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<strong>October</strong> <strong>25</strong>, <strong>2018</strong> ADVERTISING / NEWSDESK: (046) 624 4356 Find us on Facebook<br />

Talk of the Town 15<br />

Celebrating the life of an<br />

independent nonagenarian<br />

Game, set and match for Dot’s ‘just do it’ attitude<br />

CAROL TAGGART<br />

Driving about<br />

Kenton, you may<br />

see a little<br />

champagne-coloured<br />

car, with a little, fluffy<br />

toy dog peering out of<br />

the back window – t h at<br />

is Dot Thorburn and<br />

“My Darling”.<br />

We visited Dot in her<br />

home at Bushman’s<br />

River to find out all the<br />

attributes that make up<br />

an active 95-year-old<br />

member of our Kenton<br />

and Bushman’s<br />

communit y.<br />

At the age of 90,<br />

when most people are<br />

downsizing and moving<br />

into a gated estate, Dot,<br />

having had and hated<br />

that type of living, made<br />

the decision to buy a<br />

double-storey house,<br />

and live independently<br />

once again.<br />

Her garden is her<br />

pride and joy – it is<br />

beautifully tended and<br />

has an amazing variety<br />

of plants. She<br />

propagates many<br />

cuttings which she<br />

sometimes gives away<br />

for a small donation to<br />

Hospice.<br />

Tuesday and Friday<br />

mornings are Dot’s<br />

tennis days when she<br />

joins the morning<br />

Kenton tennis ladies to<br />

play a full set of tennis.<br />

Not only has she got a<br />

keen eye for the ball,<br />

but she contributes to<br />

our tennis morning<br />

conversation with news<br />

and points of interest.<br />

Dot loves watching<br />

sport and even wrote an<br />

article giving the<br />

High School where she<br />

matriculated. Union<br />

High was founded in<br />

1919 and Dot plans to<br />

visit the centenar y<br />

celebrations in 2019.<br />

While still at school,<br />

she set eyes on a<br />

handsome man, a<br />

Scotsman who had<br />

moved to SA to work at<br />

Standard Bank in<br />

I am very blessed by the Lord and<br />

thank Him daily for watching over me<br />

“bookie” some advice –<br />

pass to the wings!<br />

Dot is a member of<br />

the Dutch Reformed<br />

Church and attends a<br />

Bible study group every<br />

week.<br />

Asked what has<br />

allowed her to lead<br />

such a full life, her<br />

answer was simply, “I<br />

am very blessed by the<br />

Lord and thank Him<br />

daily for watching over<br />

me.”<br />

Dot is a strong<br />

witness to her<br />

relationship with God,<br />

his constant<br />

companionship and<br />

direction throughout her<br />

l i fe .<br />

Born in 1923 in<br />

Graaff-Reinet, Dot<br />

attended the Union<br />

Graaff- Reinet. No<br />

sooner had he arrived,<br />

when war broke out.<br />

It was 1939 and he<br />

joined the South African<br />

volunteers – Die<br />

Middellandse Regiment.<br />

He was sent to the<br />

Eastern Desert and was<br />

captured during the<br />

Siege of Tobruk and<br />

taken as a prisoner of<br />

war for most of the war.<br />

This had a lasting effect<br />

on his health.<br />

In 1946, “Sandy” John<br />

McKenzie Thorburn,<br />

returned to<br />

Graaff-Reinet and the<br />

young couple were<br />

married.<br />

They were relocated<br />

with the bank to<br />

Rhodesia (now<br />

Zimbabwe) and spent<br />

many years at various<br />

branches.<br />

They returned to SA<br />

and continued to live in<br />

different towns,<br />

eventually ending up in<br />

Port Elizabeth.<br />

At this stage Sandy<br />

retired, but<br />

unfortunately, he was<br />

not in good health and<br />

died in 1984.<br />

Following her<br />

husband’s death, Dot<br />

moved into a retirement<br />

village, but this was not<br />

for her. Too many rules.<br />

She had bought a<br />

caravan some time<br />

back and was spending<br />

quite a bit of time in<br />

Bushman’s. Eventually<br />

she decided to “just do<br />

it” and moved into her<br />

caravan on a permanent<br />

basis, where she lived<br />

very happily for the next<br />

eight years.<br />

She continued with<br />

her interests and even<br />

made a garden<br />

surrounding her<br />

caravan for which she<br />

won second prize in the<br />

local garden<br />

competition.<br />

She describes this<br />

time as some of her<br />

happiest and carefree<br />

years.<br />

D ot ’s association with<br />

Bushman’s River goes<br />

back many years, as<br />

most family Christmas<br />

holidays were spent at<br />

Bushman’s.<br />

Dot has two sons<br />

and, together with their<br />

families and children,<br />

they spend time visiting<br />

her. She takes great<br />

pride in her family, but<br />

is quick to add she is<br />

very independent and<br />

really looks after<br />

h e r s e l f.<br />

Her other family are,<br />

she told us, her church<br />

and tennis friends.<br />

Dot certainly is an<br />

independent, intelligent<br />

and interesting lady and<br />

we had such an<br />

enlightening tea,<br />

listening to anecdotes<br />

of her life story.<br />

Thank you, Dot.<br />

We celebrated Dot’s<br />

birthday on <strong>October</strong> 12<br />

at the Kenton-on-Sea<br />

Tennis Club. Dot was<br />

awarded an honorary<br />

membership by club<br />

president Tony Bayley.<br />

One thing is for sure,<br />

Dot is a fun person and<br />

up for any excitement<br />

that may come her way.<br />

<br />

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ĨŽĞĐĞŵďĞĞĂŽŶ<br />

ďĞĞŐŝĞĞĚŝŚ<br />

ĂŶĚŝŶĂ<br />

ŽŝĞĐĞĐŝ<br />

ŽĸĐĞĂĞŶŽŶŽĂĚ<br />

ĞŶŽŶŽŶĞĂ<br />

LET THEM EAT CAKE: Dot Thorburn turned 95 recently and celebrated with<br />

a cake from Patsy Bern, who made and donated the cake on behalf of<br />

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