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With This Ring: March 23, 2018

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<strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong><br />

65<br />

Your Guide to<br />

WEDDING<br />

STATIONERY<br />

1. CREATING AN IMPRESSION<br />

Once you have announced you are getting married, you will begin<br />

to plan your wedding day, one of the biggest events of your life.<br />

The role of your invitations is to get your guests excited about the<br />

event and the effort you put into your stationery style tells your<br />

guests what to expect. A gorgeous invitation instead of a plain card<br />

conveys an elegant impression and makes them want to attend.<br />

2. AVOID A STATIONERY DISASTER<br />

Decide whether you want to make your own invitations or<br />

purchase your wedding stationery – it’s all about the money or<br />

the time! Making or buying a sample of your stationery design<br />

helps you make a confident decision. Investigate the costs – you<br />

may find DIY less economic than you expect once you have added<br />

up all the components. Every stationer is different so ask what is<br />

included and what is extra so that you can make a fair comparison.<br />

3. AVOID PROCRASTINATING<br />

Life just gets busier so get organised! Traditionally wedding<br />

invitations are sent out 6-12 weeks in advance of the wedding.<br />

However, out of town guests who may need to make travel and<br />

accommodation plans, will need an earlier invitation or perhaps<br />

a “save the date” card. Invitation designs and printing can take<br />

several weeks, so order them so you have plenty of time to get<br />

them to your guests.<br />

4. CONFIRM THE GUEST LIST<br />

Guest list expectations can become awkward and often require<br />

compromise to keep the numbers realistic. Some brides have<br />

a “must invite” list and a backup list of guests who receive an<br />

invitation if another guest can’t attend. Make sure you have a<br />

comprehensive and accurate record of addresses for all your<br />

potential guests.<br />

5. AVOID ETIQUETTE MISTAKES<br />

Some modern brides save time and money by using email<br />

or social media to invite people to their wedding. But many<br />

wedding consultants discourage the practice as “poor etiquette<br />

and disrespectful to their guests”. They accept email, Facebook or<br />

texts for low-key events and parties, but they believe a posted or<br />

hand-delivered invitation is a better match for the specialness of a<br />

wedding.<br />

6. HAVE CLEAR RSVP INFORMATION<br />

It is recommended to have the RSVPs returned a month after<br />

sending the invitations allowing you time to confirm numbers<br />

with your reception venue and caterers. If your invitation also<br />

includes guest information about transport, accommodation,<br />

babysitters you are arranging for them, be sure to include a space<br />

to RSVP on those as well.<br />

7. PROOFREAD YOUR STATIONERY<br />

Typos are so easy to miss, but any mistakes are guaranteed to<br />

spoil the effect of your wedding invitations. Go through every<br />

word, every line and every name to ensure there are no spelling or<br />

grammar errors, the information is correct and makes sense, that<br />

the font size and style is suitable and the layout is consistent. If<br />

you are not confident to proof everything yourself, get a trusted<br />

friend or family member with an eye for detail to help you.<br />

8. ORDER YOUR<br />

INVITATIONS<br />

When you are happy with<br />

your proofing the final version<br />

is confirmed you will need to<br />

order your stationery, which<br />

may include RSVP cards, place<br />

cards and thank you cards as<br />

well as the invitations. Total<br />

how many of each item you<br />

will require as an all-in-one<br />

purchase is usually more cost<br />

effective. Order a minimum of<br />

10 extra invitations just in case<br />

and keep one as a memento.<br />

9. ADDRESSING YOUR ENVELOPES<br />

If you are hand-addressing your envelopes order 10% more of them<br />

to account for smudges or errors. Alternatively you could create<br />

some fancy labels with guest names and addresses to put on the<br />

envelope.<br />

10. PAYING THE POSTAGE<br />

Envelopes with distinctive shapes and sizes are exciting to receive,<br />

but posting them can cost more if they don’t conform to standard<br />

weight, shape, dimensions and thickness. So make up a sample<br />

and check out the potential cost at the post office first because<br />

you wouldn’t want your beautiful invitations returned for lack of<br />

postage.Other options include hand delivering to guests who live<br />

locally so that you only need post those at distant locations.

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