07.21 Ledger 01 - The Cherokee Ledger-News
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DAVE CAUGHMAN<br />
T H E C H E R O K E E<br />
LEDGER-NEWS<br />
Managing Editor<br />
ERIKA NELDNER<br />
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LEDGER-NEWS<br />
OPINION<br />
6 THE CHEROKEE LEDGER-NEWS MANAGING EDITOR: ERIKA NELDNER JULY 21, 2<strong>01</strong>0<br />
CHEROKEE VOICE<br />
■<br />
ISSUE: Woodstock and Canton recently received Main Street program designations.<br />
QUESTION: What could either city do differently to draw you to their downtowns?<br />
“Arts festivals would be great. I go to<br />
Roswell’s, and it would be nice to have<br />
that in Woodstock.”<br />
Bobby Sales<br />
Canton<br />
“I think Woodstock wasted money doing<br />
the roundabout. But I like their plan<br />
for an amphitheater where the old city<br />
hall was.”<br />
Brad Hancock<br />
Woodstock<br />
“<strong>The</strong> people are really missing from<br />
downtown Canton. Maybe they could<br />
do something like what Woodstock’s<br />
doing with concerts in the park.”<br />
Tammy Videkovich<br />
Canton<br />
“<strong>The</strong>re’s not a lot of nightlife in Canton,<br />
so some bars would be good.”<br />
Hayley Medranto<br />
Canton<br />
“Quaint restaurants in Canton would<br />
be a draw.”<br />
John Couch<br />
Canton<br />
“I like the concerts in Woodstock. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
can take a lesson from Decatur with all<br />
the great shops and bars they have. It’s<br />
a nice place to go.”<br />
Don Ahrens<br />
Holly Springs<br />
J ust<br />
a little more than two<br />
years ago, I headed to my<br />
polling place to vote in the<br />
2008 primary election and then<br />
went to the hospital for what<br />
turned out to be the most difficult<br />
two days of my life, leading up to<br />
the best day of my life.<br />
Just a few days ago, we celebrated<br />
my son’s second birthday, and<br />
it seems like only yesterday that I<br />
brought him into this world.<br />
When you find out you’re expecting,<br />
it seems like forever until<br />
the baby arrives. Before Jackson<br />
even made his grand entrance,<br />
people were telling me to<br />
enjoy the times he sleeps peacefully<br />
on you while you watch TV<br />
or read a book and enjoy making<br />
silly noises and funny faces when<br />
you’re trying to get him to smile<br />
for the first time.<br />
Family, friends and colleagues<br />
told me often—and it almost got<br />
annoying—to enjoy it now; it’ll fly<br />
by.<br />
But as sleepless nights, diaper<br />
changes and spit-up take over<br />
your life, it seems that time is<br />
standing still.<br />
As I look back over the last two<br />
years, I now see what all those<br />
folks were talking about.<br />
It’s been extremely joyous, and<br />
sometimes very frustrating,<br />
watching Jackson surpass all<br />
these milestones. I remember<br />
bringing him home from the hospital<br />
all decked out in his University<br />
of Tennessee gear (yes, we<br />
bleed orange and white, Go Vols!).<br />
His first bath at home probably<br />
was the most humorous … that is,<br />
in hindsight. That night, my husband<br />
and I were frantic. He still<br />
had his umbilical cord; so I held<br />
him in one hand and gently<br />
sponged him off. Jackson wanted<br />
no part of it. He screamed and<br />
screamed. When I went to wash<br />
his back, he kicked so hard that<br />
he knocked the umbilical stump<br />
loose. I cried; my husband was<br />
not far from hyperventilation.<br />
Our first thought: “We broke the<br />
baby.” We called his sister and my<br />
sister—both experienced moms.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y were in stitches. We didn’t<br />
break the baby, they told us. He’s<br />
fine. I didn’t think it was very funny<br />
… at least until now.<br />
Thinking about what all we’ve<br />
been through with Jackson over<br />
the last two years, good and bad,<br />
still makes me smile. <strong>The</strong> good<br />
times, which far outweigh the bad<br />
Dear Editor,<br />
And the terrible twos begin<br />
Perfect Game Baseball is in the<br />
area, hosting the 2<strong>01</strong>0 World<br />
Wood Bat Association (WWBA)<br />
Tournament. <strong>The</strong>y will host and<br />
have hosted five different tournaments,<br />
for five different age<br />
groups, this summer.<br />
<strong>The</strong> 2<strong>01</strong>0 18U WWBA recently<br />
was held. <strong>The</strong>re are 192 teams<br />
that came from all over the country<br />
to compete for the title. <strong>The</strong><br />
'Host Field' is at the East Cobb<br />
Baseball facility, next to Kell<br />
High School. Perfect Game must<br />
utilize several other baseball<br />
fields to provide such a great<br />
tournament. Last year, Perfect<br />
Game utilized <strong>Cherokee</strong> County<br />
(or what seemed to be bad at the<br />
time), fill my heart with joy. I remember<br />
the first time he smiled,<br />
the first time he rolled over and<br />
the first time he said “mama.”<br />
I remember taking walks<br />
through the neighborhood as he<br />
slept in the stroller, the first time<br />
he walked to me and when he<br />
learned how to give kisses.<br />
I remember the first time he<br />
slept through the night, the first<br />
time he slept in his crib and when<br />
the intermittent sleeping<br />
throughout the day turned into a<br />
structured<br />
schedule.<br />
Back in the<br />
early days, I<br />
prayed for<br />
sleep, sleep<br />
and more<br />
sleep.<br />
As we enter<br />
the dreaded<br />
terrible twos,<br />
which I hear<br />
are actually<br />
ages two<br />
through four, I<br />
pray for patience.<br />
I pray<br />
for inner<br />
peace; I pray<br />
for a 2-year-old<br />
who will listen<br />
DIALOGUE<br />
Erika<br />
Neldner<br />
(yeah right); and I pray for<br />
strength to not give in to his every<br />
whim and temper tantrum.<br />
<strong>The</strong> terrible twos actually started<br />
about a few months ago. He<br />
learned the word no. Jackson, do<br />
you want some water? No. How<br />
about some crackers? No. It’s<br />
time to take a bath. No.<br />
Everything is no these days.<br />
Also with the terrible twos<br />
comes unwanted actions out of<br />
what seems to be frustration.<br />
When he’s told no or redirected<br />
from an unwanted behavior, I find<br />
that he’s hitting or biting. A call<br />
to the pediatrician from an overwhelmed<br />
mom (me) turned out<br />
differently than I had hoped. <strong>The</strong><br />
expert, Jack’s doctor, was supposed<br />
to give me some miracle<br />
way to stop this unwanted behavior.<br />
Instead, she said “You’re doing<br />
everything right. Just continue to<br />
be consistent.”<br />
If I’m doing everything right,<br />
then why isn’t it working?<br />
I know some of you parents out<br />
there with children past the age of<br />
2 are probably shaking your head,<br />
■ ■ ■<br />
LETTERS<br />
■<br />
high school baseball fields to<br />
play their many games. This<br />
year, no games are being played<br />
at the <strong>Cherokee</strong> County high<br />
schools. Why is this?<br />
Let me do a little rough math:<br />
192 teams, averaging (conservatively)<br />
18 players per team, three<br />
coaches per team, and say that<br />
only one-third of the players’<br />
parents travel with the team.<br />
That’s: 3,456 players, plus 576<br />
coaches (this does not include<br />
their family members), plus<br />
1,150 parents, which equals 5,182<br />
people. If each one of these people<br />
eats three meals a day that is<br />
15,546 meals over the week. I'll<br />
remind you that Perfect Game is<br />
in town for five weeks so that is<br />
knowing what we’re going<br />
through. (Any advice would be<br />
greatly appreciated!)<br />
Raising a toddler can be quite<br />
stressful, and, with jam-packed<br />
days of work and parenting, I was<br />
always hoping for a break—a mini-vacation<br />
if you will.<br />
<strong>The</strong> week leading up to Jack’s<br />
birthday was just that, but I’ve<br />
found myself missing my grandma-visiting<br />
toddler more than enjoying<br />
the peace and quiet. Although,<br />
the peace and quiet has<br />
been nice.<br />
On a Saturday morning I headed<br />
up Interstate 85 to South Carolina—I<br />
was meeting my mom at<br />
the halfway point between her<br />
house and mine. As stressful and<br />
frantic as the morning was, and<br />
the last hour of the drive for that<br />
matter, I was dreaming of relaxation<br />
and sleep.<br />
But as soon as I pulled out of<br />
that parking lot in Greenville,<br />
S.C., leaving Jackson with my<br />
mom, my heart felt like it broke in<br />
half. A piece of me had been left<br />
behind in South Carolina.<br />
I’ve only been away from Jackson<br />
for more than just a spendthe-night-out<br />
once—during last<br />
year’s Georgia Press Association<br />
conference, and that was only for<br />
two days.<br />
I called my husband and cried. I<br />
had not even gotten out of<br />
Greenville County, and I missed<br />
Jackson so much.<br />
Despite missing him with all<br />
my heart, I followed the unsolicited<br />
advice and tried to enjoy the<br />
alone time, reconnect with my<br />
husband and get done all those<br />
pesky little chores that I never<br />
seem to have time for.<br />
As the baby-free week flew by, I<br />
couldn’t wait for the time that I<br />
saw my little man’s sweet face and<br />
held him in my arms. We celebrated<br />
his return and his second<br />
birthday with a quaint little summer-themed<br />
party at a local park.<br />
Happy 2nd Birthday, Jackson!<br />
You are the light of my life and<br />
the best thing to ever happen to<br />
me. As I promised the day you<br />
were born, I will cherish every<br />
moment with you and devote my<br />
life to you and be the best mother<br />
I can be. I only hope that I raise<br />
you to be a loving, kind, considerate<br />
and well-mannered man. And<br />
remember, no matter if you’re<br />
two, 22, or 52, know that you’ll always<br />
be my little boy.<br />
<strong>Cherokee</strong> should host tournaments<br />
77,730 meals.<br />
Unfortunately, <strong>Cherokee</strong><br />
County local businesses, along<br />
with our high school concession<br />
stands, will not be benefiting<br />
from the influx of all of the baseball<br />
families.<br />
Can someone explain why our<br />
high schools’ baseball fields are<br />
not being used this year? It<br />
would seem, that in this economy,<br />
<strong>Cherokee</strong> County schools<br />
and our local businesses would<br />
want to generate all the revenue<br />
it could get. It is unfortunate<br />
that these decisions where<br />
made.<br />
Holly Gilbert<br />
Woodstock