Melton Messenger April 2020

Imagine What Your Life Would Be Like If …
…You felt calm, balanced and connected
all the time. If you always treated yourself
with compassion and understanding, safe
in the knowledge that in any given moment
you know you are doing the best you can.
And you know that you are ok, exactly as
you are. And you feel you are living your
best, happiest, most successful, fulfilling
and meaningful life possible.
Imagine if all that was true for
you….
What would your life be like?
If you think this kind of life isn’t
possible think again.
Successful people who live
successful lives have consciously decided to
regularly and consistently follow Success
Secrets that let them live life in this way. And
you can do so too.
Are you your own worst critic? What do you
say to yourself if things never go to plan?
Learning to treat yourself with loving kindness
is vital to living a happy life, so one of the
biggest gifts you can give yourself is selfforgiveness.
You may have moments in your life when you
get flashbacks about situations from the past,
times when you may have said or done certain
things or behaved in a certain way that now,
with the benefit of age, wisdom and hindsight,
you wish you had done differently?
When this happens you probably invest time
and energy replaying it, wishing things had
played out differently and maybe thinking
about an alternative ending that you wish had
happened instead? A flashback can bring up
feelings of shame, remorse or regret that
really impact on you today, even though it
happened some time ago.
Self-forgiveness allows you to stop this pattern
before it even gets started, so that you can
stop carrying the emotional baggage around
with you and simply let it melt it away.
When you can look back at your younger self
with compassion and forgiveness for whatever
you feel you got wrong, you instantly release
yourself from having to carry the burden any
more. You make peace with that memory and
take the charge out of it, so it can never affect
you again.
We all carry emotional baggage around with
us. But what successful people do is
recognise it for what it is and deal with it in a
healthy, compassionate way so they can stop
carrying it around allowing it to affect their life
today.
Self-forgiveness is a Success
Secret that can make the
biggest difference in your life
when you do it properly.
Ready to learn how?
If you are ready for change, prepared to do
what it takes and want to learn the Success
Secrets that will change your life, come along
to a no-obligation Discovery Session to find
out about the Success & Self-Empowerment
Mentorship 8-week Intensive which starts
Monday 23 rd March at 6.30pm.
Bernadette Sarginson
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