The-Accountant-Sep-Oct-2017-Final

INSPIRATION
One of the best
ways to be happy,
peaceful and
contented is to
make others
happy and to show
gratitude all the
time. When you
are happy your
body triggers the
production of
endorphins.
lives and family lives, and in anything we
set to do.
Our guilt and our obligations; we are
living with two principles; we are afraid
that we are not doing what society expects.
If I do not go to church on Sunday, I feel
guilty for not honoring an obligation for
the society. It is up to you to design your
life the way you want to live it without
feeling intimidated. If is up to you to create
your aaaaah moment.
Manipulators in our lives; Remove
the idea that there are imperfections in
you. Decide that in my world, I will live
a corruption free life, we will honor each
other and I will create a stress-free life
for myself. Learn how to say no without
feeling guilty. Say no to your boss and
do not worry about losing your job, you
can actually say no by saying yes. If your
boss insists on some task for example, you
can explain that you will do it, but could
you finish the work at hand first or do it
tomorrow? By doing this, you are giving
yourself power and taking it away from
the other person. Thank your boss for the
job and create value and purpose with an
attitude of gratitude.
Self esteem: This is defined by cultural
backgrounds. For instance - women
become properties. The consciousness
has not changed. Some people regard
women as a piece of property; demanding
dowry is part of that. Is there equality in
business? In social life? We have been
deprived of so many things in our lives. In
some cases we resign to our ‘fate’. “I am
a poor person; I have nowhere to go. You
cannot blame them for their hopelessness.
We become victims of our belief system.
Yet, you can only help people who want to
be helped and not everyone is willing or
able to change. With the help of a mentor
you can. You can decide to be happy and
to fulfill your personal desires. The real
power is in the people, most people are
not innovative. They do not see what is
around them. Make your life lively; dress
up; clean up; show up online; show up on
time, listen to some music. Everything
is an effort; decide for a week, you won’t
trash anything, if everyone does this, what
a clean world this will be. Remember that
by de cluttering, you are creating order
instead of disorder and making your life a
joyful experience.
To finish, communication is an
important aspect of our lives; to
communicate effectively; be honest, be
authentic; say it as it is, don’t be too critical,
don’t take people for granted, respect the
receiver’s viewpoint, listen and gauge.
Good communicators often become good
leaders. As a final point; always remember
to put life into everything you do!
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