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Publisher<br />

DAVE CAUGHMAN<br />

T H E C H E R O K E E<br />

LEDGER-NEWS<br />

Managing Editor<br />

ERIKA NELDNER<br />

©2<strong>01</strong>0 Lakeside Publishing Inc.<br />

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of the publisher or the staff of the <strong>Cherokee</strong> <strong>Ledger</strong>-<strong>News</strong><br />

LEDGER-NEWS<br />

OPINION<br />

6 THE CHEROKEE LEDGER-NEWS MANAGING EDITOR: ERIKA NELDNER JULY 21, 2<strong>01</strong>0<br />

CHEROKEE VOICE<br />

■<br />

ISSUE: Woodstock and Canton recently received Main Street program designations.<br />

QUESTION: What could either city do differently to draw you to their downtowns?<br />

“Arts festivals would be great. I go to<br />

Roswell’s, and it would be nice to have<br />

that in Woodstock.”<br />

Bobby Sales<br />

Canton<br />

“I think Woodstock wasted money doing<br />

the roundabout. But I like their plan<br />

for an amphitheater where the old city<br />

hall was.”<br />

Brad Hancock<br />

Woodstock<br />

“<strong>The</strong> people are really missing from<br />

downtown Canton. Maybe they could<br />

do something like what Woodstock’s<br />

doing with concerts in the park.”<br />

Tammy Videkovich<br />

Canton<br />

“<strong>The</strong>re’s not a lot of nightlife in Canton,<br />

so some bars would be good.”<br />

Hayley Medranto<br />

Canton<br />

“Quaint restaurants in Canton would<br />

be a draw.”<br />

John Couch<br />

Canton<br />

“I like the concerts in Woodstock. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

can take a lesson from Decatur with all<br />

the great shops and bars they have. It’s<br />

a nice place to go.”<br />

Don Ahrens<br />

Holly Springs<br />

J ust<br />

a little more than two<br />

years ago, I headed to my<br />

polling place to vote in the<br />

2008 primary election and then<br />

went to the hospital for what<br />

turned out to be the most difficult<br />

two days of my life, leading up to<br />

the best day of my life.<br />

Just a few days ago, we celebrated<br />

my son’s second birthday, and<br />

it seems like only yesterday that I<br />

brought him into this world.<br />

When you find out you’re expecting,<br />

it seems like forever until<br />

the baby arrives. Before Jackson<br />

even made his grand entrance,<br />

people were telling me to<br />

enjoy the times he sleeps peacefully<br />

on you while you watch TV<br />

or read a book and enjoy making<br />

silly noises and funny faces when<br />

you’re trying to get him to smile<br />

for the first time.<br />

Family, friends and colleagues<br />

told me often—and it almost got<br />

annoying—to enjoy it now; it’ll fly<br />

by.<br />

But as sleepless nights, diaper<br />

changes and spit-up take over<br />

your life, it seems that time is<br />

standing still.<br />

As I look back over the last two<br />

years, I now see what all those<br />

folks were talking about.<br />

It’s been extremely joyous, and<br />

sometimes very frustrating,<br />

watching Jackson surpass all<br />

these milestones. I remember<br />

bringing him home from the hospital<br />

all decked out in his University<br />

of Tennessee gear (yes, we<br />

bleed orange and white, Go Vols!).<br />

His first bath at home probably<br />

was the most humorous … that is,<br />

in hindsight. That night, my husband<br />

and I were frantic. He still<br />

had his umbilical cord; so I held<br />

him in one hand and gently<br />

sponged him off. Jackson wanted<br />

no part of it. He screamed and<br />

screamed. When I went to wash<br />

his back, he kicked so hard that<br />

he knocked the umbilical stump<br />

loose. I cried; my husband was<br />

not far from hyperventilation.<br />

Our first thought: “We broke the<br />

baby.” We called his sister and my<br />

sister—both experienced moms.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y were in stitches. We didn’t<br />

break the baby, they told us. He’s<br />

fine. I didn’t think it was very funny<br />

… at least until now.<br />

Thinking about what all we’ve<br />

been through with Jackson over<br />

the last two years, good and bad,<br />

still makes me smile. <strong>The</strong> good<br />

times, which far outweigh the bad<br />

Dear Editor,<br />

And the terrible twos begin<br />

Perfect Game Baseball is in the<br />

area, hosting the 2<strong>01</strong>0 World<br />

Wood Bat Association (WWBA)<br />

Tournament. <strong>The</strong>y will host and<br />

have hosted five different tournaments,<br />

for five different age<br />

groups, this summer.<br />

<strong>The</strong> 2<strong>01</strong>0 18U WWBA recently<br />

was held. <strong>The</strong>re are 192 teams<br />

that came from all over the country<br />

to compete for the title. <strong>The</strong><br />

'Host Field' is at the East Cobb<br />

Baseball facility, next to Kell<br />

High School. Perfect Game must<br />

utilize several other baseball<br />

fields to provide such a great<br />

tournament. Last year, Perfect<br />

Game utilized <strong>Cherokee</strong> County<br />

(or what seemed to be bad at the<br />

time), fill my heart with joy. I remember<br />

the first time he smiled,<br />

the first time he rolled over and<br />

the first time he said “mama.”<br />

I remember taking walks<br />

through the neighborhood as he<br />

slept in the stroller, the first time<br />

he walked to me and when he<br />

learned how to give kisses.<br />

I remember the first time he<br />

slept through the night, the first<br />

time he slept in his crib and when<br />

the intermittent sleeping<br />

throughout the day turned into a<br />

structured<br />

schedule.<br />

Back in the<br />

early days, I<br />

prayed for<br />

sleep, sleep<br />

and more<br />

sleep.<br />

As we enter<br />

the dreaded<br />

terrible twos,<br />

which I hear<br />

are actually<br />

ages two<br />

through four, I<br />

pray for patience.<br />

I pray<br />

for inner<br />

peace; I pray<br />

for a 2-year-old<br />

who will listen<br />

DIALOGUE<br />

Erika<br />

Neldner<br />

(yeah right); and I pray for<br />

strength to not give in to his every<br />

whim and temper tantrum.<br />

<strong>The</strong> terrible twos actually started<br />

about a few months ago. He<br />

learned the word no. Jackson, do<br />

you want some water? No. How<br />

about some crackers? No. It’s<br />

time to take a bath. No.<br />

Everything is no these days.<br />

Also with the terrible twos<br />

comes unwanted actions out of<br />

what seems to be frustration.<br />

When he’s told no or redirected<br />

from an unwanted behavior, I find<br />

that he’s hitting or biting. A call<br />

to the pediatrician from an overwhelmed<br />

mom (me) turned out<br />

differently than I had hoped. <strong>The</strong><br />

expert, Jack’s doctor, was supposed<br />

to give me some miracle<br />

way to stop this unwanted behavior.<br />

Instead, she said “You’re doing<br />

everything right. Just continue to<br />

be consistent.”<br />

If I’m doing everything right,<br />

then why isn’t it working?<br />

I know some of you parents out<br />

there with children past the age of<br />

2 are probably shaking your head,<br />

■ ■ ■<br />

LETTERS<br />

■<br />

high school baseball fields to<br />

play their many games. This<br />

year, no games are being played<br />

at the <strong>Cherokee</strong> County high<br />

schools. Why is this?<br />

Let me do a little rough math:<br />

192 teams, averaging (conservatively)<br />

18 players per team, three<br />

coaches per team, and say that<br />

only one-third of the players’<br />

parents travel with the team.<br />

That’s: 3,456 players, plus 576<br />

coaches (this does not include<br />

their family members), plus<br />

1,150 parents, which equals 5,182<br />

people. If each one of these people<br />

eats three meals a day that is<br />

15,546 meals over the week. I'll<br />

remind you that Perfect Game is<br />

in town for five weeks so that is<br />

knowing what we’re going<br />

through. (Any advice would be<br />

greatly appreciated!)<br />

Raising a toddler can be quite<br />

stressful, and, with jam-packed<br />

days of work and parenting, I was<br />

always hoping for a break—a mini-vacation<br />

if you will.<br />

<strong>The</strong> week leading up to Jack’s<br />

birthday was just that, but I’ve<br />

found myself missing my grandma-visiting<br />

toddler more than enjoying<br />

the peace and quiet. Although,<br />

the peace and quiet has<br />

been nice.<br />

On a Saturday morning I headed<br />

up Interstate 85 to South Carolina—I<br />

was meeting my mom at<br />

the halfway point between her<br />

house and mine. As stressful and<br />

frantic as the morning was, and<br />

the last hour of the drive for that<br />

matter, I was dreaming of relaxation<br />

and sleep.<br />

But as soon as I pulled out of<br />

that parking lot in Greenville,<br />

S.C., leaving Jackson with my<br />

mom, my heart felt like it broke in<br />

half. A piece of me had been left<br />

behind in South Carolina.<br />

I’ve only been away from Jackson<br />

for more than just a spendthe-night-out<br />

once—during last<br />

year’s Georgia Press Association<br />

conference, and that was only for<br />

two days.<br />

I called my husband and cried. I<br />

had not even gotten out of<br />

Greenville County, and I missed<br />

Jackson so much.<br />

Despite missing him with all<br />

my heart, I followed the unsolicited<br />

advice and tried to enjoy the<br />

alone time, reconnect with my<br />

husband and get done all those<br />

pesky little chores that I never<br />

seem to have time for.<br />

As the baby-free week flew by, I<br />

couldn’t wait for the time that I<br />

saw my little man’s sweet face and<br />

held him in my arms. We celebrated<br />

his return and his second<br />

birthday with a quaint little summer-themed<br />

party at a local park.<br />

Happy 2nd Birthday, Jackson!<br />

You are the light of my life and<br />

the best thing to ever happen to<br />

me. As I promised the day you<br />

were born, I will cherish every<br />

moment with you and devote my<br />

life to you and be the best mother<br />

I can be. I only hope that I raise<br />

you to be a loving, kind, considerate<br />

and well-mannered man. And<br />

remember, no matter if you’re<br />

two, 22, or 52, know that you’ll always<br />

be my little boy.<br />

<strong>Cherokee</strong> should host tournaments<br />

77,730 meals.<br />

Unfortunately, <strong>Cherokee</strong><br />

County local businesses, along<br />

with our high school concession<br />

stands, will not be benefiting<br />

from the influx of all of the baseball<br />

families.<br />

Can someone explain why our<br />

high schools’ baseball fields are<br />

not being used this year? It<br />

would seem, that in this economy,<br />

<strong>Cherokee</strong> County schools<br />

and our local businesses would<br />

want to generate all the revenue<br />

it could get. It is unfortunate<br />

that these decisions where<br />

made.<br />

Holly Gilbert<br />

Woodstock

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