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But he eagerly left coaching when he had the chance. He got a job selling medical supplies for Thera-<br />

Kinetics, which quickly had him in a two-story house on two acres overlooking a lake in North Carolina.<br />

FOUR JOBS AT ONE TIME<br />

Money couldn't make an unexpectedly powerful pull inside him disappear, however. Whatever satisfaction<br />

he found in selling Pulsed-Galvanic stimulators paled in comparison to the camaraderie he'd felt in<br />

football.<br />

With Julie's blessing, they left the good life after their honeymoon and, as Tomsula puts it, took up<br />

residence in a “questionable apartment” in Charleston, S.C., in 1992.<br />

Tomsula's job as an assistant coach at Charleston Southern University was also less than extravagant.<br />

His office was a dorm room, the practice field was a grassy area of the quad and his salary was $9,100,<br />

which presented a problem.<br />

“Once we paid the car payment and the rent,” Tomsula said, “we were out of money.”<br />

Tomsula responded by collecting various job titles. He had no choice. Britney, now 18, and Brooke, 16,<br />

were born during their three years in Charleston and Julie stayed home to care for them (their son, Bear,<br />

is 3).<br />

At one point, Tomsula had four jobs: football coach, janitor at an insurance agency, newspaper deliverer<br />

for The Charleston Post and Courier and, finally, he cut firewood, earning $55 for every third truckload.<br />

His schedule was seemingly impossible to maintain: running a chainsaw late into the night, picking up<br />

newspapers at the Piggly-Wiggly at 3:30 a.m., scrubbing toilets and vacuuming after throwing his last<br />

Post and Courier, coaching football, running a chainsaw ...<br />

It was a struggle with a smile. He was coaching football, man.<br />

“I was just so excited,” he said. “A bill came and you had to pay it. I never saw it as working. I saw it as a<br />

living.”<br />

‘HE WAS DYING A SLOW DEATH'<br />

But Tomsula's dad wasn't so thrilled with his son's paycheck-to-paycheck existence. He urged him to get<br />

out of coaching — a hobby, in his mind — and properly provide for his family.<br />

The words weighed heavily on Tomsula, whose devotion to his wife and children has always<br />

overwhelmed his love of football. During his nine-year stint in NFL Europe, Tomsula twice turned down<br />

promotions with life-altering raises because Britney and Brooke, both younger than 10, didn't want to stop<br />

spending half the year overseas. Tomsula's motto: If it's not good for one of us, it's not good for none of<br />

us.<br />

He eventually agreed with his dad — his coaching lifestyle wasn't good for his family. He left Charleston<br />

Southern, moved his family to Pennsylvania and began working as a sales rep for Cisco Foods.<br />

He was a natural. His family settled into a white-picket-fence life in Ligonier, Pa., and Julie Tomsula<br />

watched as her husband's pager went off at all hours with “side-of-beef emergencies.”<br />

“I felt like he was dying a slow death,” Julie said. “ ... I told him, ‘This is no way to live.'”<br />

So Tomsula began living ... in his red Cadillac with Harley and Cali.

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