PSYCHOMANIPULATION - Tomasz Witkowski
PSYCHOMANIPULATION - Tomasz Witkowski
PSYCHOMANIPULATION - Tomasz Witkowski
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What if?<br />
As a rule, I usually only become aware of an opportunity when it’s gone.<br />
M. Twain<br />
Take the following discussion:<br />
- Good, so we’ve settled most of the terms of the contract. You’ve already told us your suggestions<br />
about how much the machinery should cost. There’s just one more important thing for me to<br />
mention. We’ve got some rather far-reaching plans for development. After fitting out the workshop<br />
which we’ve just shown you, we’re going to install machines in the next one. As you can see, there<br />
are plenty of opportunities for doing good business with us. What would the price of the machinery<br />
be if we ordered it for both workshops right now?<br />
-Well, in that case, we could consider giving a discount of… let’s say 8%.<br />
- Really? In that case I’ll let you in on another little secret of ours. According to market research,<br />
the market share of our products is expected to go up fairly steeply. In that case, we might need to<br />
build yet another workshop next year. Suppose we took these plans into consideration in our<br />
contract, would it be possible for you to make any further discounts?<br />
- We’d have to look at it more closely.<br />
- Of course, I don’t want to pressure you into making any decisions right now, but do you<br />
suppose we could count on another 8% discount in the situation I’ve just described?<br />
- Maybe not 8%, I guess somewhere in the range of 3 to 5%.<br />
- That’s great. Listen, I’ve got a suggestion for you. Seeing as you would be able to lower the prices<br />
which we’ve negotiated for the contract by up to 13% or even a little bit more, why don’t we sign<br />
a contract for the machinery for one workshop with a discount of 10% on the suggested prices. After<br />
all, you’ll still be making a profit, won’t you?<br />
Of course, most seasoned businessmen are already familiar with this negotiating ploy.<br />
Nevertheless, young and inexperienced negotiators still fall victim to it, and it is also used in<br />
political negotiations. It can be employed in discussions, or for example, by making a sending a<br />
request for information or proposing a tentative preliminary agreement. If the other party shows<br />
willingness to accept the terms of this agreement, the manipulating party will have obtained a much<br />
clearer picture of their partners’ situation, about their willingness to make concessions and even, as<br />
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