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PSYCHOMANIPULATION - Tomasz Witkowski

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INTRODUCTION<br />

The truth which you are afraid to tell<br />

Is like a sabre wielded by a hermaphrodite.<br />

A selfish man devours books with their wisdom and<br />

knowledge, all by himself- the world has no benefit<br />

from it.<br />

As I begin to talk about manipulation, I hear the cracking of dry ice that I'm<br />

stepping onto. There are several reasons why writing about manipulation poses a serious<br />

challenge to the author. The first reason is the strongly negative connotation of the word<br />

4<br />

Tirukkural<br />

manipulation. The Polish thesaurus gives a variety of synonyms, most of which have a definite<br />

negative ring. Among them we find: machination, ploy, conspiracy, scheming, plotting,<br />

deception, intrigue, fraud, conning, swindling, cheating.1 We do not want to be manipulated and<br />

we do not like people who manipulate others. Sometimes we refuse to acknowledge that we let<br />

ourselves be manipulated, or manipulate others. The author of a book on manipulation could be<br />

accused of helping his readers to become manipulative. For this reason, I would like to clearly<br />

emphasise that writing about manipulation, taking a closer look at manipulation, analysing the<br />

mechanisms which are responsible for its effectiveness are all morally neutral. Any attempts at<br />

moral evaluation can only be made with regard to the way in which the resulting knowledge is<br />

put to use. I realise that some readers will take advantage of the presented knowledge to achieve<br />

personal goals, and will do so against others' will. Still, it remains an open question whether<br />

disclosing manipulation strategies could actually prove to be more beneficial to those who are<br />

the object of manipulation. Obviously, I am not able to provide an unbiased answer to that<br />

question. I can only rely on the opinions voiced by the audiences attending my lectures who<br />

often argue that the very awareness of manipulation mechanisms is enough to guarantee more<br />

effective protection. This belief has prompted me to devote my energy to writing a book on<br />

1 A. Dąbrówka, E. Geller, R. Turczyn, Słownik synonimów (Dictionary of Synonyms). MCR, Warsaw 1993.

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