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Vancouver Island’s Parenting Resource for 35 Years: Out & About in Nature: Rain or Shine • The Cool of Volunteering at School • Lessons from a Little Kid • Setting Kids Up for Success at School • Be Gentle with Yourself • Tweens & Teens

Vancouver Island’s Parenting Resource for 35 Years: Out & About in Nature: Rain or Shine • The Cool of Volunteering at School • Lessons from a Little Kid • Setting Kids Up for Success at School • Be Gentle with Yourself • Tweens & Teens

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MOM’SPOV<br />

The Cool of<br />

Volunteering at School<br />

The school bell rings. The children<br />

will be entering the classroom<br />

in seconds.<br />

I’m in my daughter’s Grade 2 classroom,<br />

about to be in the spotlight. I<br />

flip another round of pancakes on my<br />

griddle while my stomach does a flop.<br />

My forehead breaks out in a nervous<br />

sweat. I wish I wore sandals instead of<br />

runners. But it’s too late to consider<br />

cooler wardrobe choices now.<br />

The children file into the classroom<br />

and are instantly distracted at the<br />

sight of a guest—me. I breathe, wipe<br />

my brow and then smile. I’ve got this.<br />

Children are a forgiving audience and<br />

my daughter is always telling me it is<br />

okay to learn from our mistakes.<br />

I love participating in PJ Day as<br />

much as the children do. I am rocking<br />

my rubber ducky PJ pants. I also love<br />

that my youngest daughter still loves to<br />

dress up in matching outfits with me.<br />

Twinning as she calls it. She also enjoys<br />

twinning with her friends.<br />

One child approaches me. She is<br />

wearing an adorable unicorn onesie.<br />

She tells me about her dad’s pancakes<br />

that he makes every weekend. Another<br />

child asks whose mom I am. My own<br />

daughter comes and hugs me. Many<br />

more children come over to view the<br />

extra toppings of whip cream, strawberries,<br />

and chocolate chips that are<br />

laid out on the table at the front of the<br />

classroom.<br />

I get a chance to eat some pancakes<br />

with my daughter, but not before<br />

tripping the breaker by plugging in a<br />

second griddle. I remind myself that<br />

children are a forgiving audience and<br />

so is the teacher as I apologize for<br />

blowing the breaker. I move to the<br />

hall to use a different outlet to finish<br />

cooking the last of the pancake batter.<br />

Thankfully, it was only one outlet and<br />

not power for the whole class. As I’m<br />

cleaning up, children are still chatting<br />

to me while they’re supposed to be<br />

practicing their spelling. I say goodbye<br />

to my daughter’s teacher and the whole<br />

class thanks me at the same time. By<br />

this point, I’m comfortable and far less<br />

nervous.<br />

This year I also attended my son’s<br />

Maritime Museum field trip where<br />

I helped with fun activities to learn<br />

about supply and demand and trading.<br />

I was nervous during my role for<br />

this field trip as well because I was the<br />

checker of various activities that the<br />

children completed on cards to earn<br />

pelts for trading at the trading post. It

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