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The North Shore's<br />

longest-running<br />

<strong>Senior</strong> Resource<br />

Guide<br />

FALL<br />

<strong>2018</strong><br />

HEALTH CARE<br />

COMMUNITY<br />

SENIOR<br />

ORGANIZATIONS<br />

ELDER LAW<br />

AND FINANCIAL<br />

SPECIALISTS<br />

IN-HOME-CARE<br />

ASSISTANCE<br />

NURSING AND<br />

REHABILITATIVE CARE<br />

AFFORDABLE<br />

SENIOR HOUSING<br />

OPPORTUNITIES<br />

SENIOR LIVING<br />

ASSISTED LIVING<br />

AND<br />

MUCH MORE<br />

ESSEX MEDIA GROUP<br />

LYNNFIELD WEEKLY<br />

NEWS<br />

PEABODY WEEKLY<br />

NEWS


2 ESSEX MEDIA GROUP SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong><br />

SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong><br />

INDEX OF ADVERTISERS<br />

ABC Home Healthcare Professionals .................................................................................................................................... 3<br />

Adult Foster Care of the North Shore .................................................................................................................................. 15<br />

All Care ..................................................................................................................................................................................... 7<br />

Brooksby Village ................................................................................................................................................................... 13<br />

Cuffe-McGinn Funeral Home .................................................................................................................................................. 5<br />

Dr. Kozlauska ........................................................................................................................................................................... 5<br />

Law Office of Julie Low ........................................................................................................................................................... 6<br />

Lynn Economic Opportunity .................................................................................................................................................. 8<br />

Nichols Village ....................................................................................................................................................................... 16<br />

Puritan Lawn Memorial Park .................................................................................................................................................11<br />

Shore Village Apartments ....................................................................................................................................................... 2<br />

Solimine Funeral Homes......................................................................................................................................................... 2<br />

A PUBLICATION OF ESSEX MEDIA GROUP<br />

LYNNFIELD WEEKLY<br />

NEWS<br />

PEABODY WEEKLY<br />

NEWS<br />

David J. Solimine, Jr.; Joel C. Solimine;<br />

David J. Solimine, Sr.<br />

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Caring for Our Community in Countless Ways<br />

The caring and experienced professionals at Solimine Funeral Homes are<br />

here to answer your questions, provide support and guide you and your<br />

family before, during and after a funeral.<br />

We offer a range of personalized funeral, memorial and cremation services<br />

to suit your family’s wishes and requirements.<br />

Call us today for a free consultation.<br />

(781) 595-1492<br />

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SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong> ESSEX MEDIA GROUP 3<br />

<strong>Living</strong> well at home<br />

As seniors, many of us have spent<br />

time caring for others. It may have<br />

been a child, spouse, friend or family<br />

member. Now that we’re older,<br />

we may notice that some things that<br />

were once easy are now more challenging<br />

– yet we might find it difficult<br />

to know when or how to ask for<br />

help. Furthermore, our independence<br />

is important to us and that makes us<br />

hesitant to ask for assistance at all.<br />

Don’t wait<br />

Asking for help doesn’t mean giving<br />

up independence. If you consider<br />

the alternative, you’re actually being<br />

proactive in supporting your own<br />

independence! What do I mean you<br />

ask? Consider laundry, which is a<br />

chore for all of us. Having someone<br />

come in for two hours to assist with<br />

getting the laundry done could eliminate<br />

a fall that could have lead to a<br />

debilitating injury and hospital stay.<br />

Perhaps you have trouble getting out<br />

of the house? Having someone help<br />

with the grocery shopping can help<br />

ensure you have fresh, healthy food<br />

readily available to eat. When you<br />

consider the alternative, a little assistance<br />

really goes a long way and<br />

that is where ABC Home Healthcare<br />

can help!<br />

Why an agency?<br />

You may have seen an ad for a<br />

caregiver looking to help seniors at<br />

home. Sounds less expensive than<br />

going through an agency right? In<br />

this day and age, it’s best not to be<br />

“penny wise and pound foolish”.<br />

Working with a quality agency like<br />

ABC Home Healthcare ensures the<br />

caregiver in your home can be trusted<br />

and that they are trained to help<br />

you in the best way possible. All our<br />

workers are carefully screened, bonded<br />

and insured. ABC also takes care<br />

of scheduling, supervision and taxes.<br />

All you need to do is call!<br />

What’s the best part?<br />

You have nothing to lose by calling<br />

ABC! Just that one call can help you<br />

build a gradual relationship with a<br />

reliable agency that can support you<br />

when you need it most. In establishing<br />

a relationship with ABC, you are<br />

giving yourself peace of mind that<br />

if an event, such as a debilitating<br />

illness or fall, occurs and you need<br />

in-home assistance, you can rely on<br />

an agency that you know and trust.<br />

Having this relationship will allow<br />

you to be more in control of your<br />

decision-making based on the facts<br />

and your experience rather than an<br />

impulsive, emotional response in<br />

the moment. By working with ABC<br />

Home Healthcare Professionals, you<br />

can rest assured that you are getting<br />

the quality care that you deserve.<br />

For most of our adult lives we’ve<br />

had the ability to make choices about<br />

how we want to live. Just because we<br />

are getting older doesn’t mean that<br />

we don’t still have choices. The choice<br />

is yours and the key to being successful<br />

is being proactive!<br />

Jeannette Sheehan, MSN, CCM,<br />

RN, Board Certified Nurse Practitioner<br />

is founder and owner of ABC<br />

Home Healthcare Professionals,<br />

providing private medical and nonmedical<br />

home care services to Metro<br />

Boston, North Shore, Merrimack Valley<br />

and the Cape Ann communities.<br />

When researching home care services,<br />

give us a call at 781-245-1880, or visit<br />

our website at www.abchhp.com.<br />

Home<br />

Healthcare®<br />

Professionals<br />

Let our trained team of compassionate caregivers<br />

help keep you safe at home.<br />

From homemaking to skilled nursing,<br />

when it comes to home care - trust the professionals.<br />

Call for your FREE In-home Assessment<br />

781-245-1880<br />

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4 ESSEX MEDIA GROUP SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong><br />

Your best age<br />

for everything<br />

By Lori Borgman<br />

TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE<br />

A chart titled “The Age You Peak at<br />

Everything,” published by Business<br />

Insider, was sent my way and was an<br />

enjoyable read — if you enjoy waves<br />

of uneasiness that roll your stomach.<br />

Lest I sound somewhat despondent,<br />

which is possible since, according to<br />

the chart, my last Life Satisfaction<br />

Peak was at age 23 and my next one<br />

will not occur until age 69, the selling<br />

point of the chart is that growing<br />

older comes with benchmarks of contentment.<br />

One can only hope.<br />

Of course, there is a lot of ground<br />

to cover between youth and age with<br />

numerous peaks along the way, some<br />

of which you have probably already<br />

missed.<br />

The peak age to learn a foreign<br />

language? Age 7. Yep, that ship has<br />

sailed; bon voyage.<br />

In other bad news, your brain processing<br />

power peaks around age 18.<br />

A moment for reflection on that<br />

one. If brain processors peak at age<br />

18, but greater life satisfaction lies<br />

beyond 18, could it be that contentment<br />

is tied to lower brain capacity?<br />

Just asking.<br />

Muscle strength tends to peak at<br />

age 25, followed by the peak likelihood<br />

of finding a marriage partner,<br />

which occurs around age 26. The<br />

sequencing of those two — peak<br />

strength followed by marriage — is<br />

entirely logical as marriage takes<br />

strength.<br />

Oh, does marriage take strength.<br />

Right, honey?<br />

Honey just shouted, “Yes!”<br />

The peak for bone mass is age 30,<br />

for playing chess, age 31, and for remembering<br />

faces, age 32. Your best<br />

age for the ability to focus is 43.<br />

Where was I?<br />

Let’s be honest; we all know what<br />

follows peaks. Valleys. The chart does<br />

not note valleys, but it should. The<br />

chart uses a straight line marked<br />

with dots for peaks, but realistically,<br />

life often looks more like a wild EKG.<br />

Out of the blue,<br />

age 69 pops up<br />

as when many<br />

experience life<br />

satisfaction —<br />

again — 46 years<br />

after the first<br />

satisfied life peak.<br />

For an upswing on the EKG, your<br />

arithmetic skills peak at 50. Apparently,<br />

the multiplication tables take<br />

far longer to gel than previously<br />

thought.<br />

Peak points appear increasingly<br />

sparse as the timeline progresses.<br />

There is a near dearth of activity between<br />

ages 52 and 68. If that’s where<br />

you are and it feels like a long, dry<br />

stretch, it probably is.<br />

Out of the blue, age 69 pops up as<br />

when many experience life satisfaction<br />

— again — 46 years after the<br />

first satisfied life peak.<br />

The two remaining peaks are significant.<br />

Wisdom really may come<br />

with age. Psychologists gave groups<br />

of people a conflict and asked for insights,<br />

responses and possible outcomes.<br />

The oldest age group — those<br />

in the 69-90 age range — did better<br />

than the other ages on almost every<br />

count.<br />

The final peak comes at age 82 and<br />

is for psychological well-being. The<br />

82- to 85-year-old age group gave the<br />

highest average number, which was 7<br />

on a scale of 10.<br />

Not a bad crescendo. Not bad at all.<br />

Repeat after me: The best may be<br />

yet to come, the best may be yet to<br />

come.<br />

Quinn on Nutrition:<br />

Nourishing healthy hair<br />

By Barbara Quinn<br />

THE MONTEREY COUNTY HERALD<br />

A reader writes: “I am a 70+ woman<br />

who is losing her hair! I’m not on radiation<br />

or chemotherapy and am in generally<br />

good health. A couple of years<br />

ago, I noticed my hair falling out, and<br />

now as it tentatively grows back very<br />

slowly, it is even thinner and finer<br />

than before (and continues to shed).<br />

I began taking biotin at my (doctor’s)<br />

advice. It doesn’t seem to have<br />

done anything to correct the loss. Can<br />

you give me any advice about supplements<br />

other than biotin, or any foods<br />

I might be missing for hair growth?<br />

My nails are very thin and subject<br />

to splitting as well. Both my parents<br />

died with hair on their heads, but I’m<br />

not sure I will!”<br />

— Linda K.<br />

Dear Linda,<br />

You did right to consult your doctor<br />

on this, since he or she hopefully<br />

knows your total health history. Nutrition<br />

experts say a deficiency of biotin<br />

is extremely rare. That said, a deficiency<br />

can cause a gradual thinning<br />

and loss of hair all over the body, according<br />

to the NIH Office of Dietary<br />

Supplements. Other symptoms of biotin<br />

deficiency can include skin rashes<br />

and brittle nails. By the way, there<br />

PHOTO | TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE<br />

Nutrition experts say a deficiency of biotin is extremely rare, but a deficiency<br />

can cause a gradual thinning and loss of hair all over the body.<br />

is more evidence that biotin supplements<br />

may help brittle nails than<br />

there is about their effect on hair loss.<br />

A woman your age needs about 30<br />

micrograms of biotin a day, according<br />

to the latest recommendations. Good<br />

sources include eggs, fish, pork, beef,<br />

sunflower seeds and sweet potatoes.<br />

And steer clear of too much alcohol;<br />

it can interfere with the absorption of<br />

biotin.<br />

Nutritionally, our hair follicles —<br />

the cells in our skin that grow hair<br />

— use a variety of nutrients to produce<br />

healthy hair. A deficiency of one<br />

or more key nutrients can affect the<br />

structure as well as the growth of<br />

hair, say experts.<br />

Nutrients that can literally make<br />

your hair fall out if they are deficient<br />

in the diet include iron, protein, niacin<br />

and zinc. Foods that possess all of<br />

these nutrients include fish, poultry,<br />

lean meat, eggs and legumes.<br />

Omega-3 fatty acids found in fish,<br />

flax and walnuts are also essential to<br />

shiny, healthy hair.<br />

I like that you asked about foods<br />

— not just supplements — that may<br />

benefit hair growth. Concentrated<br />

doses of some nutrients, such as you<br />

find in some dietary supplements,<br />

can backfire if you take too much.


SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong> ESSEX MEDIA GROUP 5<br />

CUFFE-McGINN<br />

FUNERAL HOME<br />

By JoNel Aleccia<br />

KAISER HEALTH NEWS<br />

Of all the indignities that come<br />

with aging, excessive earwax may be<br />

the most insidious.<br />

Don’t laugh.<br />

That greasy, often gross, buildup<br />

occurs more often in older ears than<br />

those of the young, experts say. And<br />

when it goes unrecognized, it can pose<br />

serious problems, especially for the 2.2<br />

million people who live in U.S. nursing<br />

homes and assisted living centers.<br />

“The excessive amount (of earwax)<br />

can cause hearing loss or ringing in<br />

your ears. Some people experience vertigo,<br />

which increases the risk of falling,”<br />

said Jackie Clark, a board-certified audiologist<br />

who is president of the American<br />

Academy of Audiology. “Right now,<br />

we see some correlation between hearing<br />

loss and cognitive decline.”<br />

Earwax — which is not really wax<br />

at all, but a substance called cerumen<br />

that binds with dirt, dust and debris<br />

— is normally produced by the body<br />

as a way to clean and protect the<br />

ears. In most people, the self-cleaning<br />

process works fine.<br />

But in others — including about 10<br />

percent of young children, 20 percent<br />

of adults and more than 30 percent of<br />

elderly and developmentally disabled<br />

people — the wax collects to the point<br />

PHOTO | TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE<br />

Janie York examines the ear of Elaine Martin at the SilverRidge<br />

Assisted <strong>Living</strong> facility in Gretna, Neb.<br />

Earwax, of all things, poses<br />

a risk in long-term care<br />

where it can completely block the ear<br />

canal.<br />

Up to two-thirds of people in nursing<br />

homes may suffer from that condition,<br />

known as impaction, according<br />

to 2017 guidelines for removal of<br />

impacted earwax issued by the American<br />

Academy of Otolaryngology-<br />

Head and Neck Surgery Foundation.<br />

In 2016, federal Medicare recipients<br />

logged nearly 1.7 million earwax<br />

removal services at a cost of<br />

more than $51 million, according to<br />

payment records analyzed by Kaiser<br />

Health News.<br />

“In elderly patients, it’s fairly common,”<br />

said Dr. Seth Schwartz, a Seattle<br />

otolaryngologist who led the most recent<br />

update of the guidelines. “It seems<br />

like such a basic thing, but it’s one of<br />

the most common reasons people present<br />

for hearing-related problems.”<br />

It’s so bad that Janie York, of Omaha,<br />

Neb., started Hear Now mobile<br />

hearing solutions, one of a growing<br />

number of businesses devoted to<br />

cleaning hearing aids and checking<br />

the ears of elderly people living in<br />

residential care settings.<br />

“It’s epidemic,” said York, whose<br />

clients now include 10 local centers.<br />

“About 3 in 5 people I see have some<br />

degree of impaction and most are<br />

completely impacted.”<br />

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6 ESSEX MEDIA GROUP SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong><br />

Wondering how to protect your assets?<br />

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in estate planning and administration, elder law,<br />

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The firm designs customized, comprehensive<br />

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Attorney Low opened her Beverly-based firm because<br />

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She believes in creating an inviting, personable<br />

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SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong> ESSEX MEDIA GROUP 7<br />

All Care’s Palliative Care Program<br />

continues to grow within the community<br />

Over a year ago, All Care Visiting<br />

Nurse and Hospice expanded its services<br />

in the community to include a<br />

Palliative Care Program. Since its<br />

inception, the program has served<br />

over 300 patients and provides interdisciplinary<br />

care to patients with<br />

an advanced terminal illness, while<br />

providing support to their family and<br />

caregivers. This interdisciplinary<br />

team focuses on the physical, emotional,<br />

social and spiritual needs of<br />

the patient, and provides individualized<br />

focus on symptom management,<br />

goals of care and education.<br />

All Care’s Palliative Care program<br />

provides 24/7 support, collaborates<br />

closely with all members of the patient’s<br />

medical team and provides all<br />

services within the comfort of the patient’s<br />

home.<br />

All Care’s Palliative Care team consists<br />

of Program Manager, Laurie<br />

McFarland RN; Nurse Practitioner<br />

Nicole Martinez, AGPCNP-BC, MSN;<br />

Psychologist, Jerry Schwartz, PhD,<br />

LMHC and Social Worker, Debra L<br />

Amato, LCSW. Along with All Care’s<br />

VNA, Hospice, Adult Foster Care,<br />

Private Pay Resources and Adult<br />

Day Health, All Care’s Palliative<br />

Care Program aids in servicing the<br />

full continuum of care for patients in<br />

their own home.<br />

For example, Ruth had been dealing<br />

with advancing cardiac illness<br />

over the course of several years,<br />

finding herself entering the hospital<br />

more and more frequently. She<br />

would spend up to a week in the hospital,<br />

which was often followed by a<br />

stay in a rehabilitation facility before<br />

being able to return home. Despite<br />

Ruth’s advancing medical condition,<br />

she was a vibrant, intelligent, independent<br />

woman who did not want<br />

her life to be based on the never-ending<br />

cycle of hospitalizations. When<br />

she was first referred to All Care,<br />

hospice wasn’t an option, she just<br />

simply wasn’t “there” yet. By accessing<br />

services through All Care’s Palliative<br />

Care Program, Ruth was able<br />

to better manage her disease and<br />

be supported in her home. Ruth received<br />

visits from a nurse and nurse<br />

practitioner who kept a watchful eye<br />

on her symptoms and helped her to<br />

avoided further hospitalizations.<br />

Ruth also received support from the<br />

psychologist who helped her come to<br />

terms with her cardiac disease as it<br />

continued to progress. Eventually<br />

Ruth made the decision to transition<br />

to Hospice, a process made easier by<br />

the support and symptom management<br />

of her Palliative Care Team.<br />

If you are wondering, “When is Palliative<br />

Care right for me or someone<br />

close to me?” please ask yourself the<br />

following questions:<br />

Have you or your loved one been diagnosed<br />

with a serious, life limiting<br />

illness?<br />

Have you or your loved one been experiencing<br />

frequent ER trips and/or<br />

hospitalizations? Has this frequency<br />

increased dramatically over time?<br />

Are you or your loved one experiencing<br />

symptoms that are affecting<br />

the quality of your life, such as pain,<br />

anxiety, shortness of breath, fatigue,<br />

nausea, etc.?<br />

Are you or your loved one faced<br />

with making decisions regarding life<br />

sustaining treatments and need a resource<br />

to help you navigate through<br />

those difficult decisions?<br />

For more information about remaining<br />

independent and supported<br />

at home while dealing with a serious<br />

life limiting illness, or to make a referral<br />

to our Palliative Care Program,<br />

please call 781-598-7066 or visit us at<br />

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8 ESSEX MEDIA GROUP SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong><br />

Heat is a necessity, not a luxury<br />

No matter what type of heating system you<br />

have, LEO’s Fuel Assistance program can help<br />

you pay your heating bills. 1 out of 3 homes<br />

is eligible; they currently serve nearly 3,000<br />

households, and over 7,000 individuals. Homeowners,<br />

renters, and renters with heat included<br />

can benefit. Many that are not eligible for fuel<br />

assistance qualify for utility discounts; this benefit<br />

is just as helpful.<br />

Birgitta Damon, CEO of Lynn Economic Opportunity,<br />

Inc. understands that in order to<br />

serve the community, you must listen to their<br />

needs. “We know from data sourced from our<br />

community survey that 50% of respondents<br />

identified the cost of energy as a primary concern.<br />

We are committed to reaching all eligible<br />

residents in order to ease this burden. We can<br />

help so many more.”<br />

A New England winter is long. From November<br />

through April, LEO works to service as<br />

many eligible clients as possible. Once you have<br />

been through the intake process, the program is<br />

simple. Payments are made right to your heating<br />

company. LEO staff is knowledgeable, considerate<br />

and careful with sensitive documents.<br />

LEO’s main goal is to provide assistance to<br />

those most vulnerable to the cold. 23% of the<br />

individuals served are children under the age<br />

of 17 years old. 36% of fuel assisted households<br />

include a resident 60 years or older.<br />

Darlene Gallant, Community Services Director,<br />

sees the doors that open for a household once<br />

they engage with LEO, “Fuel Assistance is the<br />

gateway to other benefits. Those who have National<br />

Grid will receive a 25% discount on utility<br />

bills. This discount rate may qualify households<br />

for an energy audit, updated appliances, home<br />

weatherization and heating systems repair.<br />

LEO wants to reach working households who<br />

just need some help with winter heating costs.<br />

There is a misconception that fuel assistance<br />

is limited to individuals receiving government<br />

assistance. That notion is simply not the truth;<br />

our client base is incredibly diverse.”<br />

LEO serves residents of Lynn, Lynnfield,<br />

Marblehead, Nahant, Saugus, Swampscott<br />

and Wakefield. Stop by Lynn Economic Opportunity,<br />

Inc. (LEO) at 156 Broad Street, Room<br />

110 or visit leoinc.org.<br />

For emergencies, use our 24-hour hotline:<br />

781-581-7220 x 340.<br />

Walk-in hours:<br />

Monday - 8 a.m. to noon<br />

Tuesday - 1 to 4 p.m<br />

Thursday - 8 to 11:30 a.m.<br />

and 1 to 4 p.m.<br />

By appointment only<br />

on Tuesday evenings:<br />

4:30 - 6:30 p.m.<br />

Lynn Economic Opportunity, Inc., (LEO) works<br />

to alleviate the immediate impact of poverty<br />

while providing pathways to financial stability for<br />

individuals, families, and for the benefit of the<br />

community of Lynn and its surrounding towns.<br />

156 Broad St.<br />

leoinc.org<br />

781-581-7220


SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong> ESSEX MEDIA GROUP 9<br />

Penn and Drexel experts see hope for better lives with dementia<br />

By Stacey Burling<br />

THE PHILADELPHIA INQUIRER<br />

It’s hard to argue that hearing you<br />

have dementia is not deeply depressing.<br />

After all, most forms of dementia<br />

are progressive, fatal and, currently,<br />

untreatable.<br />

But Philadelphia aging experts<br />

Laura Gitlin and Nancy Hodgson see<br />

hope. “There’s always something you<br />

can do,” said Hodgson, chair of gerontology<br />

at the University of Pennsylvania<br />

School of Nursing.<br />

Gitlin, dean of the College of Nursing<br />

and Health Professions at Drexel<br />

University, said the lack of a medical<br />

cure doesn’t mean that life for people<br />

with dementia and their caregivers<br />

can’t be made better. She is appalled<br />

that primary-care doctors, who make<br />

most dementia diagnoses, are still<br />

telling patients there’s nothing they<br />

can do for them. “That’s just not acceptable,”<br />

she said.<br />

The duo, who previously worked<br />

together at Thomas Jefferson and<br />

Johns Hopkins Universities and the<br />

former Philadelphia Geriatric Center,<br />

collaborated on a new book, “Better<br />

<strong>Living</strong> with Dementia.” It advocates<br />

for a multidisciplinary approach to<br />

dementia care that emphasizes helping<br />

patients find meaningful activities<br />

they can do at any stage of the<br />

disease. Gitlin and Hodgson say the<br />

book is meant for both professional<br />

and lay audiences, but the academicpress<br />

price tag — online it starts at<br />

$76 — will likely deter many family<br />

caregivers. Broadly, it calls for thinking<br />

in a systemic way about how<br />

professionals, family caregivers, and<br />

society can support people with dementia<br />

— and caregivers — in their<br />

homes and communities.<br />

Hodgson said that medical professionals<br />

are “typically very deficitfocused.”<br />

They look for weaknesses<br />

that can be fixed. Given the lack of<br />

treatments for dementia, she said,<br />

it makes more sense to find “preserved<br />

strengths” and help patients<br />

use them as long as possible. Strategies<br />

that focus on using strengths<br />

to create meaningful activities can<br />

decrease social isolation, agitation,<br />

and boredom, Gitlin said. They work<br />

better than any drug now available.<br />

“There is no drug for boredom,” she<br />

said. “There is no drug for resisting<br />

care.”<br />

While they sympathize about the<br />

time pressures many doctors face,<br />

Gitlin and Hodgson said newly diagnosed<br />

patients and their families<br />

need much better education than<br />

they’re getting about dementia, an<br />

umbrella term for several types of<br />

progressive cognitive decline, including<br />

Alzheimer’s disease. At the very<br />

least, they should be told how to<br />

contact the Alzheimer’s Association,<br />

which has sound educational materials<br />

and support groups. Other organizations<br />

also support people with<br />

frontotemporal or Lewy body dementias.<br />

Yes, many people can easily search<br />

for these things online, but, Gitlin<br />

and Hodgson said, some elderly caregivers<br />

can’t and many others don’t.<br />

If caregivers don’t understand the<br />

disease and how it progresses, they<br />

have an especially hard time understanding<br />

a loved one’s behavior and<br />

responding appropriately.<br />

Gitlin suggests that caregivers who<br />

have the money — insurance likely<br />

won’t cover this — hire a geriatric social<br />

worker to assess their needs and<br />

help with long-term planning. Families<br />

need to think about safety, who<br />

will provide care, and where their<br />

loved one with dementia will live as<br />

the illness worsens.<br />

Hodgson thinks families can also<br />

benefit from an evaluation by an<br />

occupational therapist who is specifically<br />

trained in cognitive function.<br />

Insurance might cover this if a doctor<br />

writes a prescription. This kind of<br />

therapist can help people know what<br />

someone with dementia can still do<br />

and what is no longer safe.<br />

Families often learn the hard way<br />

that someone with dementia should<br />

no longer be driving or using the<br />

stove. Guns should be locked and<br />

monitored, if not banished from the<br />

house. Gitlin said families find it very<br />

hard to get rid of guns when, say, a<br />

former police officer gets dementia.<br />

“People struggle with this because<br />

they feel it’s a way of taking away a<br />

person’s identity,” she said.<br />

People with dementia often just sit<br />

PHOTO | TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE<br />

Nancy Hodgson, left, and Laura Gitlin have written a book on living with dementia, in Center City,<br />

Philadelphia.<br />

around all day, Hodgson said.<br />

This is where an evaluation can<br />

help families create meaningful activities.<br />

They may seem time-consuming,<br />

Hodgson said, but they pay<br />

off in better behavior.<br />

Gitlin said an occupational therapist<br />

learned that an agitated man<br />

in an adult day center had been an<br />

accountant. The center workers gave<br />

him a desk and a spreadsheet. Then<br />

they gave him money from the previous<br />

day to count and sort. He began<br />

looking forward to helping out each<br />

day.<br />

Another therapist helped a family<br />

set up a desk for an architect with<br />

dementia. They asked him to design<br />

a room each day. Other people might<br />

enjoy putting a salad together even if<br />

they can no longer follow a recipe or<br />

safely chop vegetables.<br />

Gitlin said doctors need to stop saying<br />

there’s nothing that can be done<br />

for dementia. “There’s a lot you can<br />

do,” she said, “and you can make life<br />

better.”


10 ESSEX MEDIA GROUP SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong><br />

Eye exam shows promise<br />

in predicting Alzheimer’s<br />

By Michele Munz<br />

ST. LOUIS POST-DISPATCH<br />

ST. LOUIS — Using an easy eye<br />

exam, researchers at Washington<br />

University of Medicine in St. Louis<br />

were able to detect evidence of Alzheimer’s<br />

disease in patients before<br />

they had symptoms of the disease.<br />

The findings, involving 30 patients,<br />

were published today in the journal<br />

JAMA Ophthalmology.<br />

Scientists estimate that Alzheimer’s-related<br />

plaques begin accumulating<br />

in the brain two decades before<br />

the onset of symptoms. Physicians<br />

can use PET scans and lumbar punctures<br />

to detect the plaques, but the<br />

tests are expensive and invasive.<br />

Researchers have been looking for<br />

ways to detect the disease sooner and<br />

test drugs to intervene.<br />

“We know the pathology of Alzheimer’s<br />

disease starts to develop<br />

years before symptoms appear,” said<br />

co-principal investigator Dr. Gregory<br />

Van Stavern, “but if we could use this<br />

eye test to notice when the pathology<br />

is beginning, it may be possible one<br />

day to start treatments sooner to delay<br />

further damage.”<br />

PHOTO | TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE<br />

Dr. Gregory Van Stavern, seated, and Dr. Rajendra Apte examine<br />

the eyes of a woman using technology that may one day make it<br />

possible to screen patients for Alzheimer's disease years before<br />

symptoms begin.<br />

Longer studies involving more people<br />

are needed, but if changes detected<br />

with the eye test can be used as<br />

markers for Alzheimer’s risk, it may<br />

be possible to screen people in their<br />

40s or 50s, Van Stavern said.<br />

The 30 study participants had an<br />

average age in the mid 70s. None<br />

were experiencing symptoms of Alzheimer’s.<br />

Out of the study group, 17 had<br />

PET scans or lumbar punctures that<br />

showed evidence of accumulating<br />

plaques. The eye exams of all 17 also<br />

detected retinal thinning and large<br />

areas without blood vessels in the<br />

center of their retinas.<br />

In the new study, researchers used<br />

a technology similar to what is found<br />

in many eye doctors’ offices to measure<br />

thickness of the retina and optic<br />

nerve fibers. They added one component<br />

to the common test –angiography<br />

– which also allowed them to<br />

look at blood-flow patterns.<br />

“In patients whose PET scans and<br />

cerebrospinal fluid showed preclinical<br />

Alzheimer’s,” Van Stavern said, “the<br />

area at the center of the retina without<br />

blood vessels was significantly<br />

larger, suggesting less blood flow.”<br />

Another October,<br />

another pink month for<br />

breast cancer survivor<br />

By Gracie Bonds Staples<br />

THE ATLANTA<br />

JOURNAL-CONSTITUTION<br />

On average, every two minutes a<br />

woman is diagnosed with breast cancer,<br />

and one woman will die of breast cancer<br />

every 13 minutes, according to the National<br />

Breast Cancer Foundation.<br />

That moment arrived four years<br />

ago for Bonnie Ross-Parker of Atlanta,<br />

just two months shy of her 70th<br />

birthday.<br />

She’d gone in for an annual checkup<br />

and there it was. A lump just under<br />

her nipple.<br />

An MRI confirmed something was<br />

there, and after the biopsy, there<br />

were no more questions.<br />

Ross-Parker had breast cancer.<br />

“I never would’ve imagined I would<br />

be diagnosed with cancer at that<br />

age,” she said.<br />

Actually, breast cancer is still a disease<br />

of older women. Half of newly<br />

diagnosed women are over 60, and<br />

more than a fifth are over 70.<br />

If there’s any consolation in that, it<br />

is this: While the risk of being diagnosed<br />

with breast cancer increases<br />

with age, the chance of dying from it<br />

declines steadily.<br />

Ross-Parker will soon be 74 and<br />

cancer-free.<br />

Every year, I introduce people to<br />

women like Ross-Parker who has had<br />

to confront the C-word. And every<br />

October, we trot out our pink ribbons<br />

in hopes of raising awareness and<br />

funds.<br />

Ross-Parker has been there, done<br />

that, too.<br />

Nearly 20 years before her own diagnosis,<br />

she signed up for the annual<br />

Avon Breast Cancer Walk, a 60-mile<br />

stretch over three days, to show her<br />

support for a dear colleague.<br />

“It was tough,” Ross-Parker said.<br />

“It was very tough. There were days<br />

I wanted to quit.”<br />

But she didn’t. When she arrived at<br />

Piedmont Park that day, it was pregnant<br />

with women dressed in pink<br />

shirts.<br />

“I never lost sight of that experience,”<br />

Ross-Parker said.<br />

PHOTO | TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE<br />

Bonnie Ross-Parker, 73, of Atlanta,<br />

wears pink the entire<br />

month of October. It’s her way<br />

of celebrating being a breast<br />

cancer survivor and raising<br />

awareness about the disease.<br />

Then in 2014, she was forced to<br />

deal with the same reality, the best<br />

change agent there is.<br />

“Like anything else, our awareness<br />

increases relative to what’s going on<br />

in and around us,” Ross-Parker said.<br />

Sure enough, something clicked<br />

inside Ross-Parker, and she wanted<br />

to remember all those sisters who’d<br />

already been diagnosed and those<br />

who would follow, while at the same<br />

time celebrate the survivors, herself<br />

included.<br />

Her own cancer journey increased<br />

her compassion for others and helped<br />

her realize how uncertain and precious<br />

life is. It’s why she signed up<br />

to volunteer at Northside Hospital,<br />

where she underwent chemotherapy<br />

and radiation treatment; wrote an e-<br />

book titled “Discovery and Recovery”;<br />

and continues doing whatever she can<br />

to raise awareness about the disease.


SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong> ESSEX MEDIA GROUP 11<br />

Make a Difficult Day a Bit Easier For Your Family<br />

Planning-Ahead Final Arrangements<br />

Although planning final arrangements is not<br />

something most of us want to think about, it is<br />

one of the greatest gifts you can give your<br />

family.<br />

For 85 years, Puritan Lawn has been a leader<br />

in providing Plan-Ahead information. Making<br />

cemetery Plan-Ahead programs available to<br />

our community has continued to be one of the<br />

cornerstones of Puritan Lawn’s charter.<br />

Plan-Ahead information is provided to families<br />

and it is up to them to decide how and<br />

when it makes sense to start a program.<br />

Why Consider Planning Ahead?<br />

The alternative to Planning-Ahead is a partner,<br />

spouse, or children are left to make all<br />

the decisions alone and at a very difficult<br />

time. Taking this step together removes this<br />

burden from your family at what is already a<br />

very difficult emotional time.<br />

What if I Want Cremation?<br />

We have a state of the art cremation facility<br />

and offer both traditional burial and cremation<br />

arrangements. We will customize arrangements<br />

to accommodate your wishes.<br />

Do I Save Money by Preplanning?<br />

On average, cemetery costs double every 8-10<br />

years. Planning-Ahead secures today’s prices<br />

and avoids emotional overspending.<br />

Are Payment Plans Available?<br />

When a cemetery lot is arranged at the time of<br />

passing, all cemeteries require full payment<br />

prior to a burial. By planning ahead, families<br />

can take advantage of a variety of affordable<br />

monthly payment plans.<br />

Will Cemetery Always be Maintained?<br />

Our professionally managed 85 year old irrevocable<br />

trust fund assures that park care will<br />

continue in perpetuity and there will never be<br />

any assessments to owners or heirs.<br />

How Can I Learn More?<br />

Our staff is available 7 days a week to serve<br />

families. We would be honored to provide<br />

information or give you a personalized tour of<br />

the park. If more convenient, we can even<br />

arrange to bring information to your home.<br />

It is important that you and your family feel<br />

comfortable in the setting that you choose.<br />

Puritan Lawn has one of the most naturally<br />

beautiful settings in the country and offers<br />

dozens or areas to select from. We are one of<br />

the few cemeteries in the area where you can<br />

Plan-Ahead all necessary steps.<br />

Over 90% of Puritan Lawn<br />

cemetery services are by<br />

families that decided<br />

to Plan-Ahead.<br />

Learn More About Planning-Ahead Together<br />

See for Yourself Why Puritan Lawn is So Unique<br />

Make a Wise Choice<br />

Learn About Planning-Ahead Together<br />

Puritan Lawn Memorial Park Cemetery & Crematory<br />

185 Lake Street Peabody, MA 01960 (978) 535-3660 Puritanlawn.com


12 ESSEX MEDIA GROUP SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong><br />

At what age is your self<br />

esteem at its highest?<br />

By Karen D'Souza<br />

THE MERCURY NEWS<br />

PHOTO | TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE<br />

A recent study suggests self-esteem peaks around age 60.<br />

In our youth-obsessed culture, where<br />

ageism has never been stronger and<br />

looking younger is next to godliness, it<br />

may be easy to assume young people<br />

feel happier than older ones. Nope. According<br />

to science, at least one thing<br />

gets better with age and that’s your<br />

self-esteem.<br />

In fact, a paper published recently in<br />

the journal Psychological Bulletin, selfesteem<br />

seems to peak around age 60<br />

and that uplifting feeling may well last<br />

for an entire decade. So maybe 60 really<br />

is the new 40?<br />

“Midlife is, for many adults, a TIME<br />

of highly stable life circumstances in<br />

domains such as relationships and<br />

work. Moreover, during middle adulthood,<br />

most individuals further invest<br />

in the social roles they hold, which<br />

might promote their self-esteem,”<br />

study co-author Ulrich Orth, a professor<br />

of psychology at the University of<br />

Bern in Switzerland, told TIME. “For<br />

example, people take on managerial<br />

roles at work, maintain a satisfying<br />

relationship with their spouse or partner,<br />

and help their children to become<br />

responsible and independent adults.”<br />

Researchers examined 191 articles<br />

about self-esteem, which included data<br />

from almost 165,000 people, for a comprehensive<br />

look at how self-esteem<br />

changes with age, exploring different<br />

demographics and age groups. Apparently,<br />

self-esteem begins to rise between<br />

ages 4 and 11, as children develop and<br />

revel in a sense of independence. Those<br />

feelings level off in the teenage years<br />

and hold steady until mid-adolescence.<br />

After that, self-esteem grows substantially<br />

until age 30, then more gradually<br />

throughout middle adulthood, before<br />

peaking around age 60. Unfortunately,<br />

sometime after age 70, it seems to take<br />

a hit, a factor which gets more worrying<br />

as you approach 90.<br />

It should also be noted that women<br />

tended to have lower self-esteem than<br />

men in young adulthood, but gain parity<br />

as the decades wear on.<br />

Sadly, it also appears that people in<br />

happy relationships experience the<br />

same drop in self-esteem during old<br />

age as people in unhappy relationships.<br />

So much for romantic bliss.<br />

“Although they enter old age with<br />

higher self-esteem and continue to have<br />

higher self-esteem as they age, they decline<br />

in self-esteem to the same extent<br />

as people in unhappy relationships,”<br />

said co-author Kali H. Trzesniewski,<br />

PhD, of the University of Western Ontario,<br />

as the American Psychological Association<br />

noted. “Thus, being in a happy<br />

relationship does not protect a person<br />

against the decline in self-esteem that<br />

typically occurs in old age.”<br />

The upside is that the years between<br />

60 and 70, generally speaking,<br />

appear to be as golden as they have<br />

been made out to be.<br />

Social Security: You’ll feel<br />

like you’re on vacation<br />

with how easy this is<br />

By Nicole Tiggemann<br />

TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE<br />

August might be the last of the<br />

months that people think of when we<br />

say “summer vacation,” but it’s by no<br />

means the least. People are still taking<br />

trips and hosting family while<br />

enjoying America’s beaches and national<br />

parks. Social Security might<br />

not be on the top of your to-do list<br />

when you’re on vacation, but we’ve<br />

made it so easy to do business with<br />

us online that you can connect with<br />

us pool-side or on the go.<br />

We are constantly expanding<br />

our online services to give you<br />

freedom and control in how you<br />

wish to conduct business with us.<br />

Our online services help you plan<br />

for the future and keep you in<br />

control of your benefits. You can<br />

go online to:<br />

• Find out if you qualify for benefits;<br />

• Use our benefit planners to help<br />

you better understand your Social<br />

Security protection;<br />

• Estimate your future retirement<br />

benefits to help you plan for your financial<br />

future;<br />

• Apply for retirement or Medicare<br />

quickly and easily; and<br />

• Open your personal https://www.<br />

ssa.gov/myaccount/ my Social Security<br />

account. It is a powerful tool<br />

to help you stay in control of your<br />

Social Security record. If you don’t<br />

receive benefits yet, you can:<br />

• Get your Social Security Statement<br />

to review your earnings and<br />

make sure they’re recorded correctly;<br />

• Get a https://www.ssa.gov/hlp/<br />

mySSA/df-beve.htm benefit verification<br />

letter to prove you don’t<br />

receive Social Security benefits or<br />

that you applied but haven’t received<br />

an answer yet;<br />

• Request a replacement Social Security<br />

card if you meet https://www.<br />

ssa.gov/ssnumber/#issnrc certain<br />

requirements; and<br />

• Check the status of your application<br />

or appeal a decision.<br />

If you receive benefits, you can:<br />

• Change your address and phone<br />

number;<br />

• Get a https://www.ssa.gov/hlp/<br />

mySSA/df-beve.htm benefit verification<br />

letter to prove you receive Social<br />

Security benefits, Supplemental<br />

Security Income (SSI), or Medicare;<br />

• Change your direct deposit information<br />

at any time;<br />

• Request a replacement Medicare<br />

card; and<br />

• Get a replacement https://www.<br />

ssa.gov/pubs/EN-05-10057.pdf Benefit<br />

Statement (SSA-1099 or SSA-<br />

1042S) for tax purposes.<br />

Kick your feet up and grab your<br />

laptop or even your cellphone. You<br />

can access our online services page<br />

and do much of your business with<br />

us when you’re on the go at www.socialsecurity.gov/onlineservices.<br />

Remember, you can easily share our<br />

webpages and resources by copying<br />

the link and messaging a family member<br />

or friend. Now, go enjoy that vacation<br />

or start planning your next one<br />

knowing that, at Social Security, we’re<br />

securing your today and tomorrow.<br />

"You can access our online services page and do much of<br />

your business with us when you’re on the go at<br />

www.socialsecurity.gov/onlineservices."


SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong> ESSEX MEDIA GROUP 13<br />

Make Your Money Last!<br />

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We’ve done the math! Brooksby Village is a smarter choice than senior<br />

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Choose Brooksby Village and:<br />

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14 ESSEX MEDIA GROUP SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong><br />

Charles<br />

Bohlinger, left,<br />

congratulates<br />

Robert White<br />

after he was<br />

presented<br />

with a Bronze<br />

Star Tuesday<br />

afternoon at<br />

the Hampton<br />

VA Medical<br />

Center in<br />

Hampton, Va.<br />

PHOTO | TRIBUNE<br />

NEWS SERVICE<br />

Long overdue, a WWII<br />

vet gets his Bronze Star<br />

By Hugh Lessig<br />

DAILY PRESS (NEWPORT NEWS, VA.)<br />

Robert S. White received a Bronze<br />

Star Tuesday, Aug. 21, during a short<br />

ceremony at the Hampton VA Medical<br />

Center, more than 70 years after he<br />

helped liberate Europe from the Nazis.<br />

White didn’t seem to mind. In fact,<br />

he was stunned by the attention — a<br />

cake, well-wishers, TV cameras, even<br />

a congressman.<br />

He figured Uncle Sam would mail<br />

him a Bronze Star and he’d resume<br />

his busy life.<br />

White has been married for 72 years<br />

and had five children. He worked as<br />

a sheet metal mechanic at Newport<br />

News Shipbuilding for nearly four<br />

decades. He’s run nine marathons.<br />

He is 94 years old and last jogged on<br />

Monday, the usual 3 miles.<br />

The secret to longevity? Clean<br />

living and a steady diet of “beans,<br />

greens and sweet potatoes,” he says.<br />

So he hasn’t exactly been sitting<br />

around and waiting for his Bronze<br />

Star to arrive. In fact, he only realized<br />

his eligibility several years ago.<br />

With the help of friends at the<br />

Hampton VA, the Disabled American<br />

Veterans Chapter 13 of York County<br />

and Rep. Scott Taylor, the wheels<br />

went into motion.<br />

It culminated in Tuesday’s ceremony.<br />

“I never dreamed it was going to be<br />

this big,” White said, looking around<br />

the room. “It’s a shock to me.”<br />

Army Pvt. 1st Class White fought<br />

across Northern Europe in 1944-1945<br />

with the 507th Parachute Infantry<br />

Regiment. He served as a communications<br />

lineman.<br />

The unit was involved in climactic<br />

offensives that heralded the beginning<br />

of the end of World War II, including<br />

the Battle of the Bulge.<br />

A native of Leland, N.C., White saw<br />

the worst of the Nazi war machine,<br />

helping to liberate a forced labor camp<br />

near Essen, Germany. He came upon<br />

starving prisoners and remembers a<br />

concrete wall pock-marked with bullet<br />

holes “where they mowed them down.”<br />

He served from 1943 to 1946 and<br />

moved to Hampton Roads in 1951.<br />

At the Hampton VA, White belongs<br />

to a group of World War II and Korean<br />

War veterans who talk about<br />

post-traumatic stress disorder.<br />

Carlson Pendleton, a clinical therapist<br />

and Vietnam War veteran, facilitates<br />

the group. He didn’t talk about<br />

White’s case specifically but said it can<br />

be difficult for veterans to seek help.<br />

The tough-it-out attitude in the<br />

armed forces can discourage some<br />

people from coming forward.<br />

“That’s probably the worse advice<br />

to give anybody,” he said. “It’s the<br />

same thing with any kind of emotional<br />

condition. If you deny it, it doesn’t<br />

go anywhere. You have to confront it.”<br />

Success tastes that<br />

much sweeter after a<br />

long, arduous journey<br />

By Ana Veciana-Suarez<br />

TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE<br />

“Be not afraid of growing slowly. Be<br />

afraid only of standing still.” — Chinese<br />

proverb<br />

Perhaps it’s envy, perhaps a simple<br />

function of age, but I’ve grown weary<br />

(and wary) of stories about precocity.<br />

The teen who launches a successful<br />

startup. The college student who publishes<br />

a bestseller that also happens<br />

to be lyrical, compelling and wise. The<br />

20-something who paints masterfully.<br />

They’re fascinating, these tales of<br />

early genius, but they make me wonder<br />

what the heck I’m doing at my<br />

computer, long day after long day,<br />

hoping for that big break. Surely I’m<br />

not alone in trying to figure out why<br />

success comes quick and easily to<br />

some, while others, just as talented<br />

and hardworking, plod and ponder<br />

for years, even decades.<br />

Mention genius and we think about<br />

the young whose proficiency flamed<br />

early. Mozart composed a famous piano<br />

concerto at 21 and Orson Welles<br />

wrote “Citizen Kane” at 25. Picasso’s<br />

first “serious” masterpiece was<br />

completed at 20. Saul Aaron Kripke<br />

thought up his first completeness<br />

theorem in modal logic — whatever<br />

that is — at the age of 17. Both Mark<br />

Zuckerberg and Bill Gates co-founded<br />

their companies as college students.<br />

So, yes, the examples of talent flowering<br />

early are plentiful and nothing<br />

short of amazing. Yet, I can’t help but<br />

draw more inspiration from those<br />

who met their victories with a headful<br />

of gray hair and a face with its<br />

share of wrinkles. They give me hope;<br />

they give me reason to continue believing<br />

that breakthrough work can<br />

come at any age, if you have faith in<br />

yourself and learn, learn, learn, work,<br />

work, work.<br />

That’s probably why encountering<br />

two articles last week about women<br />

who found success at an age when<br />

most of us believe the best is behind<br />

us has proven so encouraging. Sometimes<br />

good things come to us slowly,<br />

incrementally. Sometimes it’s about<br />

perseverance. Sometimes it’s about<br />

finding your calling after years of raising<br />

a family or earning a living. How<br />

you get to The Moment, however, really<br />

doesn’t matter. At the risk of sounding<br />

hokey, of eliciting eye-rolling and<br />

snickers, it’s about the journey; about<br />

discovery and determination.<br />

Consider the story of Mary Delany,<br />

a 72-year-old Englishwoman<br />

who, in the 1770s, invented a new<br />

art form as she grieved the death of<br />

her second husband. On a visit to a<br />

friend, she met two botanists who<br />

had accompanied an explorer on his<br />

journey through the South Pacific.<br />

Enthralled, she picked up a pair of<br />

scissors and began cutting pieces of<br />

paper to create mosaics of plant life.<br />

Those startlingly accurate mosaics<br />

are now in the British museum, according<br />

to an article in Literary Hub,<br />

and botanists continue to consult<br />

them two centuries later.<br />

Then there’s the 21st century version<br />

of that story. Anne Youngson is<br />

70 and a debut author. Her novel,<br />

“Meet Me in the Museum,” is as<br />

much the story of two older people’s<br />

budding intimacy as it is about our<br />

ability to reimagine our lives, regardless<br />

of age.<br />

Away from the creative world, where<br />

maturity is a boon because of the wisdom<br />

it can confer, many greet success<br />

in midlife and way beyond. Colonel<br />

Sanders didn’t franchise KFC until<br />

he was 62. Cinde J. Dolphin created<br />

the firm Marketing For Mavericks, to<br />

help California winemakers with social<br />

media in her late 50s, when she<br />

wasn’t getting any callbacks on her<br />

job applications. And Fauja Singh ran<br />

his first marathon at 89.<br />

I suspect, however, that the best<br />

thing about being a late bloomer is<br />

not just about receiving lots of money<br />

or public recognition. It’s also about<br />

the long and arduous struggle for<br />

mastery. The recognition for success,<br />

when tempered with failures, tastes<br />

that much sweeter.


SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong> ESSEX MEDIA GROUP 15<br />

About the Program:<br />

This innovative program provides<br />

caregivers with a monthly<br />

payment for taking care of a<br />

disabled or ill adult. Caregivers<br />

are special, dedicated people who<br />

may take care of a family member<br />

or a new friend and welcome them<br />

into their own home.<br />

Caregivers are reimbursed up<br />

to $1,500 monthly, tax-free, for<br />

personal care services. Each and<br />

every caregiver is supported by<br />

Adult Foster Care’s professional<br />

staff that helps train the individual<br />

regarding the personal care needs<br />

of their clients. Adult Foster Care<br />

carefully and selectively matches<br />

clients with caregivers to ensure<br />

compatibility.<br />

Adult Foster Care of the North<br />

Shore provides the following<br />

financial and emotional support:<br />

Financial Support: Through<br />

MassHealth, a monthly, tax-free<br />

stipend is given to the caregiver.<br />

Health & Social Support: Clients<br />

and caregivers are assigned a<br />

nurse and care manager who visit<br />

the homes regularly. Staff<br />

members can answer questions<br />

about health issues and serve<br />

as a resource for medical<br />

training, education and needed<br />

interventions. On call support is<br />

available 24 hours a day,<br />

7 days a week.<br />

General Resource Support:<br />

Seasoned nurses and care<br />

managers can identify vital<br />

resources including:<br />

• Adult Day Health Programs<br />

• Specialized work and<br />

community support programs<br />

• Mental health counseling<br />

• Guardianship and health care<br />

proxy information<br />

• Transportation services<br />

Adult Foster Care of the North Shore provides<br />

financial and emotional solutions to families<br />

Adult Foster Care of the<br />

North Shore (AFCNS) is a one of a<br />

kind organization. For t1he last<br />

17 years they have been providing<br />

financial and emotional solutions<br />

to families in need of care for a<br />

disabled or chronically ill loved<br />

one (clients). Many Adult Foster<br />

Care clients are already living<br />

with a parent, child or other<br />

family member who qualifies as<br />

a caregiver. Others are placed in<br />

homes with compassionate and<br />

diligent caregivers.<br />

In 2000, Dr. Cynthia Bjorlie left<br />

“Adult Foster Care of the<br />

North Shore has offered<br />

unwavering support from<br />

day one. When I was<br />

admitted for emergency<br />

surgery, the AFCNS team<br />

made sure my brother<br />

was in good hands<br />

while I recovered.”<br />

her private practice of 17 years<br />

and opened Adult Foster Care<br />

of the North Shore after reading<br />

an article in the NY Times about<br />

“Foster <strong>Senior</strong>s,” a program in<br />

New Jersey. Having always been<br />

interested in the care of people<br />

who cannot manage alone, she<br />

decided to develop her own<br />

program in Massachusetts.<br />

Since 2001, Adult Foster Care<br />

of the North Shore has grown<br />

to a staff of 30 and now serves<br />

over 400 clients. The difference<br />

between AFCNS and other<br />

similar companies is that, even<br />

though they share the same<br />

mission, the staff at Adult Foster<br />

Care of the North Shore actually<br />

lives the mission. AFCNS<br />

provides compassionate and<br />

flexible support for clients and<br />

their caregiver families.<br />

If you are interested in<br />

becoming a paid caregiver<br />

for a disabled family member<br />

or qualified disabled adult,<br />

visit AdultFosterCareNS.com<br />

or call today at 978-281-2612.<br />

~ Toots, Caregiver to Brother, George<br />

978-281-2612<br />

AdultFosterCareNS.com<br />

Celebrating 17 Years


16 ESSEX MEDIA GROUP SENIOR LIVING FALL <strong>2018</strong><br />

Be independent for life at Nichols Village<br />

Anchored upon a hilltop in Groveland,<br />

MA, and surrounded by<br />

90-acres of rolling woodlands and<br />

fields, you’ll find Nichols Village, a<br />

unique independent living community<br />

where active adults 62 years of<br />

age and better have chosen to make<br />

their home.<br />

N. Woodburn Nichols, a businessman<br />

and philanthropist who was born<br />

and raised in Groveland, had a vision.<br />

He dreamt of building a community<br />

for “aged men and women” within<br />

the town he lived. After his passing<br />

in 1925, with his dream in heart and<br />

mind, The Trustees of the N. Woodburn<br />

Nichols’ Trust worked to fulfill<br />

his wish.<br />

In 2004, Nichols Village welcomed<br />

its first residents and together with<br />

staff, created a lifestyle where a<br />

strong sense of community and independence<br />

is priority.<br />

Nichols Village offers 78 apartments<br />

and 16 cottages with ample<br />

amounts of comfortable living space,<br />

one level living, and an abundance<br />

of bright, natural lighting. Residents<br />

enjoy maintenance free living and<br />

bi-weekly housekeeping. Also included<br />

is exclusive use of common<br />

indoor spaces including the Cannon<br />

Hill room with large-screen television,<br />

fireplaces, community lounges,<br />

dining rooms, café, library, computer<br />

room, arts and crafts room, hair salon<br />

and a game room with a pool table.<br />

Apartments range in size from a<br />

1-bedroom up to a 2-bedroom with<br />

a den, all featuring fully applianced<br />

kitchens, generous storage spaces,<br />

master bedroom walk-in closets, assigned<br />

extra storage units, convenient<br />

stackable front load washers<br />

and dryers in every apartment and<br />

reserved covered parking.<br />

Cottages feature an open-concept,<br />

with two bedrooms, two full bathrooms,<br />

beautiful kitchens, three-sided<br />

gas fireplaces, attached garages<br />

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patios for relaxing and entertaining.<br />

Residents enjoy full-service, restaurant-style<br />

dining featuring a warm<br />

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is an abundance of social, cultural,<br />

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Residents may choose a van trip to<br />

the Boston Symphony or Music Theater,<br />

strength training or yoga in the<br />

Cannon Hill room, water aerobics in<br />

the indoor heated pool, gardening in<br />

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fix a chair in the resident workshop.<br />

When you make the choice to live<br />

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These agencies have assigned professional<br />

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speech therapies.<br />

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