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6 | PERSONS OF THE YEAR<br />

CRAIG STONE<br />

LYNNFIELD<br />

By Joey Barrett<br />

Item Sports Editor<br />

When it comes to Lynnfield tennis<br />

and wrestling coach Craig Stone, it’s<br />

hard to find a box unchecked – as a<br />

coach and, more importantly, as a<br />

person.<br />

We know about the conference<br />

titles, state championships, Coach of<br />

the Year awards, and 1,200-plus wins<br />

between the two sports.<br />

But beyond any swing of the racket<br />

or pin on the mat, Stone has touched<br />

an incredible amount of lives – just by<br />

being himself.<br />

“Craig has always been ahead of<br />

the game in coaching, relationships,<br />

partnerships, and teaching people,”<br />

said Nick Secatore, Lynnfield’s police<br />

chief who wrestled for Stone in 1997<br />

before becoming his assistant coach.<br />

“More than that, just showing students<br />

the right way to behave – how you<br />

win, how you lose, and how you<br />

improve.”<br />

Things came full circle for Stone<br />

last March when he served as an<br />

honorary guest during a Lynnfield<br />

gala to raise money for new tennis<br />

courts.<br />

The gala welcomed roughly 240<br />

people, and more often than not, they<br />

had relationships with Stone. He was<br />

a mentor, friend, and even a father<br />

figure to many in attendance.<br />

“It’s not like they were 240<br />

strangers,” said Stone, who was<br />

pleasantly surprised by a cardboard<br />

cutout of himself that night.<br />

The few hours were “very<br />

nostalgic,” as said by Stone, who<br />

enjoyed recreating stories and<br />

laughing the night away.<br />

It was just a snapshot of Stone’s<br />

impact since 1972, the year he was<br />

hired into Lynnfield’s school system.<br />

Mike Bodek used to wrestle for<br />

Stone, but not always.<br />

“I had a buddy who told me, ‘You<br />

don’t want to play basketball; you<br />

want to come wrestle for this guy,’”<br />

Bodek said.<br />

The end result was Bodek<br />

becoming one of the best wrestlers<br />

in Lynnfield High history and, more<br />

importantly, finding a new friend.<br />

“He was awesome,” said Bodek,<br />

who added how important Stone was<br />

in coping with his mother’s cancer.<br />

“He had a great effect on me in high<br />

school and it’s carried up to today.”<br />

Jill Migliero McEwan, a doubles<br />

player on Lynnfield’s 1997 state<br />

championship team, spoke about<br />

Stone’s coaching style.<br />

“He’s the perfect combination,”<br />

McEwan said. “He pushes you, but<br />

he’s kind and considerate… He’s just<br />

a great human being.”<br />

Nicholas Saggese, one of three<br />

Saggese brothers to wrestle for Stone,<br />

said his respect for his former coach<br />

“has no expiration date.”<br />

“What kids need today is what Mr.<br />

Stone gave us: old school discipline<br />

and respect,” Saggese said. “Today, I<br />

only know Craig Stone as Mr. Stone.”<br />

It’s a two-way street. The<br />

community loves Stone, and he loves<br />

it back.<br />

“It’s very positive and very<br />

receptive,” Stone said. “It’s just been<br />

a collection of people at all levels.<br />

I’ve been fortunate to work in a<br />

community that’s very supportive.”<br />

STAFF FILE PHOTO | JAKOB MENENDEZ<br />

And he’s passionate. What was<br />

once an old mudroom in the Stone<br />

household has turned into a room<br />

full of newspaper clippings and other<br />

memorabilia – not about himself, but<br />

the others.<br />

“I just so much enjoy reading<br />

the alumni names,” Stone said. “A<br />

lot of them come back to say hi and<br />

update me on their families and their<br />

experiences.”<br />

With more than 600 tennis<br />

wins and 500 in wrestling, Stone’s<br />

philosophy remains more important<br />

than any victory in competition.<br />

“To affect in a positive way,” Stone said.

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