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Throughout Dr. Baumrind’s study, children in authoritative families<br />

had the highest optimism, highest academic achievement, <strong>and</strong> highest<br />

self-esteem. 390 By contrast, children <strong>that</strong> were given high dem<strong>and</strong>s but<br />

not much love didn’t turn out as well. 391 And children from permissive<br />

homes <strong>that</strong> were given a lot of love but not much responsibility didn’t<br />

turn out as well either. 392 <strong>The</strong>se generalizations applied regardless of the<br />

child’s gender, <strong>and</strong> regardless of whether the family was separated or<br />

intact. 393<br />

Dr. Baumrind’s study validates the authoritative parenting model<br />

<strong>that</strong> balances love <strong>and</strong> firm guidance. 394 This is virtually the same model<br />

to which Dr. Spock dedicated most of his career. 395 To him, good child<br />

development depended largely on the “clarity <strong>and</strong> consistency of the<br />

parents’ leadership [<strong>and</strong> on] whether the spanking parent was generally<br />

kind <strong>and</strong> devoted. . . .” 396 He believed <strong>that</strong> the “[i]nability to be firm<br />

[was] the commonest problem of parents in America.” 397<br />

390. See, e.g., Baumrind, Influence, supra note 337, at 62 (“Children from authoritative homes<br />

have consistently been found to be more instrumentally competent—agentic, communal, <strong>and</strong><br />

cognitively competent—than other children . . . .”); id. at 69-71 (showing <strong>that</strong> children of<br />

authoritative parents overall showed the greatest maturity, optimism, self-esteem, cognitive<br />

motivation, <strong>and</strong> academic achievement, among other things).<br />

391. See, e.g., BAUMRIND, OPTIMAL CAREGIVING, supra note 388, at 70 (saying <strong>that</strong> for<br />

preadolescents in Baumrind’s middle-class population, “[p]arents who were highly dem<strong>and</strong>ing but<br />

not responsive (the restrictive pattern <strong>and</strong> the authoritarian prototype) were likely to have daughters<br />

who were socially assertive <strong>and</strong> not highly socially responsible, but sons who did not differ from<br />

other boys.” As those children reached adolescence, they “had more internalizing problem<br />

behaviors <strong>and</strong> were more likely to engage in heavy drug use.”).<br />

392. See, e.g., Baumrind, Influence, supra note 337, at 63 (“Preschool <strong>and</strong> primary school girls<br />

from permissive homes, compared to those from authoritative homes, were markedly less selfassertive,<br />

<strong>and</strong> preschool children of both sexes were less cognitively competent.”); Spock, Bratty<br />

Child, supra note 25, at 31 (“[P]arental submissiveness doesn’t avoid unpleasantness; it makes it<br />

inevitable.”).<br />

393. See BAUMRIND, OPTIMAL CAREGIVING, supra note 388, at 70 (saying these<br />

generalizations regarding adolescents’ drug use, behavior, <strong>and</strong> competence “applied to both sexes,<br />

<strong>and</strong> to intact <strong>and</strong> separated families.”).<br />

394. See, e.g., Baumrind, Discipline Controversy, supra note 157, at 405 (saying the<br />

authoritative model “rejects both extremes of the authoritarian-permissive (or conservative-liberal)<br />

polarity, representing instead an integration of opposing unbalanced childrearing positions.”).<br />

395. See, e.g., supra note 24 <strong>and</strong> accompanying text.<br />

396. See, e.g., id.<br />

397. Spock, Bratty Child, supra note 25, at 29 (also saying, “<strong>The</strong> commonest reason . . . why<br />

parents can’t be firm is <strong>that</strong> they’re afraid <strong>that</strong> if they insist, their children will resent them or at<br />

least won’t love them as much . . . . [O]ne basic reason—conscious or unconscious—why these<br />

parents are afraid of their children is <strong>that</strong> they don’t want to stir up the same kinds of arguments <strong>and</strong><br />

disagreeableness <strong>that</strong> used to occur between them <strong>and</strong> their own parents . . . . A firm, calm approach<br />

makes the child much more likely to co-operate—politely, promptly <strong>and</strong> completely . . . I know this<br />

is true. I’ve seen it work not just hundreds but thous<strong>and</strong>s of times. Parental firmness also makes for

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