Island Parent Fall 2023
Vancouver Island’s Parenting Resource for 35 Years: Out & About in Nature: Rain or Shine • The Cool of Volunteering at School • Lessons from a Little Kid • Setting Kids Up for Success at School • Be Gentle with Yourself • Tweens & Teens
Vancouver Island’s Parenting Resource for 35 Years: Out & About in Nature: Rain or Shine • The Cool of Volunteering at School • Lessons from a Little Kid • Setting Kids Up for Success at School • Be Gentle with Yourself • Tweens & Teens
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MOM’SPOV<br />
The Cool of<br />
Volunteering at School<br />
The school bell rings. The children<br />
will be entering the classroom<br />
in seconds.<br />
I’m in my daughter’s Grade 2 classroom,<br />
about to be in the spotlight. I<br />
flip another round of pancakes on my<br />
griddle while my stomach does a flop.<br />
My forehead breaks out in a nervous<br />
sweat. I wish I wore sandals instead of<br />
runners. But it’s too late to consider<br />
cooler wardrobe choices now.<br />
The children file into the classroom<br />
and are instantly distracted at the<br />
sight of a guest—me. I breathe, wipe<br />
my brow and then smile. I’ve got this.<br />
Children are a forgiving audience and<br />
my daughter is always telling me it is<br />
okay to learn from our mistakes.<br />
I love participating in PJ Day as<br />
much as the children do. I am rocking<br />
my rubber ducky PJ pants. I also love<br />
that my youngest daughter still loves to<br />
dress up in matching outfits with me.<br />
Twinning as she calls it. She also enjoys<br />
twinning with her friends.<br />
One child approaches me. She is<br />
wearing an adorable unicorn onesie.<br />
She tells me about her dad’s pancakes<br />
that he makes every weekend. Another<br />
child asks whose mom I am. My own<br />
daughter comes and hugs me. Many<br />
more children come over to view the<br />
extra toppings of whip cream, strawberries,<br />
and chocolate chips that are<br />
laid out on the table at the front of the<br />
classroom.<br />
I get a chance to eat some pancakes<br />
with my daughter, but not before<br />
tripping the breaker by plugging in a<br />
second griddle. I remind myself that<br />
children are a forgiving audience and<br />
so is the teacher as I apologize for<br />
blowing the breaker. I move to the<br />
hall to use a different outlet to finish<br />
cooking the last of the pancake batter.<br />
Thankfully, it was only one outlet and<br />
not power for the whole class. As I’m<br />
cleaning up, children are still chatting<br />
to me while they’re supposed to be<br />
practicing their spelling. I say goodbye<br />
to my daughter’s teacher and the whole<br />
class thanks me at the same time. By<br />
this point, I’m comfortable and far less<br />
nervous.<br />
This year I also attended my son’s<br />
Maritime Museum field trip where<br />
I helped with fun activities to learn<br />
about supply and demand and trading.<br />
I was nervous during my role for<br />
this field trip as well because I was the<br />
checker of various activities that the<br />
children completed on cards to earn<br />
pelts for trading at the trading post. It