… Interesting POV
that I am concluding and deciding that what just occurred is a wrong and bad thing. That
I am concluding that everything I want is now gone.” And now that you’re saying it, the
energy starts to dissipate. It takes you out of trauma, drama, fear and judgment of
something being wrong. And you are no longer deathly afraid of being WRONG.
All of a sudden, a truck stops for you. A lovely young man gets out and starts helping
you with your tire. You share the story of your interview. He asks, “What kind of job was
it?” You tell him. And he says, “Wow, my father has a company just like that. I’ll
introduce you to him.” In the end, you get a job with the father’s company that you love
and that pays twice as much as the one you were interviewing for.
Let’s look at another scenario. (I want you to really get this!)
You find a mess your child left on the kitchen counter and the overflowing trash can and
you get angry. Why are you the one left to clean this up? Your husband is supposed to
clean up after the kids and take out the trash! You worked all day and already cleaned
up the breakfast dishes… Doesn’t this just suck, etc.
Now, you remember to use the tool:
Interesting Point of View, I Have This Point of View:
Hmmm, isn’t it interesting that I believe that my husband has to be the one to wash the
kids’ dishes and take out the garbage?
You see that you’re making him responsible for your happiness in this moment. When
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